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I Wish That He Would Let Me In

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 335 People

    He's Here Yet So Far Away....

    I rally don't know what to even say when I see him. he makes it difficult to talk to him. There are some things that he likes to tell me but when it somes down to it, he becomes different and doesn't want to go through with it. i messes with my head. All I want ti do is show him...
    artprotege1 artprotege1 16-18, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2007

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    Not Gonna Happen

    I thought he was starting to let me in...I thought he liked me...he's never going to let me in. There's somethign about me that he just doesn't like...and not just him, pretty much all of the guys that I like. Luckily, the guy that I'm in love with now likes someone else. I...
    tqoftu tqoftu 22-25, F Dec 17, 2007

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    I'm Getting There

    My husband never used to let me in, never ever tell me how he's feeling - recently he has started too, I think him being out in Afghanistan has made him grow up a little, or a lot, and realise what he needs to do on his part to make this work. I'm waiting to see how things are...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 6, 2008

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    My Husband Is Very Private Wit...

    My husband is very private with his feelings and I can't seem to get intimate with him.  tried for 20 years.
    girligirl girligirl 46-50, F 3 Responses May 27, 2007

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    My Muse

    When we first met.... we were always together, always spending the night talking and laughing. He told me so much about his life and how he was sad for the things in his life...i listened and really didnt see same things up front at first. I remember in May 2009 to August 2009 he...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2010

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    Who Would Let Me In? ...

    Who would let me in? Your Dad? j/k.. dunno. Nope! Haha!
    collegeboi collegeboi 16-18, M Dec 30, 2006

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    I Love Him...but He Can't Let Me In!

    I love my ex-bf.  We broke up because he can't let me in, really.  He shares things with me that he says he has never told anyone else before...but he still can't tell me everything important.  To the point where he pushes us apart.  He admits it and wants to...
    Bella724 Bella724 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2007

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    Huh?  Do I Wish That Who ...

    Huh?  Do I wish that who would let me in???
    Wombles Wombles 36-40, F Dec 30, 2006

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    But He Won't

    He won't even talk to me, let alone let me in his heart, and tell me what he is thinking. I wish I knew more about him. He knows everything about me, but once again, I know nothing about him. It really sucks. I want to be let in, and know him.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    Let Me Where Exactly?? ...

    Let me where exactly?? His back door? No thanks. His front door? Already in. His mind? .......been there, not sure I wanna go back!!!
    Luci Luci 21-25, F 2 Responses May 21, 2007

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    He's Obstinately Blind to Everything..

    i have this special friend.. and i really like him.  sigh.  i wish some force would intervene and give him a nudge.. he's sometimes difficult, impossible, moody and preoccupied.  but i can't quite believe he is as cold as he claims. 
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    My Husband & The Closed Door.....

    I wish that he would let me in...we've been married for 12 years and he still reserves part of himself.  He won't talk to me when he needs to talk to someone the most.  He is bipolar and he gets depressed and angry and he won't let me in.  He shuts me out.  He...
    spnurse spnurse 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 3, 2007

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    If 'He' Is God Then I&...

    If 'He' is God then I'd much rather he let me know he was there than left me wondering.
    CrystalCat CrystalCat 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2006

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    His Wings

    That's what he called me. He was my evil angel and I was his wings. Then he left me tattered and torn when he went back to trash he calls a girl friend. He has a child with her I understand that, but I know of horrible things that this girl has done to him and I have seen the...
    MirandaJMaddox MirandaJMaddox 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2007

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    He Did and Now I Have a Family...

    He did and now i have a family and a life long bestfriend...
    luvbugg77 luvbugg77 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 2, 2007

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    Help!

    I met the most amazing man a little while back and we started a relationship but it ended after two weeks. This was because he said that he was still in love with his ex, which i understand, however that was two weeks ago and since then things have returned to how they...
    Vixinpain Vixinpain 21-25, F 3 Responses May 27, 2007

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    I Really Don't Understand It.....

    I just want to understand...how can a man that started off our relationship by "doing the horizontal mambo" 3 times in the course of an hour....truly!!....and introduced me to the world of "the lifestyle".....suddenly after just a few months after our...
    barneyg barneyg 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2007

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    Let Me In WherE?...

    Let me in wherE?
    CorderGurl09 CorderGurl09 16-18, F Dec 30, 2006

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    Just Listen!

    I have been seeing the same man for more than a year and I do love him. However, I find myself wanting more.  He says that he does not want a girlfriend but he our "relationship" is that of people who are seeking commitment.  He tells me to talk to him but...
    Yoruichi Yoruichi 21-25, F 2 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    I'm Pretty Sure He Already...

