I Wonder What Men Really Find Attractive In a Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 424 People

    I know that this man is completely obsessed

    with pregnant women. It sucks.
    SecretObsessions SecretObsessions
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 25, 2014

    I Don't Wonder... I Know.

    Real men are attracted to the following: A good heart A capacity to nurture A strong spirit and confidence A healthy sexual (body), sensual (mind) and spiritual (soul) balance A warm smile An ability to say how she really feels and not just say...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Dec 14, 2008

    Just Tell

    really, just gimme a few things guys. let everyone out here know whats up.
    bells19 bells19
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 15, 2008
    SandyEboy SandyEboy
    22-25, M
    Oct 26, 2014

    What is meant when a man says your attractive?

    It's something I hear often. Am I to assume they are complimenting me without trying to offend of upset me?
    BambooChic BambooChic
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    Seriously, My male friends say

    that I'm the type of girl you settle down with but I "market" myself as the girl you spend a season with because of my style and my friends . Like Would You Rather I hang out with boring people and wear pencil skirts and work buns. Gross. What ever happened to "Don't judge a...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2014


    I think they like any young girl who will play games and treat them like crap. Yes, I'm bitter.
    Chrisanna Chrisanna
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2012


    ...well of course Attractive is relative.  All men like to look at hot women, don't lie.  I mean seriously, there are ***** clubs not confidence clubs.  Then again, men rarely marry or carry on a real relationship with a ********.    So, what do men...
    MistressJade MistressJade
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Dec 16, 2008

    It use to be body, then I went to face

    and eyes. Since finding someone who I shared great communication with, I'm finding that honesty, they need to be caring, have their life in order, be attractive to my soul more than the ego, height is also important, they have a happy disposition about themselves, and they also...
    Create63 Create63
    51-55, M
    Oct 26, 2014

    I'm really curious to know :/

    so tell me if you will
    lovelydisgrace lovelydisgrace
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 25, 2014

    Does It Matter?

    I'm not blonde. I don't have long legs and big boobs. I don't have big bambi eyes. Does that matter? I'm not that confident. I won't trust you until you give me a reason to do so. I don't really, really love myself. Does that matter? I won't pretend. Does that matter? I'm...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2009

    All In All

    what really matters to you guys in a woman. what deeply gets you attached to a woman, what do you look for. is it really if she is hott and thin and pretty or is it more than that im hoping you guys say there is more than that...i wanna know the raw truth so what makes you...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 19, 2009

    Well, Bring Them On. . .

    Well, we women have shared a tremendous facts about our men, about how particular qualities in men turns us on. And each men with all their honest opinion has given credits and few through their own words to justify how they feel with the compliments.Now. . . women in return...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Apr 2, 2012

    Class, Confidence And Beauty.

    I can't speak for all men, only for myself. Basically it comes down to three things: Class, confidence and beauty. Everything a woman does needs to say that she sets high standards for herself and that she's working to better herself. A man likes to feel that he's...
    Ketsan Ketsan
    31-35, M
    1 Response May 29, 2010
    shineymoore shineymoore
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2014

    Gentlemen what say you?

    Anything unusual and interesting yay nay? Sorry it said my original question was too short. Lol
    katariffik katariffik
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Nov 25, 2014
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2014

    What do you guys find attractive in women ?

    I need to know and fix myself. :(
    Annaambrose Annaambrose
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2015

    Does the Mind Matter?

    First off. Let me start by saying I know that not all men are alike.. But are looks really the only things that matter to men? Are men happy with women who are gorgeous but not very bright? Or would they prefer someone who is maybe not so pretty, but has some intelligence. I...
    cheerdanceflirt cheerdanceflirt
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 15, 2008


    shed some light on this issue..... honestly. no soppy, im such a nice guy, mushy crap. what do you actually like, if you were to be really really fussy?
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 14, 2008

    Seriously because I'm not

    that pretty and I'm bratty and annoying yet people still insist on talking to me .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2015
    Rossthayer Rossthayer
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 5, 2014

    But Am Starting To Care Less And Less . . .

