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I Wonder About Age Gap Relationships

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    Currently, I have a growing crush on a guy

    that I go to church with. We're both part of a moderately-sized circle of friends that range from 18 - 35 in age. I see him and my other friends weekly on average. I always look forward to seeing all of them because they are some of the most important people to me in my life. A...
    IreneHook IreneHook 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    16 Yrs

    My husband and I are 16yrs apart. He is the older one. Sometimes (most of the time) Its great. Other times , its hard. Ive always felt more connected with older men , mentally n sexually. What about you?
    ocngirl ocngirl 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    Should I Fight For It Or Not?

    Over the last summer I started getting to know a guy at church with no ulterior motive, and we started talking more and spending more time together. After a while I realised that I wanted more from him than friendship but I was too scared to do anything about it. In october we...
    CaiA CaiA 26-30 May 5, 2012

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    Younger Guys Get Jealous of Your Life

    Younger guys start out loving all the things you have done or been through, then they start wanting to "live" because they think they have not.  I think I want someone my own age or a little older this time, maybe someone who can understand where I am coming...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Lighthearted Entertainment

    I am a producer in Los Angeles at Lighthearted Entertainment, a television production company. We are currently interested in unique romantic relationships with age gaps as a potential idea for a TV show. If you are interested please call me back at (818) 842-8500. I look...
    SamLightheart SamLightheart 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    Full Circle

    Over the course of two decades, my thoughts on age-gap relationships have kind of come full-circle in a way. I'm not sure exactly why, but I've found myself thinking about this lately. When I was a teenager, I would have never considered dating someone who wasn't within a...
    CleverScreenName CleverScreenName 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Okay It Goes Like This

    Hmm.. Its legal what I'm talking about, If a guy asked you out but was younger than yourself how would you feel? This is difficult to explain :( Right.  A woman 40 a guy 27 asks out for movie and lunch. They been friends for over 4 years, confided a lot in each other...
    SimplyPlainS SimplyPlainS 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    I have a female friend

    who is 26 years younger than me and I'm falling for her. It's crazy, she's 20 and im 46, we've been friends for 5 years and its getting to the point that we have to talk to each other daily. i dont understand this, the endless conversations about everything and nothing that...
    millusions millusions 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 25

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    For Sickness And In Health

     I have been diagnosed with Lupus almost one year ago.  I am also bipolar and pretty much in control with the help of medications.   For the past three months I have not been able to work due to a Lupus flare-up, which means no income coming into the household...
    abeena abeena 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2010

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    I love my Maths teacher.

    We're both female and I had always thought that I was straight... She's probably more than 20 years older than me and she has a son about the same age as me (I'm 17). She's gorgeous and has a beautiful personality :) She makes me smile and she is also very caring! I can't be...
    Alf8964 Alf8964 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I Don'T Believe In Huge Age Gaps

    I am not a lover of huge age gap relationships either way. I am not far off 30, but I would not date a man above 40. For me that is too old we have completely different tastes. I would ideally date up to 5 to ten years older and one year younger, that is all. I have been in a...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    Love Should Be Unconditional

    I look for love, like everyone else. And like everyone else, I have my tastes, my likes and dislikes. I search for someone I can talk to, and be myself around. Someone who gives themselves without boundaries or limits, just as I do. I want someone who will be a true friend, as...
    Valdaine Valdaine 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Is It Age? Is It a Gender Issue?

    My husband is 9 years my senior.  I am 56 and he is 65.  We have been married for seven months.  Prior to our marriage we lived together for one year.   He does not understand why I stepped down from a management position to work part time at the...
    abeena abeena 56-60, F 6 Responses Jul 17, 2009

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    I Am Seeking An Age Gap Relationship

    I'm in my late 50s and have been widowed for three years. My late wife and I were close in age and had a wonderful marriage with no children. For my next relationship I would like to try and age gap relationship. I'm looking for a young lady between 35-49, without children, who...
    Freekorps Freekorps 56-60, M 4 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Laughs As He Reads This

     Well, my first wife was the same age as my Mom and the next to last wife was the same age as my son so I've explored both extremes and it's more the person than the age.  Although, there are limits, legal limits.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 8 Responses May 5, 2009

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    courteney33 courteney33 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    19 year age gap. I am 18 and he is 37. I joined this just so I could talk about it, because no one knows about us. He is married, and my parents would be furious if they found out...
    EmCCM EmCCM 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 12

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    Hello all, i am new to this site and have come here for guidance regarding my situation. In a way i know what the answer is , but its helps when someone else throws it in your face...
    buddieface buddieface 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Hi folks! Stumbled across this site, and decided to make your acquaintance! I'm a 60-year-old, happily married to a 28-year-old guy. My first husband was 6 years younger. I've also...
    Jilara Jilara 56-60, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    I am interested in chatting with women that have been in a large 'age gap' relationship. Either being much younger or older than the guy.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't know. Maybe it's because I just graduated from University now. I wonder what happens next in life. There is no more schooling to go to. No more annoying teachers and...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I wonder a lot!!!! Mostly about the future!!! I'm still in high school and stuff... So I always wonder what I want to do in real life... But then again I'm young and I got time so...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F Jun 28

