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I Wish People Would Tell Me Why They Were Addding Me

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    Huh?

    I have had many people wanting to add me never having commented on my stories or contacting me in any way. I ask myself why in the world are they adding me as a friend if we've had no friendly contact whatsoever? Not adding you...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 6 Responses Mar 10, 2010

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    Why Oh Why

    I always get people adding me, and keep getting the "you have a new fan" email. But why? Do these people like my stories, experiences, or just like to stalk me?Ah the mysteries. At least they should introduce themselves! x
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    It's Awesome But...

     It is awesome when I get new random fans but I always wonder why. call it an ego boost or whatever but I really would like to know why you add me to your circle, I would love to know what I have done to earn a spot in your circle. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 12 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Strange...

    sometimes I get friend requests from strange people who have nothing in common with me, plus if you have like 100 or 200 friends in your list I probably won't add you because I don't want to be a number in somebody's list and I don't want my list to grow either to show that I am...
    Freude91 Freude91 22-25, M 14 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    Really, People

    What is it about me that made you click "Add to Circle"? I'd like to know what draws people in!
    fadingvioletdawn fadingvioletdawn 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    Tell Me Why?????

    Who are you? I never commented on your stories or blogs.........neither did you commented on mine. Why did you become a fan of me? Do you really want to be my friend.........or you are one of those people who likes to keep their circle HUGE?? I will not add you back...
    Aliva Aliva 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2010

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    This Is Creeping Me Out A Little!

    Im a newbe to EP' i only joined a couple of weeks ago if that? But there are some things that creep me out a little. I really like the random questions where you answer the craziest of stuff, and even ask a few wacky questions yourself. When i read some of the answers people have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    It *would* Be Nice

    I think people add me for a number of reasons. One person seems to add everyone on EP. I think he wants to have the most friends of anyone. I seem to attract young people, and I take that to mean they like what I write. Either that or they are bait trying to trap pederasts or...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 26, 2010

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    Tell Me

     So many people add me and I don't know why. I tried talking to them but it gets to be too much sometimes. Most the EP friends that I do have, I don't even know them. Oh well...
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    It Would Be Nice...but Its Not Going To Happen...

    It would be nice to know why people add me, but I know that is not going to happen, because all day, everyday people add me, who I have never had any contact with, but if they would read my profile would see that if we had no contact, don't add me, but hey, people on here do...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 9, 2012

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    Why Exactly?

    I get quite a few people adding me every week and I just want to know why... and how they found me as well. Some people who add me don't really talk to me... so I just wanted to now why they want me in their circle in the first place... :S
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 17, 2010

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    I Wish People Would Tell Me Why They Add Me

    I say why I add people it's because they have enough in common with me.  I won't add fans that have no stories or experiences.   I wish others would say why they add me.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 66-70 Dec 27, 2011

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    Why Did You Add Me?.

    I only recently started adding people and for the most part I only add females, since I'm a female, and I'm not here to hook up. I only add only people after I've read their stories, comment on their stories and I feel a connection to them. I only accept requests from people...
    WifeTellsAll WifeTellsAll 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2010

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    Not Hot Under The Collar About It

