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I Wonder What People Really See

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    It's funny.... Most people like me,

    I don't understand why... I'm really a stand offish kinda person until I get to know somebody is trustworthy and they are worthy enough to be called my friend. I don't trust easy, people have let me down pretty much most of my life... Including close family members... I have...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I see people's pains

    and what there hiding on the inside. people hold there emotions on there sleeves
    mundinger1992 mundinger1992 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I'm a rather solitary person.

    I prefer to speak only when necessary or spoken to. Its just the way I've grown up. I feel like I have two lives. Who I really am, and the silent doll at school. I mean, I'm not bullied and I have never been, but I am definitely not happy mostly. I think much more than I speak...
    Rachel611 Rachel611 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    Am I the only one who sees myself sane?

    Is the rest of the world seeing a psychotic, criminal, pathological , ugly, liar? And how would I ever know for sure ?
    calichic calichic 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    vanessa5290 vanessa5290 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Gabster27 Gabster27 18-21, F Jan 24

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    I would really love to meet myself from another

    person's point of view just to see if people find it as awesome to meet me as I find it to meet them.
    kamicapri kamicapri 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 15

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    I've often wondered what it would be like to

    see the world, to see me through someone else's eyes. Can they see the scars that are hidden deep? Do they know why my body has been marked? Do they know why tears dried up many years ago? Do they know why I sometimes act inappropriately during certain situations? What do people...
    beautifuldisaster76 beautifuldisaster76 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2014

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    I bet when people say I'm pretty n beautiful

    they are being sarcastic ??????
    stafford158 stafford158 16-17, F 7 Responses Feb 19

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    I always wonder if people see colours the same

    way i do? Like if what i see as green, is what purple looks like to them? If you get me?
    James5946 James5946 18-21, M 6 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    Perspective is everything.

    Stay focused on your dream and it will come true. Stay focused on your doubt and you will be crushed by it. We truly are in control But one must take control. I know and understand this knowledge. So why cant I seem to stop doubting myself? The hesitation, the nervousness...
    LeMuffinMaster LeMuffinMaster 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    sometime I wonder how others see me

    and what I look like to them
    cookieeeee cookieeeee 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    I feel lonely when I'm surrounded by people ,

    it's like all they do is judge and criticize me ..
    Shaileyrae Shaileyrae 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I honestly wonder all the time what people

    really see in me or how I look to others. Am I pretty? Nerdy, like able? Annoying? Too serious? Too sarcastic? I feel I am perceived differently by different kinds of people, and in a way this is scary. I accept myself and feel I am me and I love myself (not in a self-centered...
    21falloutsatthedisco 21falloutsatthedisco 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    I really wonder what people see in this pic of

    me. What I see is some sick girl who got bored of being in bed and took a pic of herself. xD now what do other people think?
    GirlyPerson GirlyPerson 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 5

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    Sometimes I wonder what people really see

    when they look at me. Do they see the nice girl whose always smiling? or can they see something else behind my smile?
    Silent15 Silent15 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Like what do they see,

    what kind of person do they think I am, do I interest people, etc ..
    emiri77 emiri77 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    nimnom nimnom 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    It was once said that a person gets

    so use to looking at their own features they can't really see the beauty a stranger would see.
    germany100 germany100 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    I've always wondered

    if guys in REAL LIFE find me attractive or think I'm awesome and funny haha I'll never know...
    michellesydney michellesydney 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 25

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    babylonkush babylonkush 70+, M 2 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    The Poetry of Perception

    You may find that person in life that is an exact replica to you, your alternate thumb print so to speak.  But the truth is, we are all individuals and as such our perceptions vary. I know what I see when I look at that plain wall, in the mirror, at 'him', etc.  But...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    I wish I could see myself through someone

    else's eyes, not just see myself in the mirror, but feel what they feel when they look at me...I know that seems odd
    curvvyspice curvvyspice 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Like what do they see,

    what kind of person do they think I am, do I interest people, etc ..
    emiri77 emiri77 18-21, F Feb 8

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    Your perfect life lead you to believe the

    nieave conception that you should be a one dimensional person. Sheltered. My broken life and wisdom I gained from it saved you, your stability and love gave me something to hold on to. The Anwser is, true love does exist. Maybe it just isn't in the way you picture it.
    Cakecake123 Cakecake123 22-25, F Feb 7

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    shymic shymic 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    Dandrew96 Dandrew96 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 19

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    What do you see, when you look at me?

