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I Wish No One Would Judge Me

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    People Suck.

    Ive got a health condition that is likely lifelong. Over the years Ive been met with scorn,mockery,cruelty,misjudgment and outright "You can fix it if you really tried." Ive lost friends and contact with family over this. One of my dearest friends-I was there the night her son...
    LdsGirl LdsGirl 26-30, F Jan 6, 2013

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    If you spend your time worrying about

    who is judging you; it's truly wasted energy. People are too busy thinking about themselves, and the ones who do judge, are too busy pointing out others mistakes to take credit for their own. Another idea to think about; you must be pretty damn important to have many using up...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Jul 20, 2014

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    Who Really Cares???

    Don't waste your precious time worrying about who is judging you or who is not judging you. Isn't it a bit self-centered? Time to put on your grown-up pants and stop gazing at the mirror. People who have time to take their time to give to you are just as self-centered. "People...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

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    Yes, I Have 3 Kids and Its My Business!

    I hate when people judge me because of the fact that I have three kids.  Its my business and no one else's how many kids I have.  I love my kids and wouldn't have it any other way.  I laid down to have them, and I'm going to take responsibility if its the last...
    T26 T26 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    I..

    ..judge myself enough. I dont need other people doing it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    Take Me As I Am - Or Not At All

    I am a quiet person. I love my friends and their good opinions of me. I try NOT to make enemies of anybody. But I have a right to my opinion and my thoughts. I have my mother's will and a mind of my own. I support my friends. Then why, Jesus on the road on Easter morning, do...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Sep 6, 2013

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    People Judge All The Time.

    About being too fat, too skinny, shape of your nose, color of the skin, clothes youw ear, words you say, things you do, everything! It sickens me. My message to all of you who joined this group is this: BE YOURSELF, ALWAYS. There will ALWAYS be people who will judge you. Just...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Emotional Health Is Easy To See...

    To see how well one is emotionally is to see her or his behavior and actions when they do something that proves them wrong, or who overreacts when asked about something they did which depicts their actions as not the best choice, (it's never their fault) and are not mature enough...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Apr 25, 2013

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    Yep..

    Over time people judging me made me ****** up, then I got judged even more. Now I know that its fine, they are close minded and ignorant but I still can't help doubting myself and feeling anxious.
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 26-30, F May 3, 2010

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    A Lonely Existance.

    There are some very peculiar mannerisms and things about me I know are constantly being judged. I'm so afraid of the judgement and so aware that it's happening that I try my best to stay away from as many people as possible. I don't go out on weekends like everyone else, I stay...
    othercosmo othercosmo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2010

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    BBW and Its My Business

    I've been a bigger girl all my life. Why is this anyone else's business? I am beautiful, smart and outgoing. I work hard and struggle with everyday life like everyone else. Why do people judge you by how you look? I feel I carry myself well, dress nice and am fun to be around yet...
    phenominalfind phenominalfind 31-35 5 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Stop

    i am so sick of being judged in life i do not need it on here. i am sick of people with miserable lives getting my help and then when i am hurting  acuse me of awful things.stop this now or i will block you without a second thought.you are not helping me you are upseting...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2010

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    I hate myself. I hate everything about myself. I hate my voice. I hate how I look. I hate my internal organs, I hate how everyone else sees me. I hate how I have no redeeming...
    IComeWithKnives IComeWithKnives 18-21, T 2 days ago

