I Wish That He Would Let Me In

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 335 People

    Pushing Me Away

    I have been with my husband for five years, when something upsets him he keeps it all inside and stops talking to me. The fact that he wont open up to me is pushing me further and further away. This is ruining our marriage. I feel like I am always left in the dark.
    mum22 mum22
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 5, 2007

    He's Obstinately Blind to Everything..

    i have this special friend.. and i really like him.  sigh.  i wish some force would intervene and give him a nudge.. he's sometimes difficult, impossible, moody and preoccupied.  but i can't quite believe he is as cold as he claims. 
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Aug 13, 2007


    I wish that the guy I am in love with would open up more and be sensitive and loving instead of the woman-bashing hardass he is. :(
    aka746 aka746
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2007

    What's the Damned Deal Anyway?!

    Sometimes he wont keep his hands off me. Other times, he wants nothing to do with me in ANY way (so it seems anyways).
    missunderstood missunderstood
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Oct 28, 2006

    He Did and Now I Have a Family...

    He did and now i have a family and a life long bestfriend...
    luvbugg77 luvbugg77
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 2, 2007

    Don't Know What to Do Anymore

    I really fell like I cannot do this anymore. Does he realize what he is doing and saying? I really wonder, as the kids and I have had times in the last few months, where he will get explosively angry, yell,cuss the whole 9 yards. The things he says are so hurtful. Then later when...
    strawberry1969 strawberry1969
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2007

    Just Listen!

    I have been seeing the same man for more than a year and I do love him. However, I find myself wanting more.  He says that he does not want a girlfriend but he our "relationship" is that of people who are seeking commitment.  He tells me to talk to him but...
    Yoruichi Yoruichi
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 12, 2007

    My Husband Is Very Private Wit...

    My husband is very private with his feelings and I can't seem to get intimate with him.  tried for 20 years.
    girligirl girligirl
    46-50, F
    3 Responses May 27, 2007

    Too Independent

    My boyfriend is so independent that he doesn't everything by himself.  He doesn't want me to help, and won't let me support him.  He doesn't tell me what he's feeling, because he doesn't want to rely on me.  It's really hard on me to feel so isolated.
    StephKajO StephKajO
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2007

    Not Gonna Happen

    I thought he was starting to let me in...I thought he liked me...he's never going to let me in. There's somethign about me that he just doesn't like...and not just him, pretty much all of the guys that I like. Luckily, the guy that I'm in love with now likes someone else. I...
    tqoftu tqoftu
    22-25, F
    Dec 17, 2007

    He's Here Yet So Far Away....

    I rally don't know what to even say when I see him. he makes it difficult to talk to him. There are some things that he likes to tell me but when it somes down to it, he becomes different and doesn't want to go through with it. i messes with my head. All I want ti do is show him...
    artprotege1 artprotege1
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 29, 2007

    I Love Him...but He Can't Let Me In!

    I love my ex-bf.  We broke up because he can't let me in, really.  He shares things with me that he says he has never told anyone else before...but he still can't tell me everything important.  To the point where he pushes us apart.  He admits it and wants to...
    Bella724 Bella724
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 20, 2007

    I Really Don't Understand It.....

    I just want to understand...how can a man that started off our relationship by "doing the horizontal mambo" 3 times in the course of an hour....truly!!....and introduced me to the world of "the lifestyle".....suddenly after just a few months after our...
    barneyg barneyg
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2007

    Let Me In My Love.

    Only if my love will let me in,I will be so happy,and all the good things that comes with it.
    angelwithoutwings angelwithoutwings
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 12, 2011


    I met the most amazing man a little while back and we started a relationship but it ended after two weeks. This was because he said that he was still in love with his ex, which i understand, however that was two weeks ago and since then things have returned to how they...
    Vixinpain Vixinpain
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 27, 2007

    I Used To, But I Just Don'...

    I used to, but I just don't care that much anymore.
    silvermystics silvermystics
    51-55, F
    May 27, 2007

    Iknew But Thought That I Could Help

    My husband and I have been together for 8 years. I knewearly on he was not very emotional for an assortment of reasons. I always thought I could help him tear down his walls. After so many years of our own drama there are more walls then ever up. Our marriage is faltering...
    Psychartica Psychartica
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2007

    My Husband & The Closed Door.....

