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I Wonder If I Should Stay Or Go

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 191 People

    Why Stay?

    I have three been married for 6 years and I'm unhappy...and everything he's boy willing yo do or is laborious for him to do someone else does with ease and willingly. I want to jump ship to get in another. I know it sounds bad but why should I stay?
    titanicdreamz titanicdreamz 26-30, F Jun 19, 2012

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    Fungirlmmmm's Fault

       I story I posted on FG story was just the beginning of the ,"Should I stay or Should I Go" moments in my life. I know it's okay to have your own ideas and opinions about anything that involves your life. Sometimes you go along to get along. That can be a...
    Caliper Caliper 56-60, M 5 Responses May 27, 2009

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    piercethemack piercethemack 13-15, M Oct 22

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    Where Are You Going By the Way?

    It doesn't matter what you do or do not do - there is NO WAY to stay or go wherever unless you must.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Jun 18, 2009

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    Two Roads Diverged In a Wood

    You're probably asking yourself how in the name of everything sacred can someone like me who seems to be a confident, balanced person can honestly ask themselves a question like this. Well I'll tell you - I ask this question not just about EP or AOL or even the Internet at large...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27, 2009

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    Lost Myself Somewhere Along The Line

    My husband has been away off and on for weeks. At first it bothered me. I was so sad with the holiday's coming up. Now I found my rhythm and I hate to say it I am happy. I am relaxed. I am sleeping at night and waking up rested. He's due back and I honestly am scared of how he...
    dreamingkitty dreamingkitty 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2011

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    Retirement Or The Epicenter Of Infamy?

    I don't pretend to have answers as to the complex question of me staying on EP or going. So many times, it hardly seems worth the effort to actually stick around yet I have a seemingly sudden plethora of people who harken to my door, distressed over the mere possibility of me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27, 2010

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    Fresh Start? Same Routine? D:

    So, i have the chance for a fresh start.. but I'm not sure if i want to go for it...   I can go live with my dad in another city, or i can continue living miserably with my mom.. I really want to live with my dad... but ... i don't want to leave my sisters! UGH...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    HMMM

    I wonder if I should stay or go.  How many of you have uttered those words aloud or to yourself at some point in your life?  What did you do and how did you decide what to do?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 11 Responses May 25, 2009

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    ChloeGomez ChloeGomez 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    Its Been On My Mind A Lot Lately, Even More The Past Two Days...

    I have been thinking about weather I should stay on Ep lately. Been wondering what's the point....I don't know. It was on my mind. I keep saying when its all good, that I would never delete my account again, and I would never leave again, but when things are bad, and like now, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2009

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    Warning: this is a long one,

    but it's interesting! I think... I am in college in my country,and the easy way to put it? I hate it here. I don't know if y'all know what's mugging,but it's like just chucking truck loads of information at one time so as to vomit it out during examination. I hate the education...
    GreyMattertome GreyMattertome 16-17, F Nov 9

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    'I will let you go go,

    If you stay'
    ChloeGomez ChloeGomez 13-15, F Oct 22

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    Dealing With Emotions

    I have come a long way to admit that I have commitment issues. I don't like to get attached, and as sad as it sounds, despite that I have been in 4 long term relationships, even married once, I have never been in love. 2 years ago, after my divorce, I met this good looking guy...
    xusita xusita 31-35, F Aug 23, 2011

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    Scared

    My housemate pointed out that I haven't been socializing with other people other than her e.g have my own friends blabla.. I thought it must have nagged on her conscience that I don't this...I couldn't fathom why there should be a reason for everything.. well, I was feeling down...
    amejad amejad 22-25, F May 9, 2011

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    Should I Leave My Drug Addict Husband He Says He Changed! Help!

    I have been married to my husband now for just over 13 years.  We have been together since high school and neither of us ever really dated anyone else.  The marriage has been rocky at times, and he has pretty much been lazy and selfish most of the time.  We have...
    marshall123 marshall123 36-40 1 Response Jan 28, 2010

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    Sometimes...

