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I Wonder Why People Are So Attracted to Me

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    I wish i could have people attracted to me.
    Saya2263 Saya2263 22-25, F 1 Response May 20, 2013

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    I Wonder Why People Are Attracted To Me

    I really do. I mean, when I look in the mirror (metaphorically speaking, I do not like mirrors, thus I tend to stay away from them) what I see is what most people want to stay away from. I don't think I'm appealing to the eye, I dress all mismatched all the time, my husband tells...
    midnighthavoc midnighthavoc 18-21, F Jul 17, 2011

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    Redirection (1

    Allow me to refer you to this story; http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/...
    AlizInWonderland AlizInWonderland 22-25, F Sep 12, 2009

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    It's Insane!

    You know, because of my past I often felt worthless, ugly and not to mention fat! I'm not really fat, really. But I'm a big girl. Pear shaped without any flabs hanging out or over clothing. I'm tall ( 5'7/1.75 ) and my skin is very light with some freckled here and there. I...
    PinkBunnyProject PinkBunnyProject 22-25, F 4 Responses May 24, 2009

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    I'm Not Conceited

    I promise I don't think everyone is in love with me!! BUT, I do seem to get people confessing their crushes on me quite often, and I'm left standing there, thinking, "What? WHY?" I'll be the first to admit that I am anything but a catch. I am fat, I have a weird face, frizzy...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    Why can't people just be honest ? I'd rather be hurt by the truth then comforted by a lie that will soon end up hurting me more.
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    Well where do I start .. at the beginning I suppose is a good place ..I joined ep made a few friends who seemed to be nice n honest ..told me nice 2 meet u ..will chat later...
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    They have nothing better to say
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    Rainatmidnight97 Rainatmidnight97 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    I'm sitting here in a boring room It's just another Rainy sunday afternoon I'm wasting my time I got nothing to do I'm hanging around I'm waiting for you But nothing ever happens...
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M Aug 17

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    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Aug 11

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    The other day I almost got into a car crash and I kinda wonder why I told her that the light was red because if I hadn't she would have crashed
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    We always see ourselves in the mirror. Sometimes we think we r gross, and sometimes we think we are cute. I've always wondered how people see me, when I look bad or wen I look...
    abdi522 abdi522 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    I wonder if people think I'm attractive, but I highly doubt it. I mean I don't even think I look attractive. I honestly hate the way I look.
    nathanieljlaw nathanieljlaw 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I smile, laugh, and get really talkative..but then I will get in a bad mood and really depressed, and I keep it inside..I wonder if people see through that.
    zennarts zennarts 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    I also wonder what people think when they see me. What do you think?
    ollie27 ollie27 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    riverflows riverflows 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    The most annoying type of people are the superficial ones that don't realize they are superficial. Like now you see my face and you suddenly can't talk anymore.
    laxprincess laxprincess 13-15, F Aug 13

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    I hate when people are mean for no reason like i can be mean but it's either I'm pissed off, stressed way too stressed, upset or just plain busy. I'm weird so yea
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Aug 5

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    I think it's disrespectful when people are chronically late. It's definitely one of my biggest pet peeves.
    suggestedusername suggestedusername 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Spend time with people who makes you happy while also not depending on other people for your own happiness. And be honest with yourself and others by saying what you mean and...
    zelalemekuiper zelalemekuiper 46-50, F 3 hrs ago

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    When people look at me I wonder if they see things all the same as each other or differently. I'm "Anny" to my friends (2) who accept my really big and obvious problems. I like...
    Andwen Andwen 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    I know a lot of people have things going on in their lives but some people just really need to get the sticks out of their *** and be a little more friendly!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    ^maybe because you're worth something. And so many other people have much more to worry about than you do. ( btw no hate I'm just answering the question, and stating how people...
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    There are some wonderful people out there and I'm referring to EP! You guys are amazing !god bless
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    It's just so you know why do they hate them
    Midnightthetimberwolf Midnightthetimberwolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    idk why I haven't, or why I'm so scared I could be gone in a matter of seconds/ minutes ;'(
    sophieirwinnxo sophieirwinnxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    Been played. Attacked. Feared. Laughed at. Propositioned. And look in the mirror for why. Dont know yet.
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