I Wish People Came With Warning Labels

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    I hate being with someone

    for an amount of time and then finding out how they really are. Why can't they just be and show who they really are to begin with? I guess it's their way of trapping people. I'm in need of a deep conversation. My thoughts are overwhelming me....
    Pussykitten78 Pussykitten78
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 21
    Roz2014 Roz2014
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Dec 16, 2015

    Like 'I may fall in love with you,

    but I have BPD so I'll also hate you half the time.'
    msdvn msdvn
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 27

    Mine would say: "Keep clear,

    does not play well with others." lol
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2015
    chevyangel chevyangel
    26-30, F
    Dec 3, 2015

    Been with my bf for a few years.

    Just a few months ago he decides he wants us to have sexual experiences with other couples. He also told me he is bi... I feel like I don't even know him. If I had known I wouldn't have been enough for him I would have never pursued this relationship. I feel duped. 😣
    DearAgony1515 DearAgony1515
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Dec 17, 2015
    Cat052314 Cat052314
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 21, 2015

    The member soxway, FYI,

    this dude is a *********. Been talking with this dude for like 2 weeks then it starts getting weird asking me for pictures and tells me how he wants to be passionate with me and wants to have sex with boys as young as 13 So all you guys out there, you were warned ok? And he's...
    sunsnowlover sunsnowlover
    16-17, M
    1 Response Apr 2

    If people came with warning labels,

    I wouldn't be in the predicament I'm in now :-(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

    Like "WARNING: Investing your heart in this

    person will turn out to be heartbreak for yourself. they have hidden agendas and unbelievable secrets"
    bigbeautifulnswt bigbeautifulnswt
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    I'm so complicated I want to be alone then

    when I am. I only want to be with you. You seemed to get it but ran far away. Now I get it. There is no more left to say. Be well. Take care I wish you the best. Only without you I am significantly less I still miss you but still need to be alone
    IPleadthe5th IPleadthe5th
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Oct 20, 2014
    sweetnovember29 sweetnovember29
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 24, 2014

    Yea there are definately some people

    who sicken me who will smile in your face and then stab you behind your back. I have experienced such situations with co-workers, friends, even my own mother. It's so upsetting, when the people closest to you speak ill of you and wish you the worst just because they themselves...
    aandino aandino
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    I wish Narcissists came with warning labels,

    but since they don't please read the following information. Don't be fooled by a wolf in sheep clothing! Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse, Part I: Blindsided We often hear the term “narcissist,” but what does it mean? From my vantage point as a psychotherapist, I work...
    rescuemuttsrule rescuemuttsrule
    41-45
    8 Responses Apr 29, 2015

    Then I would have not ever talked to someone

    as shallow as you. As is human nature, we are all guilty of being selfish. But you take the cake. I challenge you to look back at your life and find the point you decided your feelings mattered more than others. Selfishness leads to loneliness. And you my friend will be all...
    press1forenglish press1forenglish
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 12

    This man I met in July '15 has basically built

    a friendship with me that lead to more in October (without commitment). Well I fell in love with him. This issue is, he is mysterious and I feel like..... I know he is hiding who he really is. My life has been a roller coaster this past year and so far anytime I have a situation...
    melibear melibear
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 25

    There are very few good people on this site.

    In the times I have come and gone I AM SAD TO SAY I still decieved. Please don't take it personally if I don't respond to messages you send. In most cases it's because of being tired of being constantly harassed by people who belong on a different site to here.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 29, 2015

    You will be shocked when you discover how easy

    it is in life to part ways with people forever. That's why when you find someone you want to keep around, you do something about it.
    Charmeeee Charmeeee
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 7, 2014

    I wish my niece came with a I'm a back stabber,

    selfish label. Can't stand the *****.
    EMTgirl3778 EMTgirl3778
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 28

    In early 2014 I sheltered/took in a 16 year old

    girl that was being abused by her parents, and close relatives. She lived down the street from me so it seemed more realistic and less far fetched. I gave her the spare bedroom, helped her fix her health and mental misconceptions, as well as gave her new clothing and helped her...
    CaraBlossom CaraBlossom
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 2
    SofiSerean000 SofiSerean000
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 29

    Be careful in regards to the decisions you make

    when you're dating someone. No matter how insignificant it may seem at the time, watch their words, actions, and reactions. Don't accept anything that you cannot, will not, or shouldn't deal with if you end up in a relationship with that person. I've made my share of mistakes at...
    BlackWidowBaby BlackWidowBaby
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jun 24, 2015
    chevyangel chevyangel
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Dec 4, 2015

    Warning labels would be great.

    You meet people that brain wash you into thinking they're so good for you, that they will love you right and they promise you the world just to find out they're the complete opposite. they're actually the most toxic person you probably will ever meet and unfortunately those are...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 1, 2015

    I truly wish some people would come with a

    warning label on their chest. This is especially true of perverts, mean spirited, abusive, and stupid people in general. I have a total distrust for these kinds of people. I will never associate with these type of individuals.
    momfromusa2 momfromusa2
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015

    Warning labels would be amazing!

