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I Wonder What Men See When They Look At A Woman Like Me

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    I do wonder what people see,

    most of the time they are wrong I think... What do you think?
    kissame9 kissame9 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    There is an element of truth to the idea

    that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. It's more complex than the book settled on I rather fancy, as there are outside elements not considered perhaps. I wonder what men see when they look at a young woman like me. My friend Philippe once joked he'd never seen a woman...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 33 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    When someone's sees me in the street It ranges

    from a long stare to a quick glance.. That's when it would be great if I could read minds.
    Dance090 Dance090 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 25, 2014

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    Honestly, I don't know

    why this is a big concern for me, but I do think that way. I would be out in public and men would look at me, not necessarily stare, but one if those glances and I always wonder how men see me. I try to take care of myself. I try to take care of my appearance. For some reason...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    pretty much what the question says. im my hardest critic. id like real opinions from real people. just say what you feel.
    mlperry90 mlperry90 22-25, M Mar 5

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    I think I'm ugly, nobody wants to love me. Just like her I wanna be pretty, I wanna be pretty. But that's not gonna happen to me, Because it's already set in my gene.
    YesIAmAsian YesIAmAsian 18-21 Mar 18

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    I wonder what people see in me or don't see in me
    shannonsjourney shannonsjourney 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I do like people. I can always find something good in a person. But as strong and confident as I am; I don't know what people see in me. I know I'm likeable but I always wonder...
    Sewmuch2do Sewmuch2do 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    What do you guys find attractive in women ? I need to know and fix myself. :(
    annaambrose annaambrose 16-17 3 Responses Mar 18

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    is what they really feel. I have been kinda seeing someone off and on... for about 4 months. We fight sometimes like everyone, but we make up and are ok pretty quickly. He got...
    irishred122 irishred122 51-55, F Mar 5

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    Riddle me this, why do men cheat with a lesser version of you. That's what I don't understand about men. Strippers, *******, hoes, these are always the type of women they will...
    Zeita75 Zeita75 36-40, F Mar 13

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    Seriously because I'm not that pretty and I'm bratty and annoying yet people still insist on talking to me .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    The whole looking glass self concept intrigues me. I know who I am and who I want to be but sometimes I wonder what people think when they see me. They say first impressions are...
    amculater amculater 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    Dude I wonder if there's someone out there exactly like me in physical and mental form
    leodvx leodvx 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I wonder what is the point in even trying. I mean we try to do so much to prepare ourselves for better. Yet, many of us always seem to get the worst end of all things. I use to...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Last night I couldn't sleep and didn't fall asleep until like 5 am. I then had a series of dream where I knew I was dreaming the entire time and I kept trying to wake myself up but...
    bball798 bball798 22-25, M Mar 12

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    I have personal confidence issues with my body and wonder what other people would think if they had the chance to see it. I only get a biased opinion from those around me i know...
    colby21 colby21 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate posting anything because all I get are men non-stop! It's crazy! You can see my profile look at it before contacting me!
    xfunxgirlx xfunxgirlx 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    i can't help but wonder what i look like through your eyes
    400luxbux 400luxbux 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I went to a job interview today. As an genderqueer person, I can't help but wonder what or who the person interviewing me saw. I took an extra hour deliberating over what to wear...
    xanaxannex xanaxannex 22-25, T 3 Responses Mar 16

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    I feel as though the world is lacking passion and the beauty of romance. There is no more relishing in beauty itself. We praise the raunchy, vulgar & explicit versions of love...
    CaseyJoLynn CaseyJoLynn 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Have you ever been asked the question, "What Super-Power would you want to have?" I always chose mind-reading because I wanted to know what others thought about me. However, I...
    sheepysleepy sheepysleepy 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    So first of all. imagine if animals like you know in kids movies where they can think yet still live stupid instinctual lifestyles. what would they be thinking about Our instincts...
    Pride49 Pride49 22-25, M Mar 13

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    Its marvelous what you can see when you open your eyes. - - Anonymous
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M Mar 10

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    I wonder what if I had made different choice . I mean we all have regrets . I wonder if I had quit my job that caused me so much stress would my child still be here.
    Supernaturalgirl94 Supernaturalgirl94 18-21, F Mar 12

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    Have you ever wondered what people do to your vehicle when you're not there? Yesterday night a man whom got out of his car next to my dad's truck walked over to and kicked one of...
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Words of hardness said...one sided...hard eyes looking back, straight, rigid face looking back from the mirror....I hate the way I feel when I look at you I say to the person...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Mar 18

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    When you have spent most of your life keeping people at a distance because it is easier to let them go...it is hard to know what to do when the one person you thought you would...
    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I've only met 2 people like that. we all used to be best friends. Like sisters, actually. we were all so similar, that we could've passed as triplets.. But without actually looking...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    So I'm meeting up with someone who I haven't seen him in five years, he gives me compliments all the time, we have never found a bad word to say about each other and he's so sweet...
    blueworldsapart blueworldsapart 16-17, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I was in an unhappy marriage, we lost a son 22 years ago and had a daughter straight after. But our marriage took a nose dive, but we managed to live harmoniously for another 14...
    lifesabitchagain lifesabitchagain 61-65, M 1 day ago

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    I was in an unhappy marriage, we lost a son 22 years ago and had a daughter straight after. But our marriage took a nose dive, but we managed to live harmoniously for another 14...
    lifesabitchagain lifesabitchagain 61-65, M 1 day ago

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    I wonder if there is someone like me ._. I'm like a fluffy ball of joy that loves to play video games, draw, read, play piano and make music, be awesome, play sports and so on. So...
    ajmomo828 ajmomo828 18-21, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    sometimes I question this. I am a big what if person but then I always think it could have been worse had I made a different choice. kind of hard sometimes
    tellmeyourstory tellmeyourstory 22-25, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I'm so broken. I barely sleep without pills. I can't stomach my food. I'm dead walking. I know I wouldn't kill myself, but idk what's worth living for anymore
    aunaturaleee aunaturaleee 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Doing it My way! In restropect I wish I had not I would have heeded my Parents advice and not married young or married my first wife. I worked too hard for the family only to...
    TheEnglander TheEnglander 66-70, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I used to until 11 months ago and then I finally met that person the female version of me she challenges me and makes me think like no other.
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    You should never forget yr worth, but to be able to see yr worth in someone's eyes, living has new meaning.This song reflects the way I feel at this particular moment..naah,not...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 2 Responses Mar 5

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    March 17th, I'm starting to think about my guy friend... let's call him Ray. He has a different mindset comparing to other guys, that I have met in my lifetime. Probably, the fact...
    JuicyLuck JuicyLuck 18-21, F Mar 17

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    Those nights when you're laying in bed, heart pounding, tears in your eyes, mind racing, not being able to breathe. Those are the absolute worst nights, especially when you feel so...
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I really wonder.Yesterday ,I objected to someone's post.That too in a private message and he said he did not care and if someone did not like it ,they could block him.If we cannot...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 15