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I Wonder What Men Really Find Attractive In a Woman

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    I find everything attractive in a woman. I love the curves of your hips and the smile on your lips. The shape of your breast and all the rest. The way you walk the words you talk. A smile so bright you are a delight. It doesn't matter your size I like you all. Heavy skinny or...
    Hardroc59 Hardroc59 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 4, 2013

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    Just Tell

    really, just gimme a few things guys. let everyone out here know whats up.
    bells19 bells19 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    Each Guy Is Different

      Just as every lady is different.   With that said, I personally like women who use their minds first and foremost.   I won't deny that beauty may turn my head, but that is fleeting and if your mind isn't up to the challenge, my head will continue its traverse and leave you...
    PrairieDog71 PrairieDog71 41-45, M Aug 14, 2012

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    If Men Are Attracted To Personality...

    Then why is it that you seek the bimbos? the women who just care about looks or are materialistic. So where are the men that appreciate a women's personality, her looks, sense of humor and behind closed doors a women with a sexual appetite.
    funnycoolchick88 funnycoolchick88 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    I Can't Speak For All Men, But-

    Intelligence, first and foremost. An individual who can't communicate like a literate person is not attractive to me at all. A woman who can carry herself well in a conversation will win over a dumb gal any day in my book. With a full understanding of the fact that many men...
    phatb1991 phatb1991 22-25, M Sep 27, 2010

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    I Wonder

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    flourlady111 flourlady111 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Please....

    shed some light on this issue..... honestly. no soppy, im such a nice guy, mushy crap. what do you actually like, if you were to be really really fussy?
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Personality Or Body

    It all depends on how you look at it. Because when you say "ATTRACTIVE" , there is the two sides. For myself, If you are talking about looks (which is what normally attracts one person to another first), Then I would have to say that I prefer ladies that do not look like super...
    Bearheart68 Bearheart68 41-45, M Jul 24, 2012

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    Confidence...

    ...well of course Attractive is relative.  All men like to look at hot women, don't lie.  I mean seriously, there are ***** clubs not confidence clubs.  Then again, men rarely marry or carry on a real relationship with a ********.    So, what do men...
    MistressJade MistressJade 31-35, F 11 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    We Are All Different!

    I am 42 years old. Now that I am older and a long ways from high school I will share with you what I have learned I really want in a woman.  I was one of those guys who once thought that looks are all that matters. Through experience though I have learned if...
    Masco Masco 41-45 2 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    Does the Mind Matter?

    First off. Let me start by saying I know that not all men are alike.. But are looks really the only things that matter to men? Are men happy with women who are gorgeous but not very bright? Or would they prefer someone who is maybe not so pretty, but has some intelligence. I...
    cheerdanceflirt cheerdanceflirt 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    Astronomically Diverse And Fascinating

    Women are beautiful! walking through a city centre and just observing people in general is one of my favourite pastimes. But seriously it fascinates me when I see the diversity of beautiful women that I find it amazing how anyone can actually have a particular type. I went...
    Johnny88 Johnny88 22-25, M Jan 14, 2013

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    But Am Starting To Care Less And Less . . .

    I'm starting to realize that I am what I am.  I'm a plus-sized girl, I like wearing make-up and dressing up, I can be a great friend, I'm smart and can be funny and charming.  More and more I'm coming to the conclusions that if guys out there aren't attracted to that...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2010

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    Class, Confidence And Beauty.

    I can't speak for all men, only for myself. Basically it comes down to three things: Class, confidence and beauty. Everything a woman does needs to say that she sets high standards for herself and that she's working to better herself. A man likes to feel that he's...
    Ketsan Ketsan 31-35, M 2 Responses May 29, 2010

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    All In All

    what really matters to you guys in a woman. what deeply gets you attached to a woman, what do you look for. is it really if she is hott and thin and pretty or is it more than that im hoping you guys say there is more than that...i wanna know the raw truth so what makes you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    Woman Of The Heart

    Wow. Woman. Isn't it a beautiful word. Who ARE you? This has absolutely NOTHING to do with make-up, breast implants, colored contacts, etc. Get Rid Of It!! I wanna see the real YOU. Shells and fad dressing don't do it for me because I can see right thru them. What some...
    whatisloneliness whatisloneliness 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    Please...

    I am interested in trying to get into a guys mind and understand what goes on up there. So if you read this guys, please just list the top things that attract you to a woman. It would be really appricated :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 12, 2009

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    I Wonder.......

    This group is very interesting to me as I wonder what goes on in the mind of guys....only in reference to their interest in relationships. I'm a modest woman, I'm not perfect...don't have all together....but I'm a conservative girl. I'm my views, the way I carry myself. I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

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    Well, Bring Them On. . .

    Well, we women have shared a tremendous facts about our men, about how particular qualities in men turns us on. And each men with all their honest opinion has given credits and few through their own words to justify how they feel with the compliments.Now. . . women in return...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    Does It Matter?

    I'm not blonde. I don't have long legs and big boobs. I don't have big bambi eyes. Does that matter? I'm not that confident. I won't trust you until you give me a reason to do so. I don't really, really love myself. Does that matter? I won't pretend. Does that matter? I'm...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2009

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    BLeh.

    You know, one thing I am tired of hearing is that guys only go for girls with blonde hair, perfect figures, and a mannequin-esque personality. That's not true. That's like saying I only eat tacos for dinner. ... That's not a sexual reference of any kind.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    I Wonder

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    flourlady111 flourlady111 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Pretty Much...

    Everything about their femininity beginning with soft skin, lines and curves, more delicate features--definitely lines and curves. I do not have a type as far as thin, voluptuous, short all tall. I appreciate the female form for all its glory though I do tend to find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 10, 2011

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    I Don't Wonder... I Know.

    Real men are attracted to the following: A good heart A capacity to nurture A strong spirit and confidence A healthy sexual (body), sensual (mind) and spiritual (soul) balance A warm smile An ability to say how she really feels and not just say...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Personally..

    I think they like any young girl who will play games and treat them like crap. Yes, I'm bitter.
    Chrisanna Chrisanna 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2012

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    Spill It.

    What do you think is hawt, eh?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    They see a very attractive young man. One that is a true gentleman, very thoughtful and kind
    Sancho52 Sancho52 61-65, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I have meet a Disable children Bus Attendant. Speak no or a very little English. From Rural Village of Bangladesh. NO school. Married 2 children. Has a OCD and Bi POLAR husband...
    LIFECHECKUNDERTHEIRTHREAT LIFECHECKUNDERTHEIRTHREAT 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    brookel16 brookel16 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 17

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    I wonder, but I don't really want to know. Especially if its something bad, they can keep it to themselves .-.
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    Just wonder if people could see me as a decent person even if i've done some bad stuff in my past. I've changed, so i'm just qurious if people let you have a second chance at...
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    Sometime I wonder why some people very childish in relationship. I think you need to have this kind of understanding, maturity and honesty. This is how to keep the relationship...
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    My aunt described who I am to her and she got it right on surprisingly. She's asking me to move in with her again. She's been asking me since 10th grade and my uncle was...
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    So used to being let down and lied to... I wonder if anyone can be truthful or of I'll ever be able to trust how people say they feel about me.
    Wranglergirl33 Wranglergirl33 22-25, F Sep 7

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    I'm a very different person no one know me I hide in the shadows In school am a active person and social but I never let anyone into my life I never let them see who the real me is...
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    I just don't get why people turn to me and tell me they love me. I don't understand that four lettered word. Love. Does it really mean a thing anymore? Sure I think I've felt that...
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