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I Wonder If Its Possible to Love Someone You've Never Met

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    I think it's possible,

    sometimes the people you meet online are even better than the people you know in real life, they can listen, talk, make you laugh, be a companion the only thing they can't do is give physical contact...
    johnm07 johnm07 22-25, M Feb 23

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    Potentially

    I have fallen in love with someone I met from the internet. I loved him before I met him, fell in love with him when I met him and will always love him. So, considering my experience I would say if anything it has its potential.
    MountainGhost MountainGhost 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    Certainly

    Our ability to love is boundless. The operative word here I think is "met" and how we define that term. That along with our own definition of "love". Meeting in person is not I feel required to have honest, deep feelings of true love for an individual. As example I love Marisa...
    dankerus dankerus 46-50, M 1 Response May 19, 2011

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    Totally Possible To Fall In Love Without Meeting..

    It is totally possible to love someone you have never met. During war years ago men/women fell in love through letters - There was no internet, so why not when they are free to utilize email, text, phone.. I'm sure many have fallen in love. There are all kinds of you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    Yes.

              For I met someone on EP . Not in realife and I fell in love though it was short lived it is possible.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 45 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    My First, And So Far Only, Love But He Was Far Too Old For Me!

    I was only 15, and I decided to go on Chatroulette. It was mainly a lot of me being horrified by genitalia, but I met this one really wonderful Australian guy. Neither one of us showed our faces (for fear of creepers), but we just sort of clicked. I was stupid though. I lied...
    LaFilleVide LaFilleVide 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    You Betcha!!

    I do believe it is possible to fall in love with someone you have never met. Anytime you open yourself up to another person there are all kinds of possibilities.  I would have to say it would depend on the individuals involved though. The internet offers us so many...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 91 Responses Jul 7, 2008

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    Emotional Connection...

    Absolutely you can fall for someone you've never met. And sometimes you get to know them better than anyone else in your life because the filter is off, and you share emotions before sex. Not that the physical connection isn't great too, but again I like being able to converse...
    dreamwishfantasy dreamwishfantasy 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    If It Was Meant To Be......It Might Be You......

    As crazy as it sounds I think it is possible.. We never know what lies ahead of us in the future.. Sometimes when you least expect it to be the person that you desire so much to have but reality works the other way round.. You might know the person for years but never meet ..but...
    lexuslourve lexuslourve 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Since I Was 12

    I met a girl named Emily online through a message board type thing. We talked and talked and talked and me being 12 and naive developed a crush and feelings. She had originally told me she was 16 but then when i told her my real age, she confessed her real age. We are both the...
    wolfcorpse33 wolfcorpse33 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    It's True

    Sometimes it's refreshing to get to know someone from their writing and self expression rather than their physical appearance. To get a glimpse into their soul and be attracted to it rather than their tight buns. To have a dialogue of eloquent sweet words and come to be...
    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M 13 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    Late Night Swim

    It was one night...I had just turned sixteen and I had decided to go for a late night swim in the pool at the hotel I was staying at. The water was empty save me and my younger brother who splashed around and laughed and joked and just floated, drifting around. And then I saw him...
    starst starst 16-17, F Aug 3, 2011

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    When I Was Younger

    When I was 23, I met a woman online. We communicated for fourteen years, and I'm unsure how to feel about her. She's supposed to live in Australia. We planned twice to, and still have not met in person
    bvu7437 bvu7437 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 3, 2011

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    I Do Wonder...

    I really do wonder if it's possible to love someone you've never met. I wouldn't say I'm in love, but I definitely care an awful lot about him. I hope I fall in love with him too some day, when we eventually meet. He says that he's in love with me and I wonder if it really can...
    yumyumchocolate yumyumchocolate 16-17, F Jul 10, 2012

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    Maybe

    I wonder.. I really would like to believe though.. It's just that, with the current ways that we have now.. I don't think it's even possible.. Well, at some point or another.. some people are just used to lying.. even to the people they love the most.. I guess the point is, it...
    zoiera zoiera 26-30, F 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    I No Longer Wonder

    I know it is very possible..and that love is just as true as if you had met them!!
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Yeahhhhh

    i think it's possible if you've known them for a long enough time and you and that person know a lot about of stuff about each otherrrrrr....which some probably more than you/ they should. that's just my two cents on the subject. i mean if people treat you good and you have...
    unfucktheworld unfucktheworld 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27, 2008

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    What If He Says He Loves You Yet His Dating Profile Is Still Up?

    another dilemma for me with online dating. he tells you he loves you and yet his profile is still up?what are the rules? in a normal dating scenario, if one says he loves you then we assume said person will not be looking for another and will just focus on you (correct me if i am...
    pr1c3y pr1c3y 70+, F 6 Responses May 19, 2011

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    Dzhokhar

    The boston marathon bombings...yeah i know its old news, nobody really cares anymore, everybody already wished their condolences to the victims and now awaits the suspects death. Everybody hates dzhokhar tsarnaev now, everybody wishes him dead, everybody thinks he should burn in...
    Ninarose Ninarose 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    I Don't Wonder.........

