I Wonder What Women Find Attractive In a Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 238 People

    My View On It

    Is that a man needs money and a lot of it, women are so much happier when the bank account is sitting on about 2K of just funds for no other reason. Needs a good looking car, women don't like to be seen in a POS car even though it is paid for and works fine. Needs to have a...
    mtvlm mtvlm
    41-45, M
    2 Responses May 22, 2009

    A guy who is great with kids.

    Someone who is patient and loving. and loves to give to others and not expect things in return. Always showing off his great smile (makes me weak when I see a guy smile) Dark hair (not to short and not to long. Lol sorry guys but if you hair is as long as mine its just weird...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2014

    Think I Know

    pretty sure i know but i do wonder.hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
    gamblinman gamblinman
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

    Lately I've been obsessed with men's hands.

    Really everything on an attractive guy is going to be attractive.
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 6, 2014

    For me it's the eye color,

    it is the first thing I spot and I guess it's because I find my dark brown eyes dull! And I always enjoy a unique eye color and I've always been attracted to people with a sense of humor at least and I really could care less if you're a nerd or body builder or a jock I just like...
    PapiChocolate PapiChocolate
    16-17, F
    Jul 22, 2014

    I Really Don't Get It

    While I understand why women are attractive, I have never understood what anyone finds attractive about a man. This has always made it difficult for me to figure out what to do to make myself more attractive to women. Of course, I'm married now so I guess it really doesn't matter...
    FilmandVideoGuy FilmandVideoGuy
    36-40, M
    9 Responses Aug 18, 2009

    ~~~What Attracts Me To Him~~~

    His walk (swagger) The way he speaks Eyes The clothes he wears (the way he wears a pair of jeans) Mind Security Ambition The way he smells His shoes His body His kisses The way he makes love His smile (lips) The VERY first thing I notice is his eyes...Big, deep and dark...Intense...
    allycast54 allycast54
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 10, 2012

    Who Wants To Know?

    As a woman, I don't even know what I find attractive. If we are speaking strictly instinctual, then the alpha male of any group that I am currently a part of. That is all hormonal, which is essentially attraction in its base form. If we raise the bar and call this site, "I...
    bet5031 bet5031
    2 Responses Jul 4, 2011


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    4 Responses May 23, 2009


    Character is flaw only when it is presented in illusion. In time, the real persona oozes and seeps but they are what they are. I will not speak for all women, but I will say that personally, I enjoy men that are confident about who they are and present themselves as such...
    RachelR RachelR
    26-30, F
    16 Responses Aug 7, 2009

    Okay.... Let's See....

    To me, this a VERY complicated question! What do I find attractive in men? So, please have patience... this will be a very long story, I think! XD For the very shallow end of it... What I find attractive in guys is cool hair. Not overly wild or extravagant... like a mohawk or...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 6, 2009

    My List

    I will tell you what *I* find attractive: - A sense of humor. Really, if a guy doesn't have a good sense of humor, the relationship will not last. This is the single most important thing for me. - Loves animals. I don't like people that don't like animals. - Intelligence...
    kleisse kleisse
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2008

    My Humble Definition of Cool

    I have a very long list to answer this somewhere and I keep on updating it! There are lots of physical features, common and not so common that can make me stop and tell myself not to start drooling. Characters wise, goofy always does it! And my latest discovery...
    june1999 june1999
    31-35, F
    30 Responses Aug 1, 2009

    If I Was A Woman...

    I would definately be a lesbian We men are just nasty dirty hairy creatures. I fart and the dog has to leave the room because of it...I feel proud See, a dog who will eat actual crap had to leave the room because of the noxious gases from my *** and I feel PROUD Every...
    mr4553 mr4553
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Sep 10, 2010

    A Constant Gentleman.....

    i love a confident man... I love a man that can be kinda cocky with the world, but when it comes to me he can be a hugh softy... i like a guy who can be thoughtful and as attentive as i am when it comes to the relationship... PASSION!!!!! i cater to my man and love it and in my...
    sothisisme sothisisme
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2008

    What "I" Find Attractive

    dont judge me... here goes. lol 1. likes to be in control 2. very protective and gaurding of me 3. freaky sexual appetite 4. open minded 5. in shape 6. 6' or taller 7. does not keep secrets no matter what 8. nice smile 9. confident in public 10. financially responsible...
    AllOnTheTable AllOnTheTable
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Aug 5, 2009

    Big, Beefy, Meaty

    I love a man with some weight on him. I like them a little chubby, not obese, but with love handles to grab. My current fling has a belly on him that I love to rub and rubs me in all the right places when we screw. I'm not the smallest girl, I'm 5'8/165. So having a larger man...
    catlover921 catlover921
    1 Response Nov 19, 2011

    If Women Found Me Attractive

    The world would be a much better place. If all women found ALL men attractive, then the universe would explode like a superheated rock. I am not a physicist but I know that for a FACT... So come on girls, give us all some sweet lovin' why dontcha?! x ;-) :-o :-(
    Beats69 Beats69
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 27, 2011

    For Me ...

