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I Wish My Husband Would Grow Up

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    Im Lost

    We have been together for 10 years, since we were both 15, and now we are 25 and married, we got married at 22. Life was perfect back then, we were sooo happy, but now, he is still the boy who likes to drink every weekend, wont stop smoking black and milds and seems to not care...
    daisy5280 daisy5280 22-25 2 Responses May 28, 2008

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    Just Tired

    So...   I really need to vent to other people who know exactly what I am talking about...!!!   And I do think that this is the place. So my hubby has been out of work since March.   He has had offers, but we decided together that he would take a...
    jeamal jeamal 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    I Wish My Husband Would Grow Up

    We got married 2 1/2 years ago. During that time he has been fired from the only two jobs that he has had. My husband has been without a job for 5 months. Not because of the economy or whatever, but because he was fired for not working, and then went for 4 1/2 months just not...
    MIREDCAT08 MIREDCAT08 31-35 4 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    Time To Grow Up

    I am having difficulty with my husband acting like a kid!  We have been together for 10 years, married for 2 and lived together for 7 years.  I am 27 and he is 31.  I feel like I am his second mother.  I constantly have to remind him to do things and to...
    Nicole82 Nicole82 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    Tierd Of Being Used..

    I have been  together with my boyfriend for 3 yrs now and we have a lil girl together, I also have 2 boys from another relastionship. we have lived together for the the past year and a half and he has yet to get a job. i am very stressed out because i work 2 jobs and am...
    rydin rydin 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    Well In A Month He Will Be My Husband

    So my family isn;t so suportive of my Fiance and my relationship. He is in the army. I guess the best word to describe him he is a redneck from the south. He says rude things all the time about poop, he also says that he loves me in the butt. Gahhh the things just bug me. He...
    azgal2011 azgal2011 18-21, F Dec 21, 2011

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    I Was So In Shock,i Really Don't Know How to Deal With This, My Fiance Needs to Grow Up.

    I am 22 and my Fiance is 23, we have a 9 month old little boy together. We have set a couple of dates to get married and then backed out of them (way before we even started planning), cause we don't have the money to do it all. After the birth of our son I had/have post ...
    Aras213 Aras213 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    Wish He'd Grow Up

    I have been with my husband for six years we have one child together we have been married for about four months now i love him to death but sometimes he can really get on my nerves he acts like the world revovles around him he is a heavy drinker but you cant tell him that i dont...
    justired30 justired30 26-30, F Sep 1, 2011

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    I Don't Know What to Do Anymore...

    I know some people may be biased about this story because of how young my husband and I both am. We started going out when I was a Junior in High School; he was a Senior at the time. He was avid about joining the Army, but I talked him out of it when we were going out. We broke...
    MskGriggs0811 MskGriggs0811 18-21 3 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    My Other Baby.

    I already have a little boy.  My boyfriend needs to grow up.  Due to circumstances beyond our  control, he needs to find another job.  I have to get on him just to make the calls, then I have to practically force him to go on interviews.  All he wants...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    Without going into too much detail....from last September until about February or March was one of the darkest periods of my life for exactly this reason. My husband, people I had...
    Env06 Env06 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I actually wish there was at least one additional major political party -ideally more- to counter the Republicrats and Democans.
    benjamin111991 benjamin111991 22-25, M Jul 3

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    Even though I strongly that whatever happens is for my own good, it would be nice to have people around you who understand your intentions, know that I wouldn't hurt them in any...
    FiercyTiger FiercyTiger 26-30, M Jul 3

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    so earlier I was hanging out with my cousin and we were going to the park so we came back to the house to grab a few waters my sisters fiancé passes by us and my cousin greets...
    muffinpowers muffinpowers 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    and I would find her and fall in love with her. we would have our happily ever after....
    Alexacutie Alexacutie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I would rather someone be honest with me than lie because they don't want to admit the truth. In the end that would hurt less.
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F Jul 16

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    Well, on the bright side, he most likely isn't responsible for being nonexistent.
    SamJanowiak SamJanowiak 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    He still can. :) ahahahahahahhahaha
    benjamin111991 benjamin111991 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I want the boy I fell in love who told me I wasn't pretty enough to feel the pain I felt that day and months I want him to fall in love with a gorgeous girl and then have her tell...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    LeelMx LeelMx 26-30, F Jul 5

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    But people are selfish it's who they are!
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F Jul 5

