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I Wonder What Men Really Find Attractive In a Woman

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    Class, Confidence And Beauty.

    I can't speak for all men, only for myself. Basically it comes down to three things: Class, confidence and beauty. Everything a woman does needs to say that she sets high standards for herself and that she's working to better herself. A man likes to feel that he's...
    Ketsan Ketsan 31-35, M 2 Responses May 29, 2010

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    I Wonder

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    flourlady111 flourlady111 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Well, Bring Them On. . .

    Well, we women have shared a tremendous facts about our men, about how particular qualities in men turns us on. And each men with all their honest opinion has given credits and few through their own words to justify how they feel with the compliments.Now. . . women in return...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    Confidence...

    ...well of course Attractive is relative.  All men like to look at hot women, don't lie.  I mean seriously, there are ***** clubs not confidence clubs.  Then again, men rarely marry or carry on a real relationship with a ********.    So, what do men...
    MistressJade MistressJade 31-35, F 11 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    Personality Or Body

    It all depends on how you look at it. Because when you say "ATTRACTIVE" , there is the two sides. For myself, If you are talking about looks (which is what normally attracts one person to another first), Then I would have to say that I prefer ladies that do not look like super...
    Bearheart68 Bearheart68 41-45, M Jul 24, 2012

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    All In All

    what really matters to you guys in a woman. what deeply gets you attached to a woman, what do you look for. is it really if she is hott and thin and pretty or is it more than that im hoping you guys say there is more than that...i wanna know the raw truth so what makes you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    I Wonder.......

    This group is very interesting to me as I wonder what goes on in the mind of guys....only in reference to their interest in relationships. I'm a modest woman, I'm not perfect...don't have all together....but I'm a conservative girl. I'm my views, the way I carry myself. I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

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    Spill It.

    What do you think is hawt, eh?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    You

    I find everything attractive in a woman. I love the curves of your hips and the smile on your lips. The shape of your breast and all the rest. The way you walk the words you talk. A smile so bright you are a delight. It doesn't matter your size I like you all. Heavy skinny or...
    Hardroc59 Hardroc59 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 4, 2013

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    I Wonder

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    flourlady111 flourlady111 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Does It Matter?

    I'm not blonde. I don't have long legs and big boobs. I don't have big bambi eyes. Does that matter? I'm not that confident. I won't trust you until you give me a reason to do so. I don't really, really love myself. Does that matter? I won't pretend. Does that matter? I'm...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2009

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    Just Tell

    really, just gimme a few things guys. let everyone out here know whats up.
    bells19 bells19 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    I Can't Speak For All Men, But-

    Intelligence, first and foremost. An individual who can't communicate like a literate person is not attractive to me at all. A woman who can carry herself well in a conversation will win over a dumb gal any day in my book. With a full understanding of the fact that many men...
    phatb1991 phatb1991 22-25, M Sep 27, 2010

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    Please....

    shed some light on this issue..... honestly. no soppy, im such a nice guy, mushy crap. what do you actually like, if you were to be really really fussy?
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Woman Of The Heart

    Wow. Woman. Isn't it a beautiful word. Who ARE you? This has absolutely NOTHING to do with make-up, breast implants, colored contacts, etc. Get Rid Of It!! I wanna see the real YOU. Shells and fad dressing don't do it for me because I can see right thru them. What some...
    whatisloneliness whatisloneliness 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    Personally..

    I think they like any young girl who will play games and treat them like crap. Yes, I'm bitter.
    Chrisanna Chrisanna 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2012

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    BLeh.

    You know, one thing I am tired of hearing is that guys only go for girls with blonde hair, perfect figures, and a mannequin-esque personality. That's not true. That's like saying I only eat tacos for dinner. ... That's not a sexual reference of any kind.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Each Guy Is Different

      Just as every lady is different.   With that said, I personally like women who use their minds first and foremost.   I won't deny that beauty may turn my head, but that is fleeting and if your mind isn't up to the challenge, my head will continue its traverse and leave you...
    PrairieDog71 PrairieDog71 41-45, M Aug 14, 2012

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    Pretty Much...

    Everything about their femininity beginning with soft skin, lines and curves, more delicate features--definitely lines and curves. I do not have a type as far as thin, voluptuous, short all tall. I appreciate the female form for all its glory though I do tend to find myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 10, 2011

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    If Men Are Attracted To Personality...

    Then why is it that you seek the bimbos? the women who just care about looks or are materialistic. So where are the men that appreciate a women's personality, her looks, sense of humor and behind closed doors a women with a sexual appetite.
    funnycoolchick88 funnycoolchick88 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    Does the Mind Matter?