    Do you see me for who I am? Or do you see me through the tinted lenses of predetermined stereotypes? Do you see me as a unique individual, or do I seem like a cliche nobody? Who am I to you? Do I mean anything at all? Am I your friend? Or just a source of entertainment to you...
    JustAnotherConflictedSoul JustAnotherConflictedSoul 13-15, M 10 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    My junior year I moved schools to

    where I didn't know anyone. Now, I never had much confidence in myself. Ever. About how I look or whatever my talents may be, nothing. Then I got my first boyfriend just a couple months later. And things are going great. I even started to get a little confidence about how I look...
    TempingTheMind TempingTheMind 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    Will the Man With No Eyes See Darkness?

      In my younger years, which is not that long ago for me, I first wondered if people saw different colours…because if you see red as I see green how am I to know the difference, because we both call the different colours the same thing. Now days I think science has...
    smebro smebro 22-25, M 15 Responses Jun 26, 2007

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    I laugh and joke about things,

    but I'm actually a little depressed
    JuleSinger JuleSinger 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    I wonder if anyone just looks at me

    and thinks "wow she's beautiful" or "I wish she was my gf"
    unknown413 unknown413 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I may be pretty, people may like me,

    but............I never feel good enough :(
    Court24 Court24 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    goodman72 goodman72 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    Do you find me attractive?

    Tell me why/why not. I'm only asking out of curiosity.
    Laura328 Laura328 22-25, F 19 Responses Jan 24

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    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    I appear like a happy go lucky wild

    and care free smiley girl but open me up and you will see a messed up damaged girl it's sad really I wanna be what everyone sees but I can't seem to be her
    foreverbellaalone foreverbellaalone 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    And I wonder if I will ever be okay.

    I wonder if I will ever be able to truly love myself. I wonder if I can reach my dreams or always down myself. I wonder a lot.
    emiri77 emiri77 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    I often wonder what people see

    when they look at me. I wonder if they see someone that's stupid and in need of guidance because EVERYONE seems to feel the need to give me step by step instructions on how to do everything.
    jamesmarie09 jamesmarie09 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 19

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    Love is a beautiful hurt.

    Think about it...
    Cakecake123 Cakecake123 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    curvvyspice curvvyspice 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 15

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    Why do people see someone they can take

    advantage of? I just want to be loved back.
    kelbase kelbase 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    What do you see? Yeah there's the brown hair

    and eyes, but what else? You can't see what's inside, that's why it's so easy for others to judge, to assume, and to turn away. But we may have more in common than you'd ever imagined. So, take a closer look at someone next time you start to judge =]
    Parkerluv1 Parkerluv1 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    I Wonderr If Anyonee Everr Looks Att Mee &

    Thinkk "Woww, She's Beautiful ?
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 18

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    Iam50 Iam50 46-50, F 15 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    Worlds Apart.

    Each of our visions are unique. As you read these words, you bring to them eyes that have seen so, so many things; you set these words amongst the many billions of phrases that swirl through your head; your past and your present are a lens that focus and then scatter these...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 9 Responses Jun 24, 2007

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    I was not myself for weeks

    yet nobody noticed.
    michellesydney michellesydney 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    BeauteFloue BeauteFloue 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2014

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    I do wonder what people think of me,

    or whether they understand something I say or do the way I meant it. But I also take this literally. Like, if I'm looking at a green chair, and you agree that it's green, there's no way to know that the color we see is really the same. It's a deep existential mystery :)
    GenevieveH GenevieveH 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 14

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    What is this life you see with your senses?

    What is all we see and what does the picture of "reality" mean?
    voicesvoices voicesvoices 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's weird to think that the way you see

    yourself isn't how other people see you. While you're sitting there picking out all of your flaws, someone else is sitting somewhere admiring your beauty. ❤️
    rtolley rtolley 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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