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    I wonder what people really see

    when they look at me? do they see me as an intelligent person? a really dumb person? it always peaks my interest but also worrys me sometimes
    Andyg99 Andyg99 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    What do you see when you look at a woman?

    Her clothes... Well dressed so you assume she has class and money? Don't be so sure- that could be her only nice outfit. Dressed very prim & proper so she must be a prude... Could be a tiger behind closed doors. Dressed in something too tight, too revealing so she must be easy...
    Walkalone9000 Walkalone9000 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 7

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    I was not myself for weeks

    yet nobody noticed.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    It was once said that a person gets

    so use to looking at their own features they can't really see the beauty a stranger would see.
    germany100 germany100 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    Watching a lot of near death experiences

    and they give me hope. I wonder how heaven looks... sometimes i think i see heaven in my mind. I pray we all have some hope and love and light. From the loneliest prisoner to the happiest person on earth.
    cjsewall cjsewall 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I've often wondered what it would be like to

    see the world, to see me through someone else's eyes. Can they see the scars that are hidden deep? Do they know why my body has been marked? Do they know why tears dried up many years ago? Do they know why I sometimes act inappropriately during certain situations? What do people...
    beautifuldisaster76 beautifuldisaster76 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2014

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    I have lost myself over the past few years

    and have finally hit rock bottom. When I started telling ppl to stop taking advantage of me and that I need time to myself to start feeling better, I'm being called an *** and treated like its a sin that I even considered asking for time for that. I want to give up. If someone...
    beentheredonethat79 beentheredonethat79 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    All the time. Especially

    when I talk to them
    addictedtolife99 addictedtolife99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    What do you guys think about gender roles?

    ? I think thats very important, thats why I'm kinda hate feminist eventho im a girl
    skcim skcim 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    What do you see, when you look at me?

    Do you see me for who I am? Or do you see me through the tinted lenses of predetermined stereotypes? Do you see me as a unique individual, or do I seem like a cliche nobody? Who am I to you? Do I mean anything at all? Am I your friend? Or just a source of entertainment to you...
    JustAnotherConflictedSoul JustAnotherConflictedSoul 16-17, M 9 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    I always wonder what the people around me think.

    I find that sometimes I can be annoying sometimes. I always feel like someone wants to shut me up, but are to nice to.
    BaiiBoo BaiiBoo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    when u read what I post

    and look at my pic and chat with me.......tell me the truth plz
    WonderStruckLove WonderStruckLove 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I've always thought of myself

    as a horrible person. When I see my reflection, I see the manifestation of my horrible personality. That's why I don't believe people when they say I'm cute, or just good-looking. Even after being with my girlfriend for three years, I don't understand why she likes me. I just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 14

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    Will the Man With No Eyes See Darkness?

      In my younger years, which is not that long ago for me, I first wondered if people saw different colours…because if you see red as I see green how am I to know the difference, because we both call the different colours the same thing. Now days I think science has...
    smebro smebro 22-25, M 16 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    I've always wondered

    if guys in REAL LIFE find me attractive or think I'm awesome and funny haha I'll never know...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 25

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    Hey guys, young beauty guru here!

    !! You'll love me so go check out my videos. Hope you like😋http://youtu.be/G--t2VKteho You could also just look me up---> theyloverichar1
    theyloverichar1 theyloverichar1 13-15, F Jul 20

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    I really wonder what people see in this pic of

    me. What I see is some sick girl who got bored of being in bed and took a pic of herself. xD now what do other people think?
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jan 5

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    It dawned on me that no one else stands

    where anyone else stands, so you view of the world is completely unique. No one will ever see exactly what you have seen. Add the internal mental 'view' each of us constructs which is also unique; each of us carries around an entire universe that all goes away when we die...
    AeshSme AeshSme 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 18

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    when they look at me.

    .. bc sometimes I just don't see what they see.
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I laugh and joke about things,

    but I'm actually a little depressed
    JuleSinger JuleSinger 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    Do you find me attractive?

