I Wish People Would Tell Me Why They Were Addding Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 264 People

    It Would Be Nice...but Its Not Going To Happen...

    It would be nice to know why people add me, but I know that is not going to happen, because all day, everyday people add me, who I have never had any contact with, but if they would read my profile would see that if we had no contact, don't add me, but hey, people on here do...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 9, 2012

    Why Oh Why

    I always get people adding me, and keep getting the "you have a new fan" email. But why? Do these people like my stories, experiences, or just like to stalk me?Ah the mysteries. At least they should introduce themselves! x
    Mediocre Mediocre
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 24, 2010

    Really, People

    What is it about me that made you click "Add to Circle"? I'd like to know what draws people in!
    fadingvioletdawn fadingvioletdawn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2011

    Not Hot Under The Collar About It

    I just want to know from people who take me on as fan just what it is that we have in common. I want to know what brought me to their attention. I want to know what I did or said that they liked. Sometimes what prompts it is I made a comment on their story. I've made hundreds...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity
    51-55, M
    6 Responses Apr 1, 2010

    It *would* Be Nice

    I think people add me for a number of reasons. One person seems to add everyone on EP. I think he wants to have the most friends of anyone. I seem to attract young people, and I take that to mean they like what I write. Either that or they are bait trying to trap pederasts or...
    wundayatta wundayatta
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jul 26, 2010

    Why Exactly?

    I get quite a few people adding me every week and I just want to know why... and how they found me as well. Some people who add me don't really talk to me... so I just wanted to now why they want me in their circle in the first place... :S
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2010

    I Wish People Would Tell Me Why They Add Me

    I say why I add people it's because they have enough in common with me.  I won't add fans that have no stories or experiences.   I wish others would say why they add me.
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    66-70
    Dec 27, 2011

    It's Awesome But...

     It is awesome when I get new random fans but I always wonder why. call it an ego boost or whatever but I really would like to know why you add me to your circle, I would love to know what I have done to earn a spot in your circle. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood
    22-25, M
    12 Responses Jan 24, 2010

    But if you don't then be a royal ill mannered

    jack azz, and don't expect me to add your retarded (lacking intelligence, discernment, consideration,manners, decency) azz back :)
    Lunadelobos Lunadelobos
    41-45
    1 Response Mar 18

    I wish that first of all,

    I knew the intension of adding me to circles... and why add me especially if you haven't even had a conversation with me? If you think I'm attractive and want to add me then you could at least say hi... just sayin!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Mar 10

    Tell Me Why?????

    Who are you? I never commented on your stories or blogs.........neither did you commented on mine. Why did you become a fan of me? Do you really want to be my friend.........or you are one of those people who likes to keep their circle HUGE?? I will not add you back...
    Aliva Aliva
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2010

    Huh?

    I have had many people wanting to add me never having commented on my stories or contacting me in any way. I ask myself why in the world are they adding me as a friend if we've had no friendly contact whatsoever? Not adding you...
    neonshades neonshades
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Mar 10, 2010

    This Is Creeping Me Out A Little!

    Im a newbe to EP' i only joined a couple of weeks ago if that? But there are some things that creep me out a little. I really like the random questions where you answer the craziest of stuff, and even ask a few wacky questions yourself. When i read some of the answers people have...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 26, 2010

    Why Did You Add Me?.

    I only recently started adding people and for the most part I only add females, since I'm a female, and I'm not here to hook up. I only add only people after I've read their stories, comment on their stories and I feel a connection to them. I only accept requests from people...
    WifeTellsAll WifeTellsAll
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 24, 2010

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