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I Wonder If I Should Stay Or Go

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    I wonder if I should stay or go.  How many of you have uttered those words aloud or to yourself at some point in your life?  What did you do and how did you decide what to do?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 11 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Retirement Or The Epicenter Of Infamy?

    I don't pretend to have answers as to the complex question of me staying on EP or going. So many times, it hardly seems worth the effort to actually stick around yet I have a seemingly sudden plethora of people who harken to my door, distressed over the mere possibility of me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27, 2010

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    I've already posted this

    but I need to add to this. Somebody please help me with this, I need it in like 1hour! I've been wanting to switch schools for a while now, I only have about 4 people I can actually call friends at my current school. And at the other school there a re so many nice people, I...
    xXShellyBeanXx xXShellyBeanXx 13-15, F May 5

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    Fresh Start? Same Routine? D:

    So, i have the chance for a fresh start.. but I'm not sure if i want to go for it...   I can go live with my dad in another city, or i can continue living miserably with my mom.. I really want to live with my dad... but ... i don't want to leave my sisters! UGH...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    ChloeGomez ChloeGomez 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    'I will let you go go,

    If you stay'
    ChloeGomez ChloeGomez 13-15, F Oct 22, 2014

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    Sometimes...

    Sometimes I wonder if I should stay here, or if I should just go for a while. I do love it here, and think it is an amazing site and I have a great time here, but sometimes, I feel like I can't be me, because I feel like I am going to hurt others, by letting them know how I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Scared

    My housemate pointed out that I haven't been socializing with other people other than her e.g have my own friends blabla.. I thought it must have nagged on her conscience that I don't this...I couldn't fathom why there should be a reason for everything.. well, I was feeling down...
    amejad amejad 22-25, F May 9, 2011

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    Move on already, everybody says.

    What they don't get is it's not so easy when the memories of us together are stuck on replay in my head. Your smile. Your eyes. Your sweet voice. How happy you made me. Those were some of my best memories, and i will never be able to erase them. If i could, i would in a...
    Jhayz Jhayz 26-30, F Apr 17

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    Can somebody seriously help,

    I've wanted to switch schools for a while. At this school I only have about 4 people I can actually call friends. And at the other school there are so many nice people plus I'd get a fresh start and I already have about 5 friends there and I've only actually been inside the...
    xXShellyBeanXx xXShellyBeanXx 13-15, F 1 Response May 3

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    Warning: this is a long one,

    but it's interesting! I think... I am in college in my country,and the easy way to put it? I hate it here. I don't know if y'all know what's mugging,but it's like just chucking truck loads of information at one time so as to vomit it out during examination. I hate the education...
    GreyMattertome GreyMattertome 18-21, F Nov 9, 2014

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    Lost Myself Somewhere Along The Line

    My husband has been away off and on for weeks. At first it bothered me. I was so sad with the holiday's coming up. Now I found my rhythm and I hate to say it I am happy. I am relaxed. I am sleeping at night and waking up rested. He's due back and I honestly am scared of how he...
    dreamingkitty dreamingkitty 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2011

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    Two Roads Diverged In a Wood

    You're probably asking yourself how in the name of everything sacred can someone like me who seems to be a confident, balanced person can honestly ask themselves a question like this. Well I'll tell you - I ask this question not just about EP or AOL or even the Internet at large...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27, 2009

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    Its Been On My Mind A Lot Lately, Even More The Past Two Days...

    I have been thinking about weather I should stay on Ep lately. Been wondering what's the point....I don't know. It was on my mind. I keep saying when its all good, that I would never delete my account again, and I would never leave again, but when things are bad, and like now, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2009

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    Would any of you stay

    for the sake of a child. A man I know was deceived and is now facing a tough situation. The child's mother says he cant see the baby unless he is with her. Mind you this woman is married with 2 other children. Anyone else been in a situation like this? I dont know what advice...
    VentiQuadLatte VentiQuadLatte 36-40, F May 3

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    Dealing With Emotions

    I have come a long way to admit that I have commitment issues. I don't like to get attached, and as sad as it sounds, despite that I have been in 4 long term relationships, even married once, I have never been in love. 2 years ago, after my divorce, I met this good looking guy...
    xusita xusita 31-35, F Aug 23, 2011

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    Fungirlmmmm's Fault

       I story I posted on FG story was just the beginning of the ,"Should I stay or Should I Go" moments in my life. I know it's okay to have your own ideas and opinions about anything that involves your life. Sometimes you go along to get along. That can be a...
    Caliper Caliper 56-60, M 5 Responses May 27, 2009

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    Why Stay?

