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I Wonder Why Relationships Have to Change

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 99 People

    My Wife Has Changed And I'm Frustrated !!

    I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 12 YEARS AND I DONT KNOW WHETHER TO LEAVE MY WIFE FOR GOOD OR TRY AND STICK IT OUT IN HOPES SHE'LL COME AROUND. THE FIRST 3 YEARS WERE THE BEST. THE NEXT 5 YEARS WERE GOOD. BUT THE LAST 4 YEARS HAVE BEEN TERRIBLE. MY WIFE HAS GAINED WEIGHT AND IN TURN...
    joker69er joker69er 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 26, 2011

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    BUT I'm Learning to Roll With It Anyway

    CHANGE IS SOMETHING I'VE ALWAYS HAD DIFFICULTY ADJUSTING TO OR ACCEPTING FOR THAT MATTER. WHEN I AM IN A GREAT FRIENDSHIP OR RELATIONSHIP I WANT AND EXPECT THINGS TO ALWAYS STAY GOOD, BUT PEOPLE CHANGE. I DON'T TAKE THINGS SO SERIOUSLY NOW. I DON'T PUT MY TRUST IN ANYONE BUT ME...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    Don't Understand What Is Going On

    My husband and I have been together since 1988. We got married in 1990 and were divorced for a short period of time due to (mostly) his drinking. He quit drinking (but no program) and we got remarried in 2004. He's been sober 10 years and I'm very grateful for that. Our...
    Goddess65 Goddess65 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    Big Quesstion

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    Inevitably ...

    It seems that all human relationships change with time and circumstances.  It's inevitable.  I'm not the same person I was last year and certainly not the same one I was ten or twenty years ago.  It comes down to growth and adaptation.  When we have a...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    Easy People Stop Respecting Each Other

    it is a sad fact people just fall out of love if there ever were the stop respecting ech other and start to control each other or lay down rules love is more then an act of making a child sorry
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    I wonder why I stay. I only have one thing keeping me here. I have nothing else, someone please save me from my own destruction.
    lovelydisgrace lovelydisgrace 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 11

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    Why nothing feels funny anymore?...Why everything i do feels like a waste of time?...Why people look way more happy when i'm not around?....Why should i seek help? i wasted...
    anderlr anderlr 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Why cant ny heart just stop working thats easier
    WarriorPoet97 WarriorPoet97 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    This is true. I attempted about a month ago, and I think it's my mother that keeps me from acting upon my thoughts. My girlfriend recently left me, I lost my father to drug abuse...
    allilynnx allilynnx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Then I say to my self the world would be a darker place because I will not be there to save it.
    Deuz Deuz 22-25, M Jan 12

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    I've thought about this a lot. I keep saying I'll wait until my sister graduates high school, but I may be able to work around that if need be. I've talked with my family about my...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 13

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    He's 32 and I'm 23, I'm not perfect. He's not perfect. But we're perfect together. And that's all that matters.
    persayous persayous 22-25, F Jan 18

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    Hello friends. Here's something I've been wanting to share with someone. This is where I might sound unpleasant and spiteful, if you read my post about just joining the website. I...
    drumbumak drumbumak 18-21, F Jan 18

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    Last Saturday I went for a walk, usually or preferably church on a Saturday Morning, but I slept until 12pm. So around 3:30 I found the strength to get up. I didn't shower jus...
    Mardiez Mardiez 18-21, M Jan 5

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    People add me to their circles. I just wonder why :/
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I realised the other day that I have drastically changed. When I was in primary school I was what some people call a sheep. I used to want to look and act like all the girls did in...
    CeBeY1 CeBeY1 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    sometimes I wonder what life would be like if my brushes with death had happened. would my family be in a better place? would my children have better lives? would the everyday...
    tsnuggles tsnuggles 36-40, F 3 hrs ago

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    So I'm going to start off with the fact that all the names are changed, and I'm new to this site. So there are two girls. Claire and Jackie. Most other girls just completely ignore...
    GlennTurner GlennTurner 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    When I first joined here, I was looking for other men who are growing or trying to grow moobs. That was my only motivation. Things change. As I came here I discovered that many...
    onefourfun4u onefourfun4u 61-65, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I wonder, I wo-wo-woo-wo wonder hehhe! ... I'm a handsome guy, and women find me attractive in general. ...a year ago I madly fell in love with her and she had a boyfriend for...
    dzordze dzordze 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    If someone gives you their heart, tells you that you are getting what you need now, and if you leave her the ripple effect will kick in, but something goes wrong, she pushes you...
    musicmatters1111 musicmatters1111 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 15

