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I Wonder If People Would Miss Me When Im Gone

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    Oh Of Course Someone Will Miss You When Your On The Other Side.If You Can Ask The Question? Then Another Will Write Somewhere Of Missing You Too.

    My Dad who was teacher, father and friend all in one. has been dead from July 1996. I still miss talking to him. You know? He was a German fighter pilot, in war number 2. Then, some years on his totally blind grateful son.can still fly a plane thanks Dad.
    Magnum64 Magnum64 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 14, 2013

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    Always Be Prepared

    I've always spoken of when i die n how things should be n would anyone be there for my parents. I rewrite personal wills due to people leaving my life often. I've always wanted to write my eulogy but what to say. Now that would be a topic for us to tackle.
    datbeech44 datbeech44 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2011

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    I Can't Join This Group

    I know I'd be missed if I was gone. You can't hit a target that ain't there! RUN!!!
    QuixoticKidEternity QuixoticKidEternity 31 3 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    I Used to So Much...

    I really did wonder if I would be missed, especially two years ago. I used to be very shy, and quiet, and generally kept to myself. I was also very depressed. I hardly spoke to my friends...heck, I barely knew them at all. But since then, I've changed schools, grown more...
    RedMusic RedMusic 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22, 2009

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    Maybe, But For How Long?

    If I think hard enough I know that once people new I was gone I might be missed, at least for a while. I honestly don't believe anyone would really miss me that much. Maybe for a short while but not for long. Hell, alot of my in person friends wouldn't even know I was missing...
    doritos1254 doritos1254 26-30, M Jun 19, 2011

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    No

    People wouldn't miss me when I'm gone. People often say to me "C, I miss you so much I wish you could come back to school I miss you so much." But, I know the truth no one would I can hear it in their voices, I just play along like I can't tell. But what people don't know is that...
    Hydergirl4ever Hydergirl4ever 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    Funeral

    I often fantasise about my funeral - who would be there, who would speak, and what they would say. Then I think about how quickly they would move on and forget about me.
    Danwah Danwah 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 25, 2011

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    Why Would They?

    Why would anyone miss me? There's no reason that they would. I've made no lasting impact. I've made no family. I've made nothing, and my one contribution to the world is over the moment the people go home.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 10, 2008

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    That's like a question I always ask myself. Except my family, I really wonder if I would miss anyone if I die.
    ClassicGentleman ClassicGentleman 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    I do honestly wonder I would never do it but I wonder how things would change How my friends would move on How my family would cope Who would come to the funeral Just stupid...
    nailwire nailwire 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    He admitted he liked me and of course I fell asleep on him. Now he's gone for a week. I CANNOT stop thinking about him. He told me he's so shy that's why it seems like he doesn't...
    december789 december789 16-17, F Aug 9

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    I'm making a lot of progress! We haven't been hanging a lot because he works full time and should be spending loads more time with his family since he's going to college in just a...
    yellowbelly23 yellowbelly23 16-17, F Aug 10

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    I often sit and wonder this about some people who call themselves friends,but as the quote so rightly states..."If they miss you, they'll call. If they want you they will say it...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 13

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    So my bf is in the army and it's all new to me. He told me today that he is nervous that I am not copping well with him being gone for a long period of time. He wanted to purpose...
    hnj320 hnj320 22-25, F Aug 18

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    I wonder this a lot I guess my mum probably would and a few of my friends sometimes I think about doing it all the different ways I would go I guess after a while everyone would...
    mellywoo mellywoo 13-15, F Jul 27

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    They miss or not miss I'll still death
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F Aug 13

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    Well I know my parents wouldn't and they have made that very clear. My step dad especially. I mean I don't give two s**** what he thinks because he is awful but he is making my mom...
    FatPig303 FatPig303 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I think about this so much. I mean I can think of a few, but I don't know if anyone would be torn to pieces or anything.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Obviously people could always argue "if you're not happy and would prefer to be with someone else, why cheat? Why not just end your current relationship?" And obviously it's not...
    OpenMindedGirl1 OpenMindedGirl1 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I feel like people stare at me everywhere when I'm walking on the street cars, people it's crazy I always wonder why and what they are thinking its enough to make anybody anxious!
    TashaBbb TashaBbb 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I really don't have any close friends, so I'm not worrying about people missing me. Nobody sent me flowers while I'm alive to smell them, so I damn sure don't want them around when...
    BloodyVampire BloodyVampire 41-45, M Aug 17

