I Wish Polygamy Was Legal

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    Looking For Respect, Kindness & Care?

    It all starts with friendship nothing more. We are a couple searching for lady who would like to be loved, cared for, respected and treated as an equal by a loving man and woman. Someone kind. caring and honest willing to be charished, not treated as maid or a sex toy. Someone...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 27, 2013

    Polygamy

    Having 4 sisters I've always been closer to the female sex and I have a few different women whom I could see me and my wife adding into our marriage; only if
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 26, 2012

    one of the things I'm most looking forward to

    is permanence and commitment. We may be able to commit in private ceremonies, but having real legal commitment to each other would be nice. I want his other wife to be assured of support for her and her children, should they come, and my husband to be assured that she will stick...
    Tallaverosa Tallaverosa
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 2

    Looking To Join A Family..

    I've been thinkIng about this for a couple of years. I am young,21,but had my daughter young and am wanting to have a big family to join and maybe have more babies. I would be in it for the beleif and family aspects .how do I go about doing this in Australia, I would love to her...
    Yollyolly Yollyolly
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 28, 2012

    FYI: Currently there is a case going

    before the US Supreme Court making all states obey the Constitution and recognize marriages from any other state. This should help polygamy when it becomes legal.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    Why Shouldn't Polygamy Be Legal?

    I feel there is so much more that we are able to grasp and learn, and yet we won't wander very far for fear of getting lost.  Polygamy is generally new to many people, although it has been around for over a hundred years.  There should be an ability to make our own...
    Happyface Happyface
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jun 15, 2008

    Not a lot lol and what a shame.

    it would be a huge battle to get it a accepted.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 30, 2015

    Hi, my current girlfriend

    and future wife are both madly in love and we're looking for another woman who'd be interested in coming into our family. We plan on having LOTS of children, and it'd be nice to have multiple women to breed. Message me for more details and don't be shy!!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 17, 2015

    Sexist Much?

    What about polyandry (where a woman has several husbands)?
    mistressmonique mistressmonique
    46-50, F
    13 Responses Jul 2, 2012

    Wish I Could Have More One Wife.

    I would love to have more than one wife and more than one child per wife and would love to go for long walks along the beach where I live with my wives and children. I would love to play on the beach with them all and would love to give more than one woman my love as their...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 30, 2013

    Looking For My Third Wife

    Good afternoon everyone, I'm currently looking to find a third wife. I'm 27, my wives are 25 and 22. Please text me so we can get to know each other on a personal level before making decisions. I'm Messianic not Mormon never was nor do I have family there. Christian born and...
    LionPride27 LionPride27
    26-30, M
    Aug 26, 2013

    If Only She Were Willing...

    Here's my issue.  Back in high school I had the biggest crush on Chris.  But I was too shy to say anything so he graduated not knowing that I had been secretly in love with him for 3 years.  We ran into each other a few years ago while I was running an after school...
    rosenatalie77 rosenatalie77
    31-35
    6 Responses Sep 22, 2008

    Not Natural

     It is not within the natural order of things for human beings to be able to be attracted to someone or something else with exclusion of all else within that type.  Why deny our natural instincts and force our mind and bodies to respond to only one item of many.  ...
    cassidyrose cassidyrose
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Apr 11, 2008

    Not Fair.

    The idea of polygomy is quite new to me but my wife has been thinking about it for quite some time. She has built a relationship with a woman she wishes to make her sisterwife. I have gotten to know her and believe she is totally right in her choice. why is it legal for gays...
    jodleacol jodleacol
    36-40
    6 Responses May 27, 2012

    Looking 4 Bi Poly Friends

    well my name i gabby i have a husband and girlfriend we share our love we have 2 childen both 1 and im currently looking four a friend to talk to its hard to talk to none polys the just dont understand much i love my life im funny good to talk to i dont juge at all im out going i...
    Lovemimi Lovemimi
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2012

    And That It Was Accepted

    Specifically, my wife and i have a very close friend who is female - she is such a close friend, and we do so much together (and she sometimes lives with us for long periods), that at least two people in completely separate instances have said that it's like she is married to us...
    JustmeinSeattle JustmeinSeattle
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

    I WISH POLYGAMY WAS LEGAL SO ME MY BF AND OUR

    GF COULD BE HAPPY TOGETHER WITHOUT ANY ISSUES
    MIMIEMOUSE MIMIEMOUSE
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

    Seriously Looking For Poly Sister Wife(S) Up To 3.

