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I Wonder If I Will Get Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 116 People

    Can't See It

    If I'm unable to stay a relationship and accept commitment how will I get married? How can a guy even deal with me?   Sometimes I wonder if what my sister says it's true " You are going to wind up alone and misserable with lots of cats" But wont it be better to stay...
    AngelsReflection AngelsReflection 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2010

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    ??? :

    I'm not one of those women who dreamed about a wedding since she was a little girl. I think the idea of me being married is kind of ridiculous and feels silly, to be honest. lol. But sometimes I think about it...  I guess it's part of being a female? I dunno. I'm kind of...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2010

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    I Sure Want to

    Ok, I guess, i'm still young to worry about these stuff...;p   But I still wonder... I hope I will. Someday:)
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    Since Marriage Is Not Just A Piece Of Paper !

    Marriage means a lot to me I dont wanna get married if Im not sure is he really the "right" one Its not that I dont love him but I dont wanna hurt him I believe that couple should live together and see if they can get along or not Not just marriage and divorce over...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2009

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    It's a Big Dream of Mine..........

    To fall in love, become engaged, get married in the field behind my house, in front of friends & family. Whether or not it happens, well, only Goddess knows for sure, but I do hope it's soon. I'm not getting any younger & every year that goes by is one less chance of my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 30, 2009

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    WELL

    I never wanted to marry myself - I always found all those paper signing not at all compatible with true love. I always enjoyed the ceremony mainly because I love celebrations and true holidays, and the intimate or public expression of love by any means and in any kind...
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 2 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    I Feel So Confused...

    I'm with my psychologyst for more than one year because I had many problems but, the last topic we talked about was about having relationships, I'm 24 years old and I've never had a boyfriend and I don't know why. I told her I do want to and I want to form a family and have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 26, 2011

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    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I Dont Know What Should I Do

    since i was a child i decided not to get married, i really hated marriage after what i have seen from my dad he abandoned us since i was born, anyways..after growing up i started to realize the meaning of marriage... i always thought of adopting a girl if i ever...
    tamrhenna tamrhenna 26-30, F 15 Responses Nov 27, 2009

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    Not That I Feel I'll Have Trouble Getting Someone...

    I just can't imagine myself spending the rest of my life with one particular person...What if I get bored? What if fall in love with someone else? I am not capable of cheating, but I don't wanna get stuck with one person who I don't love for the rest of my life either. ...
    bushiebushie bushiebushie 26-30, F Apr 17, 2009

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    I married a man who is not who I thought he was and now I feel completely trapped .... I need a break ... I don't think I was meant to be married ... I give too much of myself and...
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    I am 41 well for 4 more days but I think I will tell people I'm 50. This way I look good for my age!
    cjjb55 cjjb55 41-45, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Two weeks from now I'll be getting married again for the third time. They say third time is a charm. ( whoever they is ) I love my fiancee. I love her eight year old son. I dream...
    monarchman monarchman 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    SweetKiester SweetKiester 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    First off please excuse the grammar and puncuation. Im writing this from an outdated and slow tablet. This is my first post and I'm not sure if im telling you all this for advice...
    Whatstruggle Whatstruggle 26-30, M Aug 3

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    I was wondering if anyone can give me advice for the situation I am in. I have been with my husband for 12 years, married 8 with 2 sons. 4 years ago my husband had a mental...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I have been married 38 wonderful years to the love of my life. We love each other so much. I want no other. Both my wife and I maintained our virginity until our wedding night...
    babyStephen babyStephen 66-70, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Sandalwood3 Sandalwood3 41-45, F Aug 19

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    I feel so crushed and confused. So this girl I was with for 10 years as friends. Of course friendship turned into love where she finally agrees to marry me and be my wife. I was...
    RandomDudeFriend RandomDudeFriend 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 4

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    lifeisatest lifeisatest 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    bootsie85 bootsie85 26-30, F Jul 30

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    Two years ago today I married the most wonderful man in the world. It is hard to believe how fast the time has gone, or just how blessed I am to be married to my best friend.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I am about to do something very stupid. We've been working together for over a year, which has been great because sometimes I think he is the only one there who knows what he's...
    hopelesssness hopelesssness 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    But I'm lacking intellectual stimulation. I feel alone a lot of the time and wonder where this relationship is headed. I crave being wanted, desired, admired, appreciated and...
    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 41-45 8 Responses Aug 4

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    I feel like all the new ways to keep in touch i.e. *@$3book and insta&#@$ and those things are helping families to stay apart. I know its how the person can respond to their...
    Feelslikealoser Feelslikealoser 31-35, M Aug 11

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    I love this experience group, not only because I cherish my husband, but because too many of us complain about our husbands. Certainly, my marriage has experienced its ups and...
    sailnude sailnude 41-45, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been married for 10 years, together for 14. My husband and I have two children together. Almost our entire relationship he has worked two jobs, almost never home and even...
    dragonflydreams dragonflydreams 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm 27, with no kids.....just a dog. I've been married for almost 2 years, but I've been unhappy the entire time. We were together for 2 years before we got married, and I was...
    wishihadatimemachine wishihadatimemachine 26-30, F Aug 12

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    I think it's really sad that I've seen alot of women get romantically involved with married men. As a single person like myself, I feel like it's not really worth it because you're...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F Aug 15

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    Today ...july 30...is our anniversary.... its been a lovely journey...we had our ups and downs like any other couple.... we never had children...long story for another time... but...
    marklovescoffee marklovescoffee 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Not sure why I'm doing this, but WTH. 1) I was a music major in college, but somewhere along the way I turned stupid and felt it was more important to make peoples homes look great...
    GWolf2 GWolf2 61-65, M 4 Responses Jul 29

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    at this point of my life... i don't know why but... really! this time I just felt I'm now ready to fall in love again and I want to keep this forever I could say... Im ready to get...
    Jinggay Jinggay 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    My wife and I have been married since 1973. I love her as much as (if not more than) the day I married her. I would never even think of cheating on her! We have an adult married...
    RockinPop60 RockinPop60 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I am Married But emotionally I've divorced him as he has emotionally destroyed me Tonight I thought day 1 of no arguing but no gets into bed and he starts..... Emotionally and...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 9

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    It's sad that I married someone despite everyone in my life telling me not too. I'm now in a marriage where everyday I find more reasons not to love home. Regretting means not...
    rloves rloves 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I got married at a very young age. I would have to say it was pretty happy for the most part. In 2008 I began an affair that finally ended in 2010 when my husband found out.I was...
    manyregrets manyregrets 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    So I have been really working through being honest with my wife. I have been married 6 years and though I have always been attracted to men, I have never told her. 2 months ago I...
    MrNurseGuy MrNurseGuy 31-35, M 5 Responses Aug 15

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    javenne javenne 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I'm not even really sure how to tell my story or if I should. I'm trying to "find myself" so maybe a strangers opinion would help me see what I can't I've been married for over 2...
    twisten1329 twisten1329 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 17

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    Confusiana Confusiana 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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