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I Wonder What Men See When They Look At A Woman Like Me

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    When someone's sees me in the street It ranges

    from a long stare to a quick glance.. That's when it would be great if I could read minds.
    Dance090 Dance090 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    I do wonder what people see,

    most of the time they are wrong I think... What do you think?
    kissame9 kissame9 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 10

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    There is an element of truth to the idea

    that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. It's more complex than the book settled on I rather fancy, as there are outside elements not considered perhaps. I wonder what men see when they look at a young woman like me. My friend Philippe once joked he'd never seen a woman...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 35 Responses Feb 21

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    Honestly, I don't know

    why this is a big concern for me, but I do think that way. I would be out in public and men would look at me, not necessarily stare, but one if those glances and I always wonder how men see me. I try to take care of myself. I try to take care of my appearance. For some reason...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 13 Responses Feb 21

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    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    i wonder what people see in me, wat i look like to my self is a girl who is not pretty, has thick horrable tangled hair, and fat but people look at me and say im pretty im not sure...
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    I really have no idea what to do in my life now. It feels like i have no destiny in life. A little background of myself is that im the youngest child in my family. I have 3 sisters...
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    I have meet a Disable children Bus Attendant. Speak no or a very little English. From Rural Village of Bangladesh. NO school. Married 2 children. Has a OCD and Bi POLAR husband...
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    I always wonder if people see colours the same way i do? Like if what i see as green, is what purple looks like to them? If you get me?
    James5946 James5946 18-21, M 6 Responses Aug 23

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    What people see is a perception! We see, hear of it throuh our natural senses. The understanding, throught process and then projecting an impression and/or a deception. The...
    intheair2nite intheair2nite 46-50, F 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    isoafklas isoafklas 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 14

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    amoriette amoriette 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    jeniffer200 jeniffer200 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    When they see me....I don't particularly care, just curious.
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    Sometimes I wonder what people perceive me as, I know it shouldn't really matter but I like to feel approachable but confident as an individual, struggled for a long time with...
    chamlav chamlav 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I appear like a happy go lucky wild and care free smiley girl but open me up and you will see a messed up damaged girl it's sad really I wanna be what everyone sees but I can't...
    foreverbellaalone foreverbellaalone 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 23

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    I have no idea if I can get any support here. I suffer with body dysmorphic disorder. This has affected my life for over ten years. Right now I'm suffering badly and have barely...
    bec78 bec78 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 28

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    This is how the rest of my life will go: -Graduate college -Get a job -Possibly meet someone -Work until I die. Even if I study abroad or meet my soulmate, I don't care. Even if I...
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