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I Wish People Would Tell Me Why They Were Addding Me

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    Strange...

    sometimes I get friend requests from strange people who have nothing in common with me, plus if you have like 100 or 200 friends in your list I probably won't add you because I don't want to be a number in somebody's list and I don't want my list to grow either to show that I am...
    Solitaire91 Solitaire91 22-25, M 15 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    Why Exactly?

    I get quite a few people adding me every week and I just want to know why... and how they found me as well. Some people who add me don't really talk to me... so I just wanted to now why they want me in their circle in the first place... :S
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 17, 2010

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    Um..

    Do you honestly expect me to add you to my circle just because you added me to yours? No, not happening. I'm not interested in being a number, someone's agony aunt, and so forth. What I do want are friends, true friends, kay?
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Sep 9, 2011

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    Tell Me

     So many people add me and I don't know why. I tried talking to them but it gets to be too much sometimes. Most the EP friends that I do have, I don't even know them. Oh well...
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Really, People

    What is it about me that made you click "Add to Circle"? I'd like to know what draws people in!
    fadingvioletdawn fadingvioletdawn 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    It's Awesome But...

     It is awesome when I get new random fans but I always wonder why. call it an ego boost or whatever but I really would like to know why you add me to your circle, I would love to know what I have done to earn a spot in your circle. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 12 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Why Oh Why

    I always get people adding me, and keep getting the "you have a new fan" email. But why? Do these people like my stories, experiences, or just like to stalk me?Ah the mysteries. At least they should introduce themselves! x
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Huh?

    I have had many people wanting to add me never having commented on my stories or contacting me in any way. I ask myself why in the world are they adding me as a friend if we've had no friendly contact whatsoever? Not adding you...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 6 Responses Mar 10, 2010

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    It Would Be Nice...but Its Not Going To Happen...

    It would be nice to know why people add me, but I know that is not going to happen, because all day, everyday people add me, who I have never had any contact with, but if they would read my profile would see that if we had no contact, don't add me, but hey, people on here do...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 9, 2012

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    Why Did You Add Me?.

    I only recently started adding people and for the most part I only add females, since I'm a female, and I'm not here to hook up. I only add only people after I've read their stories, comment on their stories and I feel a connection to them. I only accept requests from people...
    WifeTellsAll WifeTellsAll 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2010

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    This Is Creeping Me Out A Little!

    Im a newbe to EP' i only joined a couple of weeks ago if that? But there are some things that creep me out a little. I really like the random questions where you answer the craziest of stuff, and even ask a few wacky questions yourself. When i read some of the answers people have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    I Wish People Would Tell Me Why They Add Me

    I say why I add people it's because they have enough in common with me.  I won't add fans that have no stories or experiences.   I wish others would say why they add me.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Dec 27, 2011

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    Why?

    Why? Why? Why? Why? Why? So, you see, I want to know, 'why'? What did you read or see that made you decide to add me? What did I say, what did I do, what did you hear? =/ I get people who I have 0 experience matches with and they've become my fan, why? O_o I'd really...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 29 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    Tell Me Why?????

    Who are you? I never commented on your stories or blogs.........neither did you commented on mine. Why did you become a fan of me? Do you really want to be my friend.........or you are one of those people who likes to keep their circle HUGE?? I will not add you back...
    Aliva Aliva 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2010

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    Not Hot Under The Collar About It

    I just want to know from people who take me on as fan just what it is that we have in common. I want to know what brought me to their attention. I want to know what I did or said that they liked. Sometimes what prompts it is I made a comment on their story. I've made hundreds...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    It *would* Be Nice

    I think people add me for a number of reasons. One person seems to add everyone on EP. I think he wants to have the most friends of anyone. I seem to attract young people, and I take that to mean they like what I write. Either that or they are bait trying to trap pederasts or...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 26, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I wish people would write about their experiences instead of just keep adding experiences to their page .It is how people get to know each other and can make friends with others...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I don't have children and don't want virtual ones either . Wish people would stop messaging asking me if they can spank me. Wish people would realize that no two of us are alike...
    elezanna elezanna 36-40, F Apr 2

