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    Hello everyone, This is my first post here

    (cross-posted from I Am Interested In Age Gap Relationships), so here goes. I am 23 years old, and love a man who is 42. I've been drawn to people older than me all my life, simply because people my age don't seem to share the same interests & values I have. I only have one...
    Pelkha Pelkha 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    16 Yrs

    My husband and I are 16yrs apart. He is the older one. Sometimes (most of the time) Its great. Other times , its hard. Ive always felt more connected with older men , mentally n sexually. What about you?
    ocngirl ocngirl 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2011

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    10yeargap.com focuses on younger women dating

    older men and it encourages age gap marriage. 10YearGap.com is not a sugar daddy site. Single women are attracted to older single men as they are polite, respectful, generous, kind, intelligent, sensitive, caring, affectionate, and understanding. Many younger women would like to...
    JessieFay JessieFay 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    Okay It Goes Like This

    Hmm.. Its legal what I'm talking about, If a guy asked you out but was younger than yourself how would you feel? This is difficult to explain :( Right.  A woman 40 a guy 27 asks out for movie and lunch. They been friends for over 4 years, confided a lot in each other...
    SimplyPlainS SimplyPlainS 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    I Am Seeking An Age Gap Relationship

    I'm in my late 50s and have been widowed for three years. My late wife and I were close in age and had a wonderful marriage with no children. For my next relationship I would like to try and age gap relationship. I'm looking for a young lady between 35-49, without children, who...
    Freekorps Freekorps 61-65, M 4 Responses May 23, 2013

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    I Don'T Believe In Huge Age Gaps

    I am not a lover of huge age gap relationships either way. I am not far off 30, but I would not date a man above 40. For me that is too old we have completely different tastes. I would ideally date up to 5 to ten years older and one year younger, that is all. I have been in a...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    Full Circle

    Over the course of two decades, my thoughts on age-gap relationships have kind of come full-circle in a way. I'm not sure exactly why, but I've found myself thinking about this lately. When I was a teenager, I would have never considered dating someone who wasn't within a...
    CleverScreenName CleverScreenName 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Currently, I have a growing crush on a guy

    that I go to church with. We're both part of a moderately-sized circle of friends that range from 18 - 35 in age. I see him and my other friends weekly on average. I always look forward to seeing all of them because they are some of the most important people to me in my life. A...
    IreneHook IreneHook 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    For Sickness And In Health

     I have been diagnosed with Lupus almost one year ago.  I am also bipolar and pretty much in control with the help of medications.   For the past three months I have not been able to work due to a Lupus flare-up, which means no income coming into the household...
    abeena abeena 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2010

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    Lighthearted Entertainment

    I am a producer in Los Angeles at Lighthearted Entertainment, a television production company. We are currently interested in unique romantic relationships with age gaps as a potential idea for a TV show. If you are interested please call me back at (818) 842-8500. I look...
    SamLightheart SamLightheart 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    Love Should Be Unconditional

    I look for love, like everyone else. And like everyone else, I have my tastes, my likes and dislikes. I search for someone I can talk to, and be myself around. Someone who gives themselves without boundaries or limits, just as I do. I want someone who will be a true friend, as...
    Valdaine Valdaine 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    I have a female friend

    who is 26 years younger than me and I'm falling for her. It's crazy, she's 20 and im 46, we've been friends for 5 years and its getting to the point that we have to talk to each other daily. i dont understand this, the endless conversations about everything and nothing that...
    millusions millusions 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 25, 2014

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    Should I Fight For It Or Not?

    Over the last summer I started getting to know a guy at church with no ulterior motive, and we started talking more and spending more time together. After a while I realised that I wanted more from him than friendship but I was too scared to do anything about it. In october we...
    CaiA CaiA 26-30 May 5, 2012

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    Is It Age? Is It a Gender Issue?

