I Wonder If a Straight Guy Can Fall For His Gay Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 613 People

    Saw Him Today.

    I have a group of about 8 friends that I've been with since high school and to me they are my brothers and sisters. I love them all in a way that is beyond best friendship. I know it is naive to think that I could ever be with one of them because of how strong that bond is. It...
    Tru3Flight91 Tru3Flight91
    26-30, M
    Dec 23, 2012

    I used to be bestfriends with this guys

    girlfriend. She dumped him and we got really close and he walks me to classes and tells me he wins his basketball games for me like everyday and all these cute things but he's always like "I'm straight"and we were talking about hooking up and he always says the only thing...
    anon12500 anon12500
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 26, 2014

    The Love Of My Life

    This is something that I rarely talk about with anybody. It is absolutely possible for a best friend to fall and have something for his gay friend. I've already written one story about my current situation, but this is a past one.... When I was 18, a lady I worked with and got...
    jslv jslv
    31-35, M
    20 Responses Mar 16, 2013

    I'm pretty much in love with my only male

    friend, but he's straight. I'm not sure if he knows that I'm gay, but it's not hard to tell due to my femininity and mannerisms. Lately he's been acting flirtatiously, sometimes out of nowhere, usually in a playful way, but he's begun taking it further by telling me that "I'm so...
    Graeve Graeve
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

    So I go to class with my best friend,

    Hayden, and he is always touching me(like my abdomen and legs and hair and my face). Then he will always text me at night after his basketball practice and I told him I was gay and he was really open about it and then I asked him if he was gay and he got all uptight and mad that...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2015

    If Only

    I'm bi and have have fancied my best mate for almost 8 years now, often fantasising about him and ******* him. I know he's straight as he has a kid and many gf's , but he's said things like if he were gay he'd be with me, i jus wish i'd pluck the courage and tell him how i really...
    xRimsayx xRimsayx
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2013

    It Happened To Me

    I was straight...well i thought I was straight. Well I guess I still am because the only boy I can look at in a romantic and sexual way is my bestfriend, who is now my boyfriend. And im completely head over heels for him.
    EvanSabaku EvanSabaku
    13-15, M
    Dec 20, 2011

    My Strait Friend Makes Me Unsure

    Ok, so im bi. ive been out with a few girls but now my best friend has me so confused. let me start from the begining, but i do warn you its long. i moved a long way from home after high school and needed an apartment fast, well i was attending my first college class and had to...
    ChandlerBing33 ChandlerBing33
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Jul 10, 2012

    I Think My Friend Is Gay...

    OK so let me start of by saying that I'm a gay boy and I really love guys. Right let's get on with the story. It all began when I was at a festival with my friend let's call him J so anyway j was at this festival with him and group of my friends. We came to this theme park part...
    tunnelfear tunnelfear
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Aug 13, 2013

    Well,Its a long story.

    .. There's a guy in my class, lets name him Brad.We used be friends 4 years ago but then i got into other friends n he also got new friends.At that time I used to get jealous of him cause girls used to admire him for his looks n muscles n I used to be like a patato. But time...
    Aleczender Aleczender
    22-25, M
    Feb 18, 2016

    *Part 3* Chris's birthday came up in July,

    so I bought him a basketball which he needed since he's a player. And I made him a beach party with his close friends including Joyce. As soon as she arrived they immediately were together, holding hands, kissing....hugging. Of course at the moment I acted normal and happy...
    MikeAnton14 MikeAnton14
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    Falling For My Best Friend Is Ruining Our Friendship

    So i'm 18 at university, gay (not out to the world yet) and the other guy is 19 and "straight." We met the beginning of my freshman year and clicked instantly. He is a real stand up guy which drew me in. He took a genuine interest in me and vise versa. We bonded so tightly that...
    mysterymac mysterymac
    18-21, M
    10 Responses May 18, 2012

    Half the people under 24

    now admit they're not straight. It's time to stop identifying ourselves with labels. https://yougov.co.uk/news/2015/08/16/half-young-not-heterosexual/
    PolyesterTrouser PolyesterTrouser
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 25, 2015

    Is My Straight Friend In Love With Me?

