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I Wonder What Men Really Find Attractive In a Woman

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    shineymoore shineymoore 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    I Wonder.......

    This group is very interesting to me as I wonder what goes on in the mind of guys....only in reference to their interest in relationships. I'm a modest woman, I'm not perfect...don't have all together....but I'm a conservative girl. I'm my views, the way I carry myself. I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    It use to be body, then I went to face

    and eyes. Since finding someone who I shared great communication with, I'm finding that honesty, they need to be caring, have their life in order, be attractive to my soul more than the ego, height is also important, they have a happy disposition about themselves, and they also...
    Create63 Create63 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 26, 2014

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    But Am Starting To Care Less And Less . . .

    I'm starting to realize that I am what I am.  I'm a plus-sized girl, I like wearing make-up and dressing up, I can be a great friend, I'm smart and can be funny and charming.  More and more I'm coming to the conclusions that if guys out there aren't attracted to that...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2010

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    Well, Bring Them On. . .

    Well, we women have shared a tremendous facts about our men, about how particular qualities in men turns us on. And each men with all their honest opinion has given credits and few through their own words to justify how they feel with the compliments.Now. . . women in return...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    Personality Or Body

    It all depends on how you look at it. Because when you say "ATTRACTIVE" , there is the two sides. For myself, If you are talking about looks (which is what normally attracts one person to another first), Then I would have to say that I prefer ladies that do not look like super...
    Bearheart68 Bearheart68 41-45, M Jul 24, 2012

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    All I know is... I'm a 98 average student

    and I'm very kind, sweet, and very loyal. A lot of guys I've seen go for my body. My lean body with curves or my breasts or my booty. Is that all most of you go for? Because if so, I want to slap all of you in the face (yes, harsh but seriously?) I don't know too many guys that...
    GivePeaceAChance3 GivePeaceAChance3 13-15 2 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Please...

    I am interested in trying to get into a guys mind and understand what goes on up there. So if you read this guys, please just list the top things that attract you to a woman. It would be really appricated :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 12, 2009

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    Smile. Ability to hold a conversation.

    Ability to listen. Willingness to laugh. After that...eyes,demeanour,hair,shape.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 26, 2014

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    Rossthayer Rossthayer 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2014

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    Woman Of The Heart

    Wow. Woman. Isn't it a beautiful word. Who ARE you? This has absolutely NOTHING to do with make-up, breast implants, colored contacts, etc. Get Rid Of It!! I wanna see the real YOU. Shells and fad dressing don't do it for me because I can see right thru them. What some...
    whatisloneliness whatisloneliness 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    I Don't Wonder... I Know.

    Real men are attracted to the following: A good heart A capacity to nurture A strong spirit and confidence A healthy sexual (body), sensual (mind) and spiritual (soul) balance A warm smile An ability to say how she really feels and not just say...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Does the Mind Matter?

    First off. Let me start by saying I know that not all men are alike.. But are looks really the only things that matter to men? Are men happy with women who are gorgeous but not very bright? Or would they prefer someone who is maybe not so pretty, but has some intelligence. I...
    cheerdanceflirt cheerdanceflirt 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    I'm really curious to know :/

    so tell me if you will
    lovelydisgrace lovelydisgrace 16-17, F 11 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    No, I'm seriously curious.

    Please, don't lie so you won't sound shallow. Be 100% honest. I mean, you like what you like, right?
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 7 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    I know that this man is completely obsessed

    with pregnant women. It sucks.
    SecretObsessions SecretObsessions 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2014

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    Confidence...

    ...well of course Attractive is relative.  All men like to look at hot women, don't lie.  I mean seriously, there are ***** clubs not confidence clubs.  Then again, men rarely marry or carry on a real relationship with a ********.    So, what do men...
    MistressJade MistressJade 31-35, F 11 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    Do you like kind people (as in will tolerate you

    and help you without asking too much in return), or smart people (who talk about all sorts of interesting things)? I guess, I like stupid people because they are just smart people who do not have to bother with learning a bunch of pointless things. I already know enough about...
    ResidentGoddessAstraea ResidentGoddessAstraea 18-21 5 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    Gentlemen what say you?

    Anything unusual and interesting yay nay? Sorry it said my original question was too short. Lol
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 9 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    BLeh.

    You know, one thing I am tired of hearing is that guys only go for girls with blonde hair, perfect figures, and a mannequin-esque personality. That's not true. That's like saying I only eat tacos for dinner. ... That's not a sexual reference of any kind.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Astronomically Diverse And Fascinating

    Women are beautiful! walking through a city centre and just observing people in general is one of my favourite pastimes. But seriously it fascinates me when I see the diversity of beautiful women that I find it amazing how anyone can actually have a particular type. I went...
    Johnny88 Johnny88 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 14, 2013

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    SandyEboy SandyEboy 18-21, M Oct 26, 2014

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    It depends on the woman your are talking about.

