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I Wish My Ex Would Move On and Leave Me Alone

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    Stalker 6 Months Later

    Last night I was in bed at midnight.  My dog was making angry barking-growling noises at the window.  I am thinking crap, a raccoon, its going to eat my birds.  I got up, grabbed a knife and went outside to shut the pen door.  My motion lights would not come...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Why Do Some People Play A Victim When They Are Vindictive And Brought Their Own Troubles?

    Mmmmk well here it goes. I spent a very long time with a young man who had a very hard time connecting with others and showing love or affection. I mean, sure we all have our not in the mood times but this was ridiculous! It was to the point that this person even made limited eye...
    Devildriver2013 Devildriver2013 26-30, F Jan 26, 2013

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    If I Still Talked To You

    If I still talked to you I'd tell you I'm sorry. I'd tell you not to harbour ill feelings toward me, although I understand if you do. I'd tell you that you're wasting your time if you spend any of it thinking of me. That digging for information about how and what I'm...
    boardergirl83 boardergirl83 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    To Top It Off

    Until I got a lawyer for custody, he would actually take off for months at a time and did not give a crap about the baby. Now he is even asking for joint custody and child support.  He does not work, gambles, is abusive, is a big mean drunk, lives with his parents, is...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    Enough of Beating the Dead Horse Already!

    #1 I am not here to ex-bash, I'm just sick and tired of getting emails from him about how I was wrong about this, and I was at fault about that, and I have this or that character flaw... it's been over for more than a year now, and I do not understand why he feels the...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F 3 Responses May 5, 2009

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    I Wish He Could Just Let Me Be

    Like i broke up with him and he is still mad at me even though its been over half a year. He doesnt seem to understand that i broke up with him because he was being violant to my friends, he literally kicked my best friend in the face, she was so scared of being around me and it...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I Mean Really...

    I went out with this guy from like Last October to about Mid to late May, Early-June-ish. I can't tell you specifiically, 'cause I don't know myself! Our relationship fizzled and died into nothingness when he stopped talking to me. Not in school, Not on the Phone, not over the...
    Masako Masako 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2009

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    AHHHH!

    No, not Momo! LOL! He's the coolest and I enjoy being his friend. ;-) But lately, I've been annoyed silly, by emails from a ex! He dumped me, because I wouldn't change my religion to his... okay. And he wanted me to come visit him in Florida, instead of coming to visit me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Was The Other Way Around

    Two weeks ago, I was the one that wanted him back and thought that he was the only guy out there for me. But ever since we started talking again he won't leave me alone! He plays mind games. Where he says he thinks I am so cool and what not, then says he has no more feelings for...
    nowherewoman nowherewoman 22-25, F Mar 2, 2011

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    If I am alone, I don't have to worry about others, if I am with a person that isn't for me, I have to worry about when I won't have to worry about that person again
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    The best way to be happy with someone is to learn to be happy alone. That way the company will be a matter of choice.. Not necessity.
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    Yeah... talk about a waste of time or low self esteem after the break up with the wrong person... for me being single has taught me more about who I am and what I want in life...
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    If you could love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you would love the right person.
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    Sometimes loving the wrong person can teach you how to appreciate the right person when they come along.
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    I don't get it why some people try to hide their real selves just to fit in, yeah fitting in because of that feels good but it won't last for a long time. But it will feel great...
    sleepingbloop sleepingbloop 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Easier said than done, for me (i'm also a member of the group I Want To Follow My Own Advice). Yes, I can laugh about it.
    justbeit justbeit 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I never thought I would move inform my ex boyfriend. We dated for a year and I loved him very much. It's been 9 months since we broke up and I'm finally able to not text him every...
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    I feel alone wishing a guy would come my life and make his princess!
    PrettySissyBoiTG PrettySissyBoiTG 26-30, T 21 hrs ago

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    I want the pain to stop... I want to leave all this pain and hate behind... I want to leave and go to hell... I will go to Hell's Gates and talk to Satan personally...
    LucyGirlAkita2 LucyGirlAkita2 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    IamMorbid IamMorbid 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    robbie1280 robbie1280 18-21, M 11 hrs ago

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    I think it would be cool to have all of you in one room. The advice and support I get here is fab n your wisdom in real life would be amazing.
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