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I Wonder What Men See When They Look At A Woman Like Me

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    When someone's sees me in the street It ranges

    from a long stare to a quick glance.. That's when it would be great if I could read minds.
    Dance090 Dance090 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    Honestly, I don't know

    why this is a big concern for me, but I do think that way. I would be out in public and men would look at me, not necessarily stare, but one if those glances and I always wonder how men see me. I try to take care of myself. I try to take care of my appearance. For some reason...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 21

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    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    There is an element of truth to the idea

    that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. It's more complex than the book settled on I rather fancy, as there are outside elements not considered perhaps. I wonder what men see when they look at a young woman like me. My friend Philippe once joked he'd never seen a woman...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 33 Responses Feb 21

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    I do wonder what people see,

    most of the time they are wrong I think... What do you think?
    kissame9 kissame9 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 10

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    I sometimes wonder if I would loose my love for life or my spirit when I finally become an adult? I sometimes wonder if life would be better or worse. I wonder if I would ever find...
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    I wonder how people see me ...I'm someone who has been ashamed of their physical looks most of their life . I never been happy with the fact that I have dark skin even though I...
    lostsouluk lostsouluk 31-35, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I like it if girls look at me too. I'm considerably more attracted to girls. Its just that when its a warm day and I'm wearing a skirt, even though I don't go all out and try to...
    Cetacean Cetacean 36-40, M a week ago

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    I'm just wondering how people see me because many people told me that I looked way above my age even though I'm 15 they tell me I look 18, 19 even 20! I think it's probably my...
    mysticaldreams mysticaldreams 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What do you see when you see homeless man holding up a sign? I see a mentally dysfunctional individual who came from a long line of brokenness in his family.
    OwlWolf OwlWolf 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 24

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    sometime I wonder how others see me and what I look like to them
    cookieeeee cookieeeee 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 4

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    I often wonder if people see how warm and open my heart is. Do they feel the love I give? How do they really see me? To me, it's all so much deeper than what's on the outside.
    thescrap2hisbozley thescrap2hisbozley 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Reasons for wanting to do suicide: 1. Hyperhidrosis is a medical condition in which a person sweats excessively and unpredictably. Also known as a social torture. People with...
    Unknown1047 Unknown1047 18-21, M Nov 25

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    In the natural it seems like my life will be over after college. In the spirit it seems like it'll just be the beginning. The job market is crazy, getting into a graduate school...
    SheIsHealing SheIsHealing 18-21, F Nov 29

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    I wonder what people really see What I see. Are we seeing the same color? Same shape? Texture? formatting into object, meaning, definition... I believe not because we have define...
    562alex 562alex 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I know what my purpose is here. I always wonder what I was in my past life....I would guess a warrior of some sort. I'm a survivor, hurt but not afraid of life's experiences. What...
    beloved03 beloved03 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    I feel like the world is still hopeful and beautiful but sometimes when I look at people and the way they treat others and the way they don't care at all about other things it...
    ZaquoyaTinsley ZaquoyaTinsley 13-15, F Nov 20

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    i sometimes wonder whats wrong with me these days like seriously running around the house shirtless throwing food in the air.....i am a dork ig
    warriorwolf1818 warriorwolf1818 16-17, M Dec 7

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    I often wonder what if I never existed? Whose life would I have changed for the better? Whose life did I save? Whose life did I condemn? If I had never existed would anything be...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I wish I could shut people out when they hurt me. But I can't. I've tried, and it just doesn't work. I give out second, third, fourth, fifth, sometimes even 6th chances to people...
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    lately I've been thinking this more more. especially when I get treated like crap by people.
    EFairy EFairy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    take a look, my recent activity, my experiences/stories, my profile even if you like. what do you see? what do you think I should focus on next? am I as open a book here as I...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 9 hrs ago

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    It's funny.... Most people like me, I don't understand why... I'm really a stand offish kinda person until I get to know somebody is trustworthy and they are worthy enough to be...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I saw an article today that was about a man at a Detroit Lions game. He saw the lady in front of him texting someone named "Jason". The lady was pregnant and there with a man. The...
    Daniilion Daniilion 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    woman , girls please ask more questions and tell us men what u like don't always wait for us to make a move it's the 21st century you know lol
    gowithito gowithito 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Toilet seats. They've stirred up passionate debate for at least a century. To be left up or left down? As a boy, my mother would scold my brother and I for leaving it up. "I went...
    Luchs Luchs 41-45, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Parents--I don't understand parents who use their kids for their own benefits. Yesterday a woman left her baby who was still in a stroller outside of a Chinese store that my mother...
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I see on television, the papers, life that there are people who do extraordinary things that we deemed impossible. Everyday I wake up, an existential crisis is the burden of my...
    QuietFreedom QuietFreedom 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 19

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    Just A Woman That smiles through her tears. And try's my hardest to fight my fears. Always there for my family and friends. Always will be til the end. A woman that makes many...
    PrincessSleepy PrincessSleepy 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    fergieCC12 fergieCC12 26-30, F Dec 4

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    I honestly wonder all the time what people really see in me or how I look to others. Am I pretty? Nerdy, like able? Annoying? Too serious? Too sarcastic? I feel I am perceived...
    21falloutsatthedisco 21falloutsatthedisco 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 4

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    "Have you ever thought about how many people think about you? It's so bizarre. Imagine someone, out of the blue, thinking of your face. Something happens; they remember you. Your...
    paradox123 paradox123 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Here is my theory: I think the reason we can't seem to figure this out is because we humans are so self-centered that we always think "what is the purpose of MY life" and "why do...
    allaboutsex allaboutsex 41-45, M Nov 21

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    what's the point of living when you're useless? unwanted, untalented, worthless, fat, ugly, disgusting, society trash, waste of space? you know, i think of myself a lot worse than...
    roseinsurvival roseinsurvival 13-15 2 Responses Nov 27

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    Right now...its midday...*peeks at clock*...ok..its ten past...im done with this mornings paperwork...got loads done...all up to date now. The carpet had been vacuumed...thats...
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    I started typing "I wonder" and this title popped up. It made me think. What WOULD My life be like if I did? Dare I say... It would be better and Easier?... I make choices...
    HopeGluesMyBrokenHeart HopeGluesMyBrokenHeart 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    Kids Left Today~ I'm down about it but I'm okay. Tears of course but they're not hitting as hard as I thought. Maybe because I found out I will have them for all of Christmas...
    PrincessSleepy PrincessSleepy 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    And apparently, there is! According to a man on here, I am scarily like someone who was obsessed with him. I'm pretty sure he thinks I am actually her, and that I'm stalking him or...
    BrokenHeartedOlicityShipper BrokenHeartedOlicityShipper 70+, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I was going to be a model when I was 16 but I had terrible anxiety issues and had a problem with change. My parents weren't involved at all and I felt scared and alone. I was put...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    When someone adds me to their circle I usually message them asking why they added me and I either get "You seemed cool" or "I liked your post" And I like hearing those :) But if I...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    I'm a rather solitary person. I prefer to speak only when necessary or spoken to. Its just the way I've grown up. I feel like I have two lives. Who I really am, and the silent doll...
    Rachel611 Rachel611 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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    I wake up everyday to the same things. Either ive to go to school(id call it hell), or it's the weekends/holidays and I get to stay at home. Which isnt pleasant at all. With my...
    isohatetheworld isohatetheworld 70+, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I'm going to keep the answer short: for guys it's to **** ALL THE *******!!!! For ladies it's to TEASE ALL THE MEN!!! And also stay with one guy.
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M Nov 20

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