    I KNOW. EP HAS GIVEN ME FRIENDS THAT I ABSOLUTELY ADORE. MEN THAT I LOVE, WOMEN THAT ARE THE SWEETEST, MOST LOVING FRIENDS I'VE EVER HAD. I HAVE FALLEN IN LOVE WITH ONE SPECIAL MAN, UNFORTUNATELY WE AREN'T IN AS MUCH CONTACT AS I WISH TO BE, BUT THAT CAN'T BE HELPED AT THIS...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    Smorgasbord of Love...

    The way I see it, there are many types of Love. And different people view Love differently. Basically, YOU are the only person who would TRULY know exactly HOW you feel. So... who's to say NO its not possible to love someone you never met. Granted.. when you 'meet' someone...
    SweetHoney SweetHoney 46-50 13 Responses Feb 27, 2008

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    There Are So Many Different Types of Love

    People also feel & have differing opinions about what love is. Personally I do believe it is possible to love someone you have never met. Why not? If you are sharing life experiences, photos etc. & are corresponding frequently with the person. I know that I have made some...
    PrettyPixie PrettyPixie 36-40, F 14 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    Unlikely

    to love someone meets to spend time with them and hold them and give love and friendship and respect. you have to be with them for number of years and share experiences... it may be possible to have a liking and desire to meet them and to find them physically attractive and to...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F Nov 26, 2012

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    Love

    I read a book once that argued that true love does not know the opposite; which is hate. The author reasoned that love, the real kind does not chose to be or not...it just is. It radiates from us when we are at peace within ourselves. There is no opposite and it cannot turn into...
    Explosive Explosive 41-45 2 Responses Sep 4, 2008

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    I Don't Know Ya But I Love Ya..................i Want To Have Your Baby!

    I wouldn't say love. But I've most definitely fallen for people over the internet before. Lots of times....but it seems it wasn't mutual. SO I think if both people feel the same way then it is indeed possible to fall in "love"....... I've also fallen in love with book...
    Serabi Serabi 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    Just Maybe I Really Love Him

    How I meet the one I think Im In love with is kinda crazy. We meet through a boy I meet on urbanchat.com.... And the only reason I was on there was because I was new to the state I moved to and was seeing if I could found some friend... I meet some lets say intersting people them...
    xXmylilsercertzXx xXmylilsercertzXx 18-21, F Jan 19, 2012

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    I Think So

    I think it's possible to feel love for anyone.  Falling *in love* with someone you've never met, I don't know.  I've never been there, so I can't say.  But I have and still do love people I have never met and never will meet.
    eromreven eromreven 26-30 1 Response Apr 2, 2008

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    I Love Her, But I Will Never Know Her.

    Is it possible to love someone you have never met? I don't know what to say. I feel so ridiculous, and yet so alive, so empowered by the very existence of this woman. I have never met her, never felt her touch, and I most probably never will, but I am so in love with her that I...
    pc24 pc24 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2010

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    Do I Love Him?

    I've always been afraid of the unknown. Of course, when you choose to like someone you've never met, that possibility is blatant. I've always been a "gut feeling" type of person, and its never steered me wrong before, but i can't help but wonder if I'm getting ahead of...
    Drenna Drenna 18-21, F 8 Responses Feb 28, 2008

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    Oh, The Possibilities!

    I figured I'd use my most favorite thought as my first experience! I'm in love with a guy I've never met, to put it bluntly. We've only met a short time ago online, but we grew so close together while being so far apart physically. I'm not exactly sure what the future holds for...
    TheChinaDoll TheChinaDoll 18-21, F Apr 11, 2012

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    A Long, Sad Story of Penpals

    We met in a very... very... strange way. I was in seventh grade when I first met him. I'm going to call him Dan. Anyway, I was interested in a boy that my friend was trying to set me up with, but he wasn't interested in me. When I tried calling this boy, he wouldn't answer me. He...
    Rennakins Rennakins 22-25, F 2 Responses May 23, 2008

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    I Stopped Asking This Question

    now i honestly used to wonder this exact thing but then i met the love of my life through this site acctually ironically enough i mean we talk all the time and any time we can she makes me smile whenever i talk to her and she smiles back she is truly my best friend and the i love...
    Icis2500 Icis2500 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    Little Did I Know

    .... my bf and i never met yet, i dont know what happened .. he ask to be my friend. couple of times i turned him down, little did i know, how much he is gonna mean to me . now he is my life I can't pass a day without him. i dont care about distance, and i hope he still does. he...
    IMpencil IMpencil 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    I Know It Is Possible...

