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I Wonder What You Want Out of a Friendship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    Do I Really Want This Person to Be My Bestfriend?hii

    On the weekend i started to think about what a real friend was, and i kept wondering about Dale who has been my bestfriend for about the last 7 months.  But then i realized that we're really different people.  I'm the hippie, smart, crazy, werid girl and he's the kind...
    Wildrosegirl Wildrosegirl 16-17 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    This is a great subject. I have always had issues about what to expect from friends.      I used to constantly  cut off friends when I perceived any disloyalty, that did not work out so nice.      I have tried to...
    Obiewan Obiewan 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    It's So Simple!!!

    What do I want out a friendship? That's easy! =p Come laugh with me, smile with me, leave your coat at the door! Relax and chill, take a seat with me. NO! Not there! That's my favorite chair, but you can choose any of the other furniture. And if I should frown or shed some tears...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    Sometimes I want new friends when I can't see what's good with the old. Sometimes I wonder why I can't get a boyfriend. Then when I'm actually get one I don't need one. ETC ETC ETC...
    WhisperingGrass WhisperingGrass 16-17, F Mar 16

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    I wonder what people see in me or don't see in me
    shannonsjourney shannonsjourney 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I'll take from you what I want. You can trick the stupid and the eager with an elaborate explanation of what you think you are, they will falsely compliment you and as a result...
    ArchaicDupliCity ArchaicDupliCity 31-35, M Mar 18

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    My Ex girlfriend posted on her EP account posted saying that she lost a friend and that she feels hurt and betrayed and i just feel so amused because its funny when karma comes...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I strongly believe in it even though people you hurt may not be around to see the result of your bad karma.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Hurt me then I'm going to hurt you back. Only worse
    TheDemonsWithin TheDemonsWithin 13-15, M 7 hrs ago

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    I do like people. I can always find something good in a person. But as strong and confident as I am; I don't know what people see in me. I know I'm likeable but I always wonder...
    Sewmuch2do Sewmuch2do 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    "I guess you could say his life was a mess But he's still lookin pretty in this dress"
    fireraven23 fireraven23 18-21, M Mar 14

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    I can’t be your friend... If you can’t handle my weirdness, sarcasm, stupid jokes and my tendency to laugh at almost everything. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Never chase love, affection or attention. If it isn’t given freely by another person, it isn’t worth chasing. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    One kiss on the forehead is much sweeter than a thousand kisses on the lips... slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    I feel as though the world is lacking passion and the beauty of romance. There is no more relishing in beauty itself. We praise the raunchy, vulgar & explicit versions of love...
    CaseyJoLynn CaseyJoLynn 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    is it the white picket fence 3 kids a wife a9-5 job watching tv with the wife going out sometimes having a good time eating dinner at the kitchen table the how was your day son...
    Beutifulman1970 Beutifulman1970 41-45, M Mar 9

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    When you stare at the wall Doing nothing.. Just look around your room.. Everything's the same Asking yourself whats the point? What god want me to do? You can't handle this pain...
    Lam111 Lam111 22-25 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Sorry mom. i need to tell you to stop making me become what you want. but why can't i? why is it hard to talk to you? i want you to accept me as who i am..
    alekasandra alekasandra 18-21, F Mar 8

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    Mark:What your first name means:Swedish Male Warring.Shakespearean Male 'Antony and Cleopatra' and 'The Tragedy of Julius Caesar.' Mark Antony, roman triumvir and Cleopatra's lover...
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 16 hrs ago

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    I wonder what is the point in even trying. I mean we try to do so much to prepare ourselves for better. Yet, many of us always seem to get the worst end of all things. I use to...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I am sick of being what others want me to be. I WILL be me and me only
    Jabezzz2 Jabezzz2 31-35, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    March 17th, I'm starting to think about my guy friend... let's call him Ray. He has a different mindset comparing to other guys, that I have met in my lifetime. Probably, the fact...
    JuicyLuck JuicyLuck 18-21, F Mar 17

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    I don't know what's the point of my life. Why God even brought me into this world. A useless person like me, I feel like life is such a waste, given to me. I mean it could've been...
    alilight alilight 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I lay in my bed with every thought of you intruding my head like snapshots in my brain of the last thing we shared. The words I said,the way you responded everything…. Nights...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 Mar 10

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    Have you ever wondered what people do to your vehicle when you're not there? Yesterday night a man whom got out of his car next to my dad's truck walked over to and kicked one of...
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    The whole looking glass self concept intrigues me. I know who I am and who I want to be but sometimes I wonder what people think when they see me. They say first impressions are...
    amculater amculater 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    Have you ever been asked the question, "What Super-Power would you want to have?" I always chose mind-reading because I wanted to know what others thought about me. However, I...
    sheepysleepy sheepysleepy 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I wonder what if I had made different choice . I mean we all have regrets . I wonder if I had quit my job that caused me so much stress would my child still be here.
    Supernaturalgirl94 Supernaturalgirl94 18-21, F Mar 12

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    I went to a job interview today. As an genderqueer person, I can't help but wonder what or who the person interviewing me saw. I took an extra hour deliberating over what to wear...
    xanaxannex xanaxannex 22-25, T 3 Responses Mar 16

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    Sometimes I wonder what people think of when they see me, I look different and dress different then the majority of people I usually am around. I've gotten better with self image...
    JakeTheSlenderMan JakeTheSlenderMan 13-15, M Feb 28

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    i can't help but wonder what i look like through your eyes
    400luxbux 400luxbux 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I have personal confidence issues with my body and wonder what other people would think if they had the chance to see it. I only get a biased opinion from those around me i know...
    colby21 colby21 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Its marvelous what you can see when you open your eyes. - - Anonymous
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M Mar 10

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    Asperger's Rant: I think what frustrates me the most though is just the way they list our deficiency in the art of bullshit as a symptom. What the hell is wrong with neurotypicals...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    It's so cliche... but I really don't know what to do with my life. I'm in the first year of law school. I find it interesting but it's too much for me. Ikeep failing in EVERY...
    notcoolmarvin notcoolmarvin 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    For all of my close friends on here: Ev, Koda, Cody, Mark, Cosmic, Anu, Andres, and everyone else on here. I want you to tell the truth about me. I want to know exactly what you...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    Pet owners will often time find that their pets have ear problems. This is something that happens sometimes, and the truth is that it can really be frustrating, especially if you...
    davidrichardno davidrichardno 26-30, M Mar 3

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    I want someone to tell me what you'd do to me. I'm needing some release and hoping a man can help
    roseygurl69 roseygurl69 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 4

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    At least when it comes to what I want to do with my life as I grow older and pursue my career. There's this media arts class I take in school where we act as the school district's...
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M Mar 18

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    I am 23 and a mommy of 2 beautiful kids. I had my first at 16 so I've really had no "proper" education. My partner is well educated and the deputy mayor of the city we live in. I...
    yes234 yes234 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It feels like most of the time I am the only one that wants to do what I want to do. It is really hard for me to have fun doing anything when I am alone. Ironically then when I...
    jennybernd jennybernd 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    pretty much what the question says. im my hardest critic. id like real opinions from real people. just say what you feel.
    mlperry90 mlperry90 22-25, M Mar 5