    First off. Let me start by saying I know that not all men are alike.. But are looks really the only things that matter to men? Are men happy with women who are gorgeous but not very bright? Or would they prefer someone who is maybe not so pretty, but has some intelligence. I...
    cheerdanceflirt cheerdanceflirt 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    We Are All Different!

    I am 42 years old. Now that I am older and a long ways from high school I will share with you what I have learned I really want in a woman.  I was one of those guys who once thought that looks are all that matters. Through experience though I have learned if...
    Masco Masco 41-45 2 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    Astronomically Diverse And Fascinating

    Women are beautiful! walking through a city centre and just observing people in general is one of my favourite pastimes. But seriously it fascinates me when I see the diversity of beautiful women that I find it amazing how anyone can actually have a particular type. I went...
    Johnny88 Johnny88 22-25, M Jan 14, 2013

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    But Am Starting To Care Less And Less . . .

    I'm starting to realize that I am what I am.  I'm a plus-sized girl, I like wearing make-up and dressing up, I can be a great friend, I'm smart and can be funny and charming.  More and more I'm coming to the conclusions that if guys out there aren't attracted to that...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2010

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    Please...

    I am interested in trying to get into a guys mind and understand what goes on up there. So if you read this guys, please just list the top things that attract you to a woman. It would be really appricated :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 12, 2009

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    I Don't Wonder... I Know.

    Real men are attracted to the following: A good heart A capacity to nurture A strong spirit and confidence A healthy sexual (body), sensual (mind) and spiritual (soul) balance A warm smile An ability to say how she really feels and not just say...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I will lie from now on in real life when around men I find attractive until the day I die. Thanks for giving me such insights.
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    Then again I also probably wonder what means really means
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23

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    I have always wondered what people really think of me and what they actually see when they look at me. Do they see me for who I am or for who I appear to be. It's always baffled me...
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    I just constantly wonder what people really see in me. I'm shy, at times very insecure. I don't take very many pics. Of myself because I'm not confident in my appearance, I can...
    Isa44 Isa44 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I wonder what people see when they look at me. Do they see a normal girl? Do they see a weirdo? Do they see a nerd? I get kind of paranoid over this kind of thing, though I've been...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    When they look at me people seem to look way in disgust or they just smile sadly I don't know why I wonder if it's because of the way i look that's always been the problem what I...
    hitomiyoshida hitomiyoshida 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I wonder what people see in me. I dont see anything special...
    kyleigh188 kyleigh188 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 29

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    The daily struggle for me. Even though a lot of people tell me im a quiet and reserved person I still wonder what people see me as in there mind
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    Who the hell do you think you are? I'm just a woman!
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    What is it in me that you hate so much? Forget it you can't hate me more than I hate myself.
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    You're as good as you make your self to be. As honest as you think you are and as bad as I am. You think you're better? Perhaps...but thanks for the lesson I now know men like...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Oh smite me you mighty smiter :P I hate men because of you *dances around*
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I just wanted to say.. since last month I am observing wold in different manner it's because of my desire get burried..now I have a less desires I see life is not meant for living...
    chandy790 chandy790 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    I struggle with a severe mental illness. I hide it well. But as I am working more on healing it, I feel like it's a neon sign over my head. I wonder if people can see my inner...
    noplacetobreathe noplacetobreathe 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 3

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    I really just don't know anymore because at school I am ignored as much as possible but today I was complimented as one of the most beautiful people he had ever seen by a member of...
    snowunderthestars snowunderthestars 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    I think they see someone mental. Someone completely disgusting. Foreign. Weird. Repulsive. Unwanted
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I want to write something. Anything. I want to write something that influences other, that spreads rapidly...or slowly...as long as it spreads. I want to write something so deep, a...
    SeaSalt38 SeaSalt38 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Pepole can say things about you but I really wonder if they ever achually mean it about me how we look and how we act id love to know how pepole see me and what they think about me...
    andiloveyou andiloveyou 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    We have our public self- how we want others to see us....our private self which we don't want anybody to know but ourselves and perhaps a very select few..... how we perceive...
    SummerJane SummerJane 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I Wonderr Watt Ppl Thinkk Of Mee When They See Me ?D;
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 27

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    I wonder if people see me how I see myself...
    h20polo13 h20polo13 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    I'm sure you're all aware of the animal abuse commercial. Were all familiar with the classic "in the arms of the angels" tear jerker. If you've ever had the patients to listen to...
    VanishedDea VanishedDea 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I wonder how people see me if it is the way I see myself or not
    mrloweco mrloweco 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 11

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    I wonder this all the time.
    CoveringThePain CoveringThePain 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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