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I Wonder How People Really Feel About Me

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    I Always Wonder How People Really Feel About Me

    maybe this is why im so insecure and unsure of the situation I always have to be reassured and told that "its kool" or that things are ok but maybe if your reading this your somewhat like this too and im not alone !!! ☺
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    I do wonder sometimes

    but try not to let it effect me
    clurrby clurrby 31-35, F Apr 7

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    I Wonder!!

    i often wonder what people really think of me, cos im such an insecure person, and although people often tell me that im a nice guy, i still often wonder if thats what they really think of me, or if they think differently of me, and just dont want to tell me how they really feel...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 2 Responses May 23, 2010

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    Scared But...

    Ya I guess I would Like to know, How people really feel about me...Just note, that while you do have a right to your opinion, I have a right to block you, and I will.One thing I won't do is, I won't delete comments.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 20, 2010

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    That Wonder In Life...

    Today I was talking with a friend and she told me that my other really close friend was talking behind my back...now her being very close kinda made me think that my friend was joking around but I really look at her and see she had on a serious face. I was wishing, hoping, for it...
    secretpanda secretpanda 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2012

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    Sometimes I wonder if I died today

    who would be the most broken up about my death. Who wouldn't care? What would be said at my funeral? What things would people say about me now they know I would never ever find out...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    All the time, I am wondering how people really

    feel about me, even my close friends. I don't know if its paranoia that everyone secretly hates me, I just don't know.
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 29

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    ♦i Wish I Could Read Someone's Mind Just For A Second♦

    I WONDER........Two words, three sylablles........and believe you me, I do a lot of it wondering that is ...............Wondering if what I just said sounded dumb. Wondering if these pants I have on make my belly look fat. Wondering if anyone will like the new side dish I am...
    gilted gilted 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2011

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    Um....

    I think title pretty much says it all.  I wonder how people really feel about me.  The honest truth.  Not some sugar coated version of it.  I tend to see myself as one big messed up train wreck.  I wonder what others see.........
    ChristineJones ChristineJones 31-35, F 13 Responses May 30, 2010

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    I think I have an idea.

    ................................... If you don't really like me tell me right off the bat.
    sashakimi3 sashakimi3 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    Free From Boredom

    I was bored the other day, and I decided to browse the Internet for a while. I was googling for free games and applications, and I stumbled upon the website PCStuffs4U. http://www.pcstuffs4u.com/ i know you would like to have free games and softwares and many more so i am...
    mystyraine mystyraine 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    I Guess I Don't Take Compliments Well

    I'm always so confused I don't consider myself ugly duck, but i know i could improve myself. It is really hard when my friends give me compliments and i'm thinking yeh whatever bro i don't believe you. I'm always saying how im going to work out that day and that i cant eat this...
    Shyone2 Shyone2 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    1 Shot

    This is your shot to say what it is you feel. Love me hate me? what is it? Anything about me you can't stand let me know. Do you have what it takes to say what you really feel? or are you a coward?
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 27 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    All the damn time. I hate

    that I care too much about what everyone thinks of me and I want to change that. People who can be happy with themselves perplex me. I have no idea how they do it.
    mahnouls mahnouls 16-17 1 Response Apr 8

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    Is It All Just Lies?

    Are you just pretending to like me? Am I dead weight? Someone who lingers around without actually being welcome? Am I someone so out of place and awkward that I'm unsuitable for conversation? If not, then why do I constantly feel like that? If you actually give a damn you'll...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2013

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    I Put Up An Act

    I put up an act at school so that i don't have to feel guilty when people say mean things about me because i know it's just an act and i hate it when im being myself and someone critisises me for it
    antoinette97 antoinette97 13-15 Dec 21, 2012

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    So... I just put myself out there.

    Took an indirect risk. I really want to get to know this guy names Todd better. He is hard to read and he will undoubtedly be a tough egg to crack. Baby steps! If I never put myself out there, then I would always wonder what I missed. Cheers to being brave and not being the...
    sunshine1221 sunshine1221 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    People

    are always nice to my face, but I feel, the minute I turn my back, the truth comes out.  They don't like me.  They think I'm crazy.   I hate feeling that way... but it's how I feel. so lift me up people. how do you really feel about me? 
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 4, 2010

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    It is a wonder of mine.

    ..more than anything for curiosity.Sometimes I wonder if I am giving the right message or maybe I am showing stuff people interpretates totally wrong.For example,showing a bad face coz you are sad and people think you are an unfriendly person. I am sure and certain about lots of...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Mixed Reactions

    I do get a lot of mixed reactions on EP from people.  I do want to know why people agree to join my circle or me to join theres and then shut me out or ignore me.  Do people just can not be bothered to find out who I am.  It seems as though I comment on peoples...
    realworld2 realworld2 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 4, 2010

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    They Say So, But...

    Sometimes I wonder if certain people aren't lying about how they feel about me. For example, I have a friend (not someone on EP, don't be paranoid) whom I've been out of touch with for a while. The last time I talked to her, she seemed happy to hear from me... a little too happy...
    de1eted de1eted 13-15 1 Response Oct 7, 2010

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    I Know Now..

