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I Wish People Would Quit Disappearing

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    I generally like this site.

    One thing that I don't like is how you can get close to people and then one day they are gone. Not even a goodbye. Just "Poof". Very hurtful because you think you matter to these people but realize that what you had maybe wasn't genuine all along.
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    They're Here Then They're Gone...

    One day we'll be talking or playing a game. The next day there somewhere else they've move and started a new lif,but no this time...this time i've disappeared...
    Cadet1995 Cadet1995 18-21, F Apr 25, 2011

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    Damn Hudini!

    its like one second theyre here,,,,the next..POOF. theyre gone! Oh well! 
    dontneedanyoneortwo dontneedanyoneortwo 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    Oh My Gosh.

    YES!Please stay.I am so tired of telling people when they walk in, if they will leave, to leave now. And then they don't. But then they leave anyways, later.and it hurts more that way.I am so tired of being left alone and in this empty place empty space.Only comfort are the words...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2011

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    Especially the ones who used to mean

    so much to you.... I could never imagine just leaving someone after having a certain impact on their life. I'd never want to leave, k. fact... Goodbyes are seriously the hardest things ever. :(
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Feels like anyone I get close to recently just

    disappears for one reason or another...
    asm89 asm89 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    I Wonder Where They Go

    i wonder if i where to disappear how would it happen would i wake and choose willingly to leave or just fade away in the night who would notice and how long have i got.   i would not mine disappearing with somenoe and having a party before i go.
    redgone redgone 31-35, M Jun 8, 2008

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    Ok I've reached the end of EP

    for me. A friend that I had been talking to out of the blue just blocked me. It hurts bc we just chatted last night! I don't get it. I put too much trust in my internet friends and I've been hurt too many times. Makes me wonder if I'm being lied to the whole time. To my regulars...
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    People Leave All the Time

    I know its sad when your friends leave Ep and you don't know why - but I get slightly annoyed when i see blogs and stories and confessions because one person left - ok they had lots of friends - but my mind always goes to the people that leave silently... People leave EP all the...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 15 Responses Mar 13, 2008

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    asm89 asm89 22-25, M Jun 14

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    if you don't want me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best
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    If people saw what I see, people wouldn't like me, I'm a *****, I'm dark, I'm sexist, racist...I wish that I didn't think like this but at least I have a filter
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    Just got yelled at for asking If my bf worked tomorrow the wrong way. I ******* give up.
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