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I Wonder How Many People Have Had a Crush On Me

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    Honestly, I already know.

    No one. There is no surprise or anything. I already know.
    fillia fillia 16-17, F Jun 1

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    It Nearly Always Seems To Be The Wrong People!

    This guy is a mutual friend, she's known him years and never would I ever consider him as anything more than just a friend. He's not my type at all, I find him childish and a bit irritating there's something about him that just grates at me. I feel horrible for it because he's...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    Back in high school I'd few guys crush on me.

    . Thinking about it now I honestly don't know what they saw. I was small and lanky with rabbit teeth lol.. Now I doubt that anybody does.. Personally I feel like crushes are for kids/teenagers.. If I fancied someone now and they were available I'd let them know instead of...
    Mama86 Mama86 26-30, F 2 Responses May 11

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    Its definitely not many,

    I think but I know of at least 2 but they were not good for a relationship. (one was a habitual liar and the other was way too normal for me to be interested, I like weird girls!)
    onisama onisama 18-21 Jun 23

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    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 1

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    Well I'm older now but am often mistaken

    for being 10 years or so younger still since I try hard to stay in shape. Before I got married, I often got random cards and flowers from crushes that were so sweet! I kept this one note I received while away on vacation when I was 19 that's my favorite of all time. Some sweet...
    brokenwoman13 brokenwoman13 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 15

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    I doubt it's been very many

    but hey! you never know :)
    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F Jun 6

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    Really Not Something To Wonder About.

    Honestly, I don't think anyone's ever seriously had a crush on me. But who knows? Maybe I'm wrong. I'm probably right, though. :)
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    ZERO! Right? I'll mimic

    that maniac here, I've got looks and I can speak three languages. I'm a spoiled brat and have mood swings like you'd be surprised how I've changed in a few minutes.
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    There is no deep or philosophical reason

    for my desire to know how many people have had a crush on me. It is a small, selfish and entirely silly desire that comes from having crippling self doubt. One of my weaknesses is that I find a significant amount of self-worth from the opinions of others. So in order to comfort...
    Setarcos Setarcos 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Because it's pretty hard

    for me to imagine that someone could have a crush on me. I'm not pretty, I'm not funny (at least not what boys would consider as funny) and I'm not gentle or cute or anything which could attract a boy, yet there have been two boys who actually had a crush on me.
    funyarinpa funyarinpa 13-15, F 1 Response May 31

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    Apparently most of my guy friends have.

    ..which is weird. It's not even like most just thought of me as hot, which I would've understood. No...they liked me. And I want to know how many others...
    mcc1109 mcc1109 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Hopeless

    I think a few women have projected their own fantasy on me, and that this has manifested as a temporary crush on me. But once they get to know me, sooner or later, they realize how awful I really am and that they can't really like me.
    Hephaistos Hephaistos 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 24, 2010

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    Up to this day I have only known about two

    people that have ever had a crush on me. The first one was in middle school. It was the first time I heard that so I didn't know how to approach her about it and I never asked why she developed a crush on me. I kind of wish I had asked her though because at that time I didn't...
    Culinaryman23 Culinaryman23 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    I recently got back in touch with an old

    childhood friend. He told me he had/has the biggest crush on me but he was always to shy to tell me. I find myself wondering how things might have been. I so would have gone out with him back in the day.
    LF87 LF87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Quite Interesting...

    I've often thought this throughout my lifetime. I think having a crush is cute, but sometime I hope to find out just how many I have! :)
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987 26-30, F 12 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    Ive had lots of crushes on girls

    and not told them because of certain circumstances I will always regret not telling them.
    IMyOwnLeader IMyOwnLeader 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    maybeagain maybeagain 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    This would be so awesome to know.

    .. I remember when MySpace had a "truth box" you could post.. I always wanted to check mine and find love messages but they were always rude comments :/
    JadenLangVageta JadenLangVageta 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    it would be a nice thing to know,

    i guess!!!! i hight doubt it tbh though v( U v U )v
    griefseed griefseed 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    I can't help but wonder

    if someone thinks about me before they fall asleep at night, or smiles when I smile. I can't help but wonder if there is someone out there waiting for me to talk to them, because they are too afraid to approach me. If there is a boy who stares at me, but I never notice because...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F May 24

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    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I've always wondered.

    Between the guys that friend zone me and call me "little sister" to the ones that just completely ignore me for weeks at a time after telling me that they like me, I wonder who really told the truth and who lied.
    minidisaster minidisaster 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    haha...maybe when I was younger.

    .not now since I usually get to know it
    genesis99 genesis99 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    The more I think about it the more certain I am.

