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I Wonder What Men Really Find Attractive In a Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 244 People

    Does the Mind Matter?

    First off. Let me start by saying I know that not all men are alike.. But are looks really the only things that matter to men? Are men happy with women who are gorgeous but not very bright? Or would they prefer someone who is maybe not so pretty, but has some intelligence. I...
    cheerdanceflirt cheerdanceflirt 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    I Don't Wonder... I Know.

    Real men are attracted to the following: A good heart A capacity to nurture A strong spirit and confidence A healthy sexual (body), sensual (mind) and spiritual (soul) balance A warm smile An ability to say how she really feels and not just say...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 16 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    I Wonder

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    flourlady111 flourlady111 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Astronomically Diverse And Fascinating

    Women are beautiful! walking through a city centre and just observing people in general is one of my favourite pastimes. But seriously it fascinates me when I see the diversity of beautiful women that I find it amazing how anyone can actually have a particular type. I went...
    Johnny88 Johnny88 22-25, M Jan 14, 2013

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    Just Tell

    really, just gimme a few things guys. let everyone out here know whats up.
    bells19 bells19 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    Please....

    shed some light on this issue..... honestly. no soppy, im such a nice guy, mushy crap. what do you actually like, if you were to be really really fussy?
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Does It Matter?

    I'm not blonde. I don't have long legs and big boobs. I don't have big bambi eyes. Does that matter? I'm not that confident. I won't trust you until you give me a reason to do so. I don't really, really love myself. Does that matter? I won't pretend. Does that matter? I'm...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2009

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    But Am Starting To Care Less And Less . . .

    I'm starting to realize that I am what I am.  I'm a plus-sized girl, I like wearing make-up and dressing up, I can be a great friend, I'm smart and can be funny and charming.  More and more I'm coming to the conclusions that if guys out there aren't attracted to that...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2010

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    We Are All Different!

    I am 42 years old. Now that I am older and a long ways from high school I will share with you what I have learned I really want in a woman.  I was one of those guys who once thought that looks are all that matters. Through experience though I have learned if...
    Masco Masco 41-45 2 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    Woman Of The Heart

    Wow. Woman. Isn't it a beautiful word. Who ARE you? This has absolutely NOTHING to do with make-up, breast implants, colored contacts, etc. Get Rid Of It!! I wanna see the real YOU. Shells and fad dressing don't do it for me because I can see right thru them. What some...
    whatisloneliness whatisloneliness 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    I Wonder.......

    This group is very interesting to me as I wonder what goes on in the mind of guys....only in reference to their interest in relationships. I'm a modest woman, I'm not perfect...don't have all together....but I'm a conservative girl. I'm my views, the way I carry myself. I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

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    Pretty Much...

    Everything about their femininity beginning with soft skin, lines and curves, more delicate features--definitely lines and curves. I do not have a type as far as thin, voluptuous, short all tall. I appreciate the female form for all its glory though I do tend to find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 10, 2011

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    Well, Bring Them On. . .

    Well, we women have shared a tremendous facts about our men, about how particular qualities in men turns us on. And each men with all their honest opinion has given credits and few through their own words to justify how they feel with the compliments.Now. . . women in return...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    I Can't Speak For All Men, But-

    Intelligence, first and foremost. An individual who can't communicate like a literate person is not attractive to me at all. A woman who can carry herself well in a conversation will win over a dumb gal any day in my book. With a full understanding of the fact that many men...
    phatb1991 phatb1991 22-25, M Sep 27, 2010

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    If Men Are Attracted To Personality...

    Then why is it that you seek the bimbos? the women who just care about looks or are materialistic. So where are the men that appreciate a women's personality, her looks, sense of humor and behind closed doors a women with a sexual appetite.
    funnycoolchick88 funnycoolchick88 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    I Wonder

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    flourlady111 flourlady111 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Spill It.

    What do you think is hawt, eh?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    You

    I find everything attractive in a woman. I love the curves of your hips and the smile on your lips. The shape of your breast and all the rest. The way you walk the words you talk. A smile so bright you are a delight. It doesn't matter your size I like you all. Heavy skinny or...
    Hardroc59 Hardroc59 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 4, 2013

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    Each Guy Is Different

      Just as every lady is different.   With that said, I personally like women who use their minds first and foremost.   I won't deny that beauty may turn my head, but that is fleeting and if your mind isn't up to the challenge, my head will continue its traverse and leave you...
    PrairieDog71 PrairieDog71 41-45, M Aug 14, 2012

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    Personality Or Body

    It all depends on how you look at it. Because when you say "ATTRACTIVE" , there is the two sides. For myself, If you are talking about looks (which is what normally attracts one person to another first), Then I would have to say that I prefer ladies that do not look like super...
    Bearheart68 Bearheart68 41-45, M Jul 24, 2012

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    Class, Confidence And Beauty.