    I have three been married for 6 years and I'm unhappy...and everything he's boy willing yo do or is laborious for him to do someone else does with ease and willingly. I want to jump ship to get in another. I know it sounds bad but why should I stay?
    titanicdreamz titanicdreamz 26-30, F Jun 19, 2012

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    Where Are You Going By the Way?

    It doesn't matter what you do or do not do - there is NO WAY to stay or go wherever unless you must.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Jun 18, 2009

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    Should I Leave My Drug Addict Husband He Says He Changed! Help!

    I have been married to my husband now for just over 13 years.  We have been together since high school and neither of us ever really dated anyone else.  The marriage has been rocky at times, and he has pretty much been lazy and selfish most of the time.  We have...
    marshall123 marshall123 36-40 1 Response Jan 28, 2010

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    BringMacktheHorizon BringMacktheHorizon 13-15, M Oct 22, 2014

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    Not often. And not five years from now. But me does wonder who will stay.
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    if I never met you or even if we stayed together n lived happily ever after
    OxymoronAya OxymoronAya 22-25, F May 4

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    I met this wonderful man the end of 2009. We dated until the beginning of 2011 and then moved in together . He was absolutely awesome. He had to shut down his business before...
    charmedwife charmedwife 46-50, F May 4

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    It's freaking 7:45 AM and I haven't CLOSED my eyes!!! Why? Hmmm a mountain of shoujo manga to read!!! Love is wonderful, love is cute, love is pure.... I will sleep now...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    I am a 19-years-old mexican guy. I have a friend that I met doing my military service. We are both handsome dudes and he is one of the few male friends I still have. I've been...
    Shouldntbecrushed Shouldntbecrushed 18-21, M 1 Response May 17

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    Hmm , i wanna go home , but i need to stay for two weeks a way .
    sam1992really1 sam1992really1 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I just finished preparing the documents to drop off with the school board for my son's first year of school. Homeschooling has been such a wonderful experience but I can't believe...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 22 hrs ago

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    I wonder if she knows How often I think of her Picturing her smile And green eyes that add allure I wonder if she knows All the little things she does That tugs at my...
    srfchopper srfchopper 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    I always wonder what would my life would have been like if I wasn't born in what seems to be my imagination. If people genuinely knew my existence and made a celebration out of it...
    deathnotefreak deathnotefreak 18-21, F 3 Responses May 4

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    I wonder why people make poison, store hate in their hearts. I wonder if we will ever unite, stand strong and tall. I wonder if we could all share what we have, making money no...
    YourHiddenSide YourHiddenSide 13-15, M 1 Response May 10

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    Joe more, you are the most wonderful thing that ever happen to me. Bed and Pillow, you are the most wonderful thing that ever happened to me every time I come home. Current Work, I...
    cmc2 cmc2 26-30 May 15

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    I grew up on the edge of a mid sized town . (in a modest pink house my grandfather painted when I was 2. I later painted it again when I was 12.. because of my moms favorite color...
    NotHooray NotHooray 56-60, M 1 Response May 17

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    I often wonder what if my parents would have never moved from the place that I was born. Would I have graduated high school, went to the local university, got a degree, got married...
    capehope3 capehope3 41-45 1 Response May 19

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    Positivity is one of those things that's a daily struggle for most people. The constant battle of finding the 'bright side' to every negative situation is good on paper, but when...
    BodybuilderAdam BodybuilderAdam 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I wonder if people wonder just like me. And if they are not just wondering like me what they will wonder about.
    AbsolutelyTotalZenImperium0001 AbsolutelyTotalZenImperium0001 46-50, M May 16

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    Once we have secured the basics: shelter, sustenance, and safety, we have the opportunity to wonder. Unfortunately, many times we pile objects on top of our daily lives and then...
    wuzgnu wuzgnu 61-65, M 2 days ago

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    It's only 1 am as I'm typing this but I stay up late . I USED TO suffer with insomnia but I've fixed that . Now since I'm graduated and Its basically summer for me I just stay up...
    FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul 18-21, F 27 Responses May 12

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    I have this deep facination with Wonder Woman, as a kid I used to dress up like wonder woman by wearing a paper crown and use a jump rope as my "lasso of truth" (my parents keep...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 29

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    I've always loved Alice in wonderland. Her reality is challenged at every twist and turn until she overcomes it. Nothing is what it seems in wonderland, just like in real life. It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 1

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