    I am seriously looking to start a poly family. Want a sister wife who is kind, caring, loving, sweet natured, affectionate. a good mother as well. Any serious lady who is interested just write me. Thanks.
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112
    41-45, M
    Jun 18, 2013

    I Don't Have A Problem With It

    I see nothing wrong with polygamy, as long as all parties are of age, willing, and consenting. What I have a problem with is very very young girls being forced into polygamist marriages with elderly men, simply because they are powerful in the Mormon community.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Mar 6, 2011

    I love one person. I cannot speak

    for people that love multiple people. Who am I to tell you who you can and cannot love? I wish that this was legal and any secular problems that could arise (taxes, health insurance...so on) could be figured out. These people are families, not criminals!
    VerbingNoun VerbingNoun
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2014

    Magazine

    Hi guys, I came across this group and after reading some of your stories, I am intrigued! It is so refreshing to hear about happy relationships that work really well! I am a feature writer in the UK and write for a number of women's magazines and I'm always looking for...
    littlestar89 littlestar89
    22-25, F
    Oct 30, 2013

    A Tale Of Two Cities.

    Dec 28. 2011 Today I was just really busy, I found myself running around for our youngest daughter which is 17.5, and my niece 30, and It hit me it is so easy to fall back into the transportor and I really have to keep myself grounded and tell myself that this is what cause a rip...
    diva46 diva46
    46-50, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2011

    Or Better Yet Not Illegal

    I deeply and sincerely wish polygamy was legal in the United States. Or better yet, not illegal. I figure it's none of the government's business who I am or am not married to, how many people I'm married to and for what reasons. However, since marriage has indeed been taken over...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 31, 2013

    Loving More, Our Reasoning For Wanting A Polyfidelitous Family

    This is a portion of an article from Psychology Today Group Marriage and the Future of the Family By Deborah Anapol, Ph.D. on March 22, 2012 - 9:13pm Group marriages  (polyfidelity) can mean a higher standard of living while consuming fewer resources. Intimate partners are...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 30, 2013

    Poly, Divorced But Oh So Happy

    My ex hubby and I were married for 4 years when we decided to open our marriage. Each found a special someone and yet stayed happily married for another 2 years, even giving birth to a little girl. Yet one morning I woke up and realized while I loved my husband I was no longer in...
    laughitout laughitout
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 21, 2012

    Magazine Article

    Hi guys, I came across this group and after reading some of your stories, I am intrigued! It is so refreshing to hear about happy relationships that work really well! I am a feature writer in the UK and write for a number of women's magazines and I'm always looking for...
    littlestar89 littlestar89
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 7, 2013

    Interracial Black Couple Seeking Second Wife For Heterosexual Christian Polygamy

    Hello, my name is Neka. Hopefully if you are viewing this, we have similar interest! A little bit about myself- I'm an all natural, 20 year old, passionate, happily married African American woman. This blog is not only to introduce myself but also to let people who are interested...
    divinepolycouple divinepolycouple
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2011

    Magazine

    Hi guys,I came across this group and after reading some of your stories, I am intrigued!I am a feature writer in the UK and write for a number of women's magazines. I'm always looking for interesting stories to feature in magazines.I was wondering if any of you would be...
    littlestar100 littlestar100
    22-25
    1 Response May 7, 2012

    I wish I could have multiple boyfriends.

