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I Wonder Why I Bother

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    A Few Things Things Really....

    Well right this very second I'm wondering why I bother getting pissed off. Why I bother letting people get under my skin in the freaking first place. But there have been so many times in the last year or more that i wonder why I even try with people. I have met great people...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Jun 25, 2012

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    Can't Explain

    i don't know why i am bothered..hehehe i wonder why??  
    kulit kulit 22-25, F Jun 9, 2008

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    Odd One Out...

    I sit within arms reach of my two co-workers. We are all women and I am the senior person at the job, although they have all been there a considerable amount of time. I feel to some degree that they are jealous of my job and seniority. They talk non stop for hours about nonsense...
    beachy12 beachy12 41-45 1 Response May 8, 2013

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    Just What Is The Point?

     Sometimes I get hopeful and think that things will significantly change for the better but they really don't.   I'm in my mid 30s in a job that's probably not helping me to get any further up the ladder, I've also never had a serious relationship. I work in a...
    WalterH WalterH 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 29, 2010

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    What's the Use

    I do wonder sometimes why i bother, why i bother voicing my opinion on anything, why i bother even having one, why i bother telling anyone anything or talking at all. I wonder why i bother trying to be functional in society, why it is even a goal; why try to get a job, a career...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2008

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    I Just Don't Know

    Me and my other half are mainly happy together, he makes me happy, and I think I make him happy too. But because of the way we are, we have to be a secret. And when arguments kick off, they're always about the same thing, and they're always my fault, even if I didn't start them...
    pidgeon1991 pidgeon1991 18-21 2 Responses Dec 27, 2010

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    Seriously.

    why do i bother? i have no idea. i need to bother less, i think.
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2008

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