    Just wasted 3years of my life with a guy who I thought was loving warm kind..... Nope so wrong my mums just gotten very sick and the selfish ***** want it's all to b about him, sit down son so I can see a real man who's going to support me!
    weemunchkin weemunchkin
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 3, 2015

    So I could distinguish the lovely,

    pleasant people from the rude, nasty people more easily. I hate it when you think you've made a new friend only to find out they're just a two-faced jerk. :/
    CarverReturns CarverReturns
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 2

    I just broke up with a woman

    who is evil. I did not know when we first got together that she was so. And it wasn't until after we broke up that I found out how truly evil she is. I have discovered that her own kids don't even like her. How sad is that?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 29

    Met someone here on EP

    and thought I had found a lifetime friend at the very least. Then he just disappeared. Guess it was all a lie which hurts a lot. Now I'm here trying my hardest to forget the last 9 months.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Dec 24, 2015

    So you could tell where the jerks be at all the

    time like I just hate so many people but no one knows I feel that way I'm so quiet I should prob be on meds you kno?
    PreTeenSally PreTeenSally
    13-15, F
    Jan 29

    I would like to thing they do.

    Honestly you can tell what kind of person someone is by the way they act, things the do and their point of view, there's always signs. It require patience and time to see who's worth it and who's not.
    cattynoire cattynoire
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015
    Safetysuit96 Safetysuit96
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    WARNING LABELS. .....

    . The warning label is their behavior, simply observe how they treat others, are they all about SELF? Your warning label should be your intuition. ..... if it doesn't feel right leave it alone. .... I'm an animal lover. ... Cats are an excellent judge of character...
    Shai75 Shai75
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Feb 4, 2015

    That way you could avoid bad relationships &

    the hurt they bring. But what ever does not kill me only makes me stronger ! 😏😗😎🎸🎶🎼
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2015

    I wish they do but they didn't!

    !! I do play my part to show mine as we get to know each other. Instead of taking as a warning, they take it as a blessing and all don't believe me and laugh at me when I said "I may be your Satan in disguise". Hope it won't be too late for you to realize who I really am.
    whyacinth whyacinth
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 22

    JACKSONCREEDVI This user just sent me an

    unsolicited pornographic pic of his erect "junk," and asked if I "like what I see." When I called him out on it and told him my son is older than him, he responded by calling me a "racist biTc h." Then HE BLOCKED ME!!! SMH. Priceless!!!!
    CurvesandClass CurvesandClass
    41-45, F
    12 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    I used to be sweet The world was a good

    place Then I met him,my life was never the same I used to let people show me who they are Now I take the time to figure them out Before I let them in,before I check them in My heart used to be flexible But now it's frozen over Love is now prehistoric Frozen inside a sphere in...
    kanonr kanonr
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 13, 2015

    Labels Of Truth!

    Oh, I’d love if it everyone had to wear warning labels.  Any time you go to a party or an office soiree, there should be big, fat obligatory labels of truth: “First person in the history of the world to get married: oh, you WILL hear about my wedding colours…” "Don’t...
    RedRubies RedRubies
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Sep 10, 2011

    I've thought about carrying around stickers to

    label people... "Caution: *******," "***** on Board," "Slow Biggots Playing." Or just ones that say *******, jerk, narcissist, tool... Then hand them out with a piece of candy.
    brattybitch13 brattybitch13
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    I dated a girl in college

    that had more demands than a terrorist.
    luketepid luketepid
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Mar 2
    annaupchurch annaupchurch
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2015

    sometimes i wish he came with a warning label

    so i wouldn't of wasted so much time with him
    beck2221 beck2221
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 15, 2015
    j1nx3s j1nx3s
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 11
    PastelLime PastelLime
    31-35
    3 Responses Jan 10

    I sure wish males here on EP would come with

    warning labels saying "Pervert". From what I can tell, 100% of the males using this website are all perverts. I am fed up with all of you and will no longer respond to any males here.
    marriedmomwithkids marriedmomwithkids
    31-35, F
    33 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    i. I still have to learn how to stop loving

    guys with hungry mouths and empty hearts; paper bodies with voices like siren setting off and hands imitating the tides of an ocean, leaving me sooner then they've come. ii. I still have to learn to pay my electricity bill on time and not be afraid of sleeping in dark in an...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    18-21, F
    Mar 19

    Last guy I dated told me in the first week how

    awesome I am, how much he likes my character, we had phonecalls that lasted up to four hours and told each other everything from childhood memories to favorite 'adult stuff'. And after the third date he suddenly changed. He told me, that I got too emotional, that he can't take...
    bryannon bryannon
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 9

    If the guys Ive dated came with warning labels,

    I would have ran the other way. Some people are not worth breaking your heart over. If you see something alarming, walk away. You are worth it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 18

    I would love to know

    before someone screwed me over. I'd love to know before someone hurts me. Doesn't everyone?
    LovelyyLexii18 LovelyyLexii18
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    I knew I was doomed when I moved in with my cat

    and dog, and he made me give the cat away. Now he keeps up with the vehicles to make sure their in good working conditions.
    SusannaAnn SusannaAnn
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2015

    Sometimes I wish people came with warning labels

    but then I think it might not make a difference with me anyway... sigh.
    aLadywithoutaclue aLadywithoutaclue
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 3

    Can anyone tell me why some men like to go

    around calling you a "ho" when you've done nothing to indicate any type of behavior like that?
    Mfudgie Mfudgie
    31-35, F
    7 Responses May 30, 2015

    I'm sick and tired of people they get on my

    damn nerves Wanna smack the **** out of somebody
    tammi41 tammi41
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Nov 16, 2014

    My best friend and I got into a fight

    and she pretty much said that I'm part of the reason that she wants to kill herself and blames me for her depression and all this other stuff...yea great night right 😔
    Louise951 Louise951
    16-17, F
    Mar 13

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