I Wish My Dad Would Talk to Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 78 People

    We barely talk anymore

    and he never taught me how to be much a guy but I'll always be the girl I was born to be.
    Caroline9852 Caroline9852
    16-17, T
    Aug 7, 2015

    Fatherless

    Hi my name is Pamela and I am 26 I know who my father is but he don't come around his other kids speak to me at times me and my brother don't know one on my father side I got this space in my heart I be trying to find love someone help me
    babypood babypood
    26-30
    Aug 18, 2012

    Almost 33 Years Old And Dad Is Still Disappointed In Me And Does Not Have An Interest In Me...

    Hello, Thanks for reading this.  Ever since I was 19 years old, I have had pressure from my dad to find a good major that will help me find a good paying job. When I graduated undergrad, I wanted to pursue acting/music, but he wouldn't let me and wanted me to stay home and...
    smilesdd smilesdd
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 22, 2010

    All I Need Is to Experience the Love of a Father!

                  my dad never spoke to me. whatever i had to tell him i had to pass messags through my mom. he is speaks a lot to everyone else. He talks so well to my brother that sometimes i feel so jelous...
    leahparker leahparker
    18-21, F
    5 Responses May 28, 2009

    Happy Birthday

    I call my mom every Sunday so she can tell me about her life for 10 minutes while she smokes a cigarette before Desperate Housewives starts. She's been "happily" married to my father for 32 years, but you would never guess he was even alive based on her half of our weekly...
    mtsv mtsv
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2009

    So I got off work early

    and I live at home with my dad .. I ask "hey, can we meet up for dinner, been months since we have .." He's like I'll think about it and please now the grass. I do. He comes home and doesn't want too go out with me .. Do I have to beg for your attention and affection?! It's my...
    rachelll01 rachelll01
    22-25, F
    Jul 10, 2014

    So yesterday I was bummed dad wouldn't go out

    to eat after promising me .. Today his gf and her daughter are over her and she says they offered them to go to the Cheese Cake Factory? Are you kidding? My whole life is him promising and never keeping it. My whole life is set up on not trusting men and being controlling...
    rachelll01 rachelll01
    22-25, F
    Jul 11, 2014

    My Dad Doesn't Talk to Me

    I have no idea why my dad doesn't talk to me. Growing up, it was explained away as "He's quiet." It seemed that he didn't talk to anyone and never ever said a word. Why should I be any different? Do you know how awkward it is to shop for Father's Day or a birthday or Christmas...
    mtsv mtsv
    26-30, F
    8 Responses May 28, 2009

    I'm sitting here with my dad.

    He just turned 70 and is high on marijuana which is legal here now and I'm 30 also stoned but I'm also on 3meopcp a drug very similar to Pcp. It is also legal. I wish I knew what he was thinking when he brought me up. I wish he had advice.
    ChadCasa ChadCasa
    22-25, M
    Nov 16, 2014

    I Do Need You.

    ever since i became pregnant my dad doesnt talk to me. we started talking after i had my baby and decided to move with him but then he kicked me out. and now he hasnt called me or text me for a year now. truth is i do need him i just dont know what to do.
    lust093 lust093
    18-21
    1 Response Mar 16, 2012

    I wish he would. When I was little

    and mum and dad were still together everything was fine. We had great fun. Then they split up and he rang me every night. Then he got a "partner" and she was nice. Then. Now it's 3 years later.5 months ago she told me to get out of the house and that I'm a little ***** and that...
    justkitty justkitty
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2015

    I Have Never Had A Conversation About My Life With My Dad

    Im 22 now and my dad is 65. The past year has made me realised that my dad has never taken an interest in my life. Throughout school, college, university and now my working life he has never asked me what I have been doing or how I am doing. Recently it has really got to me and...
    bethlamport13 bethlamport13
    22-25
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

    I think it's always been like this,

    ever since I was little he never acted like my father, or even acted like I was a person. The only memories I have of him as a child were when he was yelling at me; there are no tender moments of affection or any signs of love. It was like he wanted to use me as a way to let out...
    tragiclyhopeful tragiclyhopeful
    18-21, F
    Jul 5, 2015

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