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I Wish No One Would Judge Me

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    BBW and Its My Business

    I've been a bigger girl all my life. Why is this anyone else's business? I am beautiful, smart and outgoing. I work hard and struggle with everyday life like everyone else. Why do people judge you by how you look? I feel I carry myself well, dress nice and am fun to be around yet...
    phenominalfind phenominalfind 31-35 5 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Who Really Cares???

    Don't waste your precious time worrying about who is judging you or who is not judging you. Isn't it a bit self-centered? Time to put on your grown-up pants and stop gazing at the mirror. People who have time to take their time to give to you are just as self-centered. "People...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

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    If you spend your time worrying about

    who is judging you; it's truly wasted energy. People are too busy thinking about themselves, and the ones who do judge, are too busy pointing out others mistakes to take credit for their own. Another idea to think about; you must be pretty damn important to have many using up...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Jul 20

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    Stop

    i am so sick of being judged in life i do not need it on here. i am sick of people with miserable lives getting my help and then when i am hurting  acuse me of awful things.stop this now or i will block you without a second thought.you are not helping me you are upseting...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2010

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    I..

    ..judge myself enough. I dont need other people doing it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    Yep..

    Over time people judging me made me ****** up, then I got judged even more. Now I know that its fine, they are close minded and ignorant but I still can't help doubting myself and feeling anxious.
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 22-25, F May 3, 2010

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    People Suck.

    Ive got a health condition that is likely lifelong. Over the years Ive been met with scorn,mockery,cruelty,misjudgment and outright "You can fix it if you really tried." Ive lost friends and contact with family over this. One of my dearest friends-I was there the night her son...
    LdsGirl LdsGirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    A Lonely Existance.

    There are some very peculiar mannerisms and things about me I know are constantly being judged. I'm so afraid of the judgement and so aware that it's happening that I try my best to stay away from as many people as possible. I don't go out on weekends like everyone else, I stay...
    othercosmo othercosmo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2010

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    Yes, I Have 3 Kids and Its My Business!

    I hate when people judge me because of the fact that I have three kids.  Its my business and no one else's how many kids I have.  I love my kids and wouldn't have it any other way.  I laid down to have them, and I'm going to take responsibility if its the last...
    T26 T26 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Emotional Health Is Easy To See...

    To see how well one is emotionally is to see her or his behavior and actions when they do something that proves them wrong, or who overreacts when asked about something they did which depicts their actions as not the best choice, (it's never their fault) and are not mature enough...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Apr 25, 2013

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    People Judge All The Time.

    About being too fat, too skinny, shape of your nose, color of the skin, clothes youw ear, words you say, things you do, everything! It sickens me. My message to all of you who joined this group is this: BE YOURSELF, ALWAYS. There will ALWAYS be people who will judge you. Just...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Take Me As I Am - Or Not At All

    I am a quiet person. I love my friends and their good opinions of me. I try NOT to make enemies of anybody. But I have a right to my opinion and my thoughts. I have my mother's will and a mind of my own. I support my friends. Then why, Jesus on the road on Easter morning, do...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Sep 6, 2013

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    I mean yes I respect everyone's right to ask what they want but a) it's tiresome and b) it's very worrying that so many really young girls 13-25 seem to either not know they are...
    Adaydreambeliever Adaydreambeliever 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    but no one likes me like that, and they probably never will. I wish someone would be my girlfriend and would love me for being me, as I would them. I wish I could find my love in...
    Fayaris Fayaris 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    What can i do, say to make you see that we are the ones who should be together. That you are the one who makes me feel alive, i can breath when you are near me. I wish i could make...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Aug 1

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    There are a handful of women that I am friends with that I wish I would have asked out back in the day... granted, I probably wouldn't be friends with them now since if they...
    dcisme dcisme 41-45, M Aug 5

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    Hey Man, Nice Shot.There's so many people I wish I woulda met that I can't because they killed themselves.But I get it. I get it.Nice shot, man.
    ThisIsNotForYou ThisIsNotForYou 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    I try to be patient with my coworkers because I learned that being frustrated with them only creates unnecessary tension ( exception to constructive criticism , or absolutely need...
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    There so many things people wish they could change about themselves. They wish they were skinner,prettier, more handsome, richer, and had more friends. I even wish this myself...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    My husband passed away one year and eight months ago. He was only 49. His kids who are adults treated him just awful. I watched him hurt because of them everyday. My husband was...
    tammynsparkles tammynsparkles 36-40, F Aug 4

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    I really wish anybody that could would cast a spell on me to be, physically and mentally, a beautiful girl.
    AJGirlie AJGirlie 26-30 Aug 7

