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I Wish My Ex Would Move On and Leave Me Alone

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    Enough of Beating the Dead Horse Already!

    #1 I am not here to ex-bash, I'm just sick and tired of getting emails from him about how I was wrong about this, and I was at fault about that, and I have this or that character flaw... it's been over for more than a year now, and I do not understand why he feels the...
    afreimann afreimann 41-45, F 3 Responses May 5, 2009

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    my ex boyfriend was my best friend,

    but after I broke up with him, I want nothing to do with him. he messages me like once a week, I tell him be happy. but he just finds his way back to me.
    VictoriaHall VictoriaHall 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    wow... couldn't say a statement

    so true!!! a year later after we broke up, he's decided he's still in love me... i don't feel the same way... he's a good friend, and i don't love him anymore... Now that I've moved on, he's jealous.. :/ far out, you made the mistake of letting me go, man up and accept it... i...
    Catho Catho 18-21, F Mar 15

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    well, he isn't an ex,

    but he's a guy who has been in love with me for a little over 2 years or so. we used to be really good friends, but then he started to get really weird and clingy and just... obsessed with me. He knew that I didn't feel the same as he did, and he knew I wasn't interested and...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    Why Do Some People Play A Victim When They Are Vindictive And Brought Their Own Troubles?

    Mmmmk well here it goes. I spent a very long time with a young man who had a very hard time connecting with others and showing love or affection. I mean, sure we all have our not in the mood times but this was ridiculous! It was to the point that this person even made limited eye...
    Devildriver2013 Devildriver2013 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2013

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    Arrgghhh my ex is so phsyco had to call cops

    can u believe it and she just doesn't learn just go away please
    madridista23 madridista23 41-45, M Feb 27

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    Was The Other Way Around

    Two weeks ago, I was the one that wanted him back and thought that he was the only guy out there for me. But ever since we started talking again he won't leave me alone! He plays mind games. Where he says he thinks I am so cool and what not, then says he has no more feelings for...
    nowherewoman nowherewoman 22-25, F Mar 2, 2011

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    I Mean Really...

    I went out with this guy from like Last October to about Mid to late May, Early-June-ish. I can't tell you specifiically, 'cause I don't know myself! Our relationship fizzled and died into nothingness when he stopped talking to me. Not in school, Not on the Phone, not over the...
    Masako Masako 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2009

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    Stalker 6 Months Later

    Last night I was in bed at midnight.  My dog was making angry barking-growling noises at the window.  I am thinking crap, a raccoon, its going to eat my birds.  I got up, grabbed a knife and went outside to shut the pen door.  My motion lights would not come...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    Seriously!!!

    ok well to be honest this is get realy annoying! i mean how would you feel if your ex (when you went out) wershiped the very ground you walked one day then the next hate your guts the nexted. so when i told him i was going to break up with him he said he was going to kill himself...
    justanotherpicturetoburn justanotherpicturetoburn 16-17, F Jul 2, 2009

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    She clearly hasn't completely let go.

    .. I mean I've moved on and been with my current girlfriend for about 6 months now, living in CT and back in NY my ex is still finding ways to hang out with my mom and just interact with my family as if she either still misses things or can't let go or just plain wants to try to...
    LeeOmar88 LeeOmar88 26-30, M Feb 28

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    To Top It Off

    Until I got a lawyer for custody, he would actually take off for months at a time and did not give a crap about the baby. Now he is even asking for joint custody and child support.  He does not work, gambles, is abusive, is a big mean drunk, lives with his parents, is...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    AHHHH!

    No, not Momo! LOL! He's the coolest and I enjoy being his friend. ;-) But lately, I've been annoyed silly, by emails from a ex! He dumped me, because I wouldn't change my religion to his... okay. And he wanted me to come visit him in Florida, instead of coming to visit me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Seriously!!!

    ok well to be honest this is get realy annoying! i mean how would you feel if your ex (when you went out) wershiped the very ground you walked one day then the next hate your guts the nexted. so when i told him i was going to break up with him he said he was going to kill himself...
    justanotherpicturetoburn justanotherpicturetoburn 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    I have been divorced

    for 8 years and he cannot stop living in the past and it has caused us not to have a relationship because I'm forced to relive all the things he thought I should have done not taking into consideration he was the alcoholic and all the things he did not do as a husband and father...
    OleSkoolChick OleSkoolChick 46-50, F Feb 27

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    Real Talk he's stalking me

    and idk what to do. I can't even call the police . It's annoying. We dated 2 years ago for 2 weeks which I regretted from start to finish and now he don't wanna let go. We don't talk but out of nowhere he's hitting me up on every social media site and texting me talkin about...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    I Wish He Could Just Let Me Be

    Like i broke up with him and he is still mad at me even though its been over half a year. He doesnt seem to understand that i broke up with him because he was being violant to my friends, he literally kicked my best friend in the face, she was so scared of being around me and it...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    If I Still Talked To You

    If I still talked to you I'd tell you I'm sorry. I'd tell you not to harbour ill feelings toward me, although I understand if you do. I'd tell you that you're wasting your time if you spend any of it thinking of me. That digging for information about how and what I'm...
    boardergirl83 boardergirl83 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    I have two amazing boyfriends

    and I don't need my ex weighing me down. I finely broke the wall and told him he needed to get over himself and that it was pathetic that he had to date underaged girls just to get some attention. I'm sick of him trying to pull the wool over my head. I'm not an idiot. I know...
    TenderBeauty TenderBeauty 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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