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I Wish No One Would Judge Me

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    People Judge All The Time.

    About being too fat, too skinny, shape of your nose, color of the skin, clothes youw ear, words you say, things you do, everything! It sickens me. My message to all of you who joined this group is this: BE YOURSELF, ALWAYS. There will ALWAYS be people who will judge you. Just...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Yes, I Have 3 Kids and Its My Business!

    I hate when people judge me because of the fact that I have three kids.  Its my business and no one else's how many kids I have.  I love my kids and wouldn't have it any other way.  I laid down to have them, and I'm going to take responsibility if its the last...
    T26 T26 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Take Me As I Am - Or Not At All

    I am a quiet person. I love my friends and their good opinions of me. I try NOT to make enemies of anybody. But I have a right to my opinion and my thoughts. I have my mother's will and a mind of my own. I support my friends. Then why, Jesus on the road on Easter morning, do...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Sep 6, 2013

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    People Suck.

    Ive got a health condition that is likely lifelong. Over the years Ive been met with scorn,mockery,cruelty,misjudgment and outright "You can fix it if you really tried." Ive lost friends and contact with family over this. One of my dearest friends-I was there the night her son...
    LdsGirl LdsGirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    Stop

    i am so sick of being judged in life i do not need it on here. i am sick of people with miserable lives getting my help and then when i am hurting  acuse me of awful things.stop this now or i will block you without a second thought.you are not helping me you are upseting...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2010

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    Emotional Health Is Easy To See...

    To see how well one is emotionally is to see her or his behavior and actions when they do something that proves them wrong, or who overreacts when asked about something they did which depicts their actions as not the best choice, (it's never their fault) and are not mature enough...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Apr 25, 2013

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    Yep..

    Over time people judging me made me ****** up, then I got judged even more. Now I know that its fine, they are close minded and ignorant but I still can't help doubting myself and feeling anxious.
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 22-25, F May 3, 2010

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    I..

    ..judge myself enough. I dont need other people doing it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    BBW and Its My Business

    I've been a bigger girl all my life. Why is this anyone else's business? I am beautiful, smart and outgoing. I work hard and struggle with everyday life like everyone else. Why do people judge you by how you look? I feel I carry myself well, dress nice and am fun to be around yet...
    phenominalfind phenominalfind 31-35 5 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    A Lonely Existance.

    There are some very peculiar mannerisms and things about me I know are constantly being judged. I'm so afraid of the judgement and so aware that it's happening that I try my best to stay away from as many people as possible. I don't go out on weekends like everyone else, I stay...
    othercosmo othercosmo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2010

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    If you spend your time worrying about

    who is judging you; it's truly wasted energy. People are too busy thinking about themselves, and the ones who do judge, are too busy pointing out others mistakes to take credit for their own. Another idea to think about; you must be pretty damn important to have many using up...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Jul 20

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    Who Really Cares???

    Don't waste your precious time worrying about who is judging you or who is not judging you. Isn't it a bit self-centered? Time to put on your grown-up pants and stop gazing at the mirror. People who have time to take their time to give to you are just as self-centered. "People...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I wish things would just go in the direction we'd like. I wish we could just be happy together without feeling like everything is trying to tear us apart :(
    music2me98 music2me98 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Hey Man, Nice Shot.There's so many people I wish I woulda met that I can't because they killed themselves.But I get it. I get it.Nice shot, man.
    ThisIsNotForYou ThisIsNotForYou 13-15, M Aug 22

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    I try to be patient with my coworkers because I learned that being frustrated with them only creates unnecessary tension ( exception to constructive criticism , or absolutely need...
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F Aug 24

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    I wonder what some guys mean when they say "classy" about a woman...to me, it would mean someone who is also educated, well-mannered, elegant in writing and speaking, using good...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    STOP COMPLAINING!! All he ever does is ***** and moan about everyone and everything, threaten me and everyone that I love. I've never known anyone to make such a deliberate and...
    TheSageNabooru TheSageNabooru 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I opened a newspaper (with the intention to actually read it O.O) for the first time in a long while. I'm Scottish, so it is one of the popular Scottish papers. I was absolutely...
    abracakyle abracakyle 22-25, M Sep 5

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    All my life I have been attracted to different guys at different times. I would tell myself that they were just too scared to ask me out, but the reality of it was that they just...
    lynn20010 lynn20010 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am ready to freak out.. I cannot take his unemployment anymore. I feel like I will never go anywhere in life with him, but I then feel so selfish because he loves me and is good...
    loveandpeacetoall loveandpeacetoall 36-40 5 days ago

