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I Wish Someone Thought I Was Their Everything

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    Wish Someone Thought I Was Their Everything

    Due to my BPD it's very easy for me to care about someone a great deal in a very short amount of time, which is kind of nice I guess but the bad part of it is that other people take a lot longer because its more complicated to them. basically my mind works like this "Oh hey we...
    imnotcreative2 imnotcreative2 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    I Wish.......

    I want to be someone’s everything…. Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I know I’m being greedy, but I want to experience an all encompassing love, one that I can feel...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response May 21, 2012

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    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F Dec 5, 2014

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    I wouldn't. After truly loving,

    I wouldn't want my love to make me his everything. I would want him to be independent from me so that if our time should come to an end, he would better cope with living without me and isn't left with the feeling of "nothing". Be happy, my dear.
    PaxTerra PaxTerra 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    Ignored And Hurt

    i thought i found a guy who loved me. now when i cry he walks away from me. he criticises me and tells me im the one that has the problem. he acts like he has no emotions. i feel so sad. i try so hard 2 b gud 2 him. i dont know wat 2 do. i love him
    Tk03 Tk03 26-30, F 7 Responses May 19, 2010

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    Only For You...

    When I think of what I want to give you and what I want to be to you the following come to mind: All things, the universe, the whole complex, the whole, the lot, all that, every little thing, the whole kit and caboodle; lock, stock and barrel; the whole bit, the whole bunch, the...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    If Dreams Were To Come True

    I come from a broken home...It took me quite some time to get over the feelings of being the unwanted child, the burden to my parents, the unimportant one. The only thing that kept me alive was the dream that one day I will have my own family, a family that needs me, a family...
    hanna2b hanna2b 26-30, F Aug 6, 2010

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    I Am Working On Just That

    I am the first call he makes when he awakes in the morning. I am always there for him when he needs an ear a hug or just wants to hang out. I am the one he tells all his hopes and dreams to and helps to solve his problems too. There is a mutual respect between us that we can tell...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2008

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    That's A Sweet Idea

    Must be a nice feeling. :)
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    The Fairy Tale

    i too wish i felt like i was someone's everything. just once in my life i would like to feel i came first, that i was the most important person in there life. i am 48 years old i have never felt first in anything or came first in any ones life. never, never, never. i know...
    LOSTNLIFE13 LOSTNLIFE13 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    If Only

    I don't think I have ever been anybody's everything.  I have friends who are treasured by their family and friends but I have never felt that way.  I have sometimes thought I was, only to hear an unpleasant comment realizing that I am simply tolerated.  Even when I was getting...
    TheMedicalSecretary TheMedicalSecretary 46-50 4 Responses Jan 26, 2011

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    I'm Built to Love, Protect and Nuture

    People see me as dependent due to my disabilities, I hate that so much.  I want to be the reason for someone beginning to love and trust themselves. I want them to adore Me and I'll adore them right back. In fact, I started this group: "I Want To Be Worshipped and...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 2 Responses May 3, 2008

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    I'm In A Relationship But...

    You're in my every thought, you appear in my dreams... You're all I think about most of the time, my world doesn't revolve around you but sometimes it might as well. You are my world. I love you. BUT and this is a big but, hence the capitals... you say your world doesn't revolve...
    S33menow S33menow 16-17, F 1 Response May 16, 2011

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    Well.

    Some things don't happen. I doubt this will, and I have reasons to believe so. I hardly ever think about it and I feel like I could live forever without it and never miss it a bit. But once every blue moon, I hear a song, read something, or see something on tv, and it gets me a...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Maybe Someday It Will Come True

    To be somebody's everything, how wonderful that feeling would be to be wanted. I'm not talking about a friend or a family member, but in a romantic sense. I want to be some guy's everything and in return he is mine. To feel wanted is what I want. To hear the words "I love you...
    Lady808 Lady808 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2012

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4, 2014

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    ...