    Well, lets begin at the beginning. When I see or met a man for the first time I find his eyes attractive. Yes they are really the window to his soul. A very close second is his butt, and they can be attractive yes. I also like tall men, say 6' or 6'3" is even better...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    5 Responses Jul 7, 2009


    I am a heterosexual women. Yet I don't remember being turned on by seeing a man. The abs, the sleek looks, all the attire in the world somehow don't capture the essence that would drive me crazy with lust. But throw me a look, sometimes, its all in the eyes. Sometimes its what...
    hoping2live hoping2live
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Sep 3, 2010

    A Man From Behind

    When a man walks past me & he smells so good i cant help but to turn & look to see who it was, i am also a bum girl so i check out his butt & if those 2 things are worth the initial look then who knows what i might do to get their attention... Like with my current partner, he...
    Mullina Mullina
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 11, 2012

    Mind Over Body

    In my own opinion, I will first spy on his mind, taste it  and plunder it,  then lick his body and  indulge forever...lol Seriously, physical beauty sags through time but a beautiful mind conquers anyone overtime.
    1PrincessKai 1PrincessKai
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 6, 2011


    A man that actually takes the time to know me first before bringing anything sexual into it. But once the sexuality talk starts, it really starts, and the fire is burning..... The passion must be there. It must be aflamed. They are not afraid to share their fantasies, and they...
    deleted deleted
    11 Responses Sep 7, 2010

    I Still Don't Really Know But I'm Starting To....

    MMMMkay. This is weeeirddd....I've never been a woman with that high a sex drive (most of my exes did a pretty good job of killing that, on top of preexisting self-esteem issues that stemmed from having a dumb uncaring selfish father and an emotionally manipulative mother.)Except...
    Wonderatrix Wonderatrix
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 11, 2012

    What Women Want.

    They want a guy who squeels his tires, god that makes them hot. 
    Beastweaver Beastweaver
    46-50, M
    9 Responses Dec 22, 2008

    Attractive In A Man

    I love men butt.  :)  And their meat package too.  :)
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2011

    This Is Just My Own Perspective...but Here Goes!! :d

    I can be friends with almost ANYONE!!  So long as they're kind and  sensible, I'm good to go.But romantically is a whole other story!! I met my hubs when I was only 19 and it didn't take  us long to figure out we were a couple. He was 39.  I have been with NO ONE since the...
    sierra33 sierra33
    31-35, F
    19 Responses Aug 9, 2011

    "What makes a man actractiv"

    for me is .. if he is taller than me and he has an incredible sweet smile, and also have beautiful eye color but all this doesent matter if he dident have the confidence too make his woman feel like a princess .. it's just the truth
    HopeForReson HopeForReson
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2014

    Attractive man in my eyes🚹 Intelligence,

    you can have a amazing body but with out brains it's like talking to a manikin. I love height, I've had boyfriends in the past that are average height but my current boyfriend is 6 foot and I love every inch. Mutual interests but not all the same, I love a good debate if I...
    MacKenziePatriciaLee MacKenziePatriciaLee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2014


    I find confidence very attractive. You are who you are be proud. Personality is really important as well, but I think confidence is what attracts me to a guy. I know these twins. They are fraternal twins. One of them is about 5'10 the other is 5'4. They are both handsome, but...
    obvious11 obvious11
    22-25, F
    Sep 19, 2012

    I Don't Always Understand The Choices Other Women Make

    But I know what I want! A strong man, who knows his own strength and keeps it under control. An intelligent man, who knows his way around the world, around a situation, around a menu and a wine list, and around a woman's body. A sensual man, who knows when to go hard and when to...
    SabrinaNYC SabrinaNYC
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Sep 7, 2010

    Men with a good ***! After you've got the butt

    if your attentive, good with kids, reliable then everything else just falls into place
    KittyRocket KittyRocket
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 6, 2014

    The Bus Ride

    After a meeting, a lady sitting to my left said she though I was very hansome. I wonder what caused her to say those words for women normally do not say that to a man.
    descodesign descodesign
    1 Response Feb 9, 2012

    I Dont Really Know, But I Know One Thing.

     Ill tell you what i dont find acttractive, this groups logo, I think that is the worst look ever, I am not a muscle girl... but what i do like is a bit harder to define because i dont really think that way... when i get a boyfriend ill come back and explain what he is...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam
    18-21, F
    Aug 1, 2009

    This is what i like in a guy.

    1. Kind, polite and had manners e.g. Opening a door for me. 2. Preferably tall but that doesn't really concern me. 3. Loves to cuddle. 4. Likes to go places but not too much e.g. Hey lets go skydiving *my panic-him dragging me onto a plane* 5. I like intelligence, don't get me...
    tidget tidget
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 22, 2014

    What I Find Attractive In My Man.

    1. Humor 2. Body 3. Passion (this is a BIG one) 4. Dimples! =] 5. Ambition 6. Laid back 7. Kind spirited, likes all my friends and family. 8. Can get along great with ANYBODY. 9. The way he "carries himself" 10. Strength 11. Helpful 12. Courage And I could...
    LuckyBohne LuckyBohne
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2009

    To Say It Directly:

    Muscle´s. Simply muscle´s. Sorry, but I´ve always problems to get my breathe again when I see how big and strong male muscle´s can grow up. Generally the fascination of something great, big, strong, which is overwhelming to me. Than - but depending on the type of a man...
    Nicci72 Nicci72
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 21, 2012
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