    Ok. THIS IS LONG, SO IF YOU ENJOY A STORY, HERES A LONG ONE.. Heres how it unfolds: First off, Im gay and masculine, and most straight guys are shocked that I am gay.. I met this guy, we'll call him JOE, through a good friend of mine. This was 4 years ago, and there was an...
    UbiquitousMrLovegrove UbiquitousMrLovegrove
    31-35, M
    18 Responses Jun 8, 2012

    A Hard Relationship

    I have been in love with my straight friend now for the last three years. We met at work and i had an instant liking to him. With time it grew stronger and became more noticeable. While I couldn't say how I felt (mostly cos  been trying to hide my feelings), I did want to be...
    russrv3nge russrv3nge
    5 Responses Nov 8, 2010

    I Think I Am Falling For My Girl Friend Ex Boyfriend

    I was a straight man until I started dating my current GF. She brought out or mabe showed me how to be BI not sure confused. I dress as a man when at work and when I get home I dress as o women. I do wear women panties and bra every day.( she through out my men's underware) I...
    Keliegh Keliegh
    41-45, M
    7 Responses Aug 4, 2012

    im falling to this straight guy

    and i dont know what to do. should i talk to him and tell him how i feel?
    zurygao zurygao
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 4, 2014

    Right hey people. Just to start off with,

    I'm a gay guy but very masculine. I am the sort of guy that can flirt with girls but is 100% gay. Anyway I'm not the kind of guy that tells everyone his feelings except my close friends and my sister. BTW I'm out but only to my close friends and family except they think I'm...
    needshelps needshelps
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Jan 4, 2014

    So Confused

    Ok so i am an 18 year old college student who has never been so confused in my entire life. Im gay and open about it, it took many years but i finally came out last summer to all my best friends. My family doesnt know but thats besides the point. My best friend lets call him tb...
    tequilaville tequilaville
    18-21, M
    8 Responses Jan 25, 2012

    I love women don't get me wrong

    but gay guys turns me on
    deleted deleted
    Feb 19, 2014

    But I Still Love You

    A few years ago when I was entering my 8th grade and I had met this guy. He took my breath away I amediately loved everything about him they way he walked he talked his eyes his hair everything. Well as the school year progressed we became close we had so much in common same kind...
    Biggek45 Biggek45
    5 Responses Jun 14, 2013

    I Never Thought This Could Happen.

    I'm a gay 26 year old male. I've been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for over a year. I've never cheated on him, and never dreamed of it. Turn the clock back to middle school/high school. My best friend of almost 10 years, maybe more, we always hung out. After...
    UnchartedTerritory UnchartedTerritory
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Dec 18, 2012

    OMG! If this is true please let me know

    because I have a straight best friend who I think that I would be great for and him for me. After my ex he brought back the ability for me to feel again
    Icephoenix90 Icephoenix90
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

    Are any of you familiar eight the cool,

    outgoing, friendly straight best friend who is either getting hooked-up with every girl on campus, even the older ones (senpai, upperclassmen, teachers, profs, bosses, MILFs, etc) because he has the “perfect body” and really good in sex or is practically friends with the...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 8, 2014

    There is this guy that's on my school with whom

    I've been in love with since school started. I don't even know if he's straight or not because he's pretty feminine and is into one direction more than any girl that I know. I told him that I'm gay and I wasn't expecting him to keep it to himself but it still broke my heart...
    Jeisac Jeisac
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Dec 14, 2013

    Straight Man In Long Term Gay Relationship

    I'm a 32 year old guy and have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 10 years (we started as friends and it grew from there). He thought I was gay at first. I've always known I was straight but for the first couple of years I found, perhaps due to my immaturity, it...
    michael0381 michael0381
    11 Responses Apr 30, 2013
    Cortez95 Cortez95
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 8, 2015

    I have a huge crush on my straight best friend.

    We have such a good time. He got naked for me the other night, out on his back porch after his gf went to bed. I gave him a blow job, and swallowed his sweet load. After that, he gave me a hand job. Let me blow his load all over his face. The day after he pretended like it never...
    RomanNZolanski16 RomanNZolanski16
    31-35, M
    1 Response Aug 21, 2014

    *Part 2* Joyce is one of my dearest friends,

    and she was interested in my best friend Chris. So it kinda hurt me deciding wether to give Joyce, Chris's phone number, but I did. I knew she would make him forget about Polly, I knew she was a real and worthy girl compared to Polly who treated him badly. Despite my feelings...
    MikeAnton14 MikeAnton14
    18-21, M
    Aug 20, 2015

    I Guess I Was Just an Experiment For a Straight Guy.