    I wish I was someone's everything. I want someone who would answer his phone when I call or at least call me back; who I would be so comfortable with that we can sit together and not feel we're in an awkward place; to hold me at night; to trust with my life; to not use my...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F Oct 13, 2008

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    Love

    I have loved someone this much, she was my everything. I was not hers. I want to know what that feels like, to have someone care about me more than they care about themselves. I almost cry thinking about it, it is so beautiful. I feel... so alone in love... I gave my...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    I Wish I Mattered Most to Just One Man.

    I want the kind of love that you read about in fairy tales. The kind where the man loves me more than life. Will easily die for me. The kind of romantic love, where I come first. That he doesn't put me last after he's got me, that he continues to love me, cherish me, and I would...
    MourningStorm MourningStorm 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 6, 2008

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    I Do But Maybe Not....

    The whole idea of being 'everything' to someone sounds very romantic. To know that a man could be holding on to me everywhere he goes and really needs me is something special that I don't think I've ever really experienced, nor will I in this lifetime. However it is impossible...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    But You Can't Make It Happen If It's Not Natural

    I have been married for the second time for nearly 5 years. Sadly, this marriage will also end in divorce. I should have seen before we married that he does not value me. Call me a silly, lovesick fool, but I want a man who holds me in high regard and who loves me so much he...
    Gaylez Gaylez 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    EmojiGirl EmojiGirl 18-21, F Dec 25, 2014

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    A Dream

    I can only ever dream of being that special to someone ....
    Whitecloud Whitecloud 36-40, F 4 Responses May 27, 2008

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    I'd Like To Know

    I'd like to know what that feels like. It must be nice. I know somebody is MY everything, and I'm guessing that it must be nice to know someone's always thinking about you. Of course, it would be even BETTER if the person who thought I was THEIR everything was the same person who...
    NoWayToGoOn NoWayToGoOn 18-21, M Jun 3, 2011

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    What Most Men Think Of Me

    My husband thinks of me as his property and the most of the other men out there think of me as just a milf, flavor of the week, fwb, a fantasy and nothing more or just a friend. I can only hope that one day someone will think of me as their everything.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2011

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    A Lil Like

    I'd take it if someone thought I was their anything, I'd take that. I'd like someone to care about my opinion or want me around or just enjoy doing things with me as much as I would with them
    beloe beloe 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 7, 2012

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    Well, Not Exactly

    I wish that someone wanted me to be a part of their everything. Someone that believes that even the simple things in life are better when done together. Someone that when they go about their day and are making plans think to include me. Someone that actually is comfortable...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 28 Responses May 19, 2010

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    Love Me As Me..

    .."I Wish Someone Thought I Was Their Everything".. .. It hurts to find out that no one seemed to love you.. .. cause you just seemed to be another faceless human in the crowd.. and none could notice you without your shining jewelry, it sparks in every move you make...
    mossgreen81 mossgreen81 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2009

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    Will He Ever?

    I met a wonderful man almost a year ago. after being single for ten years. I had my heart broken really badly when I was 19, and hadn't dated or slept with any man since then. but then I met him, we were both lonely, he had just come home from living in Europe for 5 years, and...
    Lithriel Lithriel 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    Sick. And. Tired.

    I want us to be together whenever we possibly can, or on each others minds whenever we can't. Every time you see me, I want you to get butterflies in your stomach, and I want you to smile so bright, and be happy to see me. I want shivers to run down your spine whenever you hear...
    princesschanel211 princesschanel211 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

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    Unequal Love

    Before we started dating, my boyfriend fell in love with me & I just had a crush on him.  I didn't even think I was capable of really having feelings towards someone because I never really have before beyond very minimal, gone-in-a-flash crushes.  Very quickly, & I mean very...
    Chellefromhell Chellefromhell 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    It Would Be Nice.

    To be wanted. Needed. A part of someone's life. But right now I feel disposable. I feel like I'm not useful to the world in any way. What am I doing that is helping someone? Nothing. I'm just taking up space. "if I fell off the face of the earth, no one would notice" How...
    Yoru Yoru 18-21 5 Responses Aug 14, 2011

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