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    I was not myself for weeks

    yet nobody noticed.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    A psychologist walked around a room

    while teaching stress management to the audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they'd be asked the 'half empty or half full' question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: 'how heavy is this glass of water?' Answers ranged from 8 to 20 oz. she...
    anns07 anns07 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    nimnom nimnom 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Do people see the shell of a body

    that I'm in or do they see the self sufficient, reliable person I can be. I feel like everyone is always looking at my negative traits, not what I could potentially be. I wish that the world would change to see what everything could be not what it's not.
    alison806 alison806 13-15, T 1 day ago

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    On the outside I try to look perfect all the

    time, perfect make up, perfect hair, perfect smile. But do people really see how broken I am? That every time I laugh it almost brings me to tears? That I only stress about my hair and make up so people will like me? I really do wonder how many of my friends see me as I really...
    WishIWasForever WishIWasForever 18-21, F 3 Responses May 30

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    TheDiamondMinecart TheDiamondMinecart 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    Anyone using whatsapp?

    I'm looking good friends to meet around the world
    khancool khancool 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 6

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    We develop language of this experience.

    In which we see things, our mind set, what we live by and how we communicate with our encounters, how we handle situations and our journey through life. Though it seems that we speak different languages, perspectives, of different magnitudes of vocabulary.. ( cliff hanger here...
    Emiliosophy Emiliosophy 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    shymic shymic 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    You know you're maturing

    when you are made fun of in public and you don't let it ruin your time or night. I surprised myself.
    jtymez4 jtymez4 26-30, M 2 Responses May 30

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    Do people see me for

    who I am or for the way I look
    Leo231 Leo231 13-15, M 4 Responses Jun 15

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    If someone doesn't have a gender listed next to

    they're age...should I assume that person is undecided?
    Slashrattlenroll Slashrattlenroll 41-45, M 9 Responses Jun 19

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    I've often wondered what it would be like to

    see the world, to see me through someone else's eyes. Can they see the scars that are hidden deep? Do they know why my body has been marked? Do they know why tears dried up many years ago? Do they know why I sometimes act inappropriately during certain situations? What do people...
    beautifuldisaster76 beautifuldisaster76 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2014

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    I may be pretty, people may like me,

    but............I never feel good enough :(
    Court24 Court24 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    If only you knew you could tell me anything,

    and I wouldn't judge you. I would accept you for exactly who you are and not by how society stereotypes and define you. I would love you as a human being unconditionally. But I doubt that's what you see.
    Jadi1 Jadi1 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    What do you see, when you look at me?

    Do you see me for who I am? Or do you see me through the tinted lenses of predetermined stereotypes? Do you see me as a unique individual, or do I seem like a cliche nobody? Who am I to you? Do I mean anything at all? Am I your friend? Or just a source of entertainment to you...
    JustAnotherConflictedSoul JustAnotherConflictedSoul 16-17, M 9 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    I have always wanted to meet myself from

    someone else's point of view... i wonder if i would kill him or kiss him..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    I guess for women on here

    if I ask them their bra size which is something sadly I tend to do, there are two options 1) what a creep no chance I am talking to another EP pervy guy Or 2) hmm ok odd way to start conversations I will give him the benefit of the doubt and talk to him he might be a decent...
    EdwardIX EdwardIX 22-25, M 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I laugh and joke about things,

    but I'm actually a little depressed
    JuleSinger JuleSinger 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    I wonder how people see me?

    Like would they think I'm pretty? Or not attractive? Do people think I'm a right ***** or really mean? Because iv never heard or been told anything bad about me Iv always wondered that
    Littlefoxy Littlefoxy 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    I wonder if people see me

    as a loyal and kind person. Or do they see the stangest weirdo they've ever seen? What if everybody is just that shallow?
    reivven reivven 13-15, F Jun 15

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    I appear like a happy go lucky wild

    and care free smiley girl but open me up and you will see a messed up damaged girl it's sad really I wanna be what everyone sees but I can't seem to be her
    foreverbellaalone foreverbellaalone 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    does everyone's eyes see diff colors?

