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I Wonder If I Should Stay Or Go

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 194 People

    Should I Leave My Drug Addict Husband He Says He Changed! Help!

    I have been married to my husband now for just over 13 years.  We have been together since high school and neither of us ever really dated anyone else.  The marriage has been rocky at times, and he has pretty much been lazy and selfish most of the time.  We have...
    marshall123 marshall123 36-40 1 Response Jan 28, 2010

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    Fungirlmmmm's Fault

       I story I posted on FG story was just the beginning of the ,"Should I stay or Should I Go" moments in my life. I know it's okay to have your own ideas and opinions about anything that involves your life. Sometimes you go along to get along. That can be a...
    Caliper Caliper 56-60, M 5 Responses May 27, 2009

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    BringMacktheHorizon BringMacktheHorizon 13-15, M Oct 22, 2014

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    ChloeGomez ChloeGomez 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    Retirement Or The Epicenter Of Infamy?

    I don't pretend to have answers as to the complex question of me staying on EP or going. So many times, it hardly seems worth the effort to actually stick around yet I have a seemingly sudden plethora of people who harken to my door, distressed over the mere possibility of me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27, 2010

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    'I will let you go go,

    If you stay'
    ChloeGomez ChloeGomez 13-15, F Oct 22, 2014

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    Warning: this is a long one,

    but it's interesting! I think... I am in college in my country,and the easy way to put it? I hate it here. I don't know if y'all know what's mugging,but it's like just chucking truck loads of information at one time so as to vomit it out during examination. I hate the education...
    GreyMattertome GreyMattertome 16-17, F Nov 9, 2014

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    Two Roads Diverged In a Wood

    You're probably asking yourself how in the name of everything sacred can someone like me who seems to be a confident, balanced person can honestly ask themselves a question like this. Well I'll tell you - I ask this question not just about EP or AOL or even the Internet at large...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27, 2009

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    Scared

    My housemate pointed out that I haven't been socializing with other people other than her e.g have my own friends blabla.. I thought it must have nagged on her conscience that I don't this...I couldn't fathom why there should be a reason for everything.. well, I was feeling down...
    amejad amejad 22-25, F May 9, 2011

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    Where Are You Going By the Way?

    It doesn't matter what you do or do not do - there is NO WAY to stay or go wherever unless you must.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Jun 18, 2009

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    Sometimes...

    Sometimes I wonder if I should stay here, or if I should just go for a while. I do love it here, and think it is an amazing site and I have a great time here, but sometimes, I feel like I can't be me, because I feel like I am going to hurt others, by letting them know how I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    HMMM

    I wonder if I should stay or go.  How many of you have uttered those words aloud or to yourself at some point in your life?  What did you do and how did you decide what to do?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 11 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Fresh Start? Same Routine? D:

    So, i have the chance for a fresh start.. but I'm not sure if i want to go for it...   I can go live with my dad in another city, or i can continue living miserably with my mom.. I really want to live with my dad... but ... i don't want to leave my sisters! UGH...
    freshfrika freshfrika 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

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    Its Been On My Mind A Lot Lately, Even More The Past Two Days...

    I have been thinking about weather I should stay on Ep lately. Been wondering what's the point....I don't know. It was on my mind. I keep saying when its all good, that I would never delete my account again, and I would never leave again, but when things are bad, and like now, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2009

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    Why Stay?

    I have three been married for 6 years and I'm unhappy...and everything he's boy willing yo do or is laborious for him to do someone else does with ease and willingly. I want to jump ship to get in another. I know it sounds bad but why should I stay?
    titanicdreamz titanicdreamz 26-30, F Jun 19, 2012

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    Lost Myself Somewhere Along The Line

    My husband has been away off and on for weeks. At first it bothered me. I was so sad with the holiday's coming up. Now I found my rhythm and I hate to say it I am happy. I am relaxed. I am sleeping at night and waking up rested. He's due back and I honestly am scared of how he...
    dreamingkitty dreamingkitty 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2011

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    Dealing With Emotions

    I have come a long way to admit that I have commitment issues. I don't like to get attached, and as sad as it sounds, despite that I have been in 4 long term relationships, even married once, I have never been in love. 2 years ago, after my divorce, I met this good looking guy...
    xusita xusita 31-35, F Aug 23, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'm a stay at home mom with a 2 year old daughter and a 1 month old son and i love being able to spend every second with my babies. but i miss having just a simple adult...
    ashleynichole25 ashleynichole25 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    I wonder if the process to get married was as lengthy and tedious as the one to divorce, would anyone really bother? Today I took one more step in this long drawn out divorce...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F Feb 24