    Sometimes I wonder if I should stay here, or if I should just go for a while. I do love it here, and think it is an amazing site and I have a great time here, but sometimes, I feel like I can't be me, because I feel like I am going to hurt others, by letting them know how I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Uht2014 Uht2014 46-50, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Back in 2002-2003 I was at my heaviest...weighing in at approx. 320lbs. I was obese...unhappy....lethargic and just living for the selfish reason of excess and self gratification...
    Moonhowler15 Moonhowler15 31-35, M Nov 5

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    I have come across so many guys who are sweet and nice and act like they are not attached. They are very friendly and wants to stay in touch but thankfully don't feel like I am...
    whitefrost whitefrost 46-50, F Nov 6

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    LOOKS MATTER. My weight has yo-yo'd my entire life and every time I've been in better shape people (both male and female) have treated me noticeably better. It sucks! So much...
    ozboybrian ozboybrian 26-30 1 Response Nov 16

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    I'm going to keep the answer short: for guys it's to **** ALL THE *******!!!! For ladies it's to TEASE ALL THE MEN!!! And also stay with one guy.
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M a week ago

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    You find someone on EP who appears distressed, apparently she seems concerned that people she meets here seem to ignore her after only a short acquaintance. So trying to be...
    Prerapher Prerapher 46-50, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I decided to stay home instead of getting married or having kids later than so early. Or if I told an authority figure what my home life was really like. Or if I just packed my...
    2infinityandbeyond 2infinityandbeyond 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    what's the point of living when you're useless? unwanted, untalented, worthless, fat, ugly, disgusting, society trash, waste of space? you know, i think of myself a lot worse than...
    roseinsurvival roseinsurvival 13-15 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    If my dad had stayed with my mom.
    WinterSkyout WinterSkyout 16-17, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Been feeling very lonely these days when it gets cold out I don't know I just want someone to lay near and cuddle with and my pillows just aren't cutting it for me I sit here all...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    It's been 12 hrs since we're on the phone. Never in my life I ever stay this long on the phone with someone. He's sleeping right now and I been awake for 2-3 hrs now after talking...
    masmelo masmelo 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    Yes I do wonder if anyone will miss me. I came from a wonderful loving family and was the oldest of six children. I had great parents who were there for me as a kid, and as an...
    kwzorek64 kwzorek64 61-65, F Nov 3

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    I sometimes wonder what it's like to be close to family. I don't talk to my parents because they're not very nice people and have caused me a lot of grief and misery when I was...
    spacepixie spacepixie 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    Due you know why the rain drops descend, The clouds break form and fall, Why the due drop unlocks from the grasp of the offshoots And break a million rainbows before the cusp of...
    xtaldart xtaldart 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 5

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    I've started just staying up really late, until like 5am..not even because I can't sleep, I can't face sleeping. I don't even know why. So I stay up on my iPad, watching stuff, on...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 10

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    I stay up late literally doing nothing and I hate it. I will know I have to get up early but I still stay up until like 4am doing absolutely nothing. It's weird because I dont want...
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    I wonder why people have a crush on me? I look like a boy, my hair is short and I never use dress unless at school uniform. My behaviour also like a boy. But now, some boys have a...
    Lovelyday235 Lovelyday235 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 29

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    I have always wondered this. I wish people would tell me sometimes. I don't think anyone does at the moment but i always wonder.
    JordynRenee1023 JordynRenee1023 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    I honestly wonder sometimes do people ever have crushes on me. I wonder if they do, is it that they don't want to tell me, It's not like I'm going to be rude if you tell me you...
    SuckMyAwesome SuckMyAwesome 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 29

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    I'm 25 and I joined this group 3 years ago. I made a post about being unhappy in my marriage over 2 years ago and guess what? I'm STILL miserable! I hate the thought of having to...
    Lovely0521 Lovely0521 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    I woke up at 3pm yesterday...I stayed up till 8pm. I stayed up till 3am....I wake up at 9am There is no logic.
    SunsetTears SunsetTears 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 31

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    Once i stayed up for 4 days at the end of the fourth day i couldn't stay awake any more so i just closes my eyes and fell asleep in like 2 seconds
    thedon11 thedon11 13-15, M Nov 5

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    I wonder sometimes, if I'm either the villain or the hero, or maybe if I'm the evil witch. Sometimes I wonder if I'm the love interest, or the Aphrodite of the night. or merely...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I need to stay alive for the next 17 years at least. I have a 1 year old son. My husband gets acute short psychosis for 1-2 weeks when there is too much stress. For example some...
    LittleAnt LittleAnt 31-35, F Nov 10

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    I gave up working thirteen years ago to raise my children... I don't regret it... I was there for all their first... I'm lucky some moms miss out on their children's stepping...
    Lilsassywoman Lilsassywoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    I don't know why but for real as i try my best to make everyone happy and all, but always fail as people when know i am sensitive and also have health issues. I notice they get far...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 16

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    Isn't that what everything's there for? lol The greatest frustration is longing for answers you know you can never have. I was wondering about some mundane thing last night, just...
    niklb niklb 41-45, F a week ago

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