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I Wonder What Life Would Be Like If I Made Different Decisions

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    When I Have Trouble Sleeping

    Some nights, when Mr. Sandman won't come knocking at my door, I play the game; Would've Should've Could've. It's not a health game and at times fills my head with doubts, but in the end I have my life infront of me. I tend not to look back because I am not sure if I want to see...
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M Sep 8, 2011

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    Mantra

    I peer into the endless luminous depths of the divine, yet see not but my own cloudy shallowness blinding me. I search the innermost regions of my heart and feelings looking for my highest self or truest nature, yet find only the same unsightly reason for my incessant searching...
    CopperCoil CopperCoil 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    Moving

    There is only one time that I really truely wonder about. I was 15, and living in what I considered to be hell- even to this say I still refer to it like that. I was taking my exams and while all that was going on we had to see the guidance teacher to discuss what we wanted to do...
    Tigerlilly25 Tigerlilly25 26-30, F Dec 8, 2011

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    Different Decisions, Different Life ...

    Of course,  I would never want to go back and change anything in my life.  I feel like I am where I am today and I accept that.  BUT, do you ever wonder what if would be like if ....? I am a married woman, have 2 kids, have a good career and make decent money...
    Mellpn Mellpn 31-35, F Feb 29, 2008

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    Just One Fork In My Road

    Sometimes in the dark of night I lay in bed and wonder how my life would have been changed. I can pinpoint some very significant moments where if I had chosen another path my life would have been something else. I will never know if it would have been for the better but it...
    prncesspain prncesspain 36-40, F Mar 1, 2011

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    Often Wonder

    I often wonder what would be like if I could go back in time and choose the other path when I came to that very critical fork in the road. Would I have been happier if I didn't get married? Would I be more successful and have more money? What would it be like to live alone and...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 13 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    A Better Person

    If I had made a better decision and listened to advice. I would be at home, watching tv infront of the fire, with my children and wife. Not wondering what if... Not existing in a life with a woman I thought was my future. Sure she is pretty and exciting. But with that came the...
    dad1976 dad1976 36-40, M Oct 11, 2012

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    Just One Fork In My Road

    Sometimes in the dark of night I lay in bed and wonder how my life would have been changed. I can pinpoint some very significant moments where if I had chosen another path my life would have been something else. I will never know if it would have been for the better but it...
    prncesspain prncesspain 36-40, F Mar 1, 2011

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    I Wonder..

    I wonder what my life would be like if I'd followed my childhood dream to become a photographer instead of heeding my sensible mother's advice to become a nurse.  I imagine myself traveling the world, taking spectacular images, seeing other cultures,  awing their...
    DrewBerry DrewBerry 46-50, F 8 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    Different

    i sit here and think about where would i be or who would i become if i had taken a different turn or meet different people.. what job would i be in and would i be richer then poor right now.. would i have a good husband with kids .. would i be a drunk,homeless,drug user.. but for...
    sunsure sunsure 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

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    Split Desicion

    When I was not so young ago, I was faced with the prospect of being alone. The being of no value to me I was someone who always had this fear of.abandonments. I have had this since I was wee little man. My friends and family always criticised me for my childish fear. Being an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 7, 2011

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    Take A Path

    Who cares about those ifs ...
    scarecrowe scarecrowe 22-25, M Sep 29, 2010

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    Sometimes

    Sometimes,I wonder,What things could have been,Had I taken a different turn,Played differently,Perhaps I'll never know,All I know,This time,For a change,Things have worked out.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 4, 2012

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    I'm Surprised

    I'm surprised this group is not larger. Or maybe there are more people content with their life choices than I realized. I've always admired those who can say "I have no regrets." And hated them for it, also. I think those who are truly happy, are those who have choices and...
    samedeepwater samedeepwater 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 7, 2011

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    What If….

    What if…. I wonder where I would be today if I would have listen to my gut feeling instead of my mother... “don’t go away to College you’re the only one that helps me” only to finish College 13 years later due to mainly working to help the family/ her or if I would have...
    IshouldHaveNOT IshouldHaveNOT 31-35, F Jul 26, 2012

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        Summer is heading our way, and I wonder if you are considering selecting a one piece swimsuit this year.You know most people would like to choose sexy bikinis rather...
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    A FRIEND :) had me listen to a song, which led me to another song that takes me away every time. If you could, play that song now and read on, and if the feeling strikes you, let...
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    I wished to be your fountain of love where you could rejuvenate yourself discarding every odds of life. As you are to me ..The whisper on the wind ,the love that never ends. From...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 1 Response Apr 15

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    Fureal.. nobody knows my story.. nobody probably ever will..
    lonleylovers lonleylovers 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    To the guy who's going to be my life, whether you are or are not of charm or might. I want to thank yo ahead, My heart and soul you have fully fed. I know when I see you, My life...
    Lunaaaa Lunaaaa 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I've always wondered what am I like in other people's eyes, how do I look like, behave, or even sound like to them. Just want to know what type of person I am.
    feraldelaney feraldelaney 18-21, F Mar 24

