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I Wish My Husband Would Grow Up

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    My Other Baby.

    I already have a little boy.  My boyfriend needs to grow up.  Due to circumstances beyond our  control, he needs to find another job.  I have to get on him just to make the calls, then I have to practically force him to go on interviews.  All he wants...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    Just Tired

    So...   I really need to vent to other people who know exactly what I am talking about...!!!   And I do think that this is the place. So my hubby has been out of work since March.   He has had offers, but we decided together that he would take a...
    jeamal jeamal 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    I Was So In Shock,i Really Don't Know How to Deal With This, My Fiance Needs to Grow Up.

    I am 22 and my Fiance is 23, we have a 9 month old little boy together. We have set a couple of dates to get married and then backed out of them (way before we even started planning), cause we don't have the money to do it all. After the birth of our son I had/have post ...
    Aras213 Aras213 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    Time To Grow Up

    I am having difficulty with my husband acting like a kid!  We have been together for 10 years, married for 2 and lived together for 7 years.  I am 27 and he is 31.  I feel like I am his second mother.  I constantly have to remind him to do things and to...
    Nicole82 Nicole82 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    Im Lost

    We have been together for 10 years, since we were both 15, and now we are 25 and married, we got married at 22. Life was perfect back then, we were sooo happy, but now, he is still the boy who likes to drink every weekend, wont stop smoking black and milds and seems to not care...
    daisy5280 daisy5280 22-25 2 Responses May 28, 2008

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    Tierd Of Being Used..

    I have been  together with my boyfriend for 3 yrs now and we have a lil girl together, I also have 2 boys from another relastionship. we have lived together for the the past year and a half and he has yet to get a job. i am very stressed out because i work 2 jobs and am...
    rydin rydin 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    Well In A Month He Will Be My Husband

    So my family isn;t so suportive of my Fiance and my relationship. He is in the army. I guess the best word to describe him he is a redneck from the south. He says rude things all the time about poop, he also says that he loves me in the butt. Gahhh the things just bug me. He...
    azgal2011 azgal2011 18-21, F Dec 21, 2011

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    Wish He'd Grow Up

    I have been with my husband for six years we have one child together we have been married for about four months now i love him to death but sometimes he can really get on my nerves he acts like the world revovles around him he is a heavy drinker but you cant tell him that i dont...
    justired30 justired30 26-30, F Sep 1, 2011

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    I Wish My Husband Would Grow Up

    We got married 2 1/2 years ago. During that time he has been fired from the only two jobs that he has had. My husband has been without a job for 5 months. Not because of the economy or whatever, but because he was fired for not working, and then went for 4 1/2 months just not...
    MIREDCAT08 MIREDCAT08 31-35 4 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    I Don't Know What to Do Anymore...

    I know some people may be biased about this story because of how young my husband and I both am. We started going out when I was a Junior in High School; he was a Senior at the time. He was avid about joining the Army, but I talked him out of it when we were going out. We broke...
    MskGriggs0811 MskGriggs0811 18-21 3 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    There are a handful of women that I am friends with that I wish I would have asked out back in the day... granted, I probably wouldn't be friends with them now since if they...
    dcisme dcisme 41-45, M Aug 5

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    but no one likes me like that, and they probably never will. I wish someone would be my girlfriend and would love me for being me, as I would them. I wish I could find my love in...
    Fayaris Fayaris 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    What can i do, say to make you see that we are the ones who should be together. That you are the one who makes me feel alive, i can breath when you are near me. I wish i could make...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Aug 1

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    I mean yes I respect everyone's right to ask what they want but a) it's tiresome and b) it's very worrying that so many really young girls 13-25 seem to either not know they are...
    Adaydreambeliever Adaydreambeliever 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Hey Man, Nice Shot.There's so many people I wish I woulda met that I can't because they killed themselves.But I get it. I get it.Nice shot, man.
    ThisIsNotForYou ThisIsNotForYou 13-15, M Aug 22

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    I try to be patient with my coworkers because I learned that being frustrated with them only creates unnecessary tension ( exception to constructive criticism , or absolutely need...
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    My husband passed away one year and eight months ago. He was only 49. His kids who are adults treated him just awful. I watched him hurt because of them everyday. My husband was...
    tammynsparkles tammynsparkles 36-40, F Aug 4

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    Growing up after being born into this world things are simple. As you get older the more complicated things get and it is so easy to get caught up in the madness that is in the...
    ArcaneNotion ArcaneNotion 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    There so many things people wish they could change about themselves. They wish they were skinner,prettier, more handsome, richer, and had more friends. I even wish this myself...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I really wish anybody that could would cast a spell on me to be, physically and mentally, a beautiful girl.
    AJGirlie AJGirlie 26-30 Aug 7