    I just want to know from people who take me on as fan just what it is that we have in common. I want to know what brought me to their attention. I want to know what I did or said that they liked. Sometimes what prompts it is I made a comment on their story. I've made hundreds...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Everyone is going through their own struggles. we dont always know what is behind certain words or actions or their past experiences. Too many people are out for themselves.
    stargirl58 stargirl58 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    Releasing those of your past, releasing yourself- Instead of holding on to them in your thoughts and emotions, let them go by saying thank you (name the person) for the...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 9 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    When did stealing become legal? companies are literally stealing from you, companies you're not aware of...all your data and personal info, that stuff is more valuable then gold...
    DarkKnightRanger DarkKnightRanger 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    Yeah, it's like my ultimate wish. It probably won't happen though. Not unless something (bad?) happens to make him see the light. I can live with the way things are, as I have...
    UselessNobody UselessNobody 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Kindness 'Just being honest' are you really? Or is it just an opinion. As a friend I would like you to be honest, give me the facts, (a wide road is an opinion, a road that is 100...
    tony1411 tony1411 56-60, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am so sad. Mood swings now maybe, but i cannot deal. My life is a mess! I have been hit and had a controlling abusive father, grown up in dysfuntional family who i cannot turn...
    LibriArte LibriArte 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    God yes.. everyone has an opinion on everything that they must tell everyone about... usually wrong, irrelevant or just plain boring. How about a nice cup of shut the **** up? :)
    egbertnosh egbertnosh 51-55, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Last guy I dated told me in the first week how awesome I am, how much he likes my character, we had phonecalls that lasted up to four hours and told each other everything from...
    bryannon bryannon 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Exactly well said. I'm a slow thinker. My brain need energy lot to think and response to people due to brain damage of the accident in the past. i don't want to text or typing...
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    So a girl put that pandas are vegans. I corrected her, pandas eat 99% bamboo but they can and do eat meat if they find an easy prey. Basically they eat bamboo as it's easier than...
    Calvexz Calvexz 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This used to be my wish. Now I just don't waste my time on those kind of people. Problem solved.
    AlwaysHaveParis AlwaysHaveParis 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    We all know, or have known someone who will go about their life without the thought of others, and if it is for someone else than usually it is only for the purpose of getting...
    Bluetoxicity Bluetoxicity 18-21, F a week ago

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    I feel like some people judge me in a negative way once they find out that I am a girl who likes other girls. But my question is who are they to judge me if they don't know me that...
    rachelholland rachelholland 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    2/5/16 Today was one those days where I woke up and just couldn't get up I saw no point. The only reason I was able to get out of bed was the thought of coming to school and...
    DanyFlores18 DanyFlores18 18-21, M Feb 5

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    This is for the girls. Sweety if a guy ever tells you that you are not 'beautiful' or that you are 'ugly' can you do me a favor? Leave his ***, he doesn't deserve you, you should...
    emmacannon16 emmacannon16 13-15, F Feb 4

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    When someone has a story posted in their group list, it would make sense you could click on that story button and it would take you there but NO, it takes you to the persons...
    hoosierdaddy62 hoosierdaddy62 51-55, M Feb 4

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    What would you ENJOY putting in their MOUTH to keep them quiet ?
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014 41-45, M Feb 4

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    im actually lookin for something along the line of "i wish more people would write more of their experience stories" ..
    cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    Sincerity, with honesty, is essential I feel to all relationships. I might be naïve in my views to many, but...... Isn't life made better by people being sincere?
    Ducostrinity Ducostrinity 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    So you could tell where the jerks be at all the time like I just hate so many people but no one knows I feel that way I'm so quiet I should prob be on meds you kno?
    PreTeenSally PreTeenSally 13-15, F Jan 29

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    People are exhausting! It's like they say one thing and mean another. Or they want you to just know how they feel without actually telling you. If we could read minds it would be a...
    mzamberd mzamberd 36-40, F Jan 29

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    this might be slightly offensive ... I'm known by many people in person and also online (if you exclude this site) as a nice guy. One that doesn't judge a person for who they are...
    Ichki Ichki 22-25, M Jan 28

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    I wish my niece came with a I'm a back stabber, selfish label. Can't stand the *****.
    EMTgirl3778 EMTgirl3778 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    My wife would agree with you lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 27

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    Don't always be nice to me; endless compliments sound empty after a while. Don't constantly agree with what I say; it makes me feel alone because that's not a conversation. Don't...
    sophiebelle27 sophiebelle27 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WL0269xbykQ&list=RDWL0269xbykQ "Oh you're a lucky son Lucky son of a gun You went away You went away .. You went away but now you're back.." I...
    Angelofthesilence Angelofthesilence 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    This man I met in July '15 has basically built a friendship with me that lead to more in October (without commitment). Well I fell in love with him. This issue is, he is mysterious...
    melibear melibear 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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