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I Wonder If I Should Stay Or Go

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    Lost Myself Somewhere Along The Line

    My husband has been away off and on for weeks. At first it bothered me. I was so sad with the holiday's coming up. Now I found my rhythm and I hate to say it I am happy. I am relaxed. I am sleeping at night and waking up rested. He's due back and I honestly am scared of how he...
    dreamingkitty dreamingkitty 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2011

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    HMMM

    I wonder if I should stay or go.  How many of you have uttered those words aloud or to yourself at some point in your life?  What did you do and how did you decide what to do?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 11 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Its Been On My Mind A Lot Lately, Even More The Past Two Days...

    I have been thinking about weather I should stay on Ep lately. Been wondering what's the point....I don't know. It was on my mind. I keep saying when its all good, that I would never delete my account again, and I would never leave again, but when things are bad, and like now, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2009

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    Two Roads Diverged In a Wood

    You're probably asking yourself how in the name of everything sacred can someone like me who seems to be a confident, balanced person can honestly ask themselves a question like this. Well I'll tell you - I ask this question not just about EP or AOL or even the Internet at large...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27, 2009

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    'I will let you go go,

    If you stay'
    ChloeGomez ChloeGomez 13-15, F Oct 22, 2014

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    Warning: this is a long one,

    but it's interesting! I think... I am in college in my country,and the easy way to put it? I hate it here. I don't know if y'all know what's mugging,but it's like just chucking truck loads of information at one time so as to vomit it out during examination. I hate the education...
    GreyMattertome GreyMattertome 16-17, F Nov 9, 2014

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    Retirement Or The Epicenter Of Infamy?

    I don't pretend to have answers as to the complex question of me staying on EP or going. So many times, it hardly seems worth the effort to actually stick around yet I have a seemingly sudden plethora of people who harken to my door, distressed over the mere possibility of me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27, 2010

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    Sometimes...

    Sometimes I wonder if I should stay here, or if I should just go for a while. I do love it here, and think it is an amazing site and I have a great time here, but sometimes, I feel like I can't be me, because I feel like I am going to hurt others, by letting them know how I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Scared

    My housemate pointed out that I haven't been socializing with other people other than her e.g have my own friends blabla.. I thought it must have nagged on her conscience that I don't this...I couldn't fathom why there should be a reason for everything.. well, I was feeling down...
    amejad amejad 22-25, F May 9, 2011

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    ChloeGomez ChloeGomez 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    Where Are You Going By the Way?

    It doesn't matter what you do or do not do - there is NO WAY to stay or go wherever unless you must.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Jun 18, 2009

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    BringMacktheHorizon BringMacktheHorizon 13-15, M Oct 22, 2014

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    Fungirlmmmm's Fault

       I story I posted on FG story was just the beginning of the ,"Should I stay or Should I Go" moments in my life. I know it's okay to have your own ideas and opinions about anything that involves your life. Sometimes you go along to get along. That can be a...
    Caliper Caliper 56-60, M 5 Responses May 27, 2009

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    Dealing With Emotions

    I have come a long way to admit that I have commitment issues. I don't like to get attached, and as sad as it sounds, despite that I have been in 4 long term relationships, even married once, I have never been in love. 2 years ago, after my divorce, I met this good looking guy...
    xusita xusita 31-35, F Aug 23, 2011

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    Should I Leave My Drug Addict Husband He Says He Changed! Help!

    I have been married to my husband now for just over 13 years.  We have been together since high school and neither of us ever really dated anyone else.  The marriage has been rocky at times, and he has pretty much been lazy and selfish most of the time.  We have...
    marshall123 marshall123 36-40 1 Response Jan 28, 2010

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    Why Stay?

    I have three been married for 6 years and I'm unhappy...and everything he's boy willing yo do or is laborious for him to do someone else does with ease and willingly. I want to jump ship to get in another. I know it sounds bad but why should I stay?
    titanicdreamz titanicdreamz 26-30, F Jun 19, 2012

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    Fresh Start? Same Routine? D:

    So, i have the chance for a fresh start.. but I'm not sure if i want to go for it...   I can go live with my dad in another city, or i can continue living miserably with my mom.. I really want to live with my dad... but ... i don't want to leave my sisters! UGH...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    I wonder why I stay. I only have one thing keeping me here. I have nothing else, someone please save me from my own destruction.
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    I wonder what it would be like to live far out in the country with no neighbors around. I once talked to a man in Montana who I said hello to and he talked and talked and then...
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    I really don't know why my mom stayed with my step dad. I hate him. I wish things were different and I would've told my real dad what happened. The good thing is that maybe I can...
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    If Who you once were in the past bothers you and straps you down..stop it!!! Even if it was a great past and it is no more...stop pondering and move on!!! Find the balance that...
    NotVibrant NotVibrant 31-35, F Jan 1

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    Your money personality is .. Reasonable..... You are likely very financially savvy. You probably track your purchases down to the penny. Even if you have money problems, you try...
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    I'm 17 I've been depressed for a long time my dad passed away 6 years ago my mom is so stressed out I don't want to tell her about this. I have no close friends and no one ever...
    Sodan66 Sodan66 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    Because 1947 Carnival Lingerie continues to be building undergarments for the trendy woman. Regarded in Europe for staying the number 1 brand for bridal bras and corsets Carnival...
    Joseph9257jwj6 Joseph9257jwj6 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    I've live an average life. I go to a public school, live in middle class neighborhood etc etc. I have single mother, who has 2 children. My sister and myself, my sister's father...
    SourSweetGone SourSweetGone 13-15, F Jan 11

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    I've been on EP on and off for a little over a year now. I never concerned myself about the impact I make on others while I was here since it was not originally a reason as to why...
    Nijima Nijima 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I've been feeling this way for the past 15 years. What is the point of living when you've got nothing to look forward to when you wake up the next day? I 've been obsessed with...
    atonement86 atonement86 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    NO I DON'T ! this thought never crosses my mind because I pride myself in being kind and caring.The other day in the grocery store I help an elderly man in one of those electric...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    What makes you think you are anything less than wonderful? Just stop for a moment and think...yes, start picking out those things you like. I dare you to pick more than one thing...
    Lavender007 Lavender007 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Do you ever think how you got the idea behind your fantasy? I wonder about mine. Daddy and daughter... I don't know if it's because I didn't have a dad growing up or what. But I...
    Prettygirl8726 Prettygirl8726 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 1

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    And I wonder if I will ever be okay. I wonder if I will ever be able to truly love myself. I wonder if I can reach my dreams or always down myself. I wonder a lot.
    emiri77 emiri77 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I love myself, and I am loved by my son and daughter that right now are the only people in the world that I would call wonderful. God is always there and has my back through all...
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    I wonder occassionaly. You meet many people in your life. Most of them are just passing through. But there are one or two that you always wonder about. Not every minute of every...
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    Hello friends. Here's something I've been wanting to share with someone. This is where I might sound unpleasant and spiteful, if you read my post about just joining the website. I...
    drumbumak drumbumak 18-21, F Jan 18

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    this song is pretty much my current situation. it's awful being sober at this point. I stay high to stay alive.
    jenneruz jenneruz 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Do they pity the orphan? Do they like the heartless, insecure girl who always picks the wrong man to trust? Do they wonder why I am not bonkers? Do they find me intelligent, or...
    astute99 astute99 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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