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I Wonder About Age Gap Relationships

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 106 People

    Younger Guys Get Jealous of Your Life

    Younger guys start out loving all the things you have done or been through, then they start wanting to "live" because they think they have not.  I think I want someone my own age or a little older this time, maybe someone who can understand where I am coming...
    MISTRESSROXY MISTRESSROXY 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    For Sickness And In Health

     I have been diagnosed with Lupus almost one year ago.  I am also bipolar and pretty much in control with the help of medications.   For the past three months I have not been able to work due to a Lupus flare-up, which means no income coming into the household...
    abeena abeena 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2010

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    Is It Age? Is It a Gender Issue?

    My husband is 9 years my senior.  I am 56 and he is 65.  We have been married for seven months.  Prior to our marriage we lived together for one year.   He does not understand why I stepped down from a management position to work part time at the...
    abeena abeena 56-60, F 6 Responses Jul 17, 2009

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    16 Yrs

    My husband and I are 16yrs apart. He is the older one. Sometimes (most of the time) Its great. Other times , its hard. Ive always felt more connected with older men , mentally n sexually. What about you?
    ocngirl ocngirl 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2011

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    Hello everyone, This is my first post here

    (cross-posted from I Am Interested In Age Gap Relationships), so here goes. I am 23 years old, and love a man who is 42. I've been drawn to people older than me all my life, simply because people my age don't seem to share the same interests & values I have. I only have one...
    Pelkha Pelkha 22-25, F Sep 7

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    I Am Seeking An Age Gap Relationship

    I'm in my late 50s and have been widowed for three years. My late wife and I were close in age and had a wonderful marriage with no children. For my next relationship I would like to try and age gap relationship. I'm looking for a young lady between 35-49, without children, who...
    Freekorps Freekorps 56-60, M 4 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Should I Fight For It Or Not?

    Over the last summer I started getting to know a guy at church with no ulterior motive, and we started talking more and spending more time together. After a while I realised that I wanted more from him than friendship but I was too scared to do anything about it. In october we...
    CaiA CaiA 26-30 May 5, 2012

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    I have a female friend

    who is 26 years younger than me and I'm falling for her. It's crazy, she's 20 and im 46, we've been friends for 5 years and its getting to the point that we have to talk to each other daily. i dont understand this, the endless conversations about everything and nothing that...
    millusions millusions 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 25

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    I love my Maths teacher.

    We're both female and I had always thought that I was straight... She's probably more than 20 years older than me and she has a son about the same age as me (I'm 17). She's gorgeous and has a beautiful personality :) She makes me smile and she is also very caring! I can't be...
    Alf8964 Alf8964 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Love Should Be Unconditional

    I look for love, like everyone else. And like everyone else, I have my tastes, my likes and dislikes. I search for someone I can talk to, and be myself around. Someone who gives themselves without boundaries or limits, just as I do. I want someone who will be a true friend, as...
    Valdaine Valdaine 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Laughs As He Reads This

     Well, my first wife was the same age as my Mom and the next to last wife was the same age as my son so I've explored both extremes and it's more the person than the age.  Although, there are limits, legal limits.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 8 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Currently, I have a growing crush on a guy

    that I go to church with. We're both part of a moderately-sized circle of friends that range from 18 - 35 in age. I see him and my other friends weekly on average. I always look forward to seeing all of them because they are some of the most important people to me in my life. A...
    IreneHook IreneHook 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    I not only wonder about them,

    but I am interested in being one. If you are a girl who has the same interest, feel free to message me.
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    Okay It Goes Like This

    Hmm.. Its legal what I'm talking about, If a guy asked you out but was younger than yourself how would you feel? This is difficult to explain :( Right.  A woman 40 a guy 27 asks out for movie and lunch. They been friends for over 4 years, confided a lot in each other...
    SimplyPlainS SimplyPlainS 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    Full Circle

    Over the course of two decades, my thoughts on age-gap relationships have kind of come full-circle in a way. I'm not sure exactly why, but I've found myself thinking about this lately. When I was a teenager, I would have never considered dating someone who wasn't within a...
    CleverScreenName CleverScreenName 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Lighthearted Entertainment

    I am a producer in Los Angeles at Lighthearted Entertainment, a television production company. We are currently interested in unique romantic relationships with age gaps as a potential idea for a TV show. If you are interested please call me back at (818) 842-8500. I look...
    SamLightheart SamLightheart 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    I Don'T Believe In Huge Age Gaps