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    I've always had depression and anxiety issues from the time I can remember. I wasn't a happy child. I just thought that I was having a rough time and that the feelings would go...
    porcelainsmiles porcelainsmiles 22-25, F Aug 13

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    What more to say? I long for a warm embrace from you. Loving caress n a kiss from you. But I know all these are 'my' wish and prayer alone. Life is such a burden.
    EternalWanderer EternalWanderer 31-35 1 Response Aug 1

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    I'm like failing everything. My friends don't wanna hang out with me anymore. I haven't gone out in ages. I'm really not confident, i hate myself i wish i could just loose 30kgs...
    secretgirllll secretgirllll 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    You tell people what they don't wanna hear and then your left alone! Haha! My oh my!! I'm guessing I'm a difficult personality to get along with.... I usually get surrounded by...
    Incubusbunny Incubusbunny 22-25, F Aug 14

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    I sort of do life right now I'm certain would be totally different, and more interest than it is now. That, and my life sucks big time as it is I really wouldn't mind having such...
    strivexwulf strivexwulf 18-21, T Aug 16

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    I'm having such severe panic attacks lately. So bad I feel like I'm gonna die. Its like my throat closes up and I can't breathe... Oh wait I forgot no one give a ****.
    SkinnImIn SkinnImIn 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I drive him to and from our college class and back everyday. I pay for gas. I pay for food I'd say about 65% of the time. He ditches me to hang out with other girls. He hangs on me...
    howdousername howdousername 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I have made some really bad choices in my life and always say I will learn by my mistakes but I never do. I hurt people by pushing them away then I stand alone and wonder why. I...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Would really love some right now... Going through a lot.
    WonderingJazmine WonderingJazmine 18-21 Aug 12

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    Everyone on earth does have a person they are truly meant to be with. Even if it's a family relationship, every person has someone that loves them and never wants to let them go...
    savigirl14 savigirl14 13-15, F Aug 16

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    Growing up after being born into this world things are simple. As you get older the more complicated things get and it is so easy to get caught up in the madness that is in the...
    ArcaneNotion ArcaneNotion 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My mother passed away when I was 17 and it all went down hill from there. Nobody was there from that point on.
    sunnygirlfriend73 sunnygirlfriend73 41-45, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Being 15 in a dominantly white society along with it being controlled by relativism, makes me wanna just give someone a gun and tell them to shoot me. Seriously I can't stand...
    JubilantDayz JubilantDayz 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    THIS INFURIATES ME!! The freedom to write & share whatever I felt ~ the acceptance~ the TOLERANCE~ is why I fell in love with this site. Sadly, these things are vanishing, as...
    HisWetWife HisWetWife 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I am not here to fix things.Some of us need fixing ourselves.Sending dirty pictures or messages cursing others is just not respectable.I do not even know who you are and this is...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    So I moved out of state. Months before my friend of ten years kept putting off hanging out with me. 7 months went by. Weeks before I moved, he planned a lunch. Then the day of...
    indigoK indigoK 36-40, F Aug 6

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    Respect is such a basic thing. And I don't see what's so difficult in giving respect. Respect to parents, siblings, peers, those younger than you. IF only people were just more...
    zozobar zozobar 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    some people just don't have respect anymore. it should be common sense to have respect. if I don't like u I won't respect u. if u don't respect me I won't respect u. but if it's a...
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Aug 7

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    It makes me feel uncomfortable. Are they staring at my outfit? My face? Who knows
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I feel like people stare at me everywhere when I'm walking on the street cars, people it's crazy I always wonder why and what they are thinking its enough to make anybody anxious!
    TashaBbb TashaBbb 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    A lot of yall ************* need to cut the ****
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M Aug 9

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    Yep. But. That may be their goal. My dad is such a cretin. He gets hurt. And retaliates. No exploration. No discussion. Just retaliation. And many copy...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 9

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    That's all I want. For him to tell me what his actually planning for me and why he let's me go through things alone. Why he turned my family against me, why he took my mother...
    Xcinderella Xcinderella 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I'm me, you're not going to tell me how to live my life, go live yours, just stop telling me crap about my life.. Worry about yourself
    youngdesirexoxo youngdesirexoxo 16-17, F Aug 12

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    But sometimes it's not that easy, no matter what I try. :/
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I need a person to text sometimes....sadly it doesn't happen when I want it to....especially a cute boy in search of a guy like me
    poketeen poketeen 16-17, M Aug 17

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    And just run to my house, knock on my door and when I open it.. Grab me and kiss me. Ten, I think I love you..
    michiko michiko 13-15, F Aug 17

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