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    I wonder what some guys mean when they say "classy" about a woman...to me, it would mean someone who is also educated, well-mannered, elegant in writing and speaking, using good...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    What more to say? I long for a warm embrace from you. Loving caress n a kiss from you. But I know all these are 'my' wish and prayer alone. Life is such a burden.
    EternalWanderer EternalWanderer 31-35 1 Response Aug 1

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    I'm like failing everything. My friends don't wanna hang out with me anymore. I haven't gone out in ages. I'm really not confident, i hate myself i wish i could just loose 30kgs...
    secretgirllll secretgirllll 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've always had depression and anxiety issues from the time I can remember. I wasn't a happy child. I just thought that I was having a rough time and that the feelings would go...
    porcelainsmiles porcelainsmiles 22-25, F Aug 13

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    I sort of do life right now I'm certain would be totally different, and more interest than it is now. That, and my life sucks big time as it is I really wouldn't mind having such...
    strivexwulf strivexwulf 18-21, T Aug 16

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    I have made some really bad choices in my life and always say I will learn by my mistakes but I never do. I hurt people by pushing them away then I stand alone and wonder why. I...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Would really love some right now... Going through a lot.
    WonderingJazmine WonderingJazmine 18-21 Aug 12

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    Everyone on earth does have a person they are truly meant to be with. Even if it's a family relationship, every person has someone that loves them and never wants to let them go...
    savigirl14 savigirl14 13-15, F Aug 16

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    THIS INFURIATES ME!! The freedom to write & share whatever I felt ~ the acceptance~ the TOLERANCE~ is why I fell in love with this site. Sadly, these things are vanishing, as...
    HisWetWife HisWetWife 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I am not here to fix things.Some of us need fixing ourselves.Sending dirty pictures or messages cursing others is just not respectable.I do not even know who you are and this is...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    So I moved out of state. Months before my friend of ten years kept putting off hanging out with me. 7 months went by. Weeks before I moved, he planned a lunch. Then the day of...
    indigoK indigoK 36-40, F Aug 6

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    Respect is such a basic thing. And I don't see what's so difficult in giving respect. Respect to parents, siblings, peers, those younger than you. IF only people were just more...
    zozobar zozobar 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    some people just don't have respect anymore. it should be common sense to have respect. if I don't like u I won't respect u. if u don't respect me I won't respect u. but if it's a...
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Aug 7

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    It makes me feel uncomfortable. Are they staring at my outfit? My face? Who knows
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I feel like people stare at me everywhere when I'm walking on the street cars, people it's crazy I always wonder why and what they are thinking its enough to make anybody anxious!
    TashaBbb TashaBbb 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    A lot of yall ************* need to cut the ****
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M Aug 9

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    Yep. But. That may be their goal. My dad is such a cretin. He gets hurt. And retaliates. No exploration. No discussion. Just retaliation. And many copy...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 9

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    That's all I want. For him to tell me what his actually planning for me and why he let's me go through things alone. Why he turned my family against me, why he took my mother...
    Xcinderella Xcinderella 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I'm me, you're not going to tell me how to live my life, go live yours, just stop telling me crap about my life.. Worry about yourself
    youngdesirexoxo youngdesirexoxo 16-17, F Aug 12

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    But sometimes it's not that easy, no matter what I try. :/
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    You tell people what they don't wanna hear and then your left alone! Haha! My oh my!! I'm guessing I'm a difficult personality to get along with.... I usually get surrounded by...
    Incubusbunny Incubusbunny 22-25, F Aug 14

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    I need a person to text sometimes....sadly it doesn't happen when I want it to....especially a cute boy in search of a guy like me
    poketeen poketeen 16-17, M Aug 17

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    And just run to my house, knock on my door and when I open it.. Grab me and kiss me. Ten, I think I love you..
    michiko michiko 13-15, F Aug 17

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    This is a place for sharing experiences... Not bullying and harassing people about their opinions. Debate is bound to happen, but name calling because you don't agree...wow...
    MsInked511 MsInked511 26-30, F Aug 17

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    I have to hang out with my bully during lunch and resses at 6th grade and it's bc my best friend hangs out with my bully so I hang out with my best friend and so i have to hang out...
    imnotthatspecia imnotthatspecia 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I'm having such severe panic attacks lately. So bad I feel like I'm gonna die. Its like my throat closes up and I can't breathe... Oh wait I forgot no one give a ****.
    SkinnImIn SkinnImIn 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    What you did hurt me in so many ways and when I confronted you about it, all you ever say is I'm trying to start ****. No, I'm unhappy in the relationship and I want a change. But...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F a week ago

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    Good God I hate my life :c
    Selanis Selanis 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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