I Wish Weight Wasn't Such An Issue

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    Yeah

    If a woman is healthy and dressing correctly for her size, it's not an issue to me. (It should be noted: I'm not attracted to them so this is purely... observation? I dunno. Hopefully you get my meaning.) I think it's only an issue when a woman's health is...
    kleisse kleisse
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Nov 19, 2008

    Sexxy Is a Perception As Relates to Weight

    It am filled with sorrow at the plight of so many mature women trying to achieve some sort of anorexic ideal of a 16 yr old girl with TB ?  Mae West was one of the sexxiest and funniest women ever and she was rubenescue for sure. But she worked what she had and those that...
    Mountainman923518 Mountainman923518
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2008

    I was born with drugs in my blood,

    I was born chubby because my birth mother didn't give a **** about anyone but herself. My older brothers are big too because there were drugs in their blood as well. I exercise for 90 minutes a day and I never loose any weight. I am 12 years old, going into middle school. I get...
    HaileyRae1227 HaileyRae1227
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2014

    When Did This Become the Measure of a Woman?

    I have ranted about this before so I shall not expound upon it too much, but I just want to know when weight became the huge issue it is now. I am not and as I see it, never will be the "ideal" woman as far as my appearance is concerned. I struggle with this daily and...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl
    41-45, F
    16 Responses Nov 17, 2008

    I find it really weird how many guys online

    love girls who got more meat in their body.. Like they really do prefer chubby girls. Not just as a 'fetish' but really prefer them than skinny girls. Meanwhile in the real world.. Guys prefer the skinny ones. Like when a skinny perfect looking girl pass by, all heads turn...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2014

    To...

    many, weight does not matter but to most it does To me it determines how others rate my self-control I do not judge others by their weight unless they are thinspiration which I aspire towards If I am having a fat day, an idea of being fat or weighting three stone heavier...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 14, 2008

    To...

    many, weight does not matter but to most it does To me it determines how others rate my self-control I do not judge others by their weight unless they are thinspiration which I aspire towards If I am having a fat day, an idea of being fat or weighting three stone heavier...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 14, 2008

    Weight

    I honestly feel my weight is keeping me single. I feel if I was skinny I have a boyfriend. I have settled for men that like plus size woman. I really don't feel my weight should keep me from having a boyfriend. But honestly it has. So too get what, I want the weight needs to...
    butterflylady21 butterflylady21
    51-55, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2012

    Hmph. >_>

    It sure would make MY life a little easier.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Dec 22, 2010

    weight was an issue but not anymore.

    I just sip tea and watch the weight shed away. you tired of being overweight? I have what you need. its all Natural Tea. www.iasotea.com/3732211
    leotaleota57 leotaleota57
    41-45, M
    Mar 12, 2015

    As long as you're healthy,

    I don't care how much or little you weigh. People who say that you can only be pretty by being skinny are stupid. People who say real women have curves are insensitive. People need to grow up, and stop body shaming. Everyone deserves to feel good about themselves.
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell
    18-21, T
    1 Response Mar 26, 2015

    Angry!

    Weather you feel too big or too small , people will ALWAYS tell you that you are the wrong size. I have always been told i was too small. In Jr.High and High school I was harassed by people telling me to eat more or asking me if i have an eating disorder. The worlds obsession...
    AnastasiaOPI AnastasiaOPI
    22-25
    Jul 1, 2013
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