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    Short story, I was talking to some EP guy here then we were chatting out in another chatting service , we were having a good friendship till I said kinda joking that I though he...
    Dannuhunter Dannuhunter 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Lol.. i like this experience!!! 
    paradox14 paradox14 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 6

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    My videos are hand-held so they aren't always smooth, but when I upload them to YouTube or YouTube via Moviemaker, they get all jerky and even the resolution sometimes is...
    WindSylph WindSylph 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I Want Someone To Kill Me.. After contemplating suicide for several years now and being unable to find a quick, painless way... I think being murdered is the answer.
    hopetodie hopetodie 51-55, M 4 Responses Jul 10

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    05:30am So today is my 17th, and it feels like my friends don't remember my special day....no texts, no phone calls, no chat...... Urghhh! Wth I think I need to have new...
    yalalast yalalast 16-17, F 8 Responses Jul 11

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    Yeah it really hurts. I realize your hurting but I'm just trying to help. Stop taking me for granite. And she doesn't even notice it hurt me afterwards. She acts like nothing...
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I hate to cry when I get mad. When I confront someone when I'm mad it seems like they won't take me seriously bc I'm crying. When I'm actually I'm pi$$ed.
    Gingerl1652 Gingerl1652 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Grammar, punctuation and spelling are important, even for old perverts like me.
    shouldIquestionmark shouldIquestionmark 46-50, M Jul 13

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    Answers to all your problems. https://adblockplus.org http://adguard.com/en/welcome.html This one even blocks crunchyroll ads
    darkangellights darkangellights 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I spend more time with my niece than her parents do. They both work full time jobs and I babysit all the time. Don't get me wrong I love that little girl but it gets ridiculous...
    deiysianahi deiysianahi 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    This is me! I just don't want kids it's simple for me and I don't understand why me not wanting kids has an effect on others.
    SophieBabe20 SophieBabe20 18-21, F Jul 16

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    Every day is a horror. I can't control the thoughts in my head; I replay trauma and conflict over and over. I have to drown it out by watching 12 hours of a TV a day. I rarely...
    MEngineer MEngineer 26-30 6 Responses Jul 17

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    Because sometimes, I'm just expressing myself and my feelings and not looking for anyone's advice and/or opinions. I'll live and learn and **** up and maybe even come to the same...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jul 18

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    Call me a hippy, but there's so much senseless killing going on these days. I'm not just talking about Gaza, or Crimea, I'm talking about everywhere. Its just getting out of hand...
    HeyIThappens HeyIThappens 18-21 Jul 19

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    Me and my older cousin used to be best friends. We did everything together as kids and we were so close. Now he'll barely spare me a glance, and when we're in the same house, he'll...
    weby667 weby667 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I hate when your parents always say be the better person do the right thing step up to the plate but then when it comes to having a conflict with them you the child are the one who...
    tearsintime tearsintime 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I try to think that all people aren't the same and not base or judge them on past experiences but now it's just getting harder and harder.
    SimplyAmazingx SimplyAmazingx 16-17, F Jul 22

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    I can't stand him right now
    NotMyCircus NotMyCircus 36-40, F 9 Responses Jul 23

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    That's why I finally went off on my boyfriend last night. He actually apologized to me. It felt good. I deserved that apology, and I'm glad I got it.
    stillYDGN stillYDGN 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    The love is ending been married for 4 years and we are falling apart he never talks to me and I try so hard to understand him.i am always giving my self excuses to y he ignores me...
    leaf90McC leaf90McC 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So, my grandmother found out that I was bisexual, and she got mad. She told my mother to block me on my grandmother's account and then told my mom to ground me...
    xxbrokengirl98xx xxbrokengirl98xx 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I dislike how religion and society makes people closed minded. Why cant others see that reality and reason is so much more than what they think or see of it?
    Noxious123 Noxious123 22-25 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Being 15 in a dominantly white society along with it being controlled by relativism, makes me wanna just give someone a gun and tell them to shoot me. Seriously I can't stand...
    JubilantDayz JubilantDayz 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I love my husband of almost 17 years dearly, but I hate his attitude and lack of responsibility. As I said before he fathered two children with a woman he continued to **** for...
    DashaMarinkovic DashaMarinkovic 36-40, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I don't even know where to begin. First of all me and my husband have 21 grandchildren and he is only partial to a few of them...the rest he is indifferent but to this one...
    LavondaCausey LavondaCausey 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 2 Responses 2 days ago

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