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I Wish People Would Quit Disappearing

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    Especially the ones who used to mean

    so much to you.... I could never imagine just leaving someone after having a certain impact on their life. I'd never want to leave, k. fact... Goodbyes are seriously the hardest things ever. :(
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    People Leave All the Time

    I know its sad when your friends leave Ep and you don't know why - but I get slightly annoyed when i see blogs and stories and confessions because one person left - ok they had lots of friends - but my mind always goes to the people that leave silently... People leave EP all the...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 15 Responses Mar 13, 2008

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    I generally like this site.

    One thing that I don't like is how you can get close to people and then one day they are gone. Not even a goodbye. Just "Poof". Very hurtful because you think you matter to these people but realize that what you had maybe wasn't genuine all along.
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Damn Hudini!

    its like one second theyre here,,,,the next..POOF. theyre gone! Oh well! 
    dontneedanyoneortwo dontneedanyoneortwo 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    Ok I've reached the end of EP

    for me. A friend that I had been talking to out of the blue just blocked me. It hurts bc we just chatted last night! I don't get it. I put too much trust in my internet friends and I've been hurt too many times. Makes me wonder if I'm being lied to the whole time. To my regulars...
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    I am so tired of people just leaving me.

    It's so annoying and hurtful when you talk to someone 24/7 and you learn everything about each other...and they just stop talking to you. I hate having my time and feelings wasted.
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I Wonder Where They Go

    i wonder if i where to disappear how would it happen would i wake and choose willingly to leave or just fade away in the night who would notice and how long have i got.   i would not mine disappearing with somenoe and having a party before i go.
    redgone redgone 31-35, M Jun 8, 2008

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    Feels like anyone I get close to recently just

    disappears for one reason or another...
    asm89 asm89 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    Oh My Gosh.

    YES!Please stay.I am so tired of telling people when they walk in, if they will leave, to leave now. And then they don't. But then they leave anyways, later.and it hurts more that way.I am so tired of being left alone and in this empty place empty space.Only comfort are the words...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2011

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    asm89 asm89 22-25, M Jun 14

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    They're Here Then They're Gone...

    One day we'll be talking or playing a game. The next day there somewhere else they've move and started a new lif,but no this time...this time i've disappeared...
    Cadet1995 Cadet1995 18-21, F Apr 25, 2011

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    TheDiamondMinecart TheDiamondMinecart 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    Recently I have had this experience, some people message you directly without any content in their profile: FYI: I don't talk to such people, so don't waste your time.. :)
    simplydbest simplydbest 22-25, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I feel like no one ever listens to me just because of my age. I know what's going on in the world, I have political opinions and ideas. I have a different mind set from other...
    kyhorse29 kyhorse29 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I wish it still didn't hurt so bad.
    sparkleNglitz sparkleNglitz 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    Some people need to realize how strong the word "hate" is. They need to think about it before they say they "hate" a person. Because when the person hears that, it hurts. It really...
    Seraphine246 Seraphine246 31-35 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate being alive. I wish someone else would just kill me. Or that I'd get into a car accident, etc..
    sunuii sunuii 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    How to get away with everything as a woman: 1. Be sickeningly nice to people who can advance your goals. 2. Compliment everyone to their face, so as long as they are of use to you...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 61-65, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Really hate how others do what they want and expect you not to get mad. If you do half of what they do, you are a bad person. **** is not fair!
    EternityF EternityF 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I hate when someone shows me attitude x.x
    LonAnmol LonAnmol 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I mean seriously! how lame must people be to go around the website and begging people to add them to their circle? do they think that makes them popular on ep because some people...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    My family has no idea what they do to me. And for 3 nights in a row (including tonight) I ended up crying cause of what they did
    Vicecream Vicecream 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I posted this on FB hoping to start a conversation or something but it didn't quite turn out that way (1 comment, 8 likes). It was sort of upsetting bc this was the first time I...
    rycbar10 rycbar10 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    to be hones, I feel its rude
    loneleyboy loneleyboy 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I read this thing today that was interesting. Often I see atheists argue "if God is real why does He allow suffering? If He can stop it why doesn't He, why would I want to follow a...
    FreudianSlip13 FreudianSlip13 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Anybody up that wanna talk
    smskitzo smskitzo 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    This site clearly says to "please respond with authenticity, support, and respect." It's absolutely ridiculous how people try to justify being a jerk for the sake of throwing their...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I wsh someone would kill me know so i die I want to be shout
    hopetodie hopetodie 51-55, M a week ago

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    Things I would like to do naked. Some simple things: Walking around outside for lawn and garden chores. Getting the mail and washing the car. Having a drink while relaxing...
    ekmsmac ekmsmac 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    This would be nice, but people are too selfish, the whole "I'm alright" mentality is rife these days.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    If you wanna chat cool but don't message me because you think I can fulfill your little twisted fantasy. So all you people who keep messaging because you have some fixation for...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I wish this but I wonder if I could handle the truth.
    tsubakiblossom tsubakiblossom 22-25, F Jul 11

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    If he would just hurt me anyway, I woudn't have let him enter my life. Sometimes, you give too much love to a person who doesn't deserve any of it at all. :(
    RhythmBlues RhythmBlues 22-25, F Jul 11

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    I don't see how hard this could be. just be honest from the start and avoid all the consequences. I hate when when you start talking to someone and you both hash out at the...
    iihumpchu95 iihumpchu95 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I am a cheerleader at school and for some reason a lot of the kids in school make fun of us just because we are cheerleaders. Our job is to cheer on our sports teams but sometimes...
    ericawalker ericawalker 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    This is how I remember her. (photo) It was my first encounter with a "mean girl." I could never understand why she hated me so much. I tried to understand where she was coming from...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Some people are so bad omg. People are good at faking then you end up in danger. It's not fair we can't trust other humans.
    KawaiiShiroUsagi KawaiiShiroUsagi 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    people always think i'm never sad or depressed,but they're wrong that's all i am is sad and depressed. and i wish people would notice that just because i'm smiling doesn't mean i'm...
    lexielexielexie4 lexielexielexie4 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    There's so many selfish people out there and users. It's hilarious even on EP I noticed that a person in a similar situation to me kept using me for advice but everytime I needed...
    TheSuperheroLife TheSuperheroLife 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Yes I did. Currently I just wish I knew what I am walking in before. How things will end and what talks we will hold in between . I don't want to dismiss my feelings but lately I...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F Jul 9

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    No dating issues. Just my boss. He seemed like a great person. Always asking about my family, my weekend, future academic plans etc. I did make a few mistakes as I was absolutely...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9

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    The other one is abt the best time of my life. I cant foget that moment... She was so nice and she seemed to great and all. She turned out to be a complete *****. She told me...
    LoveNoteForARainyDay LoveNoteForARainyDay 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 8

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