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I Wish People Would Quit Disappearing

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    People Leave All the Time

    I know its sad when your friends leave Ep and you don't know why - but I get slightly annoyed when i see blogs and stories and confessions because one person left - ok they had lots of friends - but my mind always goes to the people that leave silently... People leave EP all the...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 15 Responses Mar 13, 2008

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    Damn Hudini!

    its like one second theyre here,,,,the next..POOF. theyre gone! Oh well! 
    dontneedanyoneortwo dontneedanyoneortwo 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    I Wonder Where They Go

    i wonder if i where to disappear how would it happen would i wake and choose willingly to leave or just fade away in the night who would notice and how long have i got.   i would not mine disappearing with somenoe and having a party before i go.
    redgone redgone 31-35, M Jun 8, 2008

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    I generally like this site.

    One thing that I don't like is how you can get close to people and then one day they are gone. Not even a goodbye. Just "Poof". Very hurtful because you think you matter to these people but realize that what you had maybe wasn't genuine all along.
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 16

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    Ok I've reached the end of EP

    for me. A friend that I had been talking to out of the blue just blocked me. It hurts bc we just chatted last night! I don't get it. I put too much trust in my internet friends and I've been hurt too many times. Makes me wonder if I'm being lied to the whole time. To my regulars...
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 2

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    They're Here Then They're Gone...

    One day we'll be talking or playing a game. The next day there somewhere else they've move and started a new lif,but no this time...this time i've disappeared...
    Cadet1995 Cadet1995 18-21, F Apr 25, 2011

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    Oh My Gosh.

    YES!Please stay.I am so tired of telling people when they walk in, if they will leave, to leave now. And then they don't. But then they leave anyways, later.and it hurts more that way.I am so tired of being left alone and in this empty place empty space.Only comfort are the words...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2011

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    I get it, that's why I'm too nice to people. I just know how it would make me feel, and I don't ever want anyone to feel that way. It's actually really exhausting. I over think...
    Floo64 Floo64 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I do things and help so many people, and when I ask them for help, all they do is make me worse by using everything they know about me against me,,... I hate my life....... Just...
    TheCracksInMyHeart TheCracksInMyHeart 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F Dec 4

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    I feel like I'm just giving out too much without actually receive anything back from people. I know we said: "Hope for nothing in return." stuff and how things will work out in the...
    nguyen23 nguyen23 18-21, M Dec 7

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    I think that good looks are a bonus but personality is what makes or breaks it in my mind.
    Zoekosmopoulos Zoekosmopoulos 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    every word is a scar on my heart... every tear is a knife plunged into it. between the two. I'm never at peace.
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M Nov 29

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    having lived a life trying so hard to make others happy I have realized how am badly hurt at this moment.and am hereby seated alone in an open park enjoying the breeze from nearby...
    mbithi mbithi 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 29

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    experts say you need to shut the **** up
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 2

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    Does it really matter what genre of music someone likes or what clothes they wear? There's more to a person than just a stereotype.
    ijustwantahug ijustwantahug 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I made a confession about feeling guilty about looking at other women with less than pure thoughts, and the only person to comment said, "You should feel guilty." I did not join...
    LuckyNChance LuckyNChance 26-30, M Dec 8

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    dat1kiid dat1kiid 18-21 Dec 8

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    lol!!! my little cousin had a pair of reindeer horns on her head and a pair of elf shoes on and screamed out HEY LOOK AIJY-POO-POO.... IM GABBY THE HORNY ELF!
    aijmeerah aijmeerah 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I wish this as well, was laying down minding my own business then I get a message I open it and it says yeah hello it's amazing how after 8 days you have no friends, I'm like wow I...
    yeahis18 yeahis18 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    If I can only have one wish my wish would be for everyone to get along and see past stereotypes. This world is so wicked full of sick people.
    xjourneyx xjourneyx 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein. I heard it was about a tree and a boy. The tree was generous. Very generous, in fact, it may have been too generous. Perhaps a...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Literally all people do is say mean stuff about each other, to each other, ect. Like, it would be such a better place if people could calm down and just be nice to each other. I...
    sxddest sxddest 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Ain't that the truth. Oh, God. I think it's more related to ignorant people in this case. I'm always described as the immature one, but my literary abilities and emotional standard...
    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 10

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    I posted a positive comment to someone dealing with depression. I wrote that I am sure she will be ok. I missed in what she wrote she did not want to hear she would be ok. The...
    mslvr01 mslvr01 46-50, M 4 Responses Nov 27

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    Not cool how people dont read your page first to have an idea of who you are before adding you or even messaging you with all kinds of filth. Gawd !
    AcousticAnne AcousticAnne 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    the understatement of all lifetime. there was a man who once preach this throughout his lifetime. His birthday is coming up in two weeks. The man Jesus Christ! Interesting how...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Alas the human species would expire.
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 46-50, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    seriously, if everyone tried to be nice to one person they met during their day i think the world would be a happier place. little steps :)
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    Life would probably not be full of suicide, depression, cutting, hating themselves etc.
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 26

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    I think some really need them. it would save us a lot of stress and anger.
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 26

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    I am a 20 year old white female. I honestly don't care if I get raped and killed. Sometimes I just walk around on campus at night with hope that I might just bump into a murderer...
    bloomingheart bloomingheart 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 2

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    I wish I were more humble. When I was eight years old, my mother was told, "Put him in a really good school, or he'll rot. He won't be able to handle public schools." You know the...
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    I think people should be kinder. And the whole movement of "pay it forward" is really great. Now...here's my issue... If you're going to buy someone's breakfast or pay for someone...
    sunnygrlamy sunnygrlamy 36-40, F Dec 12

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    Like the tides' ebb & flow, people come & people go..
    Negglesgirl Negglesgirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I wish someone love me the way I am..
    lisa1996 lisa1996 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    My ex called tonight. He was high as a kite, I could tell. He kept crying and saying he loves me, and that he wants to see his son. I let him see AJ as long as he's sober when he...
    HalesBells91 HalesBells91 22-25 Dec 12

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    It seems that people care more for pointless experiences with things they will just forget then to spend a single moment with me.
    LindseyWe4 LindseyWe4 18-21, F Nov 21

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    I went to Africa a couple months ago.... and it is in Africa that I saw true kindness. People who have absolutely nothing, somehow finding ways to give to someone else in need...
    kassafwass kassafwass 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 26

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    I can't stand seeing people be disrespectful to someone. I don't understand why they feel the need to act like that.
    pxthetic pxthetic 13-15, F Nov 26

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    I'm 3 months pregnant. My boyfriend dumped me as soon as I told him. In the weeks that followed he went up and down emotionally.. sometimes nicer..often cruel. and always giving me...
    mollystar82 mollystar82 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    This profile is too be attached too the faces of the people who busted my hard drives and phones ...we blocked them from anything I do on Internet also... In case we ever need...
    awake1234 awake1234 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 1

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