    Define meet? Nearly everyone I talk to online, I've met, but we've not physically touched. We email, gesture, comment and support each other regularly, I love them. There's even a few I would consider making love to. I have met my musical idols, but I loved them for years before...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 21 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    I have often asked myself this question.

    I've met someone online that I have yet to meet. We've talked for months and the more I talk to him the more I fall in love with him. He's an amazing person inside and out.....it's a crying shame he lives across the pond from me.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    I Wonder...

         I just wonder.       This group has always fascinated me but I have yet to find the words within me to write a story for it.
    Marowit Marowit 18-21, F Mar 10, 2013

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    Help

    Okay, I feel absolutely ridiculous to ask this but it continues to weigh on my mind; There is this person I haven't met, but they pique my interest like nobody I have ever experienced. I am a spiritual person so I almost believe there may be some kind of soul connection or...
    britsk britsk 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2013

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    No

    Question about it! I have !
    ApacheKuruk ApacheKuruk 46-50, M Jan 27, 2011

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    Loving People Here..

    I have met many beautiful people on Experience Project. I love all of you. You enhance what already comes from within. We lift eachother up and share our experience, strength, and hope with eachother. It is amazing that we humans come together for a greater purpose. It is to help...
    pethealer pethealer 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Hmmm

    i think it is what kind of love would it be though?   there are many types of love. i hope some people love me . with the love that does not judge the love that is always there the love that is supportive and forgiving. the love that does not let us down. love that keeps...
    redgone redgone 31-35, M 35 Responses Aug 11, 2008

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    Love Has No Face

    When I was just a 15 year old kid,I got a pen pal through a magazine...because I loved writing and there was no Internet to rely on at the time.He was a boy about my age, from a city across the country,had similar activities and likes...and he was my first love and my first I...
    blacklidya blacklidya 26-30, F 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    Sure...Why Not?

    I do believe it's possible to love someone you've never met.  I've met so many great people on line and I love them all.  I think the real question is, is it possible to FALL IN love with someone you've never met?  My guess is the answer depends on the...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 43 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    I Will Always Love Her

    I meet her online 7 years ago i live on the east coast, she lives on the west. I cheated, im married told her 3 months after we meet expecting she would break up but that did not happen. She is hispanic i am caucasian we were really attracted to each other and fell madly in love...
    terrapotens33 terrapotens33 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    Three Years Of Internet Relationship And Then We Met

    i met a guy through an online game. we got chatting and that lasted about 5 months or so and then we started to talk on skype which after a few more months led to video chatting. he's younger than me and our age is something that concerns me but we've always been open about it...
    NuttierThanPeanuts NuttierThanPeanuts 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    I met this guy on chatroulette more

    than a month ago. I'm Italian. He is Costa Rican, but currently lives in Canada for work. as soon as we saw it is as if there had been a stroke of lightning. I know it may seem silly, since we saw each other through a computer. initially we were very happy to be met. He was...
    mppm mppm 18-21, F Mar 4

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    Could He Be The One

    I met someone online and we had lots in common its like we always were together but this someone lives in another country but I feel like I'm falling for this someone
    lady205465 lady205465 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    I Did For The Second Time Around...

    I wonder if it's really possible to love someone you've never met... Yeah I did for the second time around. I can still remember, it was 6 yrs. ago when I first fell in love w/someone I met online... It's craziness yes but you can really feel the difference of loving someone not...
    schenine2829 schenine2829 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 8, 2011

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    I Loved Him Before I Met Him

    I loved him before I met him and I love him still. He has always been the most important person to me.
    Aneres Aneres 26-30 2 Responses Aug 28, 2008

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    Its Completely Possible

    I know its possible to love someone you've never met, becauseit is happening to me. I met him here on Ep, and it been the best weeks of my life. No lie. I can tell him anything, and he won't judge me. He makes sure no harm comes my way. He's the love of my life, my soulmate. Guys...
    Iamawerewolf Iamawerewolf 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    Cross Dressing

    i love wearing womens clothes. any women like that in a man.
    silkypanties12 silkypanties12 51-55, M Jun 12, 2012

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    My Friend(:

    So recently I have joined EP and I love it..anyways I met this one guy on here and to be honest I think I'm falling for him!! I have only known him for a VERY short time but he's amazing!! He's so nice and SO good looking(: I really wish we lived closer because it wuold be cool...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 28, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I love this guy. I feel so close to him. Talking to him comforts me whether through text or on the phone. He knows things that most people don't know about me. He doesn't judge me...
    sweetstar1 sweetstar1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    In late 2012/early 2013, I had a dream about a guy I'd never seen before. I hope I'm not the only one, and with this hope, I'll share my story. It was like any other school night...
    WaterFae WaterFae 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 30

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