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I Wish No One Would Judge Me

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    People Judge All The Time.

    About being too fat, too skinny, shape of your nose, color of the skin, clothes youw ear, words you say, things you do, everything! It sickens me. My message to all of you who joined this group is this: BE YOURSELF, ALWAYS. There will ALWAYS be people who will judge you. Just...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    People Suck.

    Ive got a health condition that is likely lifelong. Over the years Ive been met with scorn,mockery,cruelty,misjudgment and outright "You can fix it if you really tried." Ive lost friends and contact with family over this. One of my dearest friends-I was there the night her son...
    LdsGirl LdsGirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    Yes, I Have 3 Kids and Its My Business!

    I hate when people judge me because of the fact that I have three kids.  Its my business and no one else's how many kids I have.  I love my kids and wouldn't have it any other way.  I laid down to have them, and I'm going to take responsibility if its the last...
    T26 T26 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    Take Me As I Am - Or Not At All

    I am a quiet person. I love my friends and their good opinions of me. I try NOT to make enemies of anybody. But I have a right to my opinion and my thoughts. I have my mother's will and a mind of my own. I support my friends. Then why, Jesus on the road on Easter morning, do...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Sep 6, 2013

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    Yep..

    Over time people judging me made me ****** up, then I got judged even more. Now I know that its fine, they are close minded and ignorant but I still can't help doubting myself and feeling anxious.
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 22-25, F May 3, 2010

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    Who Really Cares???

    Don't waste your precious time worrying about who is judging you or who is not judging you. Isn't it a bit self-centered? Time to put on your grown-up pants and stop gazing at the mirror. People who have time to take their time to give to you are just as self-centered. "People...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

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    BBW and Its My Business

    I've been a bigger girl all my life. Why is this anyone else's business? I am beautiful, smart and outgoing. I work hard and struggle with everyday life like everyone else. Why do people judge you by how you look? I feel I carry myself well, dress nice and am fun to be around yet...
    phenominalfind phenominalfind 31-35 5 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    A Lonely Existance.

    There are some very peculiar mannerisms and things about me I know are constantly being judged. I'm so afraid of the judgement and so aware that it's happening that I try my best to stay away from as many people as possible. I don't go out on weekends like everyone else, I stay...
    othercosmo othercosmo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2010

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    If you spend your time worrying about

    who is judging you; it's truly wasted energy. People are too busy thinking about themselves, and the ones who do judge, are too busy pointing out others mistakes to take credit for their own. Another idea to think about; you must be pretty damn important to have many using up...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Jul 20

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    Stop

    i am so sick of being judged in life i do not need it on here. i am sick of people with miserable lives getting my help and then when i am hurting  acuse me of awful things.stop this now or i will block you without a second thought.you are not helping me you are upseting...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2010

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    Emotional Health Is Easy To See...

    To see how well one is emotionally is to see her or his behavior and actions when they do something that proves them wrong, or who overreacts when asked about something they did which depicts their actions as not the best choice, (it's never their fault) and are not mature enough...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Apr 25, 2013

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    I..

    ..judge myself enough. I dont need other people doing it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I try to think that all people aren't the same and not base or judge them on past experiences but now it's just getting harder and harder.
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I would love to capture a moment in time and frame it...sometimes the beauty of what we see cannot be described...even a photograph wouldn't do it justice...my artist's perspective...
    prettyface1 prettyface1 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I actually wish there was at least one additional major political party -ideally more- to counter the Republicrats and Democans.
    benjamin111991 benjamin111991 22-25, M Jul 3

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    I'm not cared about. I'm a foriegner, it's ok to be beaten and held against your will as long as, she's a foriegner and it's your ''wife'' I screamed to the top of my lungs...
    Luckycharm2014 Luckycharm2014 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Without going into too much detail....from last September until about February or March was one of the darkest periods of my life for exactly this reason. My husband, people I had...
    Env06 Env06 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I want the boy I fell in love who told me I wasn't pretty enough to feel the pain I felt that day and months I want him to fall in love with a gorgeous girl and then have her tell...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    My videos are hand-held so they aren't always smooth, but when I upload them to YouTube or YouTube via Moviemaker, they get all jerky and even the resolution sometimes is...
    WindSylph WindSylph 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    05:30am So today is my 17th, and it feels like my friends don't remember my special day....no texts, no phone calls, no chat...... Urghhh! Wth I think I need to have new...
    yalalast yalalast 16-17, F 8 Responses Jul 11