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    For so long I’ve only filled with bad luck αи∂ ι ωσи∂єя why? Why I am never noticed? I try so hard!! But no……. No matter what I do,i’m still known as the...
    AjaxJaxson AjaxJaxson 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    So here I am, 47, never married and no children. I have been in relationships, but they hadn't worked out. It wasn't anything I did wrong other than take a chance at something. I...
    Doeyz1967 Doeyz1967 46-50 1 Response Feb 9

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    My husband and I split up today, we've been together since we were 16, and married for 4.5 years. He's a wonderful man, honest, hard working, and more then caring and thoughtful...
    TheLittleDreamer TheLittleDreamer 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    God is so good to reveal His Truths to me! I was feeling anxious about the anniversary date of DDay approaching on the 19th. I've talked to other betrayed spouses and know that...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    we all have choices in life and sometimes I wonder if different things could have happened. Example my dad left, and what would have happened if he stayed. idk I dong think about a...
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M Feb 9

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    I miss you Sean. I told you to stay, but you had school and now I have a boyfriend who I love dearly yet I still miss you. I miss how you helped me though everything and always...
    Thelemicc Thelemicc 18-21, F Feb 12

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    Yesterday was a bad day. It was cold and nasty AND HAD TO WORK IN IT.But after 5 it got better went and it was all better gf came over and we stay up all not if u no what i mean...
    Danny2688 Danny2688 26-30, M Feb 24

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    You should never forget yr worth, but to be able to see yr worth in someone's eyes, living has new meaning.This song reflects the way I feel at this particular moment..naah,not...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I am a shy quiet good kind hearted guy which is what the girls are looking for so they say, yet whenever I meet a girl after a short while of us talking and getting on really well...
    rodwood rodwood 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    There are a number of principal events in a human being’s life, one of them is marriage which is a sacred divine ritual of man and woman complementing each other while the woman...
    harmony226 harmony226 26-30, M Feb 16

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    Speaking out hurtful things hurts a lot.It hurts someone and it hurts the speaker too as people think negatively about you.We are supposed to hear more and talk less.No wonder -we...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    You are away random thoughts keep coming to my mind but one thought that overshadows all is Void,emptiness. All I feel is deafening silence . “Silence “is the sound of missing...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 1 Response Feb 21

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    he doesn't miss me like I miss him. he misses me more and it'll stay that way until he is punished for his actions. :)
    mrsdaryldixon88 mrsdaryldixon88 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I'm so Confused! PART 1 So I changed schools. I finished my tenth grade and left to another school and stayed there my junior and senior year. In my junior year I met a boy named...
    M1k3L3vitZ M1k3L3vitZ 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I'm so Confused PART 2 ...So Josh is constantly telling me to go to places with him, like the mall, to the pool, he even wanted to spend New Years Eve with me, and of course I...
    M1k3L3vitZ M1k3L3vitZ 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    When we were children going through the two year old phase of asking "why" did we really leave that time period of asking why I find myself always asking why this and why that...
    Alicehath Alicehath 56-60, F Feb 8

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    I am a stay at home mom for my 3 amazing kids. I love being a stay at home mom, I also do miss working full time. I used to be a nurse, however became a stay at home mom with the...
    ahousewife ahousewife 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Children should have the choice whether they want to stay in diapers or get potty trained. My boys are 8, 6, and 3 and they are all three still in diapers. We gave them the choice...
    DiaperDaddy32 DiaperDaddy32 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 22

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    You're gone and I've gotta stay HIGH All the time to keep you off my mind Whoo-oo-oo HIGH All the time to keep you off my mind Whoo-oo-oo Spend my days locked in a haze Trying to...
    DeGustibus DeGustibus 26-30, M Feb 25

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    I think the more I've been home, the more I become immune to just being alone.. I realize that being around people isn't everything.. I mean, I'd be lying if I said that it didn't...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Do you think about me? I think about you.I think about my lips kissing yours as we hold each other feeling our hearts beating.Have you ever wondered what it be like to be held in...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M Feb 6

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    I don't know exactly how to explain it, but there are times that I wonder if the way I look to myself, is the same as others see me...and wonder if physically, I look the same as...
    awoww41188 awoww41188 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    I am often left wondering what is my purpose of living. This does happen quite often in one point of someone's life, 1-4 to be exact. But the extremity of ones dark thoughts come...
    RoseDani RoseDani 16-17, F Feb 8

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