I Wonder If Women Like Men Who Are Not Perfect

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    Just Wondering

    i see stories in groups like i love women with curves and there are 134 members and a ton of comments but you never see a similar story about women liking guys who maybe carry around a little extra baggage. you know guys who don't look like models or pornstars. just wondering...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick
    46-50, M
    90 Responses Aug 22, 2008

    Show Me One :)))

    I wonder whether there even is a perfect man :)) Seriously, just as women.  
    Galque Galque
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2008

    Nobody's Perfect

    I honestly don't care about anything but the person inside and even then the person inside isn't going to be perfect. Perfection doesn't exist everybody is different whether it's looks or personality but I do wish that people wouldn't judge.
    SithLady SithLady
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 2, 2009

    I'm Not Perfect!

    I wounder if women like men who are not perfect? I am a women and I am not perfect and would not expect anyone else to be. First, of all that too much work! Second, sounds very boring! Third, what is perfect? No such thing!!!!
    closedin closedin
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2008

    Perfectly Human

    Well, the answer would have to be yes, because no one is perfect. In fact, perfection is a man-made idea, and it even varies from person to person. If we are talking about a personal ideal, I can tell you now: what you really want and need in a person is rarely the ideal in your...
    PewterFantasy PewterFantasy
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2008
    zivilexox zivilexox
    18-21, F
    Jul 30, 2015

    That One Seems Rather Obvious.

    Just look at television programs like "King of Queens", and that show with Jim Belushi and Courtney Thornsmith.  If this reflects real life family and it does to some extent these men are clearly marrying up in intellect and looks.  Don't all men think they...
    Shaylon Shaylon
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2008

    My Opinion

    okay, first off, you cannot say "women" like we are all the same. different women like different things. we are people, not robots programmed to smell nice, look pretty, and have the same interests, likes, and dislikes. got it? secondly, i think it is human nature to...
    chelswildflower chelswildflower
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 23, 2008

    I Wonder That As Well

    Anyone that has seen me or my pics know I am not the most handsomne guy around, overweight, but am a hell of a fun guy to be around.  So if there is anyone interested...just give me a holler...lol
    TruePal TruePal
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Aug 24, 2008

    18-80 Men

    Well just to let everyone know there are no perfect men out there. I understand that everybody is looking for the perfect partner in a man but . . . if they look within themselves. . . they themselves are not perfect. I don't mind dating but at least if a gentleman is any thing...
    tallandprettyone tallandprettyone
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2008

    Oh, Hell, Yes!

    I'm a total sucker for the "shy, nerdy guy at the back of the library" type!   
    JusDifferent JusDifferent
    41-45, F
    11 Responses Aug 23, 2008


    I know so.My friend Christy is married to a man with a sweet personality who is so chubby he literally has no neck and he's alittle slow.My husband is OCD,anal,balding and hairier than most carpets.My aunt loves her husband of 21 years and he's goofy.He's a good man but he tends...
    brokenrose brokenrose
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2008

    Interesting Experience Title

    Interesting Experience Title:  I wonder if women like men who are not perfect. If a person is looking for a Perfect Person...Good Luck Finding THEM!!  Nobody is perfect and if someone thinks they are perfect....Well, good luck in life BUDDY!  Sooner or later, your...
    PeedeeDog PeedeeDog
    5 Responses Nov 6, 2008

    Yes I Do

    There is no such thing as perfect .When you love someone ,you love them warts and all . Hell yes i like men who are not perfect ...men in general . I was asked by an elderly woman i used to care for "Have you found your prince charming?" No i replied but i have kissed a...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    149 Responses Aug 22, 2008


    I suppose I felt the need to share my thoughts on this because I have an odd idea of what the word perfect means. I don't see perfect as being something that someone is, but that many people try to be. No one is perfect. Nothing is perfect and the closer to perfection...
    WolfSong WolfSong
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2009

    Everyone Said It.

    I don't think it's perfection women are really after. Women will have their ideals, but the more they try to create perfect men out of imperfect men, the more they are left disappointed. The women in this group can vouch me for that, I'm sure. Deep down, both men and women...
    thelocalartist thelocalartist
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2010


    Perfection is a state of my belief in your own thoughts perception thats all it is. What is perfect for me is not perfect for someone else. Besides I love my honey and Lord knows he is really faulted LOL...=)
    MiseducatedChik MiseducatedChik
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 22, 2008
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