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    You tell people what they don't wanna hear and then your left alone! Haha! My oh my!! I'm guessing I'm a difficult personality to get along with.... I usually get surrounded by...
    Incubusbunny Incubusbunny 22-25, F Aug 14

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    I hate my life much of the time and all I purely desire is money and the power that it brings. If I had access to firearms, I would without a doubt put a barrel of a handgun in my...
    thefertileone thefertileone 26-30, M Aug 17

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    What you did hurt me in so many ways and when I confronted you about it, all you ever say is I'm trying to start ****. No, I'm unhappy in the relationship and I want a change. But...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Today has been a nutso day. Had some serious talks with it seems everyone. Told one person they needed to figure out what they want from me and miraculously they are not being so...
    SheWasJaded SheWasJaded 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Often when I get upset over something my few friends will ask me what's wrong... My usual replies are go away or I just keep on walking. You can tell when I'm about to loose it...
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I push people away because I have no hope for myself. I don't believe them when they actually believe in me. I push people away because I don't want they're sympathy but down...
    lportra24 lportra24 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I honestly can not stand it when people start talking over you because you said something and they don't let you finish t is quite frustrating and annoying
    TheGingerRose TheGingerRose 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I dislike how religion and society makes people closed minded. Why cant others see that reality and reason is so much more than what they think or see of it?
    Noxious123 Noxious123 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I push people away so I don't get attached and if I don't get attached then when they screw me over I won't get hurt
    simmy6789 simmy6789 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    Please don't tell me these people actually vote... :S http://money.cnn.com/2014/08/04/news/companies/facebook-outage-911/index.html?hpt=hp_t2
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Respect is such a basic thing. And I don't see what's so difficult in giving respect. Respect to parents, siblings, peers, those younger than you. IF only people were just more...
    zozobar zozobar 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    some people just don't have respect anymore. it should be common sense to have respect. if I don't like u I won't respect u. if u don't respect me I won't respect u. but if it's a...
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Aug 7

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    There so many things people wish they could change about themselves. They wish they were skinner,prettier, more handsome, richer, and had more friends. I even wish this myself...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I push people away because people will end up screwing you over, and I just don't want to get hurt anymore.
    Lanigga14 Lanigga14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    This is a place for sharing experiences... Not bullying and harassing people about their opinions. Debate is bound to happen, but name calling because you don't agree...wow...
    MsInked511 MsInked511 26-30, F Aug 17

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    I love to argue and get heated and fight (verbally only) and my boyfriend hates to do those things more than anything. I always end up making him feel bad if i beg to fight and...
    yellowbelly23 yellowbelly23 16-17, F Aug 18

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    I try to be patient with my coworkers because I learned that being frustrated with them only creates unnecessary tension ( exception to constructive criticism , or absolutely need...
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    The thing is sometimes there are cases where you got to push people away for your own good.
    germany100 germany100 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I don't like people to get close to me cause I don't want to hurt them I don't want to disappoint them. I don't want them to get dragged into my problems.
    Kelnea Kelnea 13-15, F Aug 18

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    I just want to die so badly, and I want no one to stop me. But I'm scared to be sent to a hospital for stitches or charcoal.
    thatweirdotakuchick thatweirdotakuchick 13-15, F Jul 27

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    Half our life is spent trying to find something to do with the time we have rushed through life trying to save. - Will Rogers
    marklovescoffee marklovescoffee 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    I feel like the time has come to leave this place. I treasure the friendships I have made here. This place just doesn't give me what it once did. I will think about it for a few...
    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    So I moved out of state. Months before my friend of ten years kept putting off hanging out with me. 7 months went by. Weeks before I moved, he planned a lunch. Then the day of...
    indigoK indigoK 36-40, F Aug 6

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    It makes me feel uncomfortable. Are they staring at my outfit? My face? Who knows
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    A lot of yall ************* need to cut the ****
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M Aug 9

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    Yep. But. That may be their goal. My dad is such a cretin. He gets hurt. And retaliates. No exploration. No discussion. Just retaliation. And many copy...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 9

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    I'm me, you're not going to tell me how to live my life, go live yours, just stop telling me crap about my life.. Worry about yourself
    youngdesirexoxo youngdesirexoxo 16-17, F Aug 12