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    Answers to all your problems. https://adblockplus.org http://adguard.com/en/welcome.html This one even blocks crunchyroll ads
    darkangellights darkangellights 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I hate when your parents always say be the better person do the right thing step up to the plate but then when it comes to having a conflict with them you the child are the one who...
    tearsintime tearsintime 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Even though I strongly that whatever happens is for my own good, it would be nice to have people around you who understand your intentions, know that I wouldn't hurt them in any...
    FiercyTiger FiercyTiger 26-30, M Jul 3

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    so earlier I was hanging out with my cousin and we were going to the park so we came back to the house to grab a few waters my sisters fiancé passes by us and my cousin greets...
    muffinpowers muffinpowers 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    and I would find her and fall in love with her. we would have our happily ever after....
    Alexacutie Alexacutie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I would rather someone be honest with me than lie because they don't want to admit the truth. In the end that would hurt less.
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F Jul 16

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    *sigh* There Is So Much Hate In This World. I Think With A Little Bit More Kindness Everybody Would Be More Happy. I'm A Sophomore In High School And Especially Now These Days...
    KaylaBriones KaylaBriones 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i am lonely and trying to put my life back together separated from wife and family
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I think about human existence and the future, and it makes me feel regretful because I will only be able to experience a finite amount of it. I want to see us go to the stars and...
    sparky577 sparky577 31-35, M Jun 29

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    Well, on the bright side, he most likely isn't responsible for being nonexistent.
    SamJanowiak SamJanowiak 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    He still can. :) ahahahahahahhahaha
    benjamin111991 benjamin111991 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    LeelMx LeelMx 26-30, F Jul 5

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    But people are selfish it's who they are!
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F Jul 5

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    Short story, I was talking to some EP guy here then we were chatting out in another chatting service , we were having a good friendship till I said kinda joking that I though he...
    Dannuhunter Dannuhunter 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Lol.. i like this experience!!! 
    paradox14 paradox14 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 6

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    I Want Someone To Kill Me.. After contemplating suicide for several years now and being unable to find a quick, painless way... I think being murdered is the answer.
    hopetodie hopetodie 51-55, M 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Yeah it really hurts. I realize your hurting but I'm just trying to help. Stop taking me for granite. And she doesn't even notice it hurt me afterwards. She acts like nothing...
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I hate to cry when I get mad. When I confront someone when I'm mad it seems like they won't take me seriously bc I'm crying. When I'm actually I'm pi$$ed.
    Gingerl1652 Gingerl1652 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Grammar, punctuation and spelling are important, even for old perverts like me.
    shouldIquestionmark shouldIquestionmark 46-50, M Jul 13

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    I spend more time with my niece than her parents do. They both work full time jobs and I babysit all the time. Don't get me wrong I love that little girl but it gets ridiculous...
    deiysianahi deiysianahi 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    This is me! I just don't want kids it's simple for me and I don't understand why me not wanting kids has an effect on others.
    SophieBabe20 SophieBabe20 18-21, F Jul 16

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    Every day is a horror. I can't control the thoughts in my head; I replay trauma and conflict over and over. I have to drown it out by watching 12 hours of a TV a day. I rarely...
    MEngineer MEngineer 26-30 6 Responses Jul 17

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    Because sometimes, I'm just expressing myself and my feelings and not looking for anyone's advice and/or opinions. I'll live and learn and **** up and maybe even come to the same...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jul 18

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    Call me a hippy, but there's so much senseless killing going on these days. I'm not just talking about Gaza, or Crimea, I'm talking about everywhere. Its just getting out of hand...
    HeyIThappens HeyIThappens 18-21 Jul 19

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    Me and my older cousin used to be best friends. We did everything together as kids and we were so close. Now he'll barely spare me a glance, and when we're in the same house, he'll...
    weby667 weby667 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I can't stand him right now
    NotMyCircus NotMyCircus 36-40, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    That's why I finally went off on my boyfriend last night. He actually apologized to me. It felt good. I deserved that apology, and I'm glad I got it.
    stillYDGN stillYDGN 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The love is ending been married for 4 years and we are falling apart he never talks to me and I try so hard to understand him.i am always giving my self excuses to y he ignores me...
    leaf90McC leaf90McC 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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