    Tell me why/why not. I'm only asking out of curiosity.
    Laura328 Laura328 22-25, F 16 Responses Jan 24

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 15

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    I feel like I am very awkward,

    this results in my being very anxious in social situations, cauaings stress and mild paranoia. I'm tired of fit, but confused where to start
    jr328 jr328 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    shymic shymic 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    Everyone around me sees me

    as angry mean and evil but my attitude is a build up of growing up being identified as a dark skin girl with nappy hair I have been called ugly so many times I believe it I am ugly and evil it's like everyone one sees me as not good enough because I'm dark skin
    morganwm09 morganwm09 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    So... Walking along on vacation with a big

    floppy sun hat. The wind caught my hat. I reached with both hands to hold my hat. The wind abruptly blows my skirt straight up in the back. Good thing I had a pretty lace thong on. I think the wind must be a male. I didn't turn around to see who might have seen. I feared it...
    Walkalone9000 Walkalone9000 51-55, F 10 Responses May 29

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    Why are people so horny here :( is anybody here

    actually looking for love. and are you really, or just saying that to get boys to do what you want. ive had guys do that to me :(. i want a serious long term relationship with the man of my dreams, i just wish he'd show up already :P
    ilovepie12345 ilovepie12345 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    As biologist, I always wondered what makes life.

    when I first learned about DNA and life in cells, I was shocked to see to that we are all just a bunch of chemicals interacting due to the pre defined laws of nature. But then, once we move past individual cells, it suddenly becomes so complex that its hard to wrap your head...
    krystlister krystlister 26-30, M 3 Responses May 10

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    What do you see? Yeah there's the brown hair

    and eyes, but what else? You can't see what's inside, that's why it's so easy for others to judge, to assume, and to turn away. But we may have more in common than you'd ever imagined. So, take a closer look at someone next time you start to judge =]
    Parkerluv1 Parkerluv1 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    To me, this quote from the film The Thin Red

    Line, sums it up. Private Witt: "One man looks at a dying bird and thinks there's nothing but unanswered pain, that death's got the final word, it's laughing at him. Another man sees that same bird, feels the glory, feels something smiling through it."
    BlueWerewolf BlueWerewolf 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    I'm not an extraordinary girl.

    I laugh at silly things and cry when I hear sad songs. I struggle each day because I have my own battles to fight. And I suffer each day because I have scars on my heart and soul. At times I feel lonely and left out, but I'm my own story and I won't change to fit in any mold...
    Onebellaheart Onebellaheart 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 13

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    As I've grown older I have come to this

    realization that not everyone will be pleased with you but ******* everyone off is a piece of cake...
    CindersAndSmokes CindersAndSmokes 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 28

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    Should I tell you a story

    or maybe three? I went to buy this phone soon as I came back to India in 2012 august..I was sitting alone in the bus... with the packet opened.. I was 21. Then a young mother with a baby came and sat beside me.. We started talking.. She was an Islam, also 21.. Got married very...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    I have always wanted to meet myself from

    someone else's point of view... i wonder if i would kill him or kiss him..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    On the outside I try to look perfect all the

    time, perfect make up, perfect hair, perfect smile. But do people really see how broken I am? That every time I laugh it almost brings me to tears? That I only stress about my hair and make up so people will like me? I really do wonder how many of my friends see me as I really...
    WishIWasForever WishIWasForever 18-21, F 3 Responses May 30

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    I Wonderr If Anyonee Everr Looks Att Mee &

    Thinkk "Woww, She's Beautiful ?
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 18

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    I've unintentionally confused people by being

    cheerful around friends and being gloomy when I am alone or with other people. I wonder what my classmates think of me ?-?
    R3Animated R3Animated 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ppl Wontt Always Tell Youu Howw Theyy Feel,

    Btt Theyll Showw Youu. Payy Attention.
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    BeauteFloue BeauteFloue 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 11, 2014

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    I wonder what people really see

    when they see me. Do they see a happy person, sad or hurt?. I wonder if they realise a hundred other eyes have set eyes on me yet see something different to them. Do they see what I see in the mirror or in pictures?. Or do they see something completely different?. Just wrote...
    amaryllisflowers amaryllisflowers 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 14

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    Numb. Just numb. When she talks to me my smile

    drops, and a powerful shot of numbness travels throughout my whole body as my heart sinks into my stomach and crashes my good mood.
    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    A psychologist walked around a room

    while teaching stress management to the audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they'd be asked the 'half empty or half full' question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: 'how heavy is this glass of water?' Answers ranged from 8 to 20 oz. she...
    anns07 anns07 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    Is my red, your blue,

    or is your green, my green too? We where taught to label colors based on ones person view, and because of that, we'll never really know.
    ViviAbbing ViviAbbing 18-21, T 3 Responses Jul 15

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    What would it be like havin me

    as a friend? (Read my other experiences) pin and tapeworm in my past, falling in love with a book character, what would it be like having me as a real life friend?
    WeirdAlyank WeirdAlyank 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I get fidgety during meetings

    so I often curl my legs under me or I put my feet on the chair with my knees at my chin. I work with mostly males 20+ years older than me. I wonder if they look at me like I am some silly child who can't be professional.
    Serastrazsa Serastrazsa 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 15

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    I say I don't care what they think.

    .. but I'd still like to know.
    LostsoulLoner LostsoulLoner 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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