I Wonder What People Say About Me Behind My Back

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    I Wonder But Don'T Care

    It annoys me that people talk behind people's back because that's back stabbing and frankly anything I say I make a point to say it to that persons face. It's instinctive to wonder what people think of you and If they say anything behind your back and if so what... I don't really...
    EmilyPop28 EmilyPop28
    18-21, F
    Nov 22, 2013

    I used to have a bestfriend,

    but now I hate her.I don't care about whatever happens to her,but I do wonder what she says about me.Everytime I go to school she with her "best-friend" looking at me and talking.The reason I put these " is because she's using her. But I have a new bestfriend that I honestly...
    Awkwardlysocial Awkwardlysocial
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2015

    Constructive Criticism?

    I am definetly for constructive criticism. I would love to just know what people think of me because I am always wanting to be a better person. I wish I could know what people were thinking of me so I could to my best to be a good person. No matter how popular or well liked a...
    brighteyes723 brighteyes723
    18-21, F
    Nov 29, 2012

    If They Did...

    I would probably curb stomp their face in! lol
    Shaunagloden Shaunagloden
    18-21, F
    Oct 26, 2012

    They say pretty bad things about me

    where I can hear and see them, so I can only imagine that they say worse behind my back. I guess some friends are just enemies in disguise.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 19, 2016

    Constructive Criticism

    Not that I would be so interesting that they would talk about me all day, but constructive criticism is always desirable.No one points out all the flaws in people around them, and that is to be expected. To do that would be extremely rude. However, we all have these little (or...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2010

    it hurts to know that people talk bad things

    behind your back, judgmental things. I try understand cause i don't share my inner self. and i think it's unavoidable for people to judge. but it still hurts just thinking about it..
    FallingWind FallingWind
    22-25, F
    Feb 23, 2014
    Girlinthefloweredskirt Girlinthefloweredskirt
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2014

    I have been to four different schools

    throughout high school and I'm not even a senior yet. And it's not because I move a lot. The first school I went to during freshman year gave me my first couple of anxiety attacks. I promised my mom I'd go back to school if I could be homeschooled the rest of that year. In tenth...
    DarianM DarianM
    18-21, F
    Jun 25, 2015

    Yeahh, Sometimes.

    It used to bother me a lot because people would say a lot of ****** things But, as I get older I realize that I really don't care. People are whatever to me. I won't be included in everyones input on what crowd I should be in. I have no crowd, because I'm different & staying with...
    KISSndKILL KISSndKILL
    18-21, F
    Mar 8, 2012

    I Should ...

    But I don't because I already know in most cases.   : )
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2011

    I actually would like to know,

    out of curiosity. I'm pretty perceptive so it would most probably be a detailed confirmation of what i already know.
    ChaoticEnigma ChaoticEnigma
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 14, 2016

    They Done Have A Clue.

    Before I was a mother I never planned on being one.  In my single days I planned on traveling the world as a photographer for the national geographic in my Jeep Wrangler with a Great Dane in my passenger seat.  I was a loner, I loved animals and an artist, I planned on...
    Matriarch Matriarch
    22-25, F
    Jun 24, 2010

    Recently, there has been a few rumours about me

    floating around. Although I try to ignore them, I can't help but wonder what people are saying behind my back. An example: Someone started a rumour about how I bribe girls to come to my house and have sex with me. Now come on! It's fu**ing ridiculous. Why would someone think...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor
    26-30, M
    Apr 7, 2015

    I do this a lot but I'm working on changing it.

    I usually assume the worst on what people are thinking or saying which isn't helpful at all... So now whenever I catch myself doing it I will talk back to that negative voice, ie 'I'm not a mind reader' or 'that's an unhelpful thought whether its true or not' etc etc
    lisadee87 lisadee87
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2014

    it's not that I give a crap about what they

    think or that I would change because of it. I just want to know what they think and so I know that I really do know that my personality around people is different from my real personality
    singingtwinkly72 singingtwinkly72
    16-17, F
    Jun 24, 2015

    I Know What They Say...

    Actually, I don't wonder.  I know exactly what they say but it doesn't phase me.  I've seen the stories and answers to questions on here that run the police down and call "all" law enforcement officers pigs. But I'll still be there when you need help.  I'll...
    TrprBadass TrprBadass
    41-45, M
    9 Responses Mar 21, 2010
    bunnylover365 bunnylover365
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2014

    I'm referred to as submissive,

    ignorant and love sick. It's pretty sad since those things can be true...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 16, 2014

    Goodbye OOC

    EDIT 210411: I understand now that you're staying.  Stay or go it is your choice.  Good luck and God bless. _______________________________________________________________ I understand that you have deleted your profile, OOC. I didn't want you to leave - you have a right to use...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2011

    I Always Worry....

