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I Wish People Would Quit Disappearing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 127 People

    Oh My Gosh.

    YES!Please stay.I am so tired of telling people when they walk in, if they will leave, to leave now. And then they don't. But then they leave anyways, later.and it hurts more that way.I am so tired of being left alone and in this empty place empty space.Only comfort are the words...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2011

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    I Wonder Where They Go

    i wonder if i where to disappear how would it happen would i wake and choose willingly to leave or just fade away in the night who would notice and how long have i got.   i would not mine disappearing with somenoe and having a party before i go.
    redgone redgone 31-35, M Jun 8, 2008

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    People Leave All the Time

    I know its sad when your friends leave Ep and you don't know why - but I get slightly annoyed when i see blogs and stories and confessions because one person left - ok they had lots of friends - but my mind always goes to the people that leave silently... People leave EP all the...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 15 Responses Mar 13, 2008

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    Damn Hudini!

    its like one second theyre here,,,,the next..POOF. theyre gone! Oh well! 
    dontneedanyoneortwo dontneedanyoneortwo 18-21, F Apr 22, 2011

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    They're Here Then They're Gone...

    One day we'll be talking or playing a game. The next day there somewhere else they've move and started a new lif,but no this time...this time i've disappeared...
    Cadet1995 Cadet1995 18-21, F Apr 25, 2011

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    I generally like this site.

    One thing that I don't like is how you can get close to people and then one day they are gone. Not even a goodbye. Just "Poof". Very hurtful because you think you matter to these people but realize that what you had maybe wasn't genuine all along.
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Ok I've reached the end of EP

    for me. A friend that I had been talking to out of the blue just blocked me. It hurts bc we just chatted last night! I don't get it. I put too much trust in my internet friends and I've been hurt too many times. Makes me wonder if I'm being lied to the whole time. To my regulars...
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    Everyone hurts someone unintentionally on occasion. That is one thing; however there are people out there who seem to take pleasure and/or pride in inflicting hurt and pain on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    By people, I mean me. I keep hurting the one I love most, and it's going to tear us apart if I cannot change. My boyfriend is a smart, empathetic, logical, sensible man. I am an...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Funny how people thank God for what they have but as soon as something bad happens it's all God's fault too.
    TheFemaleGrimReaper TheFemaleGrimReaper 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ugh I get so frustrated with my boyfriend. Either you love me, or you don't. Either you accept me, or you don't. Either you see me as the person that makes mistakes, or you don't...
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Reflection: Teach us to listen to all those who gather on EP at any given time… This place, Where we can explore our feelings and thoughts, Sometimes our...
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    I hate when I ask my friend how she is doing and she says to me not so well I'm still cutting myself. It's not that I don't care It just gets really hard to hear when that is all...
    Girlinpink0075 Girlinpink0075 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I use to cut... I'm getting better it was a form of release but as I grow I get better!
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 16-17, F Jan 15

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    Skin is not made for cutting, it's made to protect your body. But if you cut it, then it can't protect as well
    hallow1331 hallow1331 13-15, F Jan 15

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    It's possibly the most annoying thing. Ever.
    UnderTheSleeves UnderTheSleeves 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    If I had one wish; I would wish for everyone to have a good life. To not have to worry about paying their next bill, or to go out or stay in, or to deal with any negatively...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    My dream is to prove everyone wrong. My goal is for everyone's eyes to be wide open with their expressions on their faces full of surprise and their mouths wide open. I'll...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I don’t really remember the day I started picking at my skin, but the day I started is the day my life got worse. Worse why? Because not only am I self conscious about my weight...
    Gertrude95 Gertrude95 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    do you remember mood rings they turned colors due to your body heat n the color indicated your mood. I think it would be very helpful if people would wear a mood sticker in the...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I wish BOOZE came with warning labels on causing pregnancy. Be warned. ABSOLUTE VODKA CAUSES PREGNANCY! I read every inch of that bottle it's not on there, I swear 2 out of my 6...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    It's a bit off-topic but why is it so damn important to produce children? For most people, marriage=children and sometimes having children means you should get married next. It's...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Good evening everyone. This is my experience. I'm not sure anyone has gone through this before. But any thoughts would be welcome. I started dating online. I met a girl she called...
    Jonathan50 Jonathan50 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 10

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    I wish I had a warning label so I know what was wrong with my people skills lol
    butterflyofchange butterflyofchange 18-21, F Jan 10

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    If people came with warning labels I would probably never get hurt or lied to or say the wrong thing. But they don't and it's pointless.
    emma5697 emma5697 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I would have saved myself a lot of hurt... His label would have read..."I'm the biggest player you're every going to meet. I'm going to hurt you deeply and than move on to my next...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Merry F-ing Christmas. I hate the holidays. I'm sooooo happy they are almost over. And it's not bad enough, that I'm stuck with my boyfriend's family this Christmas. It's not bad...
    chumiloons chumiloons 46-50, F Dec 26, 2014

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    I wish I know the right way as early as I can. The Noble Eightfold Path (Pali: ariyo a ha giko maggo, Sanskrit: ?ry? ? gam?rga) [1] is one of the principal teachings of the Buddha...
    veganmeditates veganmeditates 41-45, M Jan 6

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    I don't have a lot of friends and I wish I was closer to my family.
    Morgee3304 Morgee3304 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I think people might have them, but I just can't find them or don't know how to read. Someone tells you...you should probably listen.
    MakinRaider MakinRaider 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I pretty much put my all into all people. Sometimes I pull back because I feel them pull back. I love with all my heart but I've learn to guard it better.
    BlueBrea BlueBrea 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    People are so rude and mean to each other now days it's like they forgot how to be kind to one another . Every one is out for them self's now days .
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I would be so much different if someone did, now I'm afraid of so many things and it affects me in the worst ways. if I was saved, i wouldn't be insane
    savvy1998 savvy1998 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Peoples reproductive choices are none of my business. I was put here to be in charge of me and that is hard enough, so I (and you!) have no right to pretend we have the time...
    Mikaylin Mikaylin 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 8

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    I wsh someone would kill me know so i die
    hopetodie hopetodie 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 5

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    Something Is Missing!!!Where did the create experiences bar go?Why is it gone?How could EP let it run away from home???
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Sometimes , i think about my past and i hate myself for all the things i have done and that i have gone trough.. and its heart wrenching. Then theres other times, where I'm proud...
    livinglife789 livinglife789 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    If I have a secret or something I don't want you to know, don't try to gorse it out of me. If/when I feel it's the right time to tell you, I will but before that time, just leave...
    lostgirl2001 lostgirl2001 13-15, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Even on this app...seriously - if you comment on my experience please make it clear or I won't respond.
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    No really, not in a self serving way.
    Mikaylin Mikaylin 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Happy 101st birthday to the great Loretta Young in heaven today. TCM celebrates her birthday with a slew of some of her mediocre films. Try Taxi at 1145 eastern to see Loretta...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M Jan 6

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    But then again, everyone is scared of each other. It's kinda sad when you think about it.
    weirduo weirduo 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I feel really alone, just have no one to talk to..
    CaysenBaker CaysenBaker 18-21, M a week ago

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    Born on this date in 1907 the great character actor Dan Duryea, nobody played a baddie like DD :) Check him out in Scarlet Street, Woman In The Window, Pride Of The Yankees and...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't think I've ever experienced time stopping, but it has gone slow and thick, viscous. Every breath slow and deep, every element pronounced, every heartbeat felt in the chest...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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