    Is this even real? When I say "this" I mean LIFE. What if I'm actually not real and you're actually not real?
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 10

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    Sometimes I look at myself really hard,

    everything I hate and love about myself, and I think "Does it really matter? Does anyone really care?" No ones ever expressed any hatred for me, I've never been called straight up ugly. But I can't help thinking that I'm ugly or that people hate me, but it's moments of the...
    LookToTheNeonLights LookToTheNeonLights 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    I've always wondered

    if guys in REAL LIFE find me attractive or think I'm awesome and funny haha I'll never know...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 25

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    Feel like people see me

    as pathetic especially my friends cuz I keep letting in someone that constantly hurt me.
    lisatrainer lisatrainer 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    uglygirl76 uglygirl76 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 10

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    I don't remember the last time anyone told me

    I'm pretty. I don't remember the last time my family looked at me and didn't have a hint of disappointment or judgement in their faces. I don't remember the last time anyone said they love me and sound like they mean it. I literally feel like I lack a personality, like I'm just...
    justneedtotalktoyou justneedtotalktoyou 22-25, F 7 Responses May 29

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    it's just so strange to me how I can see myself

    as this weirdo that lives in her best friends shadow but yet somehow other people see something else. I guess it's because they've just never lived my life but it's just so strange. I want to know what other people think of me when they see me.
    cocococococococo cocococococococo 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 10

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    Do you find me attractive?

    Tell me why/why not. I'm only asking out of curiosity.
    Laura328 Laura328 22-25, F 17 Responses Jan 24

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    What do you see? Yeah there's the brown hair

    and eyes, but what else? You can't see what's inside, that's why it's so easy for others to judge, to assume, and to turn away. But we may have more in common than you'd ever imagined. So, take a closer look at someone next time you start to judge =]
    Parkerluv1 Parkerluv1 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    I always wonder what people see

    when they look at me. I've always been very conscious of myself but lately I've been in a really low place in my life which has caused me to lose all of my confidence which then causes me to feel bad about myself. And when I feel bad about myself, I'm not happy and optimistic at...
    Eriyy Eriyy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    I really wonder what people see in this pic of

    me. What I see is some sick girl who got bored of being in bed and took a pic of herself. xD now what do other people think?
    GirlyPerson GirlyPerson 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 5

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    plz..message me,,..,.

    ...........
    khancool khancool 26-30, M Jun 6

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    It was once said that a person gets

    so use to looking at their own features they can't really see the beauty a stranger would see.
    germany100 germany100 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    What do you see when you look at a woman?

    Her clothes... Well dressed so you assume she has class and money? Don't be so sure- that could be her only nice outfit. Dressed very prim & proper so she must be a prude... Could be a tiger behind closed doors. Dressed in something too tight, too revealing so she must be easy...
    Walkalone9000 Walkalone9000 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 7

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    Worlds Apart.

    Each of our visions are unique. As you read these words, you bring to them eyes that have seen so, so many things; you set these words amongst the many billions of phrases that swirl through your head; your past and your present are a lens that focus and then scatter these...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 9 Responses Jun 24, 2007

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    I Wonderr If Anyonee Everr Looks Att Mee &

    Thinkk "Woww, She's Beautiful ?
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 18

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    As biologist, I always wondered what makes life.

    when I first learned about DNA and life in cells, I was shocked to see to that we are all just a bunch of chemicals interacting due to the pre defined laws of nature. But then, once we move past individual cells, it suddenly becomes so complex that its hard to wrap your head...
    krystlister krystlister 26-30, M 3 Responses May 10

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    So... Walking along on vacation with a big

    floppy sun hat. The wind caught my hat. I reached with both hands to hold my hat. The wind abruptly blows my skirt straight up in the back. Good thing I had a pretty lace thong on. I think the wind must be a male. I didn't turn around to see who might have seen. I feared it...
    Walkalone9000 Walkalone9000 51-55, F 12 Responses May 29

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    What do people really see?

    What if everyone was just honest for a day and said everything they felt and explained everything they see.?.?
    meriyazalma meriyazalma 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 6

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    Was this a dream or not?

    I could feel his lips upon my face He turned me away His hands were then placed on my waist I could hear music softly playing He looked me in the eyes and smiled And he twirled me around and we began swaying He knew how to bring out the best in me I loved him for...
    Farmmaid Farmmaid 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    I often wonder what men see in me.

    I can't attract random men on the streets but I can attract men who get to know me. I don't see what they see. I have no clue why anyone would be attracted to me or what I have to offer. I just don't know
    Aimee3 Aimee3 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I wonder what people think

    when they look at me, I often get dirty looks from people, I get a sense that I'm being discriminated against. Sometimes people will just turn and look at me like I'm an alien when I'm out in public. Mostly men too, women don't seem to notice me at all.
    didsome didsome 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I'm a rather solitary person.

    I prefer to speak only when necessary or spoken to. Its just the way I've grown up. I feel like I have two lives. Who I really am, and the silent doll at school. I mean, I'm not bullied and I have never been, but I am definitely not happy mostly. I think much more than I speak...
    Rachel611 Rachel611 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2014

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    I feel lonely when I'm surrounded by people ,

    it's like all they do is judge and criticize me ..
    Shaileyrae Shaileyrae 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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