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I Wonder What Men See When They Look At A Woman Like Me

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    When someone's sees me in the street It ranges

    from a long stare to a quick glance.. That's when it would be great if I could read minds.
    Dance090 Dance090 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    I do wonder what people see,

    most of the time they are wrong I think... What do you think?
    kissame9 kissame9 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 10

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    There is an element of truth to the idea

    that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. It's more complex than the book settled on I rather fancy, as there are outside elements not considered perhaps. I wonder what men see when they look at a young woman like me. My friend Philippe once joked he'd never seen a woman...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 33 Responses Feb 21

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    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    Honestly, I don't know

    why this is a big concern for me, but I do think that way. I would be out in public and men would look at me, not necessarily stare, but one if those glances and I always wonder how men see me. I try to take care of myself. I try to take care of my appearance. For some reason...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 21

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    There's a lot you can see in the eyes. And I like long legs! A naked back is very sexy because it also means that even though you can't see it, theres a naked front! Suggestion can...
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    Gentlemen what say you? Anything unusual and interesting yay nay? Sorry it said my original question was too short. Lol
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    Is that weird? I can't seem to except friendship or any sort of interest really from people without knowing why a person is interested in me in the first place. What did I do...
    spotofhope spotofhope 13-15, F Nov 8

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    well with me I fined there personality attracts me and well everything does
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    I've often wondered what it would be like to see the world, to see me through someone else's eyes. Can they see the scars that are hidden deep? Do they know why my body has been...
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    When someone walks into a room and everyone turns to see who it is I wonder what they all think. Is it just their presence that's lets everyone know that their here or was it the...
    celery381 celery381 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    There is no real way of knowing. It's difficult, though, trying to figure this out. I don't want people to think of me as someone they need to protect. But, when people see me...
    ThisIsJustForFun ThisIsJustForFun 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    I just disappeared from this site never to speak to anyone. I mean anyone again. What would happen? Would anyone wonder where i had gone? Would they try to see if they could get a...
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    What if I was happy? What if he hadn't died? What if I still lived there??? What if she hadn't met HIM? WHAT if she loved me? What if she was there for me like a mother should be...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F Oct 31

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    When I look at something or someone, I'm always trying to draw the lines in my mind. I'm always looking for the harmony and balance. 
    WisePearls WisePearls 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    I'm an extremely introvert person. I always listen to people when they want to ventilate, but that's an ability I don't have. I never act hurt or anything, yet can be sad about the...
    scias scias 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 11

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    luischimbo luischimbo 16-17, M 8 Responses Nov 16

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    When I'm walking around town, in stores, and at university, I can't help but wonder what kinky secrets that the women I find attractive have. I think about what may get them off.
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    I've thought about suicide before. I have no one to talk to about this. The reason I'm still alive is because of my family. I wouldn't want to do this to them because they already...
    bvbandmcr bvbandmcr 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    it feels weird when someone looks at me. i just close my eyes everywhere I go, so I won't see them looking at me. * thumbs up
    jenn316 jenn316 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    I think it really depends on how they look at you. :)
    Roz2014 Roz2014 41-45, F Nov 12

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    Even you. I shut people out when they hurt me. It is how I manage to keep my head above water despite the chaos left in our wake. First was my mother. I shut her out at quite a...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    This is actually sort of ironic, considering I'm a Drum Major and the whole band looks at me to perform. I'm in winter guard and I have an audience looking at me. Get me off the...
    faithisadino faithisadino 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    Right now...its midday...*peeks at clock*...ok..its ten past...im done with this mornings paperwork...got loads done...all up to date now. The carpet had been vacuumed...thats...
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 1 hr ago

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    i guess when people became "who u are" thats when the craziness started, where no one knows u, ur act or talk might sound insane, not necessarily you sound wired beyond urself but...
    deepgreenwood deepgreenwood 26-30, M 6 hrs ago

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    NightwolfBlackheart NightwolfBlackheart 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 12

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    whitefrost whitefrost 46-50, F Nov 6

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