    I can't speak for all men, only for myself. Basically it comes down to three things: Class, confidence and beauty. Everything a woman does needs to say that she sets high standards for herself and that she's working to better herself. A man likes to feel that he's...
    Ketsan Ketsan 31-35, M 2 Responses May 29, 2010

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    Confidence...

    ...well of course Attractive is relative.  All men like to look at hot women, don't lie.  I mean seriously, there are ***** clubs not confidence clubs.  Then again, men rarely marry or carry on a real relationship with a ********.    So, what do men...
    MistressJade MistressJade 31-35, F 11 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    Please...

    I am interested in trying to get into a guys mind and understand what goes on up there. So if you read this guys, please just list the top things that attract you to a woman. It would be really appricated :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 12, 2009

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    All In All

    what really matters to you guys in a woman. what deeply gets you attached to a woman, what do you look for. is it really if she is hott and thin and pretty or is it more than that im hoping you guys say there is more than that...i wanna know the raw truth so what makes you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    BLeh.

    You know, one thing I am tired of hearing is that guys only go for girls with blonde hair, perfect figures, and a mannequin-esque personality. That's not true. That's like saying I only eat tacos for dinner. ... That's not a sexual reference of any kind.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Personally..

    I think they like any young girl who will play games and treat them like crap. Yes, I'm bitter.
    Chrisanna Chrisanna 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    When people look at me I wonder what they really see? Do they see the real me or who I want them to see? Do they see the sweet innocent girl or the stuck up two faced *****. Do you...
    Robin1226 Robin1226 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I wonder what people really see.. When I look in the mirror I see nothing special but I can't help but wonder what other people see in me. I wonder if a stranger looks at me and...
    Missprincessgabby Missprincessgabby 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    When I look in the mirror, I see a young African American girl, with glasses and fancy hair. That always like to dress up and look nice, because she refuses to show the world...
    aviodthisnoid aviodthisnoid 13-15, F a week ago

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    I also wonder what people think when they see me. What do you think?
    ollie27 ollie27 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    When people look at me I wonder if they see things all the same as each other or differently. I'm "Anny" to my friends (2) who accept my really big and obvious problems. I like...
    Andwen Andwen 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am a loner. But this one time, this dude sat at me with lunch every day with the intention of asking me out. He was really surprised to find out we had a lot in common, so...
    dinorap1 dinorap1 13-15, F Jul 23

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    Them: "So what race are you? You look white but then Asian so what are you?" Me:"I'm Mexican ." What I should say: I'm human. That's what I am. My heritage, ancestry, history...
    jest04 jest04 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Hi my name is jamica I'm 14 i really want to be a singer and it's my passion and dream and I practice 24/7 everyday my boyfriend and family support me and say I'm really good I...
    jamica123 jamica123 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    I smile, laugh, and get really talkative..but then I will get in a bad mood and really depressed, and I keep it inside..I wonder if people see through that.
    zennarts zennarts 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ever since i was young i've tried looking the best playing the part after time i saw that people only thought of me as fake and a wanna be, after that people started pushing me...
    DCK1309 DCK1309 13-15, M 4 Responses Jul 25

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    I know that the only time we are truly ourselves is not when we look into the mirror or smile for photos, but I'm still curious as to who I am perceived as. Do people see me as I...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    when they look at me. Can they see what's hiding inside? How would they react if they knew my innermost desires and wishes. I truly wonder
    Kimmy4700 Kimmy4700 36-40 1 Response Aug 7

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    “I wonder how many people I've looked at all my life and never seen.” ― John Steinbeck, The Winter of Our Discontent
    PinkNPunky PinkNPunky 31-35, T 1 Response Aug 11

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    I'm a weird individual. I think we are all weird. I often ponder on life & just don't get it. For the most part, we are born into a world that's a struggle. Our jobs are basically...
    UPSsux UPSsux 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I live my life through other people's eyes, but I never see what they see. I sit in fear of what they see in me, because I constantly observe myself from their perspective, and it...
    medialahem medialahem 18-21 3 Responses Aug 12

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    When you look at me, what do you see? What stereotype would you put me under?
    KaylaJackie KaylaJackie 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have body dismorphia and what I see in the mirror is not what others see
    jenadvice jenadvice 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Im in love with bodybuilding and growing bigger and stronger, but i feel like no one really knows me for me:(. I hate it when im aimply metioned as "that buff dude". I'm a person...
    josueherrera josueherrera 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Idk I kinda feel really ugly...I've never had a boyfriend, no one has ever called me cute or hot. Only a few girls have called me pretty...
    shibaunu shibaunu 13-15, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    The truth behind people is what u want to know the most and how they think about u
    HassanKhan1996 HassanKhan1996 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    What do You people see? Anything? Colors? Blurry? Black n white?
    karenaYag karenaYag 13-15, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I am having a fear of losing my best friend & I think I might be losing her. She has become friends with my other best friend & I think she is replacing me with her. And ontop of...
    dayumzayum dayumzayum 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I need to know...what do people see?
    hopelovecare hopelovecare 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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