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I Wish People Would Realize How Their Actions Hurt Others

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    I honestly think that some people don't have

    that capability. my wife being one. kicking your spouse when he or she is down is wrong but I think she has no remorse what so ever. bummer.. I really wanted it to work.
    LoStOnArOcK LoStOnArOcK 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 2

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    How can you not care.

    .. my heart is bleeding for you. quit pushing me away.
    FuckedupNow FuckedupNow 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2014

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    My First Love, Taken Away...

    It could of all been so beautiful, so perfect, but at the same time it felt too good to be true... I've never felt a love like this before, in all of my 25 years of life. Ending up with a person that you connect with, that you bond with, that you can't see yourself living without...
    mrowe718 mrowe718 26-30, F 13 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    This time my husband came

    for about ten days.It was festival time and I was looking forward to it.First few days were okay Then he was back to being after me and how I was lagging behind in cleaning the house.Then he was supposed to meet me at my parents and did not turn up and instead went to visit his...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    Includes Everyone

    What I wish from others, I wish from myself too. I've hurted people, seldom on purpose but it happened. The very sec it happened I knew how my opposite would feel. It was often to fight back and I felt bad because I couldn't resist to pay back.
    RickiChickie RickiChickie 51-55, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Most Likely Never Will.

    Most people really need to step back and assess the situation before they make their move.... too many people are careless with their actions AND words. They don't think or care about how they can affect and really hurt others. Sadly, I don't think people will ever change... too...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17, 2011

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    I do it sometimes but it is like "you an idiot

    sometimes". But then there are these jerks who make fun of me. They take my stuff which I get back. They make fun of me about needing to eat more. Eat more? Why do people have to be cruel. Worst of all they mock my blinking and sometimes I pronounce my L a little different. Oh...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M Apr 12

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    Storys123 Storys123 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    Olivia Penpraze

    I have just been made aware of the story of Olivia Penpraze. I think people need to be aware of her story and the story of many other young and old people who are like her. Whether they suffer from depression, bulimia, anorexia, anxiety or any other horrible disease, people...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    It's not easy living in the Spirit.

    ..I never thought I'd be disappointed again...but I am a quiet wanderer anyway...I don't expect to be understood anymore...I've given up that possibility for now...I've would love to cry...but I am not able too...I stare at my screen...rereading all the conversations...and...I...
    EternalViolet EternalViolet 26-30, F Apr 15

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    My boyfriend has now been ignoring me

    for 13 days. I saw him yesterday with his mates & he looked so happy without me. Maybe he's just better off without me. My sister has messaged him on Facebook & he's even ignoring her! I wish I knew where I stand with him. I want our relationship to work but, he messages other...
    Claricalle10 Claricalle10 22-25, F 1 Response May 16

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    Small Things

    I tend to believe that we live in a society in which we don't pay enough attention to others. Like we walk past people who are sad and we are so selfish we don't even notice them. Somtimes they would even try to give hints to us or ask for help indirectly and we just see what we...
    BlackDiamondFairy BlackDiamondFairy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2011

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    Why Did She Do It?

    One of the reasons I came here to EP was to take some comfort in the fact that I’m a man.  Yes I hate every sorry last bit of my male body.  If I could change it I would, but I’ve come too far down this road to turn back now, I am living with it but I challenge anyone here...
    Bree10 Bree10 36-40, T 5 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    you can't understand the pain of hurting till

    you are being hurt ed. the realization of your misbehavior with others is itself the feeling of pain.
    kumar412 kumar412 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 31, 2014

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    Everyone hurts someone unintentionally on

    occasion. That is one thing; however there are people out there who seem to take pleasure and/or pride in inflicting hurt and pain on others, whether that pain be physical, emotional, or both. These people are not just criminals roaming the streets. They are fathers, mothers...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    I really do wish people would realize the type

    of damage they can do to someone, the pain they can inflict with actions such as lying, cheating , stealing . whatever their dirty methods are. I guess they will never understand until the tables are turned and you become the one being lied to cheated on and stolen from left...
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F Apr 15, 2014

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    Sometimes it hard to believe

    that they don't.
    padraig17325 padraig17325 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Just Realized

    I, for the longest time was one of those people who went about his life w/o much regard for the feelings of people around me, even the ones I loved or cared for. It was my naive nature that thought: no matter what I do or say my friends and fam will always be around good or bad...
    EricS EricS 31-35, M 10 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    She Sold Her Soul To The Devil For An Empty I.o.u........

    Sometimes people don't realize that a promise is a promise and that should never be taken lighty. Recently a very good friend of mine was hurt by a friend she trusted very much. She sold her soul to the devil for an empty I.O.U. He promised her he would take care of her heart...
    hardrockinbutt hardrockinbutt 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    By people, I mean me.