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    I'm like failing everything. My friends don't wanna hang out with me anymore. I haven't gone out in ages. I'm really not confident, i hate myself i wish i could just loose 30kgs...
    secretgirllll secretgirllll 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    I can't stop thinking about him. He's an amazing guy with a big heart. He makes everyone laugh when he's around and he is kind and gentle. I know he will never love me or think of...
    Monoka14 Monoka14 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I'm having such severe panic attacks lately. So bad I feel like I'm gonna die. Its like my throat closes up and I can't breathe... Oh wait I forgot no one give a ****.
    SkinnImIn SkinnImIn 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    I drive him to and from our college class and back everyday. I pay for gas. I pay for food I'd say about 65% of the time. He ditches me to hang out with other girls. He hangs on me...
    howdousername howdousername 18-21, F Aug 24

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    All my life my parents would finish my sentences to translate in a way that would get me in trouble or take what I say and twist it to put me down. I hate when people who barely...
    wintershawl wintershawl 36-40, F Aug 31

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    I've always had a problem with low mood one way or the other. I suffered from panic attacks and Anxiety throughout my childhood (6-17). As a result i have issues with self-esteem...
    username6510 username6510 18-21, M Sep 8

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    Like c'mon, really? xD God knows how old you are yet you decide to sit behind a computer screen and troll another group of people that have nothing to do with you. Hahaha Your...
    ThrivingIvory ThrivingIvory 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Growing up after being born into this world things are simple. As you get older the more complicated things get and it is so easy to get caught up in the madness that is in the...
    ArcaneNotion ArcaneNotion 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    What you did hurt me in so many ways and when I confronted you about it, all you ever say is I'm trying to start ****. No, I'm unhappy in the relationship and I want a change. But...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F Aug 24

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    Good God I hate my life :c
    Selanis Selanis 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I honestly can not stand it when people start talking over you because you said something and they don't let you finish t is quite frustrating and annoying
    EnvyTheGinger EnvyTheGinger 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I need you to kiss me like you mean it. Please. I need to feel you warm against my skin and not feel like you are something other. I beg. I need to not be genitals to you. I...
    foldedunfolding foldedunfolding 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    Start small 1) go for a walk 2) breathe 1 in / 2 out 3) feel your feet touch the ground 4) walk for bubble tea :) 5) smell the air 6) notice the sun and clouds
    Jacques0041 Jacques0041 46-50, M Aug 27

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    My mother passed away when I was 17 and it all went down hill from there. Nobody was there from that point on.
    sunnygirlfriend73 sunnygirlfriend73 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I like this guy a lot a lot!!! but he gives me mixed messages; he gets jealous when I hang out with his friend, when I told him his friend calls me at 3am hes like u should pick up...
    kellys7 kellys7 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Ok I've reached the end of EP for me. A friend that I had been talking to out of the blue just blocked me. It hurts bc we just chatted last night! I don't get it. I put too much...
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    And mean what they say.After all actions speak louder than words.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Stop eyeing me up and say something!
    leekalady leekalady 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Watching Good Mythical Morning on YouTube. Rhett and Link are hilarious! Unfortunately, watching their vids is becoming less enjoyable because of those darn ads. :(
    HyperY0utuber HyperY0utuber 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    so yeah my life sucks but i cant do anything about it. it is what it is, I just wait to be independent really.
    aliv12 aliv12 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    When a person, any person, around me keeps talking my heart starts pounding faster and faster and I feel like I cant breathe and I get so stressed out. I have always been anti...
    sokoari sokoari 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    There is no hope of that. My kids do not even want to acknowledge I exist.
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 1 day ago

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    An Homo Faber or an Homo Sapiens?
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Because of it, I made the mistake to do the same. I would judge everyone whether judged me or not. I just figured they were doing it behind my back or eventually would anyway. One...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M Aug 27

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    One of the most unattractive qualities in people is being too selfish and self absorbed to understand others or see things from a more objective and realistic perspective. Being so...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Well like mentioned in the head line, I wish for it. Really. Maybe I have some brother complex. Despite I want to write about it, it is hard for me - so excuse the poor language. I...
    seshin seshin 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    No one can judge and if you do judge you're nothing but a piece of ****** up **** !
    Yovanna Yovanna 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    That the sky is so much beautiful at night? I mean, look at the stars they kind of just take your breath away, don't it? I remember a few days ago I was having a Horrible day and I...
    Owlshirt Owlshirt 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 6