    Comment below if you want to chat because for some reason my settings don't allow underage people to message me.
    dashuria dashuria 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    You

    I find everything attractive in a woman. I love the curves of your hips and the smile on your lips. The shape of your breast and all the rest. The way you walk the words you talk. A smile so bright you are a delight. It doesn't matter your size I like you all. Heavy skinny or...
    Hardroc59 Hardroc59 51-55, M 5 Responses Aug 4, 2013

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    AtlPunk1D AtlPunk1D 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    Seriously, My male friends say

    that I'm the type of girl you settle down with but I "market" myself as the girl you spend a season with because of my style and my friends . Like Would You Rather I hang out with boring people and wear pencil skirts and work buns. Gross. What ever happened to "Don't judge a...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    Each Guy Is Different

      Just as every lady is different.   With that said, I personally like women who use their minds first and foremost.   I won't deny that beauty may turn my head, but that is fleeting and if your mind isn't up to the challenge, my head will continue its traverse and leave you...
    PrairieDog71 PrairieDog71 41-45, M Aug 14, 2012

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    Pretty Much...

    Everything about their femininity beginning with soft skin, lines and curves, more delicate features--definitely lines and curves. I do not have a type as far as thin, voluptuous, short all tall. I appreciate the female form for all its glory though I do tend to find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 10, 2011

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    Spill It.

    What do you think is hawt, eh?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    If Men Are Attracted To Personality...

    Then why is it that you seek the bimbos? the women who just care about looks or are materialistic. So where are the men that appreciate a women's personality, her looks, sense of humor and behind closed doors a women with a sexual appetite.
    funnycoolchick88 funnycoolchick88 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    Well maybe not men but boys like within the

    14-17 age range. What do you like in girls? What don't you like? I'm just curious...
    Kperr14 Kperr14 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    Class, Confidence And Beauty.

    I can't speak for all men, only for myself. Basically it comes down to three things: Class, confidence and beauty. Everything a woman does needs to say that she sets high standards for herself and that she's working to better herself. A man likes to feel that he's...
    Ketsan Ketsan 31-35, M 2 Responses May 29, 2010

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    I Can't Speak For All Men, But-

    Intelligence, first and foremost. An individual who can't communicate like a literate person is not attractive to me at all. A woman who can carry herself well in a conversation will win over a dumb gal any day in my book. With a full understanding of the fact that many men...
    phatb1991 phatb1991 22-25, M Sep 27, 2010

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    All In All

    what really matters to you guys in a woman. what deeply gets you attached to a woman, what do you look for. is it really if she is hott and thin and pretty or is it more than that im hoping you guys say there is more than that...i wanna know the raw truth so what makes you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    Does It Matter?

    I'm not blonde. I don't have long legs and big boobs. I don't have big bambi eyes. Does that matter? I'm not that confident. I won't trust you until you give me a reason to do so. I don't really, really love myself. Does that matter? I won't pretend. Does that matter? I'm...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2009

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    Please....

    shed some light on this issue..... honestly. no soppy, im such a nice guy, mushy crap. what do you actually like, if you were to be really really fussy?
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    I find a woman's mind attractive,

    nothing beats great conversation, because as two people are chatting and getting along, the hormones are energising, and if in s relationship - makes for great sex.
    Create63 Create63 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Personally..

    I think they like any young girl who will play games and treat them like crap. Yes, I'm bitter.
    Chrisanna Chrisanna 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2012

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    I really wonder what people see in this pic of me. What I see is some sick girl who got bored of being in bed and took a pic of herself. xD now what do other people think?
    GirlyPerson GirlyPerson 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 5

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    I often wonder what people see when they look at me. I wonder if they see someone that's stupid and in need of guidance because EVERYONE seems to feel the need to give me step by...
    jamesmarie09 jamesmarie09 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I've always wondered if guys in REAL LIFE find me attractive or think I'm awesome and funny haha I'll never know...
    michellesydney michellesydney 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Do you find me attractive? Tell me why/why not. I'm only asking out of curiosity.
    Laura328 Laura328 22-25, F 18 Responses 3 days ago

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    And I wonder if I will ever be okay. I wonder if I will ever be able to truly love myself. I wonder if I can reach my dreams or always down myself. I wonder a lot.
    emiri77 emiri77 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I Wonderr If Anyonee Everr Looks Att Mee & Thinkk "Woww, She's Beautiful ?
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 18

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    not really much as I don't have my contact lenses in
    goodman72 goodman72 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I see people's pains and what there hiding on the inside. people hold there emotions on there sleeves
    mundinger1992 mundinger1992 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My junior year I moved schools to where I didn't know anyone. Now, I never had much confidence in myself. Ever. About how I look or whatever my talents may be, nothing. Then I got...
    TempingTheMind TempingTheMind 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dont think me rude for not caring. Think me rude because I am pretending to care
    ember23 ember23 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    It's crazy how simple actions can change lot of reactions.
    supergirlra supergirlra 16-17, F Jan 10

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