    I'm starting to realize that I am what I am.  I'm a plus-sized girl, I like wearing make-up and dressing up, I can be a great friend, I'm smart and can be funny and charming.  More and more I'm coming to the conclusions that if guys out there aren't attracted to that...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 16, 2010

    Spill It.

    What do you think is hawt, eh?
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

    I Wonder.......

    This group is very interesting to me as I wonder what goes on in the mind of guys....only in reference to their interest in relationships. I'm a modest woman, I'm not perfect...don't have all together....but I'm a conservative girl. I'm my views, the way I carry myself. I have...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 10, 2012

    I find a woman's mind attractive,

    nothing beats great conversation, because as two people are chatting and getting along, the hormones are energising, and if in s relationship - makes for great sex.
    Create63 Create63
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

    All I know is... I'm a 98 average student

    and I'm very kind, sweet, and very loyal. A lot of guys I've seen go for my body. My lean body with curves or my breasts or my booty. Is that all most of you go for? Because if so, I want to slap all of you in the face (yes, harsh but seriously?) I don't know too many guys that...
    GivePeaceAChance3 GivePeaceAChance3
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2014

    Well maybe not men but boys like within the

    14-17 age range. What do you like in girls? What don't you like? I'm just curious...
    Kperr14 Kperr14
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2014


    You know, one thing I am tired of hearing is that guys only go for girls with blonde hair, perfect figures, and a mannequin-esque personality. That's not true. That's like saying I only eat tacos for dinner. ... That's not a sexual reference of any kind.
    kleisse kleisse
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 14, 2008

    Personality Or Body

    It all depends on how you look at it. Because when you say "ATTRACTIVE" , there is the two sides. For myself, If you are talking about looks (which is what normally attracts one person to another first), Then I would have to say that I prefer ladies that do not look like super...
    Bearheart68 Bearheart68
    41-45, M
    Jul 24, 2012

    It depends on the woman your are talking about.

    Comment below if you want to chat because for some reason my settings don't allow underage people to message me.
    dashuria dashuria
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2014

    Woman Of The Heart

    Wow. Woman. Isn't it a beautiful word. Who ARE you? This has absolutely NOTHING to do with make-up, breast implants, colored contacts, etc. Get Rid Of It!! I wanna see the real YOU. Shells and fad dressing don't do it for me because I can see right thru them. What some...
    whatisloneliness whatisloneliness
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

    No, I'm seriously curious.

    Please, don't lie so you won't sound shallow. Be 100% honest. I mean, you like what you like, right?
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog
    70+, F
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2014

    Pretty Much...

    Everything about their femininity beginning with soft skin, lines and curves, more delicate features--definitely lines and curves. I do not have a type as far as thin, voluptuous, short all tall. I appreciate the female form for all its glory though I do tend to find myself...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 10, 2011

    If Men Are Attracted To Personality...

    Then why is it that you seek the bimbos? the women who just care about looks or are materialistic. So where are the men that appreciate a women's personality, her looks, sense of humor and behind closed doors a women with a sexual appetite.
    funnycoolchick88 funnycoolchick88
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2012


    I am interested in trying to get into a guys mind and understand what goes on up there. So if you read this guys, please just list the top things that attract you to a woman. It would be really appricated :)
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 12, 2009

    I Can't Speak For All Men, But-

    Intelligence, first and foremost. An individual who can't communicate like a literate person is not attractive to me at all. A woman who can carry herself well in a conversation will win over a dumb gal any day in my book. With a full understanding of the fact that many men...
    phatb1991 phatb1991
    26-30, M
    Sep 27, 2010


    I find everything attractive in a woman. I love the curves of your hips and the smile on your lips. The shape of your breast and all the rest. The way you walk the words you talk. A smile so bright you are a delight. It doesn't matter your size I like you all. Heavy skinny or...
    Hardroc59 Hardroc59
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Aug 4, 2013

    I Wonder

    flourlady111 flourlady111
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Feb 4, 2009

    Smile. Ability to hold a conversation.

    Ability to listen. Willingness to laugh. After that...eyes,demeanour,hair,shape.
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 26, 2014
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