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I Wonder Why I Bother

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    Odd One Out...

    I sit within arms reach of my two co-workers. We are all women and I am the senior person at the job, although they have all been there a considerable amount of time. I feel to some degree that they are jealous of my job and seniority. They talk non stop for hours about nonsense...
    beachy12 beachy12 41-45 1 Response May 8, 2013

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    Seriously.

    why do i bother? i have no idea. i need to bother less, i think.
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2008

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    Can't Explain

    i don't know why i am bothered..hehehe i wonder why??  
    kulit kulit 22-25, F Jun 9, 2008

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    Just What Is The Point?

     Sometimes I get hopeful and think that things will significantly change for the better but they really don't.   I'm in my mid 30s in a job that's probably not helping me to get any further up the ladder, I've also never had a serious relationship. I work in a...
    WalterH WalterH 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 29, 2010

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    What's the Use

    I do wonder sometimes why i bother, why i bother voicing my opinion on anything, why i bother even having one, why i bother telling anyone anything or talking at all. I wonder why i bother trying to be functional in society, why it is even a goal; why try to get a job, a career...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2008

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    I Just Don't Know

    Me and my other half are mainly happy together, he makes me happy, and I think I make him happy too. But because of the way we are, we have to be a secret. And when arguments kick off, they're always about the same thing, and they're always my fault, even if I didn't start them...
    pidgeon1991 pidgeon1991 18-21 2 Responses Dec 27, 2010

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    A Few Things Things Really....

    Well right this very second I'm wondering why I bother getting pissed off. Why I bother letting people get under my skin in the freaking first place. But there have been so many times in the last year or more that i wonder why I even try with people. I have met great people...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Jun 25, 2012

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    honestgirl22 honestgirl22 22-25 3 Responses Jul 16

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    Unless for cultural reasons or if they really like it, I think women should not hide their face in make up, you are beautiful without it.
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    lonelysoul1088 lonelysoul1088 22-25, M Jul 16

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    Sometime's I over think things.... I think maybe I've over endulged in sharing certain specifics about my personal life that maybe should have stayed hidden in the vault... I...
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    Raied Raied 16-17, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    killerinstinke killerinstinke 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    why people just don't respond to posts even when they are friends. Anyway I truly hope everyone has a great night
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    aquavintage aquavintage 18-21, F a week ago

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    I'm 19, never had a Velentine, Never kissed someone I liked. I don't even know why I even bother getting crushes on people because it's not like I'm gonna end up dating them anyway...
    FaFiPe FaFiPe 18-21 1 day ago

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    Wondering if you're bothering people is like the worst feeling ! Always in fear .. I hate it . So a lots of time I say f*** it I still have to ask what I have to ask , and...
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    xamybellex xamybellex 16-17, F 21 hrs ago

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    phenom0086 phenom0086 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

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    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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