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I Wish People Would Tell Me Why They Were Addding Me

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    It Would Be Nice...but Its Not Going To Happen...

    It would be nice to know why people add me, but I know that is not going to happen, because all day, everyday people add me, who I have never had any contact with, but if they would read my profile would see that if we had no contact, don't add me, but hey, people on here do...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 9, 2012

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    Um..

    Do you honestly expect me to add you to my circle just because you added me to yours? No, not happening. I'm not interested in being a number, someone's agony aunt, and so forth. What I do want are friends, true friends, kay?
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Sep 9, 2011

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    Tell Me

     So many people add me and I don't know why. I tried talking to them but it gets to be too much sometimes. Most the EP friends that I do have, I don't even know them. Oh well...
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Why Oh Why

    I always get people adding me, and keep getting the "you have a new fan" email. But why? Do these people like my stories, experiences, or just like to stalk me?Ah the mysteries. At least they should introduce themselves! x
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Not Hot Under The Collar About It

    I just want to know from people who take me on as fan just what it is that we have in common. I want to know what brought me to their attention. I want to know what I did or said that they liked. Sometimes what prompts it is I made a comment on their story. I've made hundreds...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Why Exactly?

    I get quite a few people adding me every week and I just want to know why... and how they found me as well. Some people who add me don't really talk to me... so I just wanted to now why they want me in their circle in the first place... :S
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 17, 2010

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    I Wish People Would Tell Me Why They Add Me

    I say why I add people it's because they have enough in common with me.ย  I won't add fans that have no stories or experiences.ย ย  I wish others would say why they add me.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Dec 27, 2011

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    It *would* Be Nice

    I think people add me for a number of reasons. One person seems to add everyone on EP. I think he wants to have the most friends of anyone. I seem to attract young people, and I take that to mean they like what I write. Either that or they are bait trying to trap pederasts or...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 26, 2010

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    Really, People

    What is it about me that made you click "Add to Circle"? I'd like to know what draws people in!
    fadingvioletdawn fadingvioletdawn 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2011

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    This Is Creeping Me Out A Little!

    Im a newbe to EP' i only joined a couple of weeks ago if that? But there are some things that creep me out a little. I really like the random questions where you answer the craziest of stuff, and even ask a few wacky questions yourself. When i read some of the answers people have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    It's Awesome But...

     It is awesome when I get new random fans but I always wonder why. call it an ego boost or whatever but I really would like to know why you add me to your circle, I would love to know what I have done to earn a spot in your circle. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 12 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Strange...

    sometimes I get friend requests from strange people who have nothing in common with me, plus if you have like 100 or 200 friends in your list I probably won't add you because I don't want to be a number in somebody's list and I don't want my list to grow either to show that I am...
    LoneDovahKiin LoneDovahKiin 22-25, M 15 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    Huh?

    I have had many people wanting to add me never having commented on my stories or contacting me in any way. I ask myself why in the world are they adding me as a friend if we've had no friendly contact whatsoever? Not adding you...
    neonshades neonshades 51-55, M 6 Responses Mar 10, 2010

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    Why?

    Why? Why? Why? Why? Why? So, you see, I want to know, 'why'? What did you read or see that made you decide to add me? What did I say, what did I do, what did you hear? =/ I get people who I have 0 experience matches with and they've become my fan, why? O_o I'd really...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 30 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    Why Did You Add Me?.

    I only recently started adding people and for the most part I only add females, since I'm a female, and I'm not here to hook up. I only add only people after I've read their stories, comment on their stories and I feel a connection to them. I only accept requests from people...
    WifeTellsAll WifeTellsAll 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2010

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    Tell Me Why?????

    Who are you? I never commented on your stories or blogs.........neither did you commented on mine. Why did you become a fan of me? Do you really want to be my friend.........or you are one of those people who likes to keep their circle HUGE?? I will not add you back...
    Aliva Aliva 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Happened to me a few days ago. So random chick adds me I say hi, they say hi and then I begin to try and start a chat but they don't seem to know how to message back anymore but...
    HeyItsJosh HeyItsJosh 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    I don't want to be infantile about it, but could you pretty please look at my photo and tell me if you think I'm beautiful?? Be honest. You don't need to baby me . . . .
    ronnkron ronnkron 22-25, F 19 Responses Nov 11

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    To my friends on EP, I'm about to delete my account. I am so sorry about this, you guys took me for granted, but after I wrote a story about me becoming straight and judgement came...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Nov 10

