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I Wonder Why I Bother

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    i don't know why i am bothered..hehehe i wonder why??  
    kulit kulit 22-25, F Jun 9, 2008

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    A Few Things Things Really....

    Well right this very second I'm wondering why I bother getting pissed off. Why I bother letting people get under my skin in the freaking first place. But there have been so many times in the last year or more that i wonder why I even try with people. I have met great people...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Jun 25, 2012

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    What's the Use

    I do wonder sometimes why i bother, why i bother voicing my opinion on anything, why i bother even having one, why i bother telling anyone anything or talking at all. I wonder why i bother trying to be functional in society, why it is even a goal; why try to get a job, a career...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2008

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    Just What Is The Point?

     Sometimes I get hopeful and think that things will significantly change for the better but they really don't.   I'm in my mid 30s in a job that's probably not helping me to get any further up the ladder, I've also never had a serious relationship. I work in a...
    WalterH WalterH 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 29, 2010

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    I Just Don't Know

    Me and my other half are mainly happy together, he makes me happy, and I think I make him happy too. But because of the way we are, we have to be a secret. And when arguments kick off, they're always about the same thing, and they're always my fault, even if I didn't start them...
    pidgeon1991 pidgeon1991 18-21 2 Responses Dec 27, 2010

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    Seriously.

    why do i bother? i have no idea. i need to bother less, i think.
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2008

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    Odd One Out...

    I sit within arms reach of my two co-workers. We are all women and I am the senior person at the job, although they have all been there a considerable amount of time. I feel to some degree that they are jealous of my job and seniority. They talk non stop for hours about nonsense...
    beachy12 beachy12 41-45 1 Response May 8, 2013

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    No one bothers to talk to me so why even try talking to people all ends the same way. Silent and bored.
    AriesNinja AriesNinja 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Is there some kind of diagnosis or personality defect that would be exhibited by a person having numerous close friends and being a pillar of the community, but having no interest...
    calpeach27 calpeach27 36-40 Mar 24

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    Why do I even bother trying to find someone, it never ends the way I want it to and just end up hurt and crying in bed alone with no one to talk to. Why is it so hard.
    katelyn2222 katelyn2222 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    today the most worst day through out my entire life , i never had a friend , recently i met a wonderful person EP , her name is Hana , she was wonderful friend , she assured me she...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Am I not deserving enough just to hava a taste of happiness with some1 tat i love? Why am i still single? Why am I still here brooding over the past, thinking of him knowing that...
    NamiNasz NamiNasz 31-35, F Apr 9

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    I really wonder..is it because I'm a twin? What did being a twin ever have to do with anyone else? is it because I don't socialize a lot except with my only true friend from birth...
    LPr0cker LPr0cker 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Yeah i dont know what i do to bore them.i wonder if it has anything to do with the way i talk .i have not made a single close friend here and i have been here in ep for 2 years,,i...
    Camouflage Camouflage 18-21, M Mar 30

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    this seems to happen to me quite a bit. its like d@mn why cant it be the way i want it. lol life would be so much easier. lol
    hallowedwillow hallowedwillow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Ever since I was young I had a major problem with making friends. I just could not understand why most people seemed to hate me so much. No matter how friendly I was. It gets...
    CookiesNCupcakes CookiesNCupcakes 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Every night before I sleep, I always think of Jade. and lots of questions pop in my mind like: 1. Why do you keep on loving him?Isn't it clear that he hates you? 3.Was their a time...
    aderie48 aderie48 16-17, F Mar 29

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    WHY AM I ALIVE?! It's the question that hunts every single day. What's my use? It's sooo bloody frustratin' Anybody got some answers??? Anyone???
    AwkwardChameleon7 AwkwardChameleon7 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    On this site, there are so many people feeling lonely already, that means there are much much more people feeling lonely in this world. So actually we are not lonely in feeling...
    OTIOSUM OTIOSUM 18-21, F Mar 31

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    ...every person I talk to that I have a great connections with and really want to keep in my life, has stopped talking to me out of nowhere. Something always comes up with them and...
    PandaHaven PandaHaven 18-21, F Apr 9

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    It happens a lot lately on the internet, when I try to be friendly they try to be snobe especially girls of course they are pro in the field of the cold shoulder, that's why I...
    sidou89 sidou89 22-25, M Apr 10