    I just find everyone so interesting and exciting. I have commitment issues, so settling for just one person terrifies me. It just wouldn't be fair to expect a man to commit to me if I'm not ready to commit to just him.
    BastilleBlue BastilleBlue
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    People and Their Laws

    After watching "BigLove" i half seriously asked my hubby to take a second wife... he said "No". but only cuz he didn't want more kids... LMAO! i don't mind sharing with the right woman... it would give me more free time! i see nothing wrong with it as long as...
    justuncertain justuncertain
    18-21
    9 Responses Apr 17, 2009

    Married Couple Looking For A Sister Wife

    We are both a very open minded bi couple looking for a sister wiffe to live with us primarily to have children by making a baby or if she has young children already because we have difficulties having a baby together . But I will love you and respect you just like my wiffe We...
    couplexopen couplexopen
    26-30
    Sep 2, 2012

    I'm looking for more poly triads

    and poly families to connect with and share experiences with. we've been a triad for almost six months and we've only been able to come out to two seperate people, the rest of our families will judge and alienate. Especially because we have two children.
    RowmanTriad RowmanTriad
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 3

    Yes

    I think that Polygamy should be legal as long as they are Adults that are over the age of 18 and are willing to go into this lifestyle.. I do not believe in forcing young girl into the lifestyle..
    KathlynMichelle KathlynMichelle
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

    Looking For a Secpnd Wife

    And since we are truly looking for a second wife we certainly wish polygamy was legal. It would eliminate the need for legal contracts to protect the interests of all in the event of illness, death, etc.
    polygyny4me polygyny4me
    46-50, M
    12 Responses Mar 19, 2008

    For Women.

    In all these polygamous cultures, it is always the men with a bunch of wives.  What would be really cool would be women getting more than one husband.  Lol! J/K!
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 30, 2009

    Wondering

    I am very intrigued by this subject and would like a real discussion with someone knowledgeable.
    wasntsure wasntsure
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 24, 2013

    Another good reason to consider polygamy!

    Our husbands are so happy and well taken care of- that there is no chance of infidelity. Therefore no chance of spreading horrible diseases. We are monogamous and wouldn't dream of having sex outside of our marriage. We have the best hubby❤️ Emily and Jen- polyladies6
    Polyladies6 Polyladies6
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    Setting About Making This Legal In America...

    I know it's difficult and I would ask any one to put their families on the line but if you are truly interested in trying to change the laws in America regarding Polygamy we have to work at it. It is not right that families have to live a lie and wives have to live in secret. So...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2012

    I Want Five Wives

    and yes - I am a woman!!!  I am having a hard time - full time mom, full time working mom, activities director, hostess, maid, chef .... If I could have 5 wives ... not sexual ... just to help with the day to day activities and then I could enjoy a...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    28 Responses May 23, 2009

    " Group Marriage "

    Its a new concept-Ibelieve. That instead of talking of legalising polygamy ( which will be atrocity towards femalekind) I suggest that in place of "1 bride marrying 1 groom" think about a wedding of 2 brds & 2 brdgrms !! that way each member has lots of combinations...
    tushhaar tushhaar
    36-40
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2009

    Married Couple Looking For A Sister Wife

    We are both a very open minded bi couple looking for a sister wiffe to live with us primarily to have children by making a baby or if she has young children already because we have difficulties having a baby together . But I will love you and respect you just like my wiffe We...
    couplexopen couplexopen
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 2, 2012

    Someday

    The type of life I wish to live someday, kids, teacher, foster or adopt, I may not live publically without polygamy being legal. If my husband and I fall in love with someone we will have to keep our true family identity quiet.  This will be hard on those we tell, our kids...
    hypiechild hypiechild
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Apr 5, 2008

    Let People Do What They Want

    If it's consensual, why not? Just like the gay marriage issue. I don't believe governments should be interfering in people's private lives. One keeps me busy enough though.
    gr8scrtlvr gr8scrtlvr
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 27, 2012

    No Wrong Way To Love

    I met a man that  i fell totally in love with about 2 an a half  years ago,when i found out he was cheating on me i felt devestated at first but then when i got to know the other girl, i found out what a wonderful person she was an that she loved him every bit as much as i did...
    Elcajon Elcajon
    26-30
    5 Responses Dec 6, 2011
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