I Wonder If I Am a Bad Friend

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    i have this one friend ive been friend with

    for a long time, we talk all the time on messenger but someties i wonder if im really a good friend..:( i dont always do the things she wants i sometimes ignore her and just leave..when i say what i truly meant she gets all mad at me like i dont care what shes talking about but...
    JJsFate JJsFate
    22-25, M
    Dec 9, 2014

    I Sometimes Wonder If Im a Bad Friend

    i sometimes wonder if i might be a bad friend i hope not
    F5Twister F5Twister
    26-30, M
    Mar 13, 2008

    There Must Be Something Wrong With Me..

    Sometimes I think I am a bad friend.. because sometimes I think I've made a new friend.. online or offline, and then after a while they just stop talking to me. So I just wonder if I've done something wrong. Then sometimes I find out that my friends are going through stuff...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes
    18-21, F
    Feb 2, 2010

    Must Be Me

    I can't always be a shoulder. I know it's impossible to be perfect, but I wish that i could always be that shoulder. But at the same time I have to look out for myself because there seems to be a lack of shoulders for ME to cry on. It must be awful of me to be there for them, but...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    Jul 13, 2008

    I've been hanging out with my boyfriend more

    often lately. I work and go to school, so I only have 2 or 3 days a week to hang out. Sometimes less if there are more projects or tests. I have been hanging out with my best friend less because of my situation. It's also very frustrating trying to make plans with her. It can...
    berrybanana berrybanana
    22-25, F
    Dec 26, 2015

    I had a "friend" that was rarely available.

    And when I told her I had enough of her pretentiousness and constant unavailability, she then became concerned; by then I felt she was too late. As I get older, I don't want to feel so final and unforgiving. I teach my girls to be better friends, if they value the friendship...
    1LadyButterfly 1LadyButterfly
    41-45, F
    Jan 22, 2014

    I Seriosly Don´t Know

    In fact I have been used by friends since I was a child. I remember that nobody in the kindergarden wanted to play with me, because I had not a mother ( !!!!!! ) Yes, they bullied me all the time that I had not a mother. I was not shy as kid, but I was very worry to get close to...
    Polixena Polixena
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Mar 10, 2012

    Please please please talk to me.

    :( I miss you so much. I have a periodic squeezy feeling in my heart, followed by tears. :/ :( please. I am begging you. Can memory not vanish? Can we not pretend it never happened? Can we please pretend I'm the most important thing to you? Please? It would give me comfort even...
    stabbedtoceasersalad stabbedtoceasersalad
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    Please help I need advice!

    ! went to see a guy 200 miles away recently This guy is housemates with one of my long time friends She is angry with me because I didn't tell her I was visiting before hand and that I only phoned her once I was there I really like this guy and we are trying to work out what...
    Confuzed11 Confuzed11
    22-25
    Feb 21, 2015

    I really wonder if I am.

    Like am I bad for being friends with him? Am I just a bad friend in general? Did I do something to make you mad?
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan
    18-21
    Feb 7, 2014

    Drifter

    I don't exactly push people away...  I tend to sort of drift away from people instead. I'm generally a good friend at the surface. I'm always nice, I never want to cause conflict, I'm generous, I'm a good listener, I'm not boring, I will never reveal a close friend's secret...
    HeartsWillHold HeartsWillHold
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 28, 2010

    I have been friends with this girl

    since fifth grade, but we had a falling out in our last year of junior high. She joined with two of my other friends, who all decided that I was a lesbian and had to tell them, or they would stop being friends with me. I told them that I didn't like girls, and they didn't...
    ArsenicTea ArsenicTea
    22-25, F
    Aug 14, 2014

     I Am Not An Outgoing ...

     I am not an outgoing person...I'm a poet, and I tend to seek my own space perhaps too much.  Yet, I enjoy partying and miss it often but don't always know how to balance the two.  So, sometimes I feel I neglect my friends - and yet, my best friends (all 3 of them...
    bobbyjean bobbyjean
    51-55
    Jul 18, 2009

    I Always Look At Myself Fro...

    I always look at myself from someone else's shoes and I like to judge whether what I'm doing is a good thing or a bad thing depending on how I feel.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 18, 2009

    I Shouldn't Be A Friend

    I push people away, and I'm always mean.  After knowing me for about 3 or 4 months, I have noticed and have been told that I'm mean.  My work partner is also a friend I hang out with sometimes on weekends, but he's told me I'm mean to him.  I was mean to my ex...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
    22-25, F
    Mar 8, 2010

    I Can't Do Anything Right

    I've tried to be a good friend, tried to be there, but the harder I try, the more I seem to be doing wrong. I get told that I don't understand, that I wouldn't want to know; I always say the wrong thing. It's not that I don't care, coz I do, so much. It's just that I don't know...
    hurtandpain hurtandpain
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Mar 11, 2010

    sometimes I feel like I'm a bad friend.

    especially when they're hurting and I don't know how to give them advice because it never works and they never want to listen. and sometimes I'm annoying. and when it's there birthday I never give them anything because I don't have money but they always do and I hate it.
    BABA4801 BABA4801
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2015

    I have this one friend Jenny

    who I've been friends with since my freshman year of high school. We re sophomores in college now so it's kinda hard to keep in touch. I reach out and she does occasionally but we re both just busy people. She's the type of friend that I know we re growing apart, but if one of...
    nikkikknowshope nikkikknowshope
    18-21, F
    Nov 8, 2015

    One of my best friends (let's call her Jade)'s

    brother passed away three months. My other best friend (let's call her Angie) told me that he got shot by gansters and that's why she couldn't get a hold of him. Jade private messaged me on Facebook that she's pissed that I didn't tell her that her brother was engaged Angie. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 5, 2015

    More than somebody thinks so, perhaps

    Well, in order to avoid misunderstandings, I must start saying that for me the concept of “friend” may be more or less different than your one, so, even if we all normally use the same word also for people we just have to stay in touch with - like schoolmates, co-workers, or...
    mat4 mat4
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2013

    Is It Only Me Or Them To?

    Idk anymore. I had awsome friends but I got a little depressed over something that happened in my life. I didn't share it with my friends at the time because I didn't want to worry them. I guess I got a little more silent and stuff. And at one point I told them what was wrong...
    ArgetGarm ArgetGarm
    16-17, F
    Dec 11, 2011

    My bestfriend asked me

    for the answers for tonight's homework and I though she only needed a few. Turns out she wanted all of them! It's hard for me to say no so I waver it. I ended up saying no and she got mad at me. Now she's not answering my text. On her behalf she claims that whenever I need...
    unthinkablesoul unthinkablesoul
    13-15, F
    Mar 30, 2014

    so my friend said he wants to try drugs.

    was it wrong of me to tell him " if I find out about you doing drugs I will kick your ***" was that a sorta-correct response ?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 6, 2015

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