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I Wonder What Men See When They Look At A Woman Like Me

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    Honestly, I don't know

    why this is a big concern for me, but I do think that way. I would be out in public and men would look at me, not necessarily stare, but one if those glances and I always wonder how men see me. I try to take care of myself. I try to take care of my appearance. For some reason...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    I do wonder what people see,

    most of the time they are wrong I think... What do you think?
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    There is an element of truth to the idea

    that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. It's more complex than the book settled on I rather fancy, as there are outside elements not considered perhaps. I wonder what men see when they look at a young woman like me. My friend Philippe once joked he'd never seen a woman...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 31 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    When someone's sees me in the street It ranges

    from a long stare to a quick glance.. That's when it would be great if I could read minds.
    Dance090 Dance090 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 25, 2014

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    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    what if I stayed with my boyfriend and never broke up from him, I'm wondering what was happening. I think he was sleeping with other girls while I'm waiting for a call from him.
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    I think what my life could have been like if I stood up for myself more than I do.
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    That age when they fysicaly are becoming woman, but mentally are still children. Some girls get there early, 8 or 9 years old. Some get there at 14 years. But every girl has that...
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    I've learn to accept no matter how hard I try to get to know someone it will never amount to any happiness. I'm so tired of everyone thinking I'm needy because I am sad, depressed...
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