I Wish People Would Quit Disappearing

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    I came here a few minutes ago to message a

    friend of mine, and saw she deactivated her account. She didn't even give me a hint before. *sigh* just when I was really starting to value her as a relatively good friend. She was there the few times that I really needed someone, but now she's just.... Gone
    InfidelAssassin InfidelAssassin
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 4

    Seriously we get to know each other role play

    and we talk for a long time I give u a face pic esp when that's hard for me then ur gone and ur profile says deleted... This just creeps me out no more face pics on the first day.. :/
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    20 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    Feels like anyone I get close to recently just

    disappears for one reason or another...
    asm89 asm89
    22-25, M
    Feb 12, 2015

    I generally like this site.

    One thing that I don't like is how you can get close to people and then one day they are gone. Not even a goodbye. Just "Poof". Very hurtful because you think you matter to these people but realize that what you had maybe wasn't genuine all along.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    I am so tired of people just leaving me.

    It's so annoying and hurtful when you talk to someone 24/7 and you learn everything about each other...and they just stop talking to you. I hate having my time and feelings wasted.
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    Oh My Gosh.

    YES!Please stay.I am so tired of telling people when they walk in, if they will leave, to leave now. And then they don't. But then they leave anyways, later.and it hurts more that way.I am so tired of being left alone and in this empty place empty space.Only comfort are the words...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 28, 2011

    People Leave All the Time

    I know its sad when your friends leave Ep and you don't know why - but I get slightly annoyed when i see blogs and stories and confessions because one person left - ok they had lots of friends - but my mind always goes to the people that leave silently... People leave EP all the...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues
    31-35, F
    15 Responses Mar 13, 2008

    I Wonder Where They Go

    i wonder if i where to disappear how would it happen would i wake and choose willingly to leave or just fade away in the night who would notice and how long have i got.   i would not mine disappearing with somenoe and having a party before i go.
    redgone redgone
    31-35, M
    Jun 8, 2008

    Damn Hudini!

    its like one second theyre here,,,,the next..POOF. theyre gone! Oh well! 
    dontneedanyoneortwo dontneedanyoneortwo
    18-21, F
    Apr 22, 2011

    Especially the ones who used to mean

    so much to you.... I could never imagine just leaving someone after having a certain impact on their life. I'd never want to leave, k. fact... Goodbyes are seriously the hardest things ever. :(
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

    They're Here Then They're Gone...

    One day we'll be talking or playing a game. The next day there somewhere else they've move and started a new lif,but no this time...this time i've disappeared...
    Cadet1995 Cadet1995
    18-21, F
    Apr 25, 2011
    asm89 asm89
    22-25, M
    Jun 14, 2015

    Ok I've reached the end of EP

    for me. A friend that I had been talking to out of the blue just blocked me. It hurts bc we just chatted last night! I don't get it. I put too much trust in my internet friends and I've been hurt too many times. Makes me wonder if I'm being lied to the whole time. To my regulars...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Sep 2, 2014

    I hate when somebody (you used to know) & had a

    mutual online crush on but it kind of settled into a good online friendship with, suddenly disappears. 😡 I knew he has recently found a lady and I know he is the type to give her his full attention. I so admire him for that 😊but he coulda said bye....I'm gonna miss the...
    GoldenDuck GoldenDuck
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 21, 2015

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