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I Wonder Why People Are So Attracted to Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 34 People

    I Wish

    I wish i could have people attracted to me.
    Saya2263 Saya2263 22-25, F 1 Response May 20, 2013

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    I'm Not Conceited

    I promise I don't think everyone is in love with me!! BUT, I do seem to get people confessing their crushes on me quite often, and I'm left standing there, thinking, "What? WHY?" I'll be the first to admit that I am anything but a catch. I am fat, I have a weird face, frizzy...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    Redirection (1

    Allow me to refer you to this story; http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/...
    AlizInWonderland AlizInWonderland 22-25, F Sep 12, 2009

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    I Wonder Why People Are Attracted To Me

    I really do. I mean, when I look in the mirror (metaphorically speaking, I do not like mirrors, thus I tend to stay away from them) what I see is what most people want to stay away from. I don't think I'm appealing to the eye, I dress all mismatched all the time, my husband tells...
    midnighthavoc midnighthavoc 18-21, F Jul 17, 2011

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    It's Insane!

    You know, because of my past I often felt worthless, ugly and not to mention fat! I'm not really fat, really. But I'm a big girl. Pear shaped without any flabs hanging out or over clothing. I'm tall ( 5'7/1.75 ) and my skin is very light with some freckled here and there. I...
    PinkBunnyProject PinkBunnyProject 22-25, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    there's many different possibilities to this. people who are emotionally hurt would kick people when they're already down because it makes them feel better. people might do it...
    Bree9696 Bree9696 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    It's so weird like individuals can be awesome but when individuals turn into people it can get nasty... No wonder individuals have social anxiety. I look at people as a unit
    JustMeWuuuut JustMeWuuuut 26-30, M Dec 5

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    I am trying to realize the things I do and I put my pride to the side and come out and say I was wrong but I'm met with an "I don't care. Why are you telling me?! Keep it to...
    TheMeBMini25 TheMeBMini25 22-25, F Nov 28

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    Ok not a person but life in general. Things are going well. Got finances caught up by hard work. For my marriage finally straightened out at least for now and hoping it lasts...
    Gingersmiles Gingersmiles 41-45, F 9 Responses Dec 8

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    I simply don't know how. I've not been around a computer because of my lifestyle-no home for the last long time. its a bad sign, I like people for what they have control over, not...
    trent74 trent74 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    only the worst kind of people do that. they may be having their laugh today, but one day they will be kicked back. i just hope i am there to see it.
    karenmbrown karenmbrown 51-55, T 3 Responses Dec 4

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    Well because weakness and vulnerability elicits violence in some.
    lccraze lccraze 31-35, F Dec 4

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    You know it's truely sad when you find out someone you respected isn't worth your respect. I lost so much respect for these women. With all their education and with they're age. I...
    Annemanic Annemanic 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I wonder why people are satisfied of staying in their bubbles. Isnt it much more fun getting out from the comfortzone?
    ketogluta ketogluta 22-25 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I wonder how people see me ...I'm someone who has been ashamed of their physical looks most of their life . I never been happy with the fact that I have dark skin even though I...
    lostsouluk lostsouluk 31-35, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I loved this guy for the best part of 5 years I still wake up with him being one of my first thoughts, dream of him, think of him in the day and he's my last thought of the day...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    It seems more and more men, especially, live in sexless marriages. I wonder why? Is it because they can't look at their wives in the same way as they once did. She's had the...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 26

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    I wonder what people really see What I see. Are we seeing the same color? Same shape? Texture? formatting into object, meaning, definition... I believe not because we have define...
    562alex 562alex 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    okay so i was on the way to school and started thinking about why people cant get along is it really that hard why do most people judge someone before they really get to know them...
    warriorwolf1818 warriorwolf1818 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    I'm just wondering how people see me because many people told me that I looked way above my age even though I'm 15 they tell me I look 18, 19 even 20! I think it's probably my...
    mysticaldreams mysticaldreams 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I often wonder if people see how warm and open my heart is. Do they feel the love I give? How do they really see me? To me, it's all so much deeper than what's on the outside.
    thescrap2hisbozley thescrap2hisbozley 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Having stress is not easy living life how you want it to be maybe normal for you isnt the same people are diffrent in their own ways and me having bipola is making me worse because...
    renel renel 13-15, F Dec 11