    I am very shy and very young looking for my age. I don't have much going for me, no social life, no friends, no partner and still living at home. From that there is plenty for people to gossip about. The only thing I have going for me is that I am good at my job in daycare. If I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 24, 2011

    I know people do. My friends,

    my family, and my fellow soldiers. I have heard what they have said, and I only heard two people stand up for me. My mom and my ex girlfriend. Apparently the only two people I could trust.
    Langour Langour
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 19, 2014

    <3

    I want to know what people say about me behind my back for one simple reason - so that i can prove that every single word they say is complete bull****
    BlueKiwi34 BlueKiwi34
    13-15
    Nov 29, 2012

    I've often thought that

    if I had one wish, it would be to know what people say about me. People dont need to put a societal veneer of politeness over what they say about someone who isn't there...and this isn't just a negative, since any compliments would be genuine. And I hate how much I care about...
    myrandomusername myrandomusername
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 16, 2014

    More And More

    I understand more rumours and tales are being spread about me. Well, I've come to the conclusion that you can't win them all. Bulies are bullies are bullies. Please feel free to believe what you want. I'll be popping in occasionally to say hi to a few people but that's about it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 20, 2011

    i wish i could read mind

    so i could know what people really think about me
    uselessfreak uselessfreak
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2015

    Words Hurt

    I look different on the outside I'm hurt on the inside How did i get this way? It's my fault, i know and now i must pay They laugh and taunt and call me names I cant hear them but its all the same Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me whatever, get...
    Standing4life Standing4life
    18-21, F
    Apr 5, 2012

    Sometimes

    Sometimes, I wonder, What people say, Behind your back, Are they two-faced? Back-stabbers? Or are they, Really friends, Some people, I wonder.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Feb 11, 2012

    I Usually Asume It's Bad

    I don't necessarily want to know what people say, but I do wonder. I try not to talk about people that I respect behind their backs, but if the topic comes up it is hard to avoid. If someone else is speaking ill of them I usually throw in the old "theyre actually pretty cool...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 21, 2010

    Doesn't Everyone?

    It's a natural curiosity I think. I mean, I'm not obsessed with knowing what people say about me, but sometimes I wonder.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2011

    Say It To My Face...

    I absolutely hate hearing "so-and-so said this and called you that..." I hate cowardice, if you have an issue with me, front up, be a decent human and TELL ME. Weak of spirit and cold of heart? You are worthless to me. It happens too much and I won't have gossips and liars in...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jun 25, 2010

    Hmmm.....

    If you're talking behind my back, you're in a  good position to kiss my ***!!!
    xSilentlySufferingx xSilentlySufferingx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2010

    I Don't Know But...

    they are saying something...I got an email from a new friend I made that "people on this site warned him about me". Whatever that means. I do not appreciate people telling my friends whatever they may be telling them. You can talk all you want, but they can judge for themselves...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 6, 2012

    What?

    "Oh she, she is sweet and nice."That's the general comment that I got from most of my friends.Honestly, I am not that nice and sweet as I "used to be". Please, I am faking myself just to be more popular among the group. Not that my whole personality is fake, part of...
    Somanee Somanee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2010

    Struggling With My Agnosticism And Wondering About My Neighbors Dis-accord Prayers

    Struggling With My Agnosticism And Wondering About My Neighbors Dis-accord Prayers. I wonder about my unusual Antithesis and Oppositions, I am mostly getting out of my life.  My Contra-positions and my world I face, is not being the outcome of my Affirmations I yearn...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP
    56-60, M
    Jul 5, 2010

    I don't care what people are saying behind my

    back because while they're talking about me they're leaving others alone besides I must be worth something if they wanna waste their time & breath talking about me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 22, 2016

    Talking Behind My Back?

    Than please, Do me a favor, and Kiss my ***!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 29, 2010

    Don'T Really Care, But I'Ve Always Wondered

    When I was younger, I cared a lot about what people thought of me. Now, I don't. Of course I don't want to be called ugly, fat, mean, etc but people are going to say what they want to say. It doesn't really affect me either way. But I do wonder. In a world like ours now, people...
    re4409 re4409
    18-21
    1 Response May 10, 2013

    I Use To

    I use to wonder what people would say behind my back...Now I am at the point, that I don't have the time, or the energy to care anymore...All I have to say...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 13, 2012

    I mean, I know, for the most part.

    It's mostly rumors, terrible, hurtful, obviously untrue rumors. It's the bad side of popularity; it seems like you have a lot of loving friends, but the second you leave the room, everyone's an enemy. I know it's said out of jealously and believed out of stupidity, but it still...
    VegetarianVampire VegetarianVampire
    18-21, F
    Feb 23, 2014

    If You Need To Wonder

    You do not want to know. You most likely already do.
    osmosis2000 osmosis2000
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2011

    I wonder if people talk bad about me

    and if they do why not say it to my face
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 16, 2014

    I often wonder what people say about me .

    . I try my best to ignore it all.. & when sum1 infos me about it I play the part as if i could give a crapp what any1 says my nephews dumb girlfriend is always stiring up shitt about me & every1 .. I just said u kno wat u can say watever u want i dnt giv a *** .. & really who...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me
    46-50, F
    Jul 13, 2014
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