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I Wonder Why People Are So Attracted to Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 34 People

    I'm Not Conceited

    I promise I don't think everyone is in love with me!! BUT, I do seem to get people confessing their crushes on me quite often, and I'm left standing there, thinking, "What? WHY?" I'll be the first to admit that I am anything but a catch. I am fat, I have a weird face, frizzy...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    I Wish

    I wish i could have people attracted to me.
    Saya2263 Saya2263 22-25, F 1 Response May 20, 2013

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    Redirection (1

    Allow me to refer you to this story; http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/...
    AlizInWonderland AlizInWonderland 22-25, F Sep 12, 2009

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    I Wonder Why People Are Attracted To Me

    I really do. I mean, when I look in the mirror (metaphorically speaking, I do not like mirrors, thus I tend to stay away from them) what I see is what most people want to stay away from. I don't think I'm appealing to the eye, I dress all mismatched all the time, my husband tells...
    midnighthavoc midnighthavoc 18-21, F Jul 17, 2011

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    It's Insane!

    You know, because of my past I often felt worthless, ugly and not to mention fat! I'm not really fat, really. But I'm a big girl. Pear shaped without any flabs hanging out or over clothing. I'm tall ( 5'7/1.75 ) and my skin is very light with some freckled here and there. I...
    PinkBunnyProject PinkBunnyProject 22-25, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    Garbagepalkids Garbagepalkids 26-30, F Sep 21

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    Seriously people don't add me if I'm just some addition to your woman collection....I'm not like that
    drinksandflowers drinksandflowers 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    People Like that I just delent :)
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    Its raining for the 3rd day running, needed but getting a bit much. Just read a stat that 78% of women in this country have affairs at some stage, sorry it never gave the % of guys...
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    Its raining for the 3rd day running, needed but getting a bit much. Just read a stat that 78% of women in this country have affairs at some stage, sorry it never gave the % of guys...
    noster1234 noster1234 36-40, M Oct 2

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    Its raining for the 3rd day running, needed but getting a bit much. Just read a stat that 78% of women in this country have affairs at some stage, sorry it never gave the % of guys...
    noster1234 noster1234 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    Huh I am one such person myself guess i wasnt thinking atall !!!!
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F Oct 2

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    Not only being called ugly and people only talking to me when they need like an answer to a question or something, but today I was called a public disturbance, I do nothing to...
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 24

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    Or maybe i dont. Maybe i wonder where people went. Lol. So many bash. Or whine. Some who bash are people. As are some who whine. Am proof. But kids and...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 21

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    Why just why I can just die and have no worry at all. Not worrying if people are going to trip me.Not worrying if somebody calls me gay.Not worrying if people talks **** about me...
    greenmonsterboi greenmonsterboi 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    I wonder what people see when they look at me. Do they see a normal girl? Do they see a weirdo? Do they see a nerd? I get kind of paranoid over this kind of thing, though I've been...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    i used to do every thing just to make him happy but still i caught him cheating me. i wonder why he did that to me. Where should we get faithful men?
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    I have always wondered what people really think of me and what they actually see when they look at me. Do they see me for who I am or for who I appear to be. It's always baffled me...
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    The one thing I know I truly value is the beautiful recognition and feeling that comes when someone else genuinely understands who I am. When I can recognise in the way someone...
    crescendo282 crescendo282 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 21

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    The daily struggle for me. Even though a lot of people tell me im a quiet and reserved person I still wonder what people see me as in there mind
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    forourkids forourkids 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 1

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    I hate it when people tell me "you need help" and never hear from them again. They never told me where to get help or even why i need help. People are so understanding /.-
    LittleDalek LittleDalek 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I think that there a few people who are just so innocent, but this innocence isn't tied to their actions. Like delicate little flowers who just want to make the world a better...
    QueenOfSaigon5 QueenOfSaigon5 16-17, F a week ago

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