    It sucks when you realize you rejected other people for that one person that wasted your time
    mystyraine mystyraine 16-17, F 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    Sometimes

    Sometimes,I wonder,How people feel,When I'm around,Is it good?Is it bad?I don't know,In fact,I don't really care.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 7, 2012

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    Don't Know Myself

    Sometimes I look into the eyes of people who are looking at me and wonder who they are seeing. I don't even know myself. I have so many different personalities depending on the situation i'm in I feel like im split into about 10 different people sometimes. I'm quiet around my...
    aplacenobodyknowsmyname aplacenobodyknowsmyname 13-15 Jul 4, 2010

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    So I'm pretty well like in my school

    and in my diverse circle, but there's something missing. Ever since I could remember I've been insecure about my self, no matter the amount of love I get from friends and family. It's always there, deep deep down. I'll admit I do worry about what people think about me although I...
    bigballinboi22 bigballinboi22 18-21, M Mar 8

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    Truth

    i'd rather that if someone didn't like me for whatever reason that they would just tell me. even if it's just a small thing that they don't like about my character. for example some people think that i can get quite intense in my relationships. that could be a good or bad thing...
    AMCG AMCG 18-21, M 1 Response May 22, 2010

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    If i die i really wanna knoe

    who cares for me. Some times words aren't enough
    ashley486 ashley486 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I wonder if people really like me

    or if they're distracted by my huge size
    fatty2323 fatty2323 16-17, F Mar 8

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    All The Time.

    Every day of my life i wonder how people really feel about me. I always feel like people just use me, and pretend to like me because I help people, or make something for one person then everyone else wants it. I honestly think i have maybe, 4 or 5 real friends. If i could have...
    catchingyourclouds catchingyourclouds 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Some Times I Try Too Hard Becalse

    some times i try too hard to make people like me becalse of my self seteem some times i have it and some times i dont . what do you think of me as a person ? those that know me and have read my blogs thanks sents 2001 my life began to change for the better I...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 5 Responses May 15, 2010

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    I Want You

    to best honest.   what are your thoughts?   about me?  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 14, 2010

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    i think i need to stop thinking about what

    other people think of me. to please everyone is impossible ill just make you very unhappy and life is too short to be unhappy!
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I feel like if I ever pass away nobody would

    notice. It's probably true, oh well I guess nobody cares
    PedroNune PedroNune 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    Pretty Ironic

    I try to do the right thing and I try to do it consistently, so I normally feel that others around me have a good impression of me.  I'm very chivalrous (compliment women, hold doors, pull out chairs, etc), but I wonder if that makes other husbands feel that I'm a show off...
    colt1969 colt1969 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Sometimes I wonder how people really feel about

    me. I wonder about my friends, my family, and just people as a whole. I'm 16 years old I got pregnant when I was 14 had my baby when I was 15 and I just feel like people judge me all the time. Everyone acts cool around me but I just wonder what they really feel and what they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 7

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    I Wonder How People Really Feel About Me >>>>

    I wonder this all the time!!!??? I think I have friends and people that care about me. But do they really feel that way or are they just saying that not to hurt my feelings?! They have called me nutter and crazy is that how they really feel???? I sure wish i could figure it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 13, 2011

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    I could use some criticism.

    .. Whenever I answer a question in class I get really intense inside. Is it arrogance is it pride? I dont know. I do answer questions with intensity and with authority. I try not to but thats just how I express myself. I think people take it as arrogance and it totally turns...
    Es777 Es777 26-30, M Mar 24

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    Read This ..

    I Believe That People Feel That I'm Annoying. People Have Told Me I'm Annoying. I Can't Help It, That's Just How I Am. People End Up Not Talking To Me Anymore Or Responding To Any Of My Texts, Then I Get Sad & Depressed And Say "what did I say that was wrong?" . I Also Believe...
    CookieMonster62 CookieMonster62 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    I always second guess myself

    when I'm talking to someone I don't know that well . I wonder if they actually like me or if it's fake and I'm actually annoying them.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    littlechief79 littlechief79 31-35, F Jul 14

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    But After All, Who's Honest?

    even if there was a way to ask people to tell me what they think about me, who would be brave enough to tell me the truth?If i was in this position, if someone asked me for the truth, i dont know if i could tell it to everyone....maybe just a few certain people....but probably...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F Jul 17, 2011

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    ashley486 ashley486 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Sometimes

    I DO wonder that. Even though I really know I shouldn't let things like that effect me......
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M Aug 26, 2010

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    People say I'm nice and funny,

    but somehow I don't think it's true considering I'm really rude and mean sometimes.
    ash5437 ash5437 16-17, F Jul 11

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    They Think I'm Amazing

    Yes it's true I think..well actually what I should be saying is that I know people think I'm just totally amazing and then some. I've heard through the grapevine that people think of me as they're God or something like that in that form. And you know what?...I think they are...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 21, 2013

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    Insecurity Or Truth?

    I pretty much always see myself as the outsider in each group, but I don't think this is an unpopular feeling especially in teenagers. The thing is I probably should out grow this feeling, and I started reaching out to people. I remember in highschool I did try that, and I tried...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F Aug 23, 2012

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    An Extroverted Loner?

    Sometimes I feel like I just don't understand people. I am a person pleaser, I am the type that would do anything to see another person smile yet most of my days go by without one single call or hello from any of my "friends", although its always smiles and happiness when we...
    taureanlover taureanlover 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2010

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    I've been thinking about this lately as I've been meeting many new people and at the same time following necessary routines that take up all of my time, where I'm with these...
    LEMONkinks LEMONkinks 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Today the weather was really hot, and i was walking under the sun.i saw a cafe and decided to go in and get a cold beverage while i catch my breath. I walked to the counter.There...
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    I know that I am beautiful, it's just that I wonder what other people see☺️ the thought that we are all created to be loved and give love back, it makes me wonder wether people...
    Vickypearl Vickypearl 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Ever since i was young i've tried looking the best playing the part after time i saw that people only thought of me as fake and a wanna be, after that people started pushing me...
    Dck101 Dck101 13-15, M 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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