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I Wonder Why Relationships Have to Change

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 97 People

    Inevitably ...

    It seems that all human relationships change with time and circumstances.  It's inevitable.  I'm not the same person I was last year and certainly not the same one I was ten or twenty years ago.  It comes down to growth and adaptation.  When we have a...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    BUT I'm Learning to Roll With It Anyway

    CHANGE IS SOMETHING I'VE ALWAYS HAD DIFFICULTY ADJUSTING TO OR ACCEPTING FOR THAT MATTER. WHEN I AM IN A GREAT FRIENDSHIP OR RELATIONSHIP I WANT AND EXPECT THINGS TO ALWAYS STAY GOOD, BUT PEOPLE CHANGE. I DON'T TAKE THINGS SO SERIOUSLY NOW. I DON'T PUT MY TRUST IN ANYONE BUT ME...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    Easy People Stop Respecting Each Other

    it is a sad fact people just fall out of love if there ever were the stop respecting ech other and start to control each other or lay down rules love is more then an act of making a child sorry
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    Big Quesstion

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    My Wife Has Changed And I'm Frustrated !!

    I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 12 YEARS AND I DONT KNOW WHETHER TO LEAVE MY WIFE FOR GOOD OR TRY AND STICK IT OUT IN HOPES SHE'LL COME AROUND. THE FIRST 3 YEARS WERE THE BEST. THE NEXT 5 YEARS WERE GOOD. BUT THE LAST 4 YEARS HAVE BEEN TERRIBLE. MY WIFE HAS GAINED WEIGHT AND IN TURN...
    joker69er joker69er 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 26, 2011

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    Don't Understand What Is Going On

    My husband and I have been together since 1988. We got married in 1990 and were divorced for a short period of time due to (mostly) his drinking. He quit drinking (but no program) and we got remarried in 2004. He's been sober 10 years and I'm very grateful for that. Our...
    Goddess65 Goddess65 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    The other day I almost got into a car crash and I kinda wonder why I told her that the light was red because if I hadn't she would have crashed
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    idk why I haven't, or why I'm so scared I could be gone in a matter of seconds/ minutes ;'(
    sophieirwinnxo sophieirwinnxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I have no idea why I haven't killed myself yet but the other day I waited at some Train tracks for an hour waiting for the train to run me over
    barefootlover7890 barefootlover7890 13-15, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Not much more than that question? Why is it no matter how well we try to treat others we always end up alone?
    Arcentine Arcentine 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    ^maybe because you're worth something. And so many other people have much more to worry about than you do. ( btw no hate I'm just answering the question, and stating how people...
    Swagaliciousk Swagaliciousk 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm becoming a licensed professional counselor. I question this role because I do not enjoy my life. I dread my life. Each day. Waking up to see the sun is like torching my eyes...
    rainty98 rainty98 31-35, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Things are changing at such a fast pace I'm not sure if my life is getting better or I'm just to busy to worry about it right now but whatever the reason things are good. I pray...
    devilseye1996 devilseye1996 36-40, F Aug 6

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    u talk to a girl and u like her.. once u fall for her she then decides she has no intestest..thats the Parana of a women
    azcat28 azcat28 41-45, M Aug 20

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    death seems like such a great option
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    death seems like such a great option
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm sitting here in a boring room It's just another Rainy sunday afternoon I'm wasting my time I got nothing to do I'm hanging around I'm waiting for you But nothing ever happens...
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M Aug 17

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    I wonder why, yet at the same time I know why. I'm referring to why things happen. Now I believe things happen because it's necessary for balance - good and bad.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Aug 11

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    When did I become so weak and powerless. I used to be a fighter. I had so much passion and motivation; now accepting defeat is all I do. Who is this sorry pathetic girl who has...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My niece and nephew are driving me insane. My younger brother is driving me insane. Every child I have ever known drives me insane. Why oh why do I imagine myself having to...
    ifonlydreamscametrue ifonlydreamscametrue 18-21, F Aug 5

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    What's the point of physically judging others? The only thing it does it make us judge ourselves. Why do other people feel the need to show their self insecurities? It only makes...
    macyymayy macyymayy 13-15, F Aug 6