    I'm pretty sure he already has.
    LadyOfTheRaven LadyOfTheRaven 19-21, F Dec 29, 2006

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    Come On Man...

    We've been close for years now, and you just never let me in. You never want to talk about what is bothering you, and you never want to talk about what's bothering me. I love you tho=] <youngloverules>
    musared musared 16-17, F Aug 30, 2009

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    I Use To....

       ~ That was my biggest wish with ex. All I wanted was him to acknowledge the problems & let me in so we could work on them together. I guess maybe he didn't love me enough to want to try. It was hard being in a relationship with him when he wouldn't tell me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 27, 2009

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    Pushing Me Away

    I have been with my husband for five years, when something upsets him he keeps it all inside and stops talking to me. The fact that he wont open up to me is pushing me further and further away. This is ruining our marriage. I feel like I am always left in the dark.
    mum22 mum22 21-25, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2007

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    Iknew But Thought That I Could Help

    My husband and I have been together for 8 years. I knewearly on he was not very emotional for an assortment of reasons. I always thought I could help him tear down his walls. After so many years of our own drama there are more walls then ever up. Our marriage is faltering...
    Psychartica Psychartica 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2007

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    Don't Know What to Do Anymore

    I really fell like I cannot do this anymore. Does he realize what he is doing and saying? I really wonder, as the kids and I have had times in the last few months, where he will get explosively angry, yell,cuss the whole 9 yards. The things he says are so hurtful. Then later when...
    strawberry1969 strawberry1969 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2007

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    Let Me In My Love.

    Only if my love will let me in,I will be so happy,and all the good things that comes with it.
    angelwithoutwings angelwithoutwings 26-30, F 2 Responses May 12, 2011

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    What's the Damned Deal Anyway?!

    Sometimes he wont keep his hands off me. Other times, he wants nothing to do with me in ANY way (so it seems anyways).
    missunderstood missunderstood 21-25, F 6 Responses Oct 28, 2006

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    Too Independent

    My boyfriend is so independent that he doesn't everything by himself.  He doesn't want me to help, and won't let me support him.  He doesn't tell me what he's feeling, because he doesn't want to rely on me.  It's really hard on me to feel so isolated.
    StephKajO StephKajO 21-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2007

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    Cold

    I wish that the guy I am in love with would open up more and be sensitive and loving instead of the woman-bashing hardass he is. :(
    aka746 aka746 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2007

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    Am I Your Wife Or Roomate

    I have known my husband since 1998. Part of my attraction to him was we could talk about any and everything, including sex. We have had a up and down  in our relationship over the years. May,07 we just got married. Things have progressively gotton worse. He does not talk...
    strawberry1969 strawberry1969 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 30, 2007

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    I Used To, But I Just Don'...

    I used to, but I just don't care that much anymore.
    silvermystics silvermystics 51-55, F May 27, 2007

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    Is This Your Wall, Or Mine?

    (I originally posted this as a comment to someone else but felt the need to expound on it, as I had a great many feelings welling to the surface.)  I feel/ felt the same way with one particular person in my life. It was weird because although I felt more like myself than I...
    Enigma Enigma 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 10, 2008

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    Open Your Doors! I Miss You.

    We had it all, our relationship was sweet and caring, open and loving, comunication was always there, I always knew what hurt him, he always told me. Now he shuts me out. I dont know him. I earn for him to come back and be the same. The one I fell in love with. The one I am still...
    pumkinhead2004 pumkinhead2004 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 11, 2007

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    How Can I...

    move on when I'm still in love with you?
    LittleBeauSheepOliveEwe LittleBeauSheepOliveEwe 70+ 5 Responses Dec 10, 2011

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    Yeah but it is tooo late for that one.  So I guess i need to find something new
    candiestore1 candiestore1 31-35, F Apr 1, 2007

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    LittleBeauSheepOliveEwe LittleBeauSheepOliveEwe 70+ Dec 22, 2011

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    Through the Window

    If everything happens for a reason, then there's a reason why our windows face each other. So that whenever I feel or you feel like seeing one another , all we gotta do is look.  There's a reason why we have so many things in common. There's a reason...
    LaBella06 LaBella06 19-21, F Nov 11, 2007

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    We Were So Close...

    But then something just changed, and we broke up... Now, he barely talks to me... He was the one that suggested we should be friends. He said I'd become his best friend, but not his girlfriend. Yet he ignores me. I still love him. But he won't let me come any closer... :'(
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 12, 2007

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    I wish I could but I can't. And for me to say, 'Oh just hang in there, it will get better' might be taken as an insult. I'm not here to say that to anyone. Why would you believe...
    dadhereforyou dadhereforyou 51-55, M a week ago

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