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I Wish My Husband Would Grow Up

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    I Was So In Shock,i Really Don't Know How to Deal With This, My Fiance Needs to Grow Up.

    I am 22 and my Fiance is 23, we have a 9 month old little boy together. We have set a couple of dates to get married and then backed out of them (way before we even started planning), cause we don't have the money to do it all. After the birth of our son I had/have post ...
    Aras213 Aras213 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    Tierd Of Being Used..

    I have been  together with my boyfriend for 3 yrs now and we have a lil girl together, I also have 2 boys from another relastionship. we have lived together for the the past year and a half and he has yet to get a job. i am very stressed out because i work 2 jobs and am...
    rydin rydin 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    I Wish My Husband Would Grow Up

    We got married 2 1/2 years ago. During that time he has been fired from the only two jobs that he has had. My husband has been without a job for 5 months. Not because of the economy or whatever, but because he was fired for not working, and then went for 4 1/2 months just not...
    MIREDCAT08 MIREDCAT08 31-35 4 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    Just Tired

    So...   I really need to vent to other people who know exactly what I am talking about...!!!   And I do think that this is the place. So my hubby has been out of work since March.   He has had offers, but we decided together that he would take a...
    jeamal jeamal 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    I Don't Know What to Do Anymore...

    I know some people may be biased about this story because of how young my husband and I both am. We started going out when I was a Junior in High School; he was a Senior at the time. He was avid about joining the Army, but I talked him out of it when we were going out. We broke...
    MskGriggs0811 MskGriggs0811 18-21 3 Responses Feb 25, 2009

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    Well In A Month He Will Be My Husband

    So my family isn;t so suportive of my Fiance and my relationship. He is in the army. I guess the best word to describe him he is a redneck from the south. He says rude things all the time about poop, he also says that he loves me in the butt. Gahhh the things just bug me. He...
    azgal2011 azgal2011 18-21, F Dec 21, 2011

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    My Other Baby.

    I already have a little boy.  My boyfriend needs to grow up.  Due to circumstances beyond our  control, he needs to find another job.  I have to get on him just to make the calls, then I have to practically force him to go on interviews.  All he wants...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    Time To Grow Up

    I am having difficulty with my husband acting like a kid!  We have been together for 10 years, married for 2 and lived together for 7 years.  I am 27 and he is 31.  I feel like I am his second mother.  I constantly have to remind him to do things and to...
    Nicole82 Nicole82 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    Wish He'd Grow Up

    I have been with my husband for six years we have one child together we have been married for about four months now i love him to death but sometimes he can really get on my nerves he acts like the world revovles around him he is a heavy drinker but you cant tell him that i dont...
    justired30 justired30 26-30, F Sep 1, 2011

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    Im Lost

    We have been together for 10 years, since we were both 15, and now we are 25 and married, we got married at 22. Life was perfect back then, we were sooo happy, but now, he is still the boy who likes to drink every weekend, wont stop smoking black and milds and seems to not care...
    daisy5280 daisy5280 22-25 2 Responses May 28, 2008

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    I'm 24 and my cheeks are as smooth as a baby's butt!? my cousin and friends have no problems growing thick full beards and it gets to me.. I'd love to be able to grow one...
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    Growing up with a very devoted Christian mother who was always talking, singing, praying to Jesus/God, going to church most Sunday's etc, I really hated myself and felt such shame...
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    I wish I know the right way as early as I can. The Noble Eightfold Path (Pali: ariyo a ha giko maggo, Sanskrit: ?ry? ? gam?rga) [1] is one of the principal teachings of the Buddha...
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    I don't have a lot of friends and I wish I was closer to my family.
    Morgee3304 Morgee3304 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    Wishful thinking at best haha especially in my country there aren't many nutters or crazies with guns, so I guess I'll be waiting a long time ha.
    tangledweb94 tangledweb94 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I would be so much different if someone did, now I'm afraid of so many things and it affects me in the worst ways. if I was saved, i wouldn't be insane
    savvy1998 savvy1998 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I wsh someone would kill me know so i die
    hopetodie hopetodie 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I've been silent a greater part of my life. Even being as young as I am, I have experienced more than many far beyond my age. But, I have no one to share it with. There is so much...
    Aspiegirl421 Aspiegirl421 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I want to listen to my song not some crappy commercial for some crap I dno't need or want. I don';t care about someone's crap promo for a song that probably sucks I want to listen...
    StupidRobert StupidRobert 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Of course it never happens to me. You hear about such things on the news of course and you think to yourself "darn, lucky person". I want to be free.
    NotgoingsoloAus NotgoingsoloAus 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Ugh I get so frustrated with my boyfriend. Either you love me, or you don't. Either you accept me, or you don't. Either you see me as the person that makes mistakes, or you don't...
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Orangerocket Orangerocket 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 1

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    If I don't want to talk about something I'm not going to
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    By people, I mean me. I keep hurting the one I love most, and it's going to tear us apart if I cannot change. My boyfriend is a smart, empathetic, logical, sensible man. I am an...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Why does nobody ever ******* understand!!!!!!!!! Sick if my parents trying to control MY LIFE thinking tye know what's best for me... Idc it's my ******* life not there's and I'm...
    drawmysmile drawmysmile 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    Reflection: Teach us to listen to all those who gather on EP at any given time… This place, Where we can explore our feelings and thoughts, Sometimes our...
    McCannT12 McCannT12 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I find peace in art, music, and poetry. anyone else like this? is there someone out there that thinks that we could spread peace through music?
    MrSophisticated MrSophisticated 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    I hate when I ask my friend how she is doing and she says to me not so well I'm still cutting myself. It's not that I don't care It just gets really hard to hear when that is all...
    Girlinpink0075 Girlinpink0075 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Skin is not made for cutting, it's made to protect your body. But if you cut it, then it can't protect as well
    hallow1331 hallow1331 13-15, F Jan 15

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    Actually, all the time. Do whatever to me and then shoot me. Not kill me.. Anyways.. Message me?
    HurtMePlease101 HurtMePlease101 18-21, F Jan 15

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    It's possibly the most annoying thing. Ever.
    UnderTheSleeves UnderTheSleeves 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Just end me. I do not want to live in this world of lies anymore.
    killerjrm killerjrm 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Funny how people thank God for what they have but as soon as something bad happens it's all God's fault too.
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    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Sometimes , i think about my past and i hate myself for all the things i have done and that i have gone trough.. and its heart wrenching. Then theres other times, where I'm proud...
    livinglife789 livinglife789 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Seriously, I'm getting tired of clicking on a question and then all it ends up being some rant or complain. This site is about putting your statements as experiences and ask...
    astrophobia astrophobia 26-30 2 days ago

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    I want to die not because I'm depressed but because I love pain and just generally want to die
    katielovespeeingherpants katielovespeeingherpants 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    How can some people be so insensitive. Is it pride? Its all none sense to me. Hard to see him online & its so easy for him to just ignore. Maybe i'll make it easier for him.
    hopefaithlove84 hopefaithlove84 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    this explains me pretty good. I never got to do all the stuff most kids did. my parents always worked and so we never took a vacation or anything. my first weekend vacation was on...
    countryguy30 countryguy30 22-25, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    If I had one wish; I would wish for everyone to have a good life. To not have to worry about paying their next bill, or to go out or stay in, or to deal with any negatively...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1

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