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    Why can't people just be honest ? I'd rather be hurt by the truth then comforted by a lie that will soon end up hurting me more.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F Aug 7

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    i dont understand what the gain is in hiding ones true self from others. Well,you should be proud of yourselves and respect your personality. If you are proud to be you then why...
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    My new recovery project is reminding myself : I accept myself for my strength and weakness, my good and bad, my success and my failures. Doing something has to be better than...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Why is it that some people just lie, lie, lie and then lie some more? Is this for their benefit? Is it for the benefit of the person they are lying to? I have a friend (I've...
    trishfair714 trishfair714 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Every time I meet a girl that catches my eye with a good personality, she always seem to be taken. So many lucky guys out there that can't appreciate what they have.
    Original23 Original23 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    When I was 17 I was a very bad person. I talked back to my parents, I was very disobedient and I had 5 piercings in my right ear without parental permission, I didn't care what my...
    1993george 1993george 18-21, M Aug 6

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    When I was 17 I was a very bad person. I talked back to my parents, I was very disobedient and I had 5 piercings in my ear without parental permission, I didn't care what my...
    1993george 1993george 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    They have nothing better to say
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Aug 7

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    I know a lot of people have things going on in their lives but some people just really need to get the sticks out of their *** and be a little more friendly!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    My friend Bridget and I had a dance that just ended. We were going to hang out at a mutual friend's house after so we needed to change into regular clothes from our formal dresses...
    PeaceSign69 PeaceSign69 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I feel I have wasted my life
    MoreOfTheSame MoreOfTheSame 51-55, M Aug 13

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    6 years. 6 years I have been on this site granted, I was away for a period of 3 years give or take. What has happened in those years? Well I was diagnosed with ptsd and finally got...
    ImToolazyforaWittyUseName ImToolazyforaWittyUseName 31-35, M Aug 18

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    Sometimes I wish I hadn't been born. Nobody wants me around and nobody loves me for me faults and all. I have some severe problems mentally and can be a handful when psychotic. Ive...
    snoopysmom snoopysmom 31-35, F a week ago

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    i can remember a day we went to a jungle with my dad's friends and we had to walk in the river! i had a nice trousers (it was new pretty and expensive).it was tight and i couldnt...
    00roshana00 00roshana00 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm not your average girl. I've always been a tomboy & have never really liked feminine clothing. For a while I struggled with my identity, as anyone does, but eventually I became...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F Aug 14

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    This year is like a turning point in my life. I've been always been an explorer since then, but this time I have done things I've never done before and had a little change in my...
    Asurina Asurina 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I knew my life seemed different but I have felt like a completely different person since school started. I feel like I was different just 2 weeks ago. Its amazing but sometimes...
    katd1234 katd1234 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I wish I can say what's really on my mind, but I'd "offend" saying it because the THE TRUTH HURTS, but I'd rather be told the truth than to be told lies. I cannot stand not...
    peaceembracer peaceembracer 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Not me though. I know love is perfectly rational, balanced, simple and fair. *cough* Just like image links.
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M Aug 4

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    sucks when ur not happy in a marriage but to afraid to leave cause of the money..lol
    azcat28 azcat28 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    Well where do I start .. at the beginning I suppose is a good place ..I joined ep made a few friends who seemed to be nice n honest ..told me nice 2 meet u ..will chat later...
    daddyneededplease daddyneededplease 41-45, F Aug 5

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    Ive been dealing with an aqua for the past two years and lord has it been difficult, the detachment and aloof really really bothers me emotionally and mentally .. Its like how can...
    beautifullj beautifullj 18-21, F Aug 12

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    they do not give to the women, nothing, not anything A WOMAN CAN ACCEPT MORE THAN ANY MAN, AND GET PAID PROPERLY!
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Aug 15

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    ...then someone asks for advice, I give it, and they later tell me it really helped them out. So I stay.
    Professorfate Professorfate 51-55 Aug 20

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    If you are on this side of the planet, that is.
    Aguynamedbill Aguynamedbill 31-35, M Aug 22

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    cleaning kitchen, grocery shopping and workout by force can be really therapeutic. it keeps u focus .
    Luiskoala Luiskoala 22-25, F Aug 23

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