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    I had a relationship with a guy I couldn't see because my mother didn't allow it , he didn't give up and wanted to ask her for permission. I knew my mother wouldn't approve no...
    ashleysauceda ashleysauceda 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have never been as creative as I was when I was depressed. Even when I got happier, I was able to retain some of that creativity. It was amazing. I fell in love with it. I kind...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    sorry. i was just curious...:)
    Jerrid36 Jerrid36 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I Can't take this feeling, lately it's very strong. I look around, I see the reasons to live for but at the same time I don't want to live. Everything annoys, inside there's pain...
    Demeterdreaming Demeterdreaming 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I just heard about that plane disappearing a few days ago... I literally know nothing about it. But I'm very interested in knowing more...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F Mar 25

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    Everyone I am nice to takes advantage of me.
    vancouvergirl vancouvergirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I now have 7,006 views in less than 2 months on this my 4th profile. ....I find it sort of weird...I don't have thousands of friends in my circle, there's nothing that fascinating...
    AbsolutelyDamnFabulousX AbsolutelyDamnFabulousX 36-40, F 21 Responses Mar 27

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    I just don't understand. My friend and I both had our husbands cheat on us. I left based on my no tolerance policy and several months of therapy to enforce it. She stays because...
    2smart4him 2smart4him 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I just can't seem to get him off my mind or stay away from him when I know he is no good for me.
    caramelchick caramelchick 41-45, F Mar 30

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    I always said I would never smoke because my dad died of ling cancer but lately when I'm stressed I've been smoking electronic hookahs.
    ellliebee ellliebee 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I work in retail, I meet rude people that seem to think that their twenty dollar bill entitles them to act that way because they've had a bad day or my low place in society doesn't...
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm trying to make you as happy as you can but your hard to get to. Every since our break up its hard to get things outa you. Before you would tell me anything in an instant and...
    silentlyhurtingeveryday silentlyhurtingeveryday 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    There is a cashier that works at my local drugstore who used to work with my ex husband. She knows we are divorced, since February 2012, yet every time she checks me out she asks...
    garzagm garzagm 31-35, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't get how some people you think are nice can be soo rude
    23bambi23 23bambi23 41-45, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I wished to be your fountain of love where you could rejuvenate yourself discarding every odds of life. As you are to me ..The whisper on the wind ,the love that never ends. From...
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 1 Response 4 days ago

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    To people who have a crush on me i have one question what made you lower your standards to me? ._.
    NefelibataAggression NefelibataAggression 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I eat a lot, it's a part of my diet and right now I can't seem to make any protein food or anything at all bcuz everyone is sleeping :( I'm sad
    AYEZOOS AYEZOOS 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I have tried to quit but every time i try too I get overwhelmed with the urges to do so but it's feels so good when I do do it i don't know if I need help or I will just have to...
    marcus15 marcus15 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My husband is pretty good at fixing things around the house but he is no car mechanic. I love him for the oil changes, the winter tires, the new wiper blades and the new battery...
    emmasbackporch emmasbackporch 46-50, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Wondering why is painful sometimes. Why did this happen? Why did you hurt me? Why was I so stupid? Why did you leave me? Why didn't I mean more to you. Why didn't you love me...
    KittenHasaWhip KittenHasaWhip 46-50, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I wonder if I made the right choice getting the strawberry-banana milkshake. I wonder how many of my EP friends are catfishes. I wonder how wonderful people are. I wonder who I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 7

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    A FRIEND :) had me listen to a song, which led me to another song that takes me away every time. If you could, play that song now and read on, and if the feeling strikes you, let...
    Indari Indari 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    I have lived an tormenting life of everything from physical and mental abuse. To now living a life of still challenges till the day I die. Don't get me wrong,life hasn't been all...
    Haunted5 Haunted5 56-60, F Apr 4

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    Pray. Pray. Pray. thats all i was ever tod to do when everything starts to suck. &nd they say suicide is never the answer and that if you do it then you'll go to hell, but why...
    JungleJulia JungleJulia 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I just discovered what an empath is after an intense experience with death. I've always felt different. I've felt rooms energy and people's vibes. I've been nicknamed after gurus...
    mrbless mrbless 36-40, M Mar 25

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    I saw my crush yesterday at the gym and one more time something happened with him and I at the gym... We tripped with each other... So embarrassing. I wonder why we always have to...
    RonOE RonOE 16-17, F Apr 10

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    I can be happy and sit and break down and then wonder why ...slightest things can make me cry or feel down. i feel i have no one to talk to most of the time.. i am not looking for...
    jamieh656 jamieh656 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I was cheated on but when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    It never fails. I listen to what people say or read what people write, and I take it to heart. All I have to go by are their words sometimes. So when I respond, why does it seem as...
    smhinterrupted smhinterrupted 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    If people have a tough love attitude, I don't bother doing anything with them. I'm an HSP and some things can make me go off the walls, which is really bad. How do I deal with...
    whylife93 whylife93 18-21, F 2 days ago

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