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I Wish No One Would Judge Me

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    Who Really Cares???

    Don't waste your precious time worrying about who is judging you or who is not judging you. Isn't it a bit self-centered? Time to put on your grown-up pants and stop gazing at the mirror. People who have time to take their time to give to you are just as self-centered. "People...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

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    Yes, I Have 3 Kids and Its My Business!

    I hate when people judge me because of the fact that I have three kids.  Its my business and no one else's how many kids I have.  I love my kids and wouldn't have it any other way.  I laid down to have them, and I'm going to take responsibility if its the last...
    T26 T26 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    People Judge All The Time.

    About being too fat, too skinny, shape of your nose, color of the skin, clothes youw ear, words you say, things you do, everything! It sickens me. My message to all of you who joined this group is this: BE YOURSELF, ALWAYS. There will ALWAYS be people who will judge you. Just...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    I..

    ..judge myself enough. I dont need other people doing it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    BBW and Its My Business

    I've been a bigger girl all my life. Why is this anyone else's business? I am beautiful, smart and outgoing. I work hard and struggle with everyday life like everyone else. Why do people judge you by how you look? I feel I carry myself well, dress nice and am fun to be around yet...
    phenominalfind phenominalfind 31-35 5 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Stop

    i am so sick of being judged in life i do not need it on here. i am sick of people with miserable lives getting my help and then when i am hurting  acuse me of awful things.stop this now or i will block you without a second thought.you are not helping me you are upseting...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2010

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    People Suck.

    Ive got a health condition that is likely lifelong. Over the years Ive been met with scorn,mockery,cruelty,misjudgment and outright "You can fix it if you really tried." Ive lost friends and contact with family over this. One of my dearest friends-I was there the night her son...
    LdsGirl LdsGirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    A Lonely Existance.

    There are some very peculiar mannerisms and things about me I know are constantly being judged. I'm so afraid of the judgement and so aware that it's happening that I try my best to stay away from as many people as possible. I don't go out on weekends like everyone else, I stay...
    othercosmo othercosmo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2010

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    Yep..

    Over time people judging me made me ****** up, then I got judged even more. Now I know that its fine, they are close minded and ignorant but I still can't help doubting myself and feeling anxious.
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 22-25, F May 3, 2010

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    Emotional Health Is Easy To See...

    To see how well one is emotionally is to see her or his behavior and actions when they do something that proves them wrong, or who overreacts when asked about something they did which depicts their actions as not the best choice, (it's never their fault) and are not mature enough...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Apr 25, 2013

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    Take Me As I Am - Or Not At All

    I am a quiet person. I love my friends and their good opinions of me. I try NOT to make enemies of anybody. But I have a right to my opinion and my thoughts. I have my mother's will and a mind of my own. I support my friends. Then why, Jesus on the road on Easter morning, do...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Sep 6, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I don't know, like I wish people would whisper to other people as they say me and go, "Oh my god she is SO pretty!" I wish they would come up to me and tell me how gorgeous I am...
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Really. I mean, nice to know you "Stay Up Late" when it's obvious enough it's already 2 in the morning where you at, but I really wish people would really have the energy to...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 Mar 20

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    The ladies I work with are very nice and mean well, but I wish they would leave me alone. My job is going soon and I'm in the middle of my separation just trying to sort things out...
    bahalana75 bahalana75 36-40, F Apr 2

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    I really do wish people would realize the type of damage they can do to someone, the pain they can inflict with actions such as lying, cheating , stealing . whatever their dirty...
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I wish people would stop saying that my parents aren't strict and all of this bullshit, you don't know me or my parents, so it's none of your ******* business. Sorry. I honestly...
    dontfeartheripper dontfeartheripper 13-15, F Mar 28

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    My mom is being an absolute b*tch right now. She is literally attacking everyone like it's a huge deal. I didn't hear the kids fighting. I don't know why she started getting...
    PitchDaffy PitchDaffy 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    An iPod full of memories As each song plays it triggers my thoughts of you All that felt so real, so genuine Ones that I held onto dearly You being the only one that heard what...
    musicilove musicilove 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Why? Why do the people I call friends patronize me like last year? Hopefully they've noticed I'm not the same fat, depressed, lazy kid who always got D's and F's in school. I've...
    GandhiHD GandhiHD 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I hate when someone talks behind your back and you can hear everything they're saying about you but you pretend as if you don't. I hate being treated like dirt. I wish I had a...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I was just on youtube listening to a music playlist, and Justin Beiber's 'Baby' came on. I actually quite like the song, I like Justin's music on the whole but I'm not a fan. I...
    T4RD15 T4RD15 26-30 1 Response Apr 9

