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I Wonder What Men See When They Look At A Woman Like Me

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    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    When someone's sees me in the street It ranges

    from a long stare to a quick glance.. That's when it would be great if I could read minds.
    Dance090 Dance090 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    I do wonder what people see,

    most of the time they are wrong I think... What do you think?
    kissame9 kissame9 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 10

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    Honestly, I don't know

    why this is a big concern for me, but I do think that way. I would be out in public and men would look at me, not necessarily stare, but one if those glances and I always wonder how men see me. I try to take care of myself. I try to take care of my appearance. For some reason...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 13 Responses Feb 21

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    There is an element of truth to the idea

    that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. It's more complex than the book settled on I rather fancy, as there are outside elements not considered perhaps. I wonder what men see when they look at a young woman like me. My friend Philippe once joked he'd never seen a woman...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 35 Responses Feb 21

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    I always wonder if what I physically see in the mirror is the same as what others see when they see me & I always seem to ask whomever I'm hanging out with at the time to point out...
    lostbmo lostbmo 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I also wonder what people think when they see me. What do you think?
    ollie27 ollie27 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    When people look at me I wonder if they see things all the same as each other or differently. I'm "Anny" to my friends (2) who accept my really big and obvious problems. I like...
    Andwen Andwen 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    when they look at me. Can they see what's hiding inside? How would they react if they knew my innermost desires and wishes. I truly wonder
    Kimmy4700 Kimmy4700 36-40 1 Response Aug 7

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    My brother once read to me "1 in 3 people sneeze when they look at the sun" & commented "isn't that weird?", to which I could only respond "Keith, I sneeze when I look at the sun...
    ClarkCarson ClarkCarson 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    When I look in the mirror, I see a young African American girl, with glasses and fancy hair. That always like to dress up and look nice, because she refuses to show the world...
    aviodthisnoid aviodthisnoid 13-15, F Aug 13

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    When people look at me I wonder what they really see? Do they see the real me or who I want them to see? Do they see the sweet innocent girl or the stuck up two faced *****. Do you...
    Robin1226 Robin1226 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I don't understand what is wrong with people wanting to share their girls with others to get 'turned on', to have countless affairs (I.e. Cheating), lying,... etc. I don't know why...
    StupidM StupidM 22-25, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I see pain in her eyes as she smiles, yet nobody notices, I see the look in her eyes of sadness that could stretch for miles, but nobody seems to see, I ask what's wrong she says...
    RebelLynx RebelLynx 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    This is a short story about a girl I met on the train. It was roughly four months ago today when I had started getting the train from Hastings to Brighton for work. It only took a...
    Ashh2 Ashh2 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I wonder what depression is? I don't know actually what is depression? or why how it happens to a person? for they are unhappy in life? for they are having hard time in life? what...
    satyr1007 satyr1007 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I always wonder if people see colours the same way i do? Like if what i see as green, is what purple looks like to them? If you get me?
    James5946 James5946 18-21, M 6 Responses Aug 23

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    “I wonder how many people I've looked at all my life and never seen.” ― John Steinbeck, The Winter of Our Discontent
    PinkNPunky PinkNPunky 31-35, T 1 Response Aug 11

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    It's getting a bit too hard. The situation in school's just going down the drain and so is the situation at home. At school, my 'friends' are trying to make a fool out of me in...
    EvanescentIridescent EvanescentIridescent 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I am wondering what's the point in living, I have suicidal thoughts now and then. it just doesn't seem to ever really stop, you know? All the pain can stop for a while, but then it...
    dominiquekillz dominiquekillz 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    When you look at me, what do you see? What stereotype would you put me under?
    KaylaJackie KaylaJackie 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    When you look at my photos, or read my experiences, how do you see me? Just curious. O.O
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Americas deficit. Caused by military and punishment chain. But we get told its the poor. And the broken. Not wall street. Not corporate bailouts. Supporting our...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 14

