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I Wonder What Men See When They Look At A Woman Like Me

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    When someone's sees me in the street It ranges

    from a long stare to a quick glance.. That's when it would be great if I could read minds.
    Dance090 Dance090 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    There is an element of truth to the idea

    that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. It's more complex than the book settled on I rather fancy, as there are outside elements not considered perhaps. I wonder what men see when they look at a young woman like me. My friend Philippe once joked he'd never seen a woman...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 21

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    I do wonder what people see,

    most of the time they are wrong I think... What do you think?
    kissame9 kissame9 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 10

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    Honestly, I don't know

    why this is a big concern for me, but I do think that way. I would be out in public and men would look at me, not necessarily stare, but one if those glances and I always wonder how men see me. I try to take care of myself. I try to take care of my appearance. For some reason...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 15 Responses Feb 21

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    I know that I am beautiful, it's just that I wonder what other people see☺️ the thought that we are all created to be loved and give love back, it makes me wonder wether people...
    Vickypearl Vickypearl 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    1SweetL 1SweetL 36-40, F 19 Responses Jun 25

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    Dear future husband, I need for you to express your love to other people about me like that. When they ask me about my future wife, I always tell them that her eyes are the only...
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    When I look in the mirror I see some sort of beauty, when I step outside my door I see nasty glances and I hear harsh words from family to strangers and it make my confidence go so...
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    NoobLove NoobLove 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F Jul 13

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    She wore herself like clothes she had outgrown in a time period were they no longer were in style. They always tried to see her from the outside and so they never truly saw who she...
    TheShadowedGirl TheShadowedGirl 31-35 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I like my aunt a lot but she hates me now cause I had s-ex with her let me tell u the story she had big boobs big but I j-erk off thinking bout her so one day I wanted to have s-ex...
    izrules izrules 31-35, M Jul 14

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    Yes they have to be I can't eat them when they are cold they suck, I like them fresh that's why I only but them from subways at a specific time when they make them I order at least...
    kcbabypro kcbabypro 26-30, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Ever since i was young i've tried looking the best playing the part after time i saw that people only thought of me as fake and a wanna be, after that people started pushing me...
    Dck101 Dck101 13-15, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My whole life has been nothing but horrible struggle and things getting worse and worse. Bullied all growing up, kept trying to get by and ignore people, go to college with funding...
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    i wonder why everyone is just the buyer of looks why no one looks into ur soul..why there is no onw who can comletely understand u,if there is nothing like this existed in the...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Lack of common sense kills me.It seems to be everyone get their way on doing what a duck they want...with no consequences whatsoever.But there are consequences...their state of...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Advice to all men and boys. Not all women and girls like a conversation that starts with I might be the one for you. Anyone with good sense knows it's not how anything real begins...
    annpharos21 annpharos21 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    FreeThinker2 FreeThinker2 46-50 1 Response Jul 15

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    i am really curious, because the woman body is so interisng
    jelyaudi55 jelyaudi55 18-21, M 6 days ago

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