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    People are faking to be thinking of money. You can't even laugh at it unless you're able to help them. I think people gossip so they don't have to be left alone. No one wants to be...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M Nov 28

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    I feel that most people are trustworthy. The problem is that one person can do so much damage. It only takes one person to steal your identity, rape or murder you are you loved...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    i am thinking about three people right now, at least the though of these three that keep on recurring in my mind,, 1- a current friend that i just had an hour and a half long...
    iamnoor iamnoor 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I do think people are beautiful. Everyone is beautiful to me. I look at them with the eyes of an artist. What I see when I look at people is color entwined with shape and shadow...
    ladyether ladyether 31-35, F Nov 23

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    Happy people are adaptable- they easily adjust themselves to accept what is not possible. If you're unhappy about simething, notice haw your ego holds onto it and won't let go if...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    I find it annoying how you see somebody complains then when somebody leaves a smart asa comment imediatly they threaten the smart ***.... I mean come on what are you gonna do you...
    gingerninja96 gingerninja96 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I have never shared my wife knowingly, but I have fantasized it. I don't know if it is jealousy on my part that leads me to think about her with another man, or if it is my dirty...
    drlesmoore drlesmoore 56-60, M 13 hrs ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    fergieCC12 fergieCC12 26-30, F Dec 4

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    If you feel the need to show how sophisticated you are by taking cheap shots at someone 20 or 30 years your junior, it isn't the teenager who needs to grow up. It's you.
    talkinaftermidnight talkinaftermidnight 36-40, M 8 hrs ago

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    Why does it hurt so bad? Why do people come into your life to hurt you when all you did for them was be a friend. I was there for her always and today she broke down revealing all...
    sweetliesandpromises sweetliesandpromises 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    It's funny.... Most people like me, I don't understand why... I'm really a stand offish kinda person until I get to know somebody is trustworthy and they are worthy enough to be...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    Does seeing someone else worse then you provide you a sense of relief? Do you think " Atleast I'm not that person"? Why do you some people feel this way? Is it a defense mechanism...
    GleamingEyes GleamingEyes 18-21 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So in school today, me and my friend were in line, and she was in front of me. This guy asked to cut in front of my friend, but she said you can cut BEHIND ME. So this guy lets...
    auxds auxds 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    I think humans are funny: when you meet a new gal/guy and fall in love, you want to meet his/her parents. The longer they leave it the more you think he/she's not taking your...
    Roz2014 Roz2014 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am very attracted to beautiful black women.
    kaleeb kaleeb 26-30, M Dec 1

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    I've never understood the mind set of someone who has no issue with cheating on their significant other. It just seems so disrespectful. I mean if you don't love them or respect...
    little3M little3M 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misanthropy Unfortunately Misanthropists need a place to play as well. (Those who despise humanity.) They are not exactly evil, just dull, profoundly...
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    I honestly wonder all the time what people really see in me or how I look to others. Am I pretty? Nerdy, like able? Annoying? Too serious? Too sarcastic? I feel I am perceived...
    21falloutsatthedisco 21falloutsatthedisco 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 4

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    I mean really, a long history of victimization has left me so strong in so many aspects but there is still the residual leftovers deep inside. I tell myself I am worthless, that I...
    SameOldLoneliness SameOldLoneliness 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    My chest hurts, tears flow I can't see a way out though I cry all through the night Against your abuse I fight The allegations you make The doubts & alibis you recreate One...
    trappedwings trappedwings 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for just over 16 years. In that time I've been through the counseling sessions, countless fights, nights on the couch, online trysts, real life near...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Two fates Trying cadence Test of patience All we knew True love is hard to find It never waits it's always new Why-won't-you try? Why won't you try? Let go of inhibitions...
    tarkovsky tarkovsky 26-30, M Dec 9

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    Okay so ive just begun dating an aquarian man and i believe strongly in horoscopes. We are incompatible according to the stars but i think otherwise. He is a nice warm guy and...
    Naina69 Naina69 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22

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