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    Did you know that Ebola doesn't just kill people ? The Ebola virus is accountable for whipping out 90% of the Western low land gorilla . These magnificent animals show the...
    jacqueline212 jacqueline212 16-17, F Nov 15

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    I think if people knew the whole truth about me and the skeletons in my closet they would probably hate me for real
    FrenzyElle FrenzyElle 22-25, F Oct 30

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    *5 47 year old guys named Jenny just added you*
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M Nov 10

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    You know that feeling when your crush likes your bestfriend? Yeah, that doesn't make me feel beautiful at all.
    AtlPunk1D AtlPunk1D 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    you can't understand the pain of hurting till you are being hurt ed. the realization of your misbehavior with others is itself the feeling of pain.
    kumar412 kumar412 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 31

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    Beauty๐ŸŒน is not something I can accomplish...messy bun and unstylish clothing.......It's called lazyness! Bye
    CantHelpThinking CantHelpThinking 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    She finally understood my message! And I'm so glad at what I said and very happy I told her off!!!๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„
    CantHelpThinking CantHelpThinking 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    I don't like throwing things away. I like the idea of recycling even though I wounder if it might be unnecessary or less important than other good causes. I wish someone would help...
    WarmGoldenHeart WarmGoldenHeart 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    I wish this as well, was laying down minding my own business then I get a message I open it and it says yeah hello it's amazing how after 8 days you have no friends, I'm like wow I...
    yeahis18 yeahis18 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I can't stand seeing people be disrespectful to someone. I don't understand why they feel the need to act like that.
    therealsydster therealsydster 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I wish they did so I wouldn't trust certain ones. So I would know that they are going to leave me and be so mean.
    bvbandmcr bvbandmcr 13-15, F Nov 9

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    I love the smell I love the phenomena I love how the air is so moist how it comes down light, and progressively gets heavy How it floods the very lands we walk on I wish it would...
    TheOnewhoneverwas TheOnewhoneverwas 18-21, M Oct 28

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    I wish God would kill me....
    godsgab828 godsgab828 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I'm 3 months pregnant. My boyfriend dumped me as soon as I told him. In the weeks that followed he went up and down emotionally.. sometimes nicer..often cruel. and always giving me...
    mollystar82 mollystar82 31-35, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I posted a positive comment to someone dealing with depression. I wrote that I am sure she will be ok. I missed in what she wrote she did not want to hear she would be ok. The...
    mslvr01 mslvr01 46-50, M 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Black men why do you always do this? Why must you have a comment for everything a woman is doing? I'm jogging minding my own business and twice two BLACK men felt the need to...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Oct 31

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    Well it happened again. I have been chatting for a few weeks with a nice young lady from Texas. Interesting chats, she has many pictures posted and she sent me one private...
    Martyboy22 Martyboy22 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 31

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    Nobody is kind to me so I wish that they would be nice to other people who are different.
    StormianaGraymane14 StormianaGraymane14 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 1

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    I've always wondered what the other Earth was like. I mean there's got to be another one. The galaxy is to large and powerful for there only to be one Earth. In my opinion, we all...
    Maya0989 Maya0989 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 1

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    Sometimes it hits me how truly alone I am. I really wanted to talk with someone about things that are going on, things that I actually care about, and there is no one to talk to. I...
    Em518 Em518 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 14

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    If I can only have one wish my wish would be for everyone to get along and see past stereotypes. This world is so wicked full of sick people.
    xlyricbelle xlyricbelle 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am currently angry... I've been talking to this guy and I thought he was different and he likes me I like him, but I have caught him out on a couple of lies and I told him, his...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    On the one hand, there is a way of being so anxious about physical pleasure, so afraid that you wonโ€™t make it, that you grab it too hard. That you just have to have that thing...
    Melancholiactic Melancholiactic 22-25, M 5 Responses Nov 1

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    they pretend to help but at your back they laughed , mock , tell stories about you.. they don't know what im going through, so don't judge me
    betteporter betteporter 31-35, F Nov 9

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    I don't think anyone would be too upset. I mean, everyone around me is constantly telling me I'm not good enough, so maybe they'd like it more if I were dead...
    therealsydster therealsydster 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Literally all people do is say mean stuff about each other, to each other, ect. Like, it would be such a better place if people could calm down and just be nice to each other. I...
    sxddest sxddest 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    seriously, if everyone tried to be nice to one person they met during their day i think the world would be a happier place. little steps :)
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    It would be nice but I don't see this ever happening. I will always smile and or nod to people. I will say hello and help anyone out. I enjoy random small talk with strangers
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Nov 2

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