    I am not a lover of huge age gap relationships either way. I am not far off 30, but I would not date a man above 40. For me that is too old we have completely different tastes. I would ideally date up to 5 to ten years older and one year younger, that is all. I have been in a...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    I support Age Gap Relationships!What do you think so?
    Minji0504 Minji0504 26-30, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hello everyone, This is my first post here, so here goes. I am 23 years old, and love a man who is 42. I've been drawn to people older than me all my life, simply because people...
    Pelkha Pelkha 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Hi all, I'm new to this and just come to talk to people who are in the same or similar situation that I am. I'm dating my man who is 14 years older than me, he's 36 I'm 22. Most of...
    clomo20 clomo20 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    My boyfriend and I met when I was 16. He was 36. We were just friends for 2 years and when I was about 18 and 1/2 it stared becoming something else....it's been 5 years since then...
    keithsgirl93 keithsgirl93 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    like i wonder sometimes why ive allowed u in so close to me. why have i tried to make u a best friend, when i dont think u really care. sometimes i wish i could go away for a while...
    SadisticBitch SadisticBitch 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    -_- This sucks so bad. I don't get why such confusing situations always seem to follow me. It wasn't so bad when my last short relationship was with a 22 year old but this time a...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Sep 1

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    I am like an expert in long distance relationships because I live in California and my man lives in South Dakota. We met at age 11 living in the same complex in El Cajon, CA. He...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Aug 17

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    I know a scandinavian girl who was an exchange student in japan. She was very excotic over there, because she was tall and blonde. Nearing the end of her stay, the father of the...
    Tityroi Tityroi 18-21, M Aug 27

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    I much wonder why that thing first created me, then wants me exterminated.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Aug 16

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    I wonder why people wait for things to get better and it never happens.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    I am looking for one. Message me if you're single and seeking the same. Girls only.
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M Aug 26

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    I am 20 and my boyfriend is 39 (will be 40 in December)
    behindblueeyesx behindblueeyesx 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    I'm 51 and she's 23. We've spent an amazing month together, so far. She's from a small town and I'm a city guy and she wants to move in after discussing it. I haven't been coercive...
    Fetechef Fetechef 51-55 Sep 7

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    I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I believe that a very few times in your life, if you are lucky, you might meet someone who is exactly...
    prince35xxx prince35xxx 31-35, M 9 hrs ago

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    Never again, it was the biggest mistake I did in love.
    ClassicGentleman ClassicGentleman 18-21, M Aug 17

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    I know that if you have trust issues and clingy tendencies. Long Distance is not for you unless youre like a billionaire and can afford to fly in and out .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 17

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    I am a weirdo! From 5th to 7th grade on and off I had a crush on William Shakespeare. I loved his quotes and I used to wish I was born in another time so I could date him. Yup! I'm...
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I need help. I am such a "what goes on behind closed door" type of girl. I don't tell anyone anything. I attract weirdos. Dating for me is dangerous. I've experienced a girl who...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have always wanted to know this, and only after that make any choices of my life! This is the smarter approach, it truly is.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Aug 16

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    Who doesn't is a lier, I cannot help but thing the one is own death is the key answer to meaning of life.
    gypa gypa 26-30, M Aug 21

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    I always feel like I was born on the wrong planet. I feel no one will ever understand me :(
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M Aug 23

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    Sometimes weird things just pops out of your head.
    itsmenhiceee itsmenhiceee 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    i think government programs should only be done in the form of loans. they may be paid back with interest in cash or labor
    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    For those of you who are divorced , would you rather still be married if it was a happy relationship or have you found that you are happier single and dating different people
    westwoman westwoman 56-60, F 1 day ago

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    What's the age gap between you & your other half Does age matter in a relationship
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Okay so I gave a good size gap in my front teeth .. When I'm alone I always stare at my smile to see if it's really that big. Since I was little I have been picked on about my gap...
    imHerAshlin imHerAshlin 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I need help... So I met this guy online 3 years ago when I was 13 years old. He is 7 years older than me and I always had excuses of why I couldn't see him. Mostly because of my...
    MikaylaG MikaylaG 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    One of my favorite movies -- Waking Life. It made me wonder about everything so much. I love the philosophical knowledge that are depicted in the movie. I also love all the...
    igniteblues igniteblues 16-17, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Shacked up on the third floor after having surgery, my wife tells me that (what we had semi been discussing) the marriage is over. She continues to live there for a while to save...
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M Aug 24

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