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    Don't people realize that if they could learn not to hurt people there wouldn't be as much evil in the world? Maybe some people would have complete family's, some people wouldn't...
    Awakened92 Awakened92 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I am currently crushing on one of my guy friends and I don't know what to do. I like him more than I though. I've tried to stop liking him but nothing's worked. Sometimes I think...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    What is the point of everything? Why would I put up with the pain and suffer? It's so much easier to just die... It is so hard to go through the same sh*t every day... It hurts...
    Teodora27 Teodora27 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I know people don't always mean it but they ignore me. The rare instances that I speak, I'm spoken over. My friend lose track if me. That's pretty normal because of my small...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F Apr 10

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    Some people take life too seriously on here. I suggest they take a walk through a cancer ward one day and know what a real problem is in life. I am sick of all the BS on here...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I would appreciate if too many old pervs don't send me private messages . Thank you!
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Mar 28

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    Why are there people who are too insensitive for the feelings of others?!..you show kindness but still they hurt you..you chose not to fight back and understand them but still they...
    shalei shalei 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Always joking about how I always forget, always lose, never understand. I laugh along but it builds up inside until I realise that their all just laughing and never trying to...
    Radjad Radjad 13-15, F Mar 22

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    I agree with this, but to like that person, you need to be attracted to them, soooo looks does play a part!
    Beatit12 Beatit12 13-15, F Mar 22

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    Talking about our problems is our greatest addiction.Break the habit!talk about your joys!
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F Mar 23

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    I like ******* girls.. Can any girls tell me if they like it
    Gerryhelmat Gerryhelmat 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    It hurts to love someone. And not to be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
    toufie1 toufie1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    I have never cut myself, nor tried to commit suicide in a serious way, but considered it many times. I don't want to be a "selfish, egoistic, mean" person, "the son they lost to...
    dysfori dysfori 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    Ya it's kinda pointless just adding me to be honest.
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M Mar 26

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    I don't like ppl who assume. We all know what it means. ***/u and/ Me
    XFallinAngelX XFallinAngelX 13-15, F Mar 28

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    I will never really know, if you don't tell me. I feel like I hardly know you because you keep it all to yourself. I hate when you don't tell me what's wrong, or how I feel. Why...
    Blissfulkissofdeath Blissfulkissofdeath 13-15, F Apr 1

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    I am tired of just being here. I pray for God to take me. I hate my life soooo much and I hate myself. It has been going on so long...I will never win.
    ForeverLost72 ForeverLost72 41-45, F Apr 2

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    You were just a figment of my imagination The Heavy - Bruk Pocket Lament: http://youtu.be/0cD9G_85FgU
    musicilove musicilove 36-40, F Apr 3

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    Doodle 2 electric boogaloo see past expireneces for an explication.
    tarkovsky tarkovsky 26-30, M Apr 7

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    Strays: The different colors of paints splattered all over the place. A hand slithers through colors with definite grace The deepening reds upon the ceiling wall Can not be...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F Apr 8

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    Strays: The different colors of paints splattered all over the place. A hand slithers through colors with definite grace The deepening reds upon the ceiling wall Can not be...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F Apr 8

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    Strays: The different colors of paints splattered all over the place. A hand slithers through colors with definite grace The deepening reds upon the ceiling wall Can not be...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Don't be a ******* bully. Just because you aren't happy doesn't mean everyone else has to feel like you. Talk it out or work out. At least that rage will go to something without...
    ashalew ashalew 22-25, F Apr 8

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    Why don't people seek the truth anymore? Why depend on google for answers?
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M Apr 11

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    They are the backbone of society and deserve to be cared for.
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend isn't putting all he can into the relationship, I feel like I'm trying so hard n he's just blowing it off... The pic is me n him
    bigca1697 bigca1697 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Ok so I've been dating her for about five months now and I can't stop thinking about how much I want her to just pull me in deeper and beg me to give her my load. We've both...
    Precious56 Precious56 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    A land where everybody is someone and get along with each other, no fights, no drama. No one would be mean to anyone else, and everyone would be a friend. You could be as weird as...
    robbie1280 robbie1280 18-21, M 17 hrs ago

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    I have had many experiences in life that most people just would not understand or would judge me for. It makes me fear opening up to people. Even people who have sworn that they...
    keribaby keribaby 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    People look at me and see a white, green eyed, blond haired (currently red) American teenager and the expect me to be slightly stuck up. Then they look at what my parents do for a...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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