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    The two most important days of ur life is when u are born and when u find out why.... Twain.... I wrote this same quote in another story saying, my answer to why was my friends...
    InfiniteMusic InfiniteMusic 13-15, M Jan 20

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    Why am i alive. Might as well disappear. ... Why do i feel so sad. No i am not depressed. Just sad. So please dont worry. Ill get over it by tmrrw. But it is strange. Its been a...
    InfiniteMusic InfiniteMusic 13-15, M 5 Responses Jan 21

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    ...why is my life so hard? Why is everyone that I care about leaving me? I don't think I can live anymore. I can't continue to live like this forever. Why does everyone hate me so...
    08RoseBlack 08RoseBlack 18-21, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Yeah I may enjoy doing things that other people are scared of, but that's just because they've never done their research haha. I'm secretly really freaking awesome. I just don't...
    SarcasticBadger SarcasticBadger 16-17, M Jan 4

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    I remember when I used to be just an empty vessel. No emotions, numb to the world. I remember I would pick fights with everyone and it was the only thing that would actually...
    SkollHati SkollHati 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I used to know exactly why I was on this site, but now I'm not too sure.. I don't post much anymore, but I guess I still want to be on here in a way. Things are just really hard...
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart 22-25, F Jan 21

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    I think about being wild and crazy. Why can't I be "normal"?
    June3053 June3053 51-55, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    You make a mistake, apologise. You hurt someone who cares for you deliberaty, apologise. Why is it so hard for people to say sorry and actually mean nowadays ? Do they have that...
    50ShadesOfAnne 50ShadesOfAnne 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    This is all I ever think about! It's crazy people who work miserable jobs and do miserable things and live miserable lives just keep doing that every day because society tells them...
    Jennasusson Jennasusson 18-21 2 Responses Jan 4

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    have you ever met someone special a warm-hearted person someone to be there for you wherever and whenever you need her or him someone giving without waiting thanking or reward...
    NNightwalkeRR NNightwalkeRR 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    I feel like nobody likes me! My life is so depressing! All I want to do is have a good time in high school and meet more people but I feel like everybody is out to get me their...
    jep101 jep101 13-15, F Jan 13

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    Freedom, honesty, Acceptance To have the freedom All the cloaks of social acceptance All the preconceived ideas no matter To be able to be the person The real and true you deep...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    I mean, I tried to greet or engage in conversation with subjects that pertained to them, according to their profiles, and zero. Goose egg. Nada. I put deodorant on, I have...
    TtotheD TtotheD 56-60, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    Seriously what does anyone have to gain from me and a million other people bitching on one site?
    CrimsonSkull CrimsonSkull 13-15, M Jan 22

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    NO I DON'T ! this thought never crosses my mind because I pride myself in being kind and caring.The other day in the grocery store I help an elderly man in one of those electric...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    Please explain how "emotional issues" have become the "get out of jail free" card to excuse bad behavior in adults. I know that there are people who truly have diagnoses that make...
    BrainOverridesHeart BrainOverridesHeart 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    On Ep that is. I am constantly asking myself that question, especially since I just stumbled upon it, like a cabin in the woods of a fairy tale. And just like a fairy tale, EP has...
    1gr8guy 1gr8guy 41-45, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    In the past year I changed. I think I'm better then I was but I know my thought process is different and I like it.
    smokebombtom smokebombtom 18-21, M Jan 8

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    I don't believe what I used to. And now I'm clueless as to how to make decisions. Everything used to be so clear to me: right vs. wrong. I wanted to do right, so the choice was...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F Jan 2

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    Physically and mentally. My confidence and self esteem have grown. I'm pretty much a new (more attractive) me. I've learned to physically take care of myself. The first picture...
    EastCoastBlonde95 EastCoastBlonde95 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Yet I still keep coming back for more...
    regitca regitca 41-45, M Jan 21

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    Now it hurts. It hurts a lot.
    Untrustworthy117 Untrustworthy117 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    It Just Died And My Charger Is Broken And Im Not Even Suppose To Be Using it
    TimePrincess TimePrincess 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    Seriously..what the hell. I know I'm not "skinny" but I'm not considered fat, either.
    LexyMarie LexyMarie 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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