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    I'm not though. We have our moments when things are great, but we are so terrible for one another. Some times I wish things would never change and other times I wish he would leave...
    stillspinning stillspinning 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Wish 1 would be to be a pretty girl Wish 2 would be to be skinny again wish 3 to have a good friend to hangout with
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    Today, I feel sad, it always end up when i've been doing nothing for too much time. I feel getting drown in my loneliness. Wish I would be loved by someone. If I was fat, at...
    GDADA GDADA 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I wish he had a name and a breathing body against mine. I wish he had two interested points of view and the care to ensure his awareness and the desire to be gentle despite ability...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    if I told people that I am bipolar and have PTSD from childhood traumas, and military traumas would they want to know me... Or would they politely exit stage left once they found...
    harleyblu73 harleyblu73 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was abused at three and abused for ten years from 7 to 15 starting cutting at seventeen and going from hospital to hospital but been saved at 19 or 20 years old where I learned...
    Nikkilight25 Nikkilight25 22-25 1 Response Aug 26

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    Yeah, it would be nice if you'd just call me and be here where I need you right now. As much as it would give me solace for what you've left me handling alone - well I lie, I have...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 25

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    Sometimes i wonder how my childhood has affected my adulthood,i can remember some pretty bad times. ?????
    ramrod ramrod 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    My mother has never liked me. I don't know why. She was mentally, emotionally, & physically abusive. It got worse after one of her boyfriends tried to molest me. She even went so...
    Tenanye Tenanye 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    The biologic was a violent drunk, who only came home when he'd run out of panhandling money, and winter was setting in (he lived under a bridge in the warmer months). Mom finally...
    SemperFido SemperFido 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    No ones gonna save me. They didn't then. They arent now. They won't when the future comes. I can't even save myself. Yet- onward.
    coerietheraven coerietheraven 22-25, M Aug 25

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    When i saw this group, i was torn between feeling this way and yet at the same time not. I had a fairly decent childhood as far as anyone could see. My parents were good at hiding...
    sherbear182 sherbear182 18-21, F Aug 25

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    Away from the schools where I was, stepfather in my home, and the town I was in. My early/developing years might not have been so bad and wasted for me growing up.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Aug 25

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    when I read the name of this group. I deeply got upset.
    Faraboy Faraboy 22-25, M Aug 25

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    I had an abusive childhood and I told so many people about it (my distant family who didn't believe me because my stepfather was so charming, charismatic, and manipulative around...
    BunheadSalamander BunheadSalamander 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    A Letter to A Customer, I know you're busy. So am I. But I wanted to take a moment to let you know that caught your daughter climbing the shelves in my department yesterday. Her...
    BabyRottie BabyRottie 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Sometimes I hate the fact that whatsapp updated their app to let users see who has read the messages and when was the last time they went online; because every time i see two blue...
    charicealpaca charicealpaca 18-21, F Aug 22

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    It seems no matter where I go or who I'm with, how much I try I always fail, I feel sad all the time, tho's who said they were going to be in my life forever aren't there anymore...
    ReachingNirvana ReachingNirvana 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I wish ppl would read my profile before adding me or trying to chat with me. I am not trying to sound like an EP snob or come off as rude, but I have mostly all the information...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 22

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    I hate that people always tell me (even on pages like this) that I might change my mind. I hated kids my whole life and had to help my mom raise my brothers cause my dad was...
    BrokenAndDown BrokenAndDown 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Your angsty demeanor makes me feel angsty ...I don't like that feeling
    Chernobylplayground Chernobylplayground 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I fear that even if they did they wouldn't be open about it because they make so much money off of chemo and radiation. I hate to be such a pessimist :( but people can be so stingy...
    BunheadSalamander BunheadSalamander 16-17, F Aug 21

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    Either a weeping willow or a white birch, just because they're my favorites. Or maybe I'd be a cedar tree just because I love to smell good. :)
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Seriously we get to know each other role play and we talk for a long time I give u a face pic esp when that's hard for me then ur gone and ur profile says deleted... This just...
    sexydaughter16 sexydaughter16 22-25, F 35 Responses Aug 20

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    I would use my first wish to wish for 4 additional wishes. Wish 2 would be for my father to accomplish his goals, wish 3 would be for dads health to be perfect, wish 4 would be to...
    XxBloodyLullabyxX XxBloodyLullabyxX 22-25, M Aug 19