    I wish that he would let me in...we've been married for 12 years and he still reserves part of himself.  He won't talk to me when he needs to talk to someone the most.  He is bipolar and he gets depressed and angry and he won't let me in.  He shuts me out.  He...
    spnurse spnurse
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jan 3, 2007

    But He Won't

    He won't even talk to me, let alone let me in his heart, and tell me what he is thinking. I wish I knew more about him. He knows everything about me, but once again, I know nothing about him. It really sucks. I want to be let in, and know him.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 24, 2008

    His Wings

    That's what he called me. He was my evil angel and I was his wings. Then he left me tattered and torn when he went back to trash he calls a girl friend. He has a child with her I understand that, but I know of horrible things that this girl has done to him and I have seen the...
    MirandaJMaddox MirandaJMaddox
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2007

    How Can I...

    move on when I'm still in love with you?
    LittleBeauSheepOliveEwe LittleBeauSheepOliveEwe
    5 Responses Dec 10, 2011

    Who Would Let Me In? ...

    Who would let me in? Your Dad? j/k.. dunno. Nope! Haha!
    collegeboi collegeboi
    16-17, M
    Dec 30, 2006

    Huh?  Do I Wish That Who ...

    Huh?  Do I wish that who would let me in???
    Wombles Wombles
    36-40, F
    Dec 30, 2006

    Let Me Where Exactly?? ...

    Let me where exactly?? His back door? No thanks. His front door? Already in. His mind? .......been there, not sure I wanna go back!!!
    Luci Luci
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2007

    Is This Your Wall, Or Mine?

    (I originally posted this as a comment to someone else but felt the need to expound on it, as I had a great many feelings welling to the surface.)  I feel/ felt the same way with one particular person in my life. It was weird because although I felt more like myself than I...
    Enigma Enigma
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2008

    Let Me In WherE?...

    Let me in wherE?
    CorderGurl09 CorderGurl09
    16-17, F
    Dec 30, 2006

    If 'He' Is God Then I&...

    If 'He' is God then I'd much rather he let me know he was there than left me wondering.
    CrystalCat CrystalCat
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2006

    Through the Window

    If everything happens for a reason, then there's a reason why our windows face each other. So that whenever I feel or you feel like seeing one another , all we gotta do is look.  There's a reason why we have so many things in common. There's a reason...
    LaBella06 LaBella06
    18-21, F
    Nov 11, 2007

    Come On Man...

    We've been close for years now, and you just never let me in. You never want to talk about what is bothering you, and you never want to talk about what's bothering me. I love you tho=] <youngloverules>
    musared musared
    16-17, F
    Aug 30, 2009

    Yeah but it is tooo late for that one.  So I guess i need to find something new
    candiestore1 candiestore1
    31-35, F
    Apr 1, 2007
    LittleBeauSheepOliveEwe LittleBeauSheepOliveEwe
    Dec 22, 2011

    I'm Pretty Sure He Already...

    I'm pretty sure he already has.
    LadyOfTheRaven LadyOfTheRaven
    18-21, F
    Dec 29, 2006

    I Use To....

       ~ That was my biggest wish with ex. All I wanted was him to acknowledge the problems & let me in so we could work on them together. I guess maybe he didn't love me enough to want to try. It was hard being in a relationship with him when he wouldn't tell me...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 27, 2009

    Open Your Doors! I Miss You.

    We had it all, our relationship was sweet and caring, open and loving, comunication was always there, I always knew what hurt him, he always told me. Now he shuts me out. I dont know him. I earn for him to come back and be the same. The one I fell in love with. The one I am still...
    pumkinhead2004 pumkinhead2004
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2007

    Today I see him... I see

    who he is... I see who he's become... I see his potential... I see his drive... Walls can come down in a moment... They are put there to protect your heart... If you have a wall in front of you... How do I ever even get close to holding it inside my soul... I've watched the...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 23, 2015

    We Were So Close...

    But then something just changed, and we broke up... Now, he barely talks to me... He was the one that suggested we should be friends. He said I'd become his best friend, but not his girlfriend. Yet he ignores me. I still love him. But he won't let me come any closer... :'(
    deleted deleted
    Nov 12, 2007

    My Muse

    When we first met.... we were always together, always spending the night talking and laughing. He told me so much about his life and how he was sad for the things in his life...i listened and really didnt see same things up front at first. I remember in May 2009 to August 2009 he...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 4, 2010

    Am I Your Wife Or Roomate

    I have known my husband since 1998. Part of my attraction to him was we could talk about any and everything, including sex. We have had a up and down  in our relationship over the years. May,07 we just got married. Things have progressively gotton worse. He does not talk...
    strawberry1969 strawberry1969
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Sep 30, 2007

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