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I Wonder How Many People Have Had a Crush On Me

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    I Womder Sometimes.

    When I found this site I was very blue and my self esteem was pretty much shot. I spent most of my time alone and liked it that way. Alone was better than being in the middle of all the head games and crap that go along with the singles seen. Since coming to this site, I feel...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 62 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    There is no deep or philosophical reason

    for my desire to know how many people have had a crush on me. It is a small, selfish and entirely silly desire that comes from having crippling self doubt. One of my weaknesses is that I find a significant amount of self-worth from the opinions of others. So in order to comfort...
    Setarcos Setarcos 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Probably 3.... me, myself

    and I. :] not bad! haha
    SAVEtheHER0 SAVEtheHER0 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    Imagine if you had a list mailed to you with

    people who have had crushes on you.
    EmiTru EmiTru 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 2

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    I feel like I'm not a very loveable

    or easy to crush on person, but sometimes I'm fine with that. I still wonder though.
    unravelling unravelling 16-17, F Oct 1

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    OK so I'm 16 and there's a guy who's 17

    who I've been friends with for about three months. he's always kinda acted weird around me, but we're still good friends. I just don't know if it's more than that. he always teases me, because I get confused easily and he says it's funny when I get confused. it got to the point...
    heyheyyybae heyheyyybae 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 20

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    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    maybeagain maybeagain 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    My inbox is full of crush messages.

    I just don't believe all the bs. :).
    gandl10 gandl10 46-50, T 2 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    backwoodsbabe98 backwoodsbabe98 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 3

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    COD101 COD101 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I wonder if anyone sees something in me

    that I don't. Am I physically attractive in someone's eyes? Does someone like something about my personality? Did I do or say something that may have caught someone's attention? This is a thought that I keep in the back of my mind and it doesn't affect my daily function. Even...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    From what I know of..

    . 0. Zero. The number that comes before 1. That's how many people have had a crush on me.
    ImJustABeautifulDisaster ImJustABeautifulDisaster 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    There have been a few

    that had their friends tell me in the past, but I always wondered who else had a crush on me.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Sep 16

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    I'm so curious. Because I'll meet people

    and then later on down the road I'll find out they had a crush on me. And I'm like whaaat really? And it's always people that I least expect to be interested. haha It's so interesting. Wish I could know about everyone that crushed on me. I like knowing even if I'm not/wasn't...
    pinkypie5 pinkypie5 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 4

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    I recently got back in touch with an old

    childhood friend. He told me he had/has the biggest crush on me but he was always to shy to tell me. I find myself wondering how things might have been. I so would have gone out with him back in the day.
    LF87 LF87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    It is an interesting point to think about.

    If any girl told me that she liked me in high school or college, I would have given her a chance. I know what it's like to be rejected just solely on looks and it sucks.
    jonbz17 jonbz17 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 8

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    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    After high school, and years later,

    I would see people here and there and talk to them. Then they would tell me about some people and how they were doing etc. Next thing I know, they would tell me about some guy in our class that we were friends with that had a huge crush on me that I never even knew about. I'm...
    DraygenD DraygenD 41-45, F Oct 2

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    I Wonder If You Like Me.

    I Wonder If That Girl That Stays On Your Mind Is Me. The Girl You Hope To See First Thing The Next Day. That Girl You Want To Hold Close And Never Let Go. The Girl You Brag About To All Your Friends. That Girl You Kiss Every Second Of Every Minute Of Every Hour. The Girl You Can...
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 5 Responses May 21, 2012

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    Do You Have A Crush On Me ?

    I LIKE YOU !!!!!!!!
    Greeneyes21 Greeneyes21 46-50, F 22 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    I've kinda wanted to know to

    if anybody had a crush on me. haha probably not but its worth a shot. Usually i wouldn't do this but ive just been tired of the people around me that i just want to talk to some new and fresh faces for a little bit. sooo yeah (:
    PeaceAndLove1 PeaceAndLove1 16-17, F 7 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    Quite Interesting...

    I've often thought this throughout my lifetime. I think having a crush is cute, but sometime I hope to find out just how many I have! :)
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987 26-30, F 11 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    lzgroupie96 lzgroupie96 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 18

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    I have had small crushes on complete STRANGERS

    before. I would see a pretty girl on the bus or subway and I would look at them from afar, sometimes they would look back and wave, I would feel great :) but sometimes, they would never see me at all, THEY WOULD NEVER KNOW... Now, I wonder if people did feel this way towards me...
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M Jan 28

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    Because it's pretty hard

    for me to imagine that someone could have a crush on me. I'm not pretty, I'm not funny (at least not what boys would consider as funny) and I'm not gentle or cute or anything which could attract a boy, yet there have been two boys who actually had a crush on me.
    funyarinpa funyarinpa 16-17, F 1 Response May 31

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    On Me?