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    I gets on my damn nerves when people ask others what they think then go back and do what they want anyway I'm like do your on thing and stop askin
    caiseyi caiseyi 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Why are there so many old people here? First off who you calling old? And then you wonder why we call you kids! We the older EP users have put our time in the workaday world...
    oldfarmguy oldfarmguy 61-65, M 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I do it sometimes but it is like "you an idiot sometimes". But then there are these jerks who make fun of me. They take my stuff which I get back. They make fun of me about needing...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M Apr 12

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    Must Be Getting Old. I was always told ,when you started to sound like your dad be very worried .I am worried because I notice things I dont like in this world and worry if its...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M Apr 11

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    Must Be Getting Old. I was always told ,when you started to sound like your dad be very worried .I am worried because I notice things I dont like in this world and worry if its...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M Apr 15

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    Speaking of wishes make one its 12:00 in England
    ItsCalledLife ItsCalledLife 13-15, F Apr 7

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    Some do. They planned it. EP Link
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 11

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    Nice Thought I am afraid human nature stops this from ever being a reality which is such a pity as I believe most people are generally kind and loving etc unfortunately greed and...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    It's not easy living in the Spirit...I never thought I'd be disappointed again...but I am a quiet wanderer anyway...I don't expect to be understood anymore...I've given up that...
    EternalViolet EternalViolet 26-30, F Apr 15

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    That way i can see what we have in common
    katherina333 katherina333 22-25, F Apr 7

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    My fav quotes from Romeo and Juliet: :) * "But, soft! what light through yonder window breaks? It is the east, and Juliet is the sun. Arise, fair sun, and kill the envious moon...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F Mar 28

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    What kind of experiences? I've lived a lot of moments and have lots to choose from. Being new to this app is an experience. Feels odd.
    chatwizme chatwizme 61-65, F Apr 7

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    Sorry......................... I just tried to talk again because i was talking previously. Again that thought prevailed me. But i felt bad and stopped. Sometimes, my mind try to...
    noblerain noblerain 31-35 Apr 11

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    I would actually make me better if people would just let me be sometimes. I try my best not to be rude when others badger me about not being in a good mood but most of the time...
    foreverbeautifultoni foreverbeautifultoni 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    This World Needs Mending I have come to realise that this world is in great need of fixing ,and it will take more than a elastoplast to do this.What has happened to consideration...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M Apr 11

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    God gave me a different way of viewing life and knowledge of him, humanity, and his world that I wish others would see because it would save a lot of lives and bring world peace...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I also wish people were nicer this world is sad a heartless Atleast we have God
    unhappyperson707 unhappyperson707 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    ​So the other day I had ordered some breast forms because they were significantly on sale. I wasnt sure if they would help or hurt and just be a reminder that I dont have breasts...
    Napeti Napeti 18-21, T 1 Response Apr 10

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    I have attempted suicide before. It's never honestly bothered me much if people fall to pieces or if they move on with their lives. I really don't care either way because I won't...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    Why doesn't it have an experience saying ' I like to tell guys they are handsome ' Not like I need it Just for like anyone else Idk
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I wish people had signs saying "I'm a non-attentive idiot" the other day I was talking to someone and I was using words of twelve plus characters very often and he was like what...
    supergenius0814 supergenius0814 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    Sometimes I lay awake at night thinking if people would really even care. What if I just disappeared? Would anyone even look for me?
    Tsubaki16 Tsubaki16 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    I never had anyone telling me that he had feelings towards me. Needless to say, I also never have someone returning my feelings towards him.( I have only had a bit feelings...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I was talking with my lawyers secretary and she couldn't remember who I was until I pointed out when I met her. She was probably 42 years old kind of on the bad looking side and I...
    sandman234567 sandman234567 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    We visited home for the aged with my college batchmates and classmates because it's one of our itinerary during our reunion. When we arrived there, we gave food. I observed that...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 9