    My husband is 9 years my senior.  I am 56 and he is 65.  We have been married for seven months.  Prior to our marriage we lived together for one year.   He does not understand why I stepped down from a management position to work part time at the...
    abeena abeena 56-60, F 6 Responses Jul 17, 2009

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    Younger Guys Get Jealous of Your Life

    Younger guys start out loving all the things you have done or been through, then they start wanting to "live" because they think they have not.  I think I want someone my own age or a little older this time, maybe someone who can understand where I am coming...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    It happens quite often. The other day I get a new 'fan' who also wants to message me. A quick check of his profile shows about 20 other names he just added to his circle so I guess...
    adel66 adel66 46-50, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Undercover Bridesmaid is my favorite Hallmark mystery movie and it stars my favorite Hallmark actress Brooke Burns. It is on again. Tanya is a woman who is a highly skilled...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    If you're a woman over the age of 19. I'll be very happy to get to know you better and sincerely acknowledge. I adore how busty you truly are for what ever age you are.You'd never...
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    If I had things to do over, oh my where would I start? I live my life wondering about what could have been, what should have been! I have regrets in how I've handled things and how...
    couldashoulda69 couldashoulda69 66-70, M 2 days ago

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    I woke up this morning and started wondering about basic instinct and human behavior - I know about the four f's but where did this basic learning come from one of the f's is food...
    g4it g4it 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    and I still am! My boyfriend/Master is 13 years older than me. We have been together almost 3 years and we live together and are very happy
    ServingGirlUK ServingGirlUK 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am 23. When I was in high school people thought I looked older...now people tell me I look 16. It annoys me. I have been working for 2 years after university. I have had some...
    Brittyyc Brittyyc 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I think that many people posting on this thread are confusing Polygamy with Polyamory. Polygamy involves more than one wife, although only the first wedding is legal and the rest...
    Caljoe Caljoe 61-65, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Bad Hair Day is a Disney movie and is based on very sensitive subjects. It is one of my favorite movies and I knew even before it aired the first time that it would be added to my...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I needed more insight into the matter at hand. So, I got out my old friends. They have been around for three thousands years. Archeologists in Scandinavia have found stones from...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    i don't think age should be such a huge factor when it comes to being in a relationship but i also think you shouldn't go crazy and mess with kids
    ellazabeth ellazabeth 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 57 and I'm in love with a girl that is 37 same age as my oldest son she said that she loves older guys. and she lives in a different state than me I've known her for about 5...
    satinlover1958 satinlover1958 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    Do you ever wonder how much you exist in other people's lives? I'm always curious if people think of me when a certain song comes on, or when they pass through a certain town. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 31

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    I'm very interested in starting a relationship with a older man
    sandrafuns sandrafuns 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 29

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    1. I'm 16. 2. I'm blind. 3. I live in Israel/ Palestine. 4. I get paranoid about everything. 5. I love reading. 6. I'm socially awkward. 7. I like winter. 8. The hardest thing for...
    LastSunrise LastSunrise 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I need a girlfriend no matter from which country or region I dont care about age or beauty I just need a human who can understand me.
    shahkartherockstar shahkartherockstar 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    WHAT IFWhat if it was true,and like they sayall pain stops,What if it was trueand like they sayyou are free,really freeForever and finally free,Wouldnt that be grand,wouldnt that...
    AgentSeven AgentSeven 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    My partner & I have quite an age gap.We often feel so alone, so removed from others because of the judgemental attitudes of people who should be congratulating us. We have a...
    olscool olscool 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    i need a friend i can talk to dont care about age or sex
    justawolf13 justawolf13 13-15 Jan 27

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    I've been talking to my two boys since the oldest was 10. I wanted to make sure the message was drilled into them before they got to that age where sex might happen. Let's be...
    G0dzilla G0dzilla 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 27

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    to an extent, yes. but 10+ age gaps with people under 18 aren't good. theres a reason that 30 year old can't get a date with someone their own age, and it's not because they're...
    submissiveboyy submissiveboyy 18-21, T 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I have been in an age-gap relationship for almost eight years. I'm 27 years old, my wife is 48. I love her very much, and I'm looking forward to many more years with her.
    CNSPRCYTHRY CNSPRCYTHRY 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 26

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    There is a gap in age but not in maturity. We love and understand each other. That is what matters. I'm proud because it's kinky. People get shocked when they find out about it...
    natalypetrvicki natalypetrvicki 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 26

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    I've always been attracted to older guys lol and have always been in a relationship where the guy is older. I don't know why but I guess having grown up way too quickly and...
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    What's the longest age gap you've ever experienced? For me, I'm 24 and I've dated an 18 year old. 6 years isn't a huge difference, what do you think it is?
    Danimmortal Danimmortal 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 25

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    18 and have slept with about 8 guys, literally all this year
    dae234 dae234 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    Have you ever tried to fit a triangular shape into a circular mold? It just doesn't fit, no matter how hard we try. The bible says to be careful what you ask for, for when you get...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F