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    I met a guy at work that's 24 years younger than me. I'm 53 and he's 29. I've dated younger men before but he is the youngest (my ex-husband was 12 years younger). He's so...
    eveann eveann 51-55, F 5 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm 15 he's 17 so it's not as big of a gap I guess. But I think I'm gonna break up with him anyways, since things aren't working out. So I don't think I'm gonna be In one anymore...
    thanamesnyaa thanamesnyaa 13-15, F Jul 7

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via mutual spiritual interests. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my...
    CosmicGirlA CosmicGirlA 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Dating sugar mommies can be a very exciting experience for young men nowadays. It can also get quite intimidating if you are not fully prepared for whatever it is that lies ahead...
    GarthPasche GarthPasche 46-50, F Jun 24

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    I wonder if I'll be a wonderful pastor and bring a lot of spirits back to God. I wonder if I'll ever have the love and acceptance of my real family like I was never gone. I wonder...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    One thing I wonder is what my dog thinks about me. I work from home much of the time, and I generally run around the house in just a pair of panties. My dog seems to be generally...
    beachlover1 beachlover1 22-25, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I have weird dreams about an attack on our village, and i try to protect a girl that i love, but this girl is unknown to me
    adamflan adamflan 18-21, M Jun 26

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    How can one be so happy with a person, yet so conflicted by outside perspectives? Getting hit by the hard "that is just wrong" comments and gossips of "are you really going to get...
    youngatheartoldinsoul youngatheartoldinsoul 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I am an adult man that was involved with the mother of a friend. It was sometime ago..but continues to influence me. If you are a woman that is interested in chatting...that would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 12

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    I am 19 and my bf is 26. We share the same birthday month. He told me he wanted his gf to be young , he wanted a baby and he got me :) lol
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm currently in a long distance relationship and I'm scared that when I meet them in person they won't see me the same as they do over the internet.
    imperffectperffection imperffectperffection 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I feel like god is playing with me and my family , like he don't wanna help us out , my faith for him is kinda down because it's like he don't answer prayers , I feel like he is...
    Luhpoloboaa Luhpoloboaa 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    I am living with (CLL)Leukemia,an aggressive form,many treatments,for over 12 years now. Am worried because I am on a new expensive chemo pill and is last therapy available! Scary...
    ColetteMJ ColetteMJ 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I woke up at 7am. I made my bed. I grabbed an apple. Poured 4 cups of water to start the day. Sat down. Checked all my phone notifications. And then sat there. (I have never in my...
    primadonna1 primadonna1 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Is there really a right person for everyone?
    justkiml justkiml 31-35 14 hrs ago

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    Ok I really didn't think this group was all about having relationships with ppl with huge age gaps. I joined this group because I think that age does not equate to level of wisdom...
    Ktglisson87 Ktglisson87 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Older: I was 19 when he was 35 Younger: He was 18 when I was 28 Does age matter? Yes and No. It depends and it always depends on the person. It's bothersome if you're with an older...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response a week ago

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    Hi, I'm a really nice guy with a kinky side. I really enjoy meeting new people and having fun :) Any girl feel free to add me, I don't mind if you only want to chat or if you want...
    rayorcas rayorcas 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    I don't care about age very much, but I wouldn't want to date an old man. It'd be too weird for my own dad and family, and I already look young so I wouldn't want people to say my...
    littlestella littlestella 18-21, F Jul 9

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    Really Not Something To Wonder About. Honestly, I don't think anyone's ever seriously had a crush on me. But who knows? Maybe I'm wrong. I'm probably right, though. :)
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I'm sure everyone at some point or another wonders about this. It's human nature!
    missylawl missylawl 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I have been dating my gf for 3 1/2 years and her family still doesn't know.... I am in a les relationship, and she is my first gf. I am an open person, but she likes to keep...
    bbarnes197 bbarnes197 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    1. I'm 15 almost 16 :D 2. I love art, music, and fashion! It's some things I can always go to to clear my mind. 3. I'm a sucker for animals. I'll be getting a puppy soon! 4. I'm 4...
    tamtamii tamtamii 13-15, F Jun 27

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    Actually, I tried to delete this group. But the software isn't allowing me to do that. Did I break the software? Is EP going to sue me? I was just wondering about all the...
    peternoc peternoc 61-65, M Jun 28

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    I am only physically attracted to females. I cannot see myself spending the rest of my life with one, but I am very turned on by a girls "parts". However, I really like guys...
    niamcmillan niamcmillan 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    There's a weird one! It never occurd to me! I ran into somebody from my old schooldays recently. Back then. She was smart. Funny. Attractive. Part of the 'rich kids' club. Totally...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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