    During the Winter of my senior year I started the high school party scene. At these parties, I started to drink with this straight guy everybody knew. Known him for a couple years only to be acquaintances in school. (He graduated a year before I did.) Your average cocky...
    iwannarock iwannarock
    22-25, M
    39 Responses Mar 12, 2012

    I just wanted to know

    if this means anything. Firstly I'm gay. Secondly I'm a sophomore in high and have a crush on a senior. Ok so i told this guy I liked him over the summer. The guy that I told is supposedly straight. However now I'm confused. He says hi to me more and such and a couple of days...
    dan827 dan827
    16-17, M
    Sep 19, 2015

    So I know this story is a little weird

    but I don't care about it. I use to live on a street called south city in this apartment complex and I met this boy who was in the same grade as me at the time (5th grade) who was short, had beautiful brown skin, and had dreads . We would always hang out and play video games...
    mrjohnnyx mrjohnnyx
    18-21, M
    Jun 21, 2014

    Ok so I have this friend ( We'll just call him

    newbie) and we are almost always in classes together but every time I would sit in class he winks or just even touches me in a sensual-like fashion on the shoulder or even my *** ( which I cussed at him for). but last week when I was sitting in mass (yes I attend catholic school...
    mrjohnnyx mrjohnnyx
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 26, 2014

    It All Start After Drinking.

    I am a Filipino. 18 years old, I have a straight best friend. He was my best friend since high school. He used to be my classmate and I wasn't into him, I was in love with another guy. We drink very often after class, and every Friday's we used to drink at his house. Since our...
    kioorbin kioorbin
    4 Responses Feb 3, 2013

    This is quite a long story,

    but I'm gonna try to summarize it the best I can. So, I have this best friend called Chris, and another one called Polly. At the start of this new year Polly and my brother were dating, and this guy in my class "Chris" liked her. The thing is that before new year when we were...
    MikeAnton14 MikeAnton14
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    That reminds me of my Bromeo,he's gay I'm

    straight girl. He always fall for the straight guys and end up getting hurt(one christian straight guy dated him for about 1or2 years) There's one guy even takes advantage of his crush and dally with him. Sometimes I'm really pissed seeing him getting dallied.
    Allyanqi Allyanqi
    22-25, F
    Aug 31, 2014

    I have a straight friend about 12 years.

    Used to work together since I moved to other country. After few years we connected again. I said to him I am gay and he accepted very cool. I said to him I have a feeling about him and while I was working with him could say was difficult!! He said he likes me very much and...
    Bulkver Bulkver
    36-40, M
    Aug 14, 2014

    The Only Person I've Ever Been In Love With Is Straight. And I'm Gay.

    I'm 16 and in love. Now I understand many people reading this will think I'm being too naive; that I may not know what 'love' really is at such a young age. But I've had crushes before, I've really liked guys before. This is something else.I first met this boy in my English...
    LCROmshompwae LCROmshompwae
    4 Responses May 9, 2012

    hi everyone im new here this is kinda long ,

    my first experience was when i was in 8th grade well call him jon.anyway hw would always spend the weekend by my house we were like bestfriends. one day he started dating a freind of mine,and i started feeling kind off mad about it i wasn't sure about the feeling because i also...
    reddboyyh reddboyyh
    22-25, M
    Jun 30, 2014

    If you ask you spouse

    if they have gay tendencies and they say what do you mean. You'll tell them. Them they ask sincerely why are you asking me this. But never answer, just looks at you crazy. Does mean yes or hell no???
    PoEticallyDrivEn PoEticallyDrivEn
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2016

    Straight Guy, Gay Tendencies,

    ok so there's this guy i know, we have been best friends for a while now, and hes always been straight, went out with tons of girls hangs out with a group of only straight guys and is a very attractive looking person deep voice and the whole package ..recently things between me...
    gamerrrrTVVT gamerrrrTVVT
    5 Responses Dec 4, 2011

    So I have this friend.

    And I really liked her. But I didn't think she'd like me. Now she's told me she liked me. And A) I'm unsure of weather I should ask her out or not and B) even I I should I'm to scared of rejection
    Internetphan Internetphan
    16-17, F
    Oct 4, 2014

    I Have a friend and we just gonna call him sed ,

    from the first day of high school I've seen him walking in the hallway he's always quiet and didn't really talk to people. So about a month or two came and I noticed he rode my bus . So I missed the bus and told my mom to drop me off at his stop and when she did he was standing...
    moneybaby45 moneybaby45
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2014

    "Life After Being An Experiment For Straight

    Guy." I really want to thank everyone for taking the time to read a part of my life that I wanted to share in my previous story. I hope it could help with anyone who feels that they are in similar situations or just to cope with everyday life. I know that life doesn't always...
    iwannarock iwannarock
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2014

    I am a 19-years-old mexican guy.

    I have a friend that I met doing my military service. We are both handsome dudes and he is one of the few male friends I still have. I've been crushed on him since we met, yet he doesn't know I like boys. We are always kidding and mocking each other, but lately I've been feeling...
    Shouldntbecrushed Shouldntbecrushed
    22-25, M
    2 Responses May 17, 2015
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