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I Wonder Why People Are So Attracted to Me

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    I Wonder Why People Are Attracted To Me

    I really do. I mean, when I look in the mirror (metaphorically speaking, I do not like mirrors, thus I tend to stay away from them) what I see is what most people want to stay away from. I don't think I'm appealing to the eye, I dress all mismatched all the time, my husband tells...
    midnighthavoc midnighthavoc 18-21, F Jul 17, 2011

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    I'm Not Conceited

    I promise I don't think everyone is in love with me!! BUT, I do seem to get people confessing their crushes on me quite often, and I'm left standing there, thinking, "What? WHY?" I'll be the first to admit that I am anything but a catch. I am fat, I have a weird face, frizzy...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    Redirection (1

    Allow me to refer you to this story; http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/...
    AlizInWonderland AlizInWonderland 22-25, F Sep 12, 2009

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    It's Insane!

    You know, because of my past I often felt worthless, ugly and not to mention fat! I'm not really fat, really. But I'm a big girl. Pear shaped without any flabs hanging out or over clothing. I'm tall ( 5'7/1.75 ) and my skin is very light with some freckled here and there. I...
    PinkBunnyProject PinkBunnyProject 22-25, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    I Wish

    I wish i could have people attracted to me.
    Saya2263 Saya2263 22-25, F 1 Response May 20, 2013

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