    I keep hurting the one I love most, and it's going to tear us apart if I cannot change. My boyfriend is a smart, empathetic, logical, sensible man. I am an irrational, emotional, deeply-loving girl. But my stubbornness and lack of empathy to others (a disassociation I learned...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    My boyfriend has now been ignoring me

    for 13 days. I saw him yesterday with his mates & he looked so happy without me. Maybe he's just better off without me. My sister has messaged him on Facebook & he's even ignoring her! I wish I knew where I stand with him. I want our relationship to work but, he messages other...
    Claricalle10 Claricalle10 22-25, F 3 Responses May 16

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    I wish people could understand how their actions

    and words can affect and hurt the people around them. I wish they could be able to think about what they're doing and say "how will this affect my family and friends?" And then not do it if they think/know it will have a negative and hurtful affect on their family and friends.
    jules401 jules401 13-15, T 2 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Suicide isn't cowardly,

    I'll tell you what cowardly is. Treating people so bad that they want to end their lives. (I had a fight with my "friend" when she said, that suicide is cowardly. If she only knew.)
    Storyofhonor Storyofhonor 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    How can some people be

    so insensitive. Is it pride? Its all none sense to me. Hard to see him online & its so easy for him to just ignore. Maybe i'll make it easier for him.
    hopefaithlove84 hopefaithlove84 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 11

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    Tikkun. We are bound to a continued existence

    here on the Earth, in this mortal form subjected to various hurtful things which keep on happening to us in each incarnation until we are able to resolve them and join with the Light. They say actions speak louder than words. All we do speaks louder than words. We are able to...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    My boyfriend has now been ignoring me

    for 13 days. I saw him yesterday with his mates & he looked so happy without me. Maybe he's just better off without me. My sister has messaged him on Facebook & he's even ignoring her! I wish I knew where I stand with him. I want our relationship to work but, he messages other...
    Claricalle10 Claricalle10 22-25, F 2 Responses May 16

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    I also am in a Very Dark place in my life.

    Probably the DARKEST in 36 years. I have been in a mentally abusive realtionship for 3 years now. I just recently found out this past summer, that the man I am living with & the man I gave my heart too is a True too the Tee text book case SOCIOPATH. I am merely a shell of the...
    gutierrezgia7 gutierrezgia7 36-40, F Nov 30, 2014

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    The book Thirteen Reasons Why got me thinking

    way more on this. A rumour or a list can start a snowball of lies that can ruin one persons life. Think about what your doing people! You could be one of the reasons someone killed themselves. And not everybody is like Hannah who tells you if your a reason that person killed him...
    Angelfromhell17 Angelfromhell17 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Some people just don't think about you feelings

    of other people. They are just concerned about only their. There is nothing wrong being concern about own feelings. But hurting other people and knowing how it feels , is wrong.
    Somexyz Somexyz 26-30, M May 24

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    Why are there people

    who are too insensitive for the feelings of others?!..you show kindness but still they hurt you..you chose not to fight back and understand them but still they continue bullying you and blamed you for everything even if you didn't do anything to deserve that kind of treatment...
    shalei shalei 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    I don't have children

    and don't want virtual ones either . Wish people would stop messaging asking me if they can spank me. Wish people would realize that no two of us are alike and that way you joke with one person may not be ok to joke with me . I was mistreated as a child and am not gonna...
    elezanna elezanna 36-40, F Apr 2

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    Today I was in my history class

    and I sit behind this guy who's sometimes mean to me. Well today, I was sitting at my desk when he walked up, took the stuff off of my desk and sat it at another desk across the room and when I asked him why he did it, he said "I don't want you anywhere near me." That hurt me...
    KaleighAlena KaleighAlena 16-17, F 12 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    abcdefghisabelmnopqrst abcdefghisabelmnopqrst 26-30, F Mar 2

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    I wish some people could just keep their mouths

    under their control.“We have two ears and one mouth, so we should listen more than we say.” ― Zeno of Citium.“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” ― Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    To Me,i Did Nothing But To Her I Did Everything...maggie

                So i was at a pretty crowded taco bell yesterday and while i was standing there waiting for my food a homeless lady walked in,looking embarrassed with her head down,people were whispering and laughing.she ordered a steak soft taco(but didnt have enough) so...
    CraziiBeautiful CraziiBeautiful 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    It hurts to love someone.

    And not to be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
    toufie1 toufie1 22-25 1 Response Mar 24, 2014

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    Karma is real Think of how others feel,

    Karma is true Think about what you do, Karma will cause you pain Do you really want to do that again?
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2014

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    having lived a life trying

    so hard to make others happy I have realized how am badly hurt at this moment.and am hereby seated alone in an open park enjoying the breeze from nearby hills thinking its time I start afresh. I thank the EP community for being so supportive...
    mbithi mbithi 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 29, 2014

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    Sorry................

    ......... I just tried to talk again because i was talking previously. Again that thought prevailed me. But i felt bad and stopped. Sometimes, my mind try to test myself. But i always love to go on right path. I am very very much happy to see your words, my friend.......
    noblerain noblerain 31-35 Apr 11

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    Narcissists And Sociopaths

    I wrote this to a new friend last night and thought it was worth sharing. Narcissists and sociopaths abound on ep. It is a great hiding place for them. what bothers me is that those who are very direct and honest are often their target...they bully and manipulate and write nasty...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 16 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    People are caught up in their own lives,

    to worry about how they are affecting others... If they just took a minute and looked...really looked they would see it...all the hurt they have caused. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Because unfortunately.

    ..ignorance can kill. The thoughtless actions taken by those who are oblivious to feelings and pain...those who can't see the tears that explain hurt...dangerously suck life by an action... one simple thoughtless action.
    LeeOmar88 LeeOmar88 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I have recently discovered the act of ambient

    abuse (gaslighting). Before I knew this psychological abuse had a name, I knew I felt a certain way (usually crazy). I didn't understand why my reality felt so suffocated. Why I was thinking the things I was thinking. I began an extensive amount of research and discovered it was...
    ZmbKllr ZmbKllr 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    A person starts ignoring you.

    Then, start giving you silent treatment and occasionally rude replies. You are getting hurt and angry too. You also stop regular talks but remains courteous. You try a lot to make things good but no result. After a long time you initiate reconciliation. The other person cries...
    Somexyz Somexyz 26-30, M 5 Responses May 14

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