They just became so few that there aren't enough of them to counter act the typical macho-bravado behavior that runs rampant amongst men these days. I'm hoping to change that. It'll take time, but I have faith the movement will reach people.
However in a recent experience it frustrated the hell out of me that a man was acting like too much of gentleman. I think it's okay to not be a gentleman when the time is right. I guess guys will never win. Or maybe I'm just too damn complicated 😕