    On me? surely no one that I know of anyway. I get told I am handsome, but I really just can't see it. I really can't see what others see in me, but it is what it is. I am not complaining, I am just me and there isn't anything wrong with that. I just don't see what others do.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 7 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Always wondered it myself

    but seeing with the way most woman are, there is no way any would say anything. Because this saying is true "most woman are ******* and most man are dicks" Those who are not like that either get them self hurt or have no one
    ziroks ziroks 22-25, M Oct 3

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    Hopeless

    I think a few women have projected their own fantasy on me, and that this has manifested as a temporary crush on me. But once they get to know me, sooner or later, they realize how awful I really am and that they can't really like me.
    Hephaistos Hephaistos 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 24, 2010

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    Up to this day I have only known about two

    people that have ever had a crush on me. The first one was in middle school. It was the first time I heard that so I didn't know how to approach her about it and I never asked why she developed a crush on me. I kind of wish I had asked her though because at that time I didn't...
    Culinaryman23 Culinaryman23 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    How many? Idk When i was in high school,

    theres a guy who likes me. I knew it, why? because his friends is sooo annoying --" they shouted my name loudly until i turn around and they pushed him towards me, i was like ".......what" and ppl who saw it yelled "Tell her!! Tell her!!! Tell her!!" And he ran away It was so...
    daneean daneean 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 2

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    Honestly, I wonder. When your just running

    late to catch a bus, and random girls shout, "Damn your cute, Running-for-the-Bus!", or you pass by some classmates, and they whisper, "Oh my God, he is so cute!", or when a girl who's name you don't even really know, just, kisses, and pecks, and nibbles and fondles at you, or...
    Gr8nsaw8S Gr8nsaw8S 22-25, M Oct 4

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    There was a time I thought no one looked at me

    and who knows who may like me.Now,obviously,I still do not know the number of my crushes but I do know some have it for me.I appreciate the honesty and love truthful words and actions.Nowadays I have no doubt anymore,there is always someone putting an eye on you.When we are busy...
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    It's strange to think

    that people have crushes on others. Because you could like a girl but that girl likes a different boy. Basically he's watching the girl he likes, like another boy. But while that boy is watching that girl, another girl is watching him watching the girl. Funny how that works huh...
    EmiTru EmiTru 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Well I'm older now but am often mistaken

    for being 10 years or so younger still since I try hard to stay in shape. Before I got married, I often got random cards and flowers from crushes that were so sweet! I kept this one note I received while away on vacation when I was 19 that's my favorite of all time. Some sweet...
    brokenwoman13 brokenwoman13 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    Philli8807 Philli8807 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I think there's currently 2 people.

    Thing is I'm not sure what to do if it leads into a relationship. I'm just so super scared.
    embercakezz1999 embercakezz1999 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 5

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    I honestly wonder sometimes do people ever have

    crushes on me. I wonder if they do, is it that they don't want to tell me, It's not like I'm going to be rude if you tell me you have a crush on me.
    SuckMyAwesome SuckMyAwesome 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 29

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    Probably nobody... But hey,

    you'll never know.
    tootaloo tootaloo 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I've always wondered.

    Between the guys that friend zone me and call me "little sister" to the ones that just completely ignore me for weeks at a time after telling me that they like me, I wonder who really told the truth and who lied.
    minidisaster minidisaster 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Hmmm Great question??

    ? 💆😐😮
    PrettyEvelin PrettyEvelin 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 19

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    My ego says more than a few,

    but I'd imagine they'd lose interest once they actually sat down and spoke to me *shrug* C'est la vie.
    EdgeOfSanity EdgeOfSanity 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 1

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    Well , i don't really think i can find some .

    😊 maybe some boys . 😤 but duuuuuude im not gay .
    patrickpatterson patrickpatterson 18-21, M Sep 3

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    I feel like sometimes I have been told

    that someone had a crush on me. However, I regretfully turned everyone down. There was a single girl and no one else for years and years, but we never got together. Honestly, I am not sure if there was anything terrible about my faith in her, but I know that love is meant to be...
    TheFarmerAsACorpse TheFarmerAsACorpse 18-21, T Nov 7

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    I just found out from a friend a guy has a

    crush on me! I'm going to meet him at lunch Can't wait He told my friend that do you know Hailey ****** Any of course she said yes then he told her she liked me and want to tell me My friend told me he really likes me! But there's one odd thing about it she described him and...
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 21

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    Not So Many I Think...

    Being myself and knowing how I look like and who I really i'm.I won't be surprised knowing that no one or almost no one had a crush on me.Because what they would had crush on me?.I don't even like  myself so how anyone could like me in any way? What can attract them to me?.Hard...
    MissAgni MissAgni 26-30, F 10 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 23

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    haha...maybe when I was younger.

    .not now since I usually get to know it
    genesis99 genesis99 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 15

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    This is a legit question

    that i will never know the answer to. All the years of my life and meeting so many people, i couldn't get the full answer. I'd like to think i had some though
    yourecute yourecute 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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