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    I am watching Grease on TV Such a classic Made more special by us having done the musical at school Given my current mood though it makes me wonder and a little incredulous I had...
    cailinAlainn cailinAlainn 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Every day, I wonder how different things would have been if I never got into that car accident that night, and you were still here. I wonder if I would have been a good mother to...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I've been almost constantly taking a substance of some sort since I was approximately 16 years old. I have not stayed sober for longer than a few days except when I was having a...
    thisiseph thisiseph 22-25, F Mar 25

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    Would many be people be happier without me? Or would they think that something or someone is incomplete because I never existed? Would they try to search someone who is like me? I...
    SecretsNeverHidden SecretsNeverHidden 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Would many be people be happier without me? Or would they think that something or someone is incomplete because I never existed? Would they try to search someone who is like me? I...
    SecretsNeverHidden SecretsNeverHidden 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I wonder what my Husband would say about all of this. I had this weird moment where I decided they'd like each other better than either ever liked me. That would be rich! I...
    ObiOneyouremyonlyhope ObiOneyouremyonlyhope 41-45, F Apr 14

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    I often wonder what would happen if i ran, if i left this place would anyone care enough to find me, would my life become a book of them trying to reunite with me. Would they leave...
    CharleighBrazil CharleighBrazil 16-17, F Apr 1

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    I Wonder!!! I wonder what will happen when the day returns to night! I wonder what will happen as one year follows the next! I wonder what will happen when my kids grow up and...
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I'm really wondering what the point is in trying to do anything. I feel like no matter where I go, I lose hope. Can't go see my family because my dad is so pessimistic that I leave...
    RBH101 RBH101 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    My name is Emily. And, I need help. I've been struggling with this for years now. Whether it was coming to terms with it or simply being able to tell someone. I am in pain...
    stellersjay stellersjay 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Not that I dislike being a man. But, my curiosity, aims at what it would be like, to see how a man acts, reacts, and treats me, from a physical standpoint. I know how men act...
    Michael5280 Michael5280 36-40, M Apr 10

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    I sometimes wonder what is the point in living. I really fill that human happiness was not considered in the the design of creation and life truly has no meaning.
    HopefullyThirdTimeLucky HopefullyThirdTimeLucky 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    The idiots I know talk about people all the time, but only when they're in another room. So I wonder what they say about ME when I'm not around. Usually I wouldn't care, but I...
    LordSphinx LordSphinx 13-15 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Sometimes I wish I could read people's minds but then I don't think I could handle the truth. I'm my own worst enemy. I wonder if other people see the flaws I see in myself. Do...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I would like to have sex with him. I wondered what it will be like. The white men are Sly Stallone or anyone else who is muscular with a nice face. Man, I feel so shallow.
    erykah123 erykah123 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    With the type of work I do there is not one day when this thought does not pass through my mind.. I seriously wonder what the hell is wrong with people. It's a never ending WTF and...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 Mar 27

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    I know who I am on the inside. But sometimes I wonder what signals I give off from the exterior. Sometimes I feel people can think I am weak but then I remember I really don't give...
    Wookieplanet Wookieplanet 26-30, F Mar 28

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    I often wonder what if......and i think later why not? You must think before action not always,you must act before you think not always. Many times i want leave my mind behind and...
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Sometimes just wondering what is the point for being here.
    ellavalencia ellavalencia 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    1.i love the color black. For my clothes,accessories,kitchenware 2. I love old b movie horror films from the 50's and 60's 3.lady singers and girl groups. I have a fondness for...
    AGothicOdyssey AGothicOdyssey 46-50, M a week ago

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    I wonder what people think of me
    csg0219 csg0219 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Hi, i would like to find a couple who is interested in helping me convince my wife to join in on couples play and swinging. I know that she would enjoy it, and has an extremely...
    Eha8584 Eha8584 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 24

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    I have a wife. I have a few (distant) close friends. But i dont feel like i can vent to them. I would like to share/release what going on in my life and hopefully find someone who...
    egr2plzzz egr2plzzz 26-30, M Apr 5

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    Apparently i dont taste of anything :/ My sister was being weird the other day and she licked my arm cos i think she wanted a slap, well anyways, she said "Ewwww, you have no taste...
    ssaaraahh ssaaraahh 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Before you add me or if you already added me. I would like you to know I am bipolar and have autism. But please don't judge me. I've been judged most my life. I been treated very...
    PuertoRicanPrincess18 PuertoRicanPrincess18 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 9

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    Life is like a CAMERA! FOCUS on what's important! CAPTURE the good times! DEVELOP from the negatives And if things don't work out TAKE ANOTHER SHOT !!!!!!!!📷
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I would like people to message me! Anyone, about anything. I love getting to know people, and learn more about what makes them tick and all. Message me if you'd like to chat about...
    AltruisticApathy AltruisticApathy 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I would like to enjoy another woman or man to share with me and my wife some fantasy together. Would also like someone to video us having sex so we could turn them on also and see...
    MarbleMan68 MarbleMan68 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I really do not have any logical explanation for why I would like to live in a log cabin in the woods at all. But, the idea of it has appealed to me since I was a young child and...
    IamMarah IamMarah 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    so who would like to meet up in North Norfolk for a drink or just fun. Also swap pics and stories ?
    shavencock007 shavencock007 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My hair has begun to thin, but it bothers me not as I would love to be a totally Norwood 7 bald guy with a big shiny pate and a thick male pattern baldness horseshoe ring of hair...
    SLdale SLdale 51-55, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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