    Probably nobody... I saw that coming
    Raven628 Raven628 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    I'm pretty good at knowing

    who does but I'd like to know for sure....just so I know who to approach if the feeling is mutual.
    angelofthe88keys angelofthe88keys 18-21, F Jun 1

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    It's strange to think

    that people have crushes on others. Because you could like a girl but that girl likes a different boy. Basically he's watching the girl he likes, like another boy. But while that boy is watching that girl, another girl is watching him watching the girl. Funny how that works huh...
    EmiTru EmiTru 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Well , i don't really think i can find some .

    😊 maybe some boys . 😀 but duuuuuude im not gay .
    patrickpatterson patrickpatterson 18-21, M Sep 3

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    I wonder if anyone sees something in me

    that I don't. Am I physically attractive in someone's eyes? Does someone like something about my personality? Did I do or say something that may have caught someone's attention? This is a thought that I keep in the back of my mind and it doesn't affect my daily function. Even...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Hmmm

    This is an interesting question. Let's see if I'm more popular here than in real day to day life.
    JLBetts JLBetts 46-50, M Nov 28, 2013

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    Likely no one at all.

    That wouldn't surprise me
    625Maelstrom 625Maelstrom 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 1

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    My inbox is full of crush messages.

    I just don't believe all the bs. :).
    gandl10 gandl10 41-45, T 4 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Do You Have A Crush On Me ?

    I LIKE YOU !!!!!!!!
    Greeneyes21 Greeneyes21 46-50, F 22 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    I Womder Sometimes.

    When I found this site I was very blue and my self esteem was pretty much shot. I spent most of my time alone and liked it that way. Alone was better than being in the middle of all the head games and crap that go along with the singles seen. Since coming to this site, I feel...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 62 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    On Me?

    On me? surely no one that I know of anyway. I get told I am handsome, but I really just can't see it. I really can't see what others see in me, but it is what it is. I am not complaining, I am just me and there isn't anything wrong with that. I just don't see what others do.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 7 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Lately I have been really upset about being

    alone. This guy who I thought liked me never replied to me over the summer and last week I casually hooked up with this guy I didn't care about. Anyway, I just wish I knew if people actually liked me or found me attractive that's all.
    RubyTuesday413 RubyTuesday413 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    backwoodsbabe98 backwoodsbabe98 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 3

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    Guys hit on me all the time,

    but I'm just wondering how many of them actually, really, truly had a crush on me. Not a crush because they like how I look, a honest-to-goodness crush based on my personality. Probably not many. But I'll ask them next time XD
    superkitty17 superkitty17 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 7

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    Interesting story.. I got a guy to like me by

    blasting a trumpet at him. He made a comment that I didn't sound very good. (I played flute; someone was trying to teach me to play trumpet.) Well anyway, it was at a basketball game and towards the end he came over and sat behind me off to the side. Never said anything to me...
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F Aug 7

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    There have been a few

    that had their friends tell me in the past, but I always wondered who else had a crush on me.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    COD101 COD101 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    Imagine if you had a list mailed to you with

    people who have had crushes on you.
    EmiTru EmiTru 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 2

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    I Wonder If You Like Me.

    I Wonder If That Girl That Stays On Your Mind Is Me. The Girl You Hope To See First Thing The Next Day. That Girl You Want To Hold Close And Never Let Go. The Girl You Brag About To All Your Friends. That Girl You Kiss Every Second Of Every Minute Of Every Hour. The Girl You Can...
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 5 Responses May 21, 2012

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    Probably 3.... me, myself

    and I. :] not bad! haha
    SAVEtheHER0 SAVEtheHER0 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    I've kinda wanted to know to

    if anybody had a crush on me. haha probably not but its worth a shot. Usually i wouldn't do this but ive just been tired of the people around me that i just want to talk to some new and fresh faces for a little bit. sooo yeah (:
    PeaceAndLove1 PeaceAndLove1 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    lzgroupie96 lzgroupie96 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 18

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    :o

    I just think it'd be intresting to see who has had a crush on me..don't think it'd be that many tbh lol but still be intresting to see who the few were... :S <3
    lilAriana lilAriana 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    jenpoop jenpoop 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 1

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    Not So Many I Think...

    Being myself and knowing how I look like and who I really i'm.I won't be surprised knowing that no one or almost no one had a crush on me.Because what they would had crush on me?.I don't even likeΒ  myself so how anyone could like me in any way? What can attract them to me?.Hard...
    MissAgni MissAgni 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Probably nobody... But hey,

    you'll never know.
    tootaloo tootaloo 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I have had small crushes on complete STRANGERS

    before. I would see a pretty girl on the bus or subway and I would look at them from afar, sometimes they would look back and wave, I would feel great :) but sometimes, they would never see me at all, THEY WOULD NEVER KNOW... Now, I wonder if people did feel this way towards me...
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M Jan 28

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    From what I know of..

    . 0. Zero. The number that comes before 1. That's how many people have had a crush on me.