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    They probly see little shy me and scared of pepole but I'm actually sarcastic can be mean if you hurt my freind and I am confident I will talk to a boy if I want I will say what's...
    jeniffer200 jeniffer200 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    When they see me....I don't particularly care, just curious.
    MsInked511 MsInked511 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    I wonder what my cat thinks when I yell at her when she sleeps, lays down on her back with her legs open and arms in the air.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Aug 9

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    I have no reason to live. I've tried everything to get over my depression and anxiety but nothing is working. everyone is giving up on me. I have nobody. I have no life. I sleep...
    silentgirl1234 silentgirl1234 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I smile, laugh, and get really talkative..but then I will get in a bad mood and really depressed, and I keep it inside..I wonder if people see through that.
    zennarts zennarts 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    I have body dismorphia and what I see in the mirror is not what others see
    jenadvice jenadvice 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I appear like a happy go lucky wild and care free smiley girl but open me up and you will see a messed up damaged girl it's sad really I wanna be what everyone sees but I can't...
    foreverbellaalone foreverbellaalone 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 23

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    I have no idea if I can get any support here. I suffer with body dysmorphic disorder. This has affected my life for over ten years. Right now I'm suffering badly and have barely...
    bec78 bec78 36-40, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    This is how the rest of my life will go: -Graduate college -Get a job -Possibly meet someone -Work until I die. Even if I study abroad or meet my soulmate, I don't care. Even if I...
    mysteryhatcat mysteryhatcat 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't know why I still feel this way. I really don't care to be alive anymore, but yet I stick around. I do ****** up things in my life, sometimes even risking my very...
    brandijade92 brandijade92 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I often wonder what if I had married my first love.
    stuckinlife247 stuckinlife247 26-30, F Aug 1

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    Every time I wake up I look in the mirror. I don't like what I see but all I see is me. I wish I was someone else. Someone prettier..someone who was worth more
    lostandafraid000 lostandafraid000 13-15, F Aug 1

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    So today,while I was peeling a banana I wondered... What the hack is this banana doing here? What am I doing here? Most of people are very miserable and displeased...Make some...
    lanamills lanamills 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I often wonder what if my mom didn't pas away. Where would I be, what would I be doing.
    Brittany8193 Brittany8193 18-21 1 Response Aug 7

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    What if there were no labels? No straight? No gay? No lesbian? No transgender? Etc. What if we were all just people. What if we were all just bodies, built differently. Like cars...
    TommieLee TommieLee 22-25 Aug 14

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    I always wonder if I were killed and I was on the news would my old friends call my house to find out what happened? or would it still be like now since no one cares I exist.
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M Aug 18

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    I try to stay positive and not get down on things, but I really do wonder what my purpose here is, being born with the disabilities that I was, I try to understand why, whats the...
    wheelchairwonder wheelchairwonder 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    There is no one better to be around then your crazy family. We strive to avoid them but at the end usually they are there for you. We've all eventually come to a point where we can...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate when people treat you like crap, yell at you, rage at you then a few moments later, because they are delusional enough to think it never happened; they are confused that you...
    Close2Crazy Close2Crazy 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    As many of you know by now, I have an obsessed office stalker. She delights in getting off on my life, either in the office or outside of it. If there's any rumors about me in...
    deepscar deepscar 46-50, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I do whatever I can to try and be happy but nothing is working at all.. nobody beside me for support just me on my own. I think about killing myself everyday now and I hate it...
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    A Bridge Across the Pain. I remember one morning when I was three and sitting across the table from my father at breakfast, just he and I, when for no reason I could think of he...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    1 year ago: I look at her. She stares right back at me. Who are you? I want to ask, but I already know the answer. Her skinny legs look like twigs as she struts towards me. Her...
    mandyrox18 mandyrox18 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    What if the reality we see is just a shadow of the 4th dimension which is a shadow of the 5th and so on? It seems impossible unless you look at out shadows in the 2nd. They mirror...
    Midnightchorus Midnightchorus 18-21, M 3 days ago

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