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I Wonder Why Relationships Have to Change

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 107 People

    Don't Understand What Is Going On

    My husband and I have been together since 1988. We got married in 1990 and were divorced for a short period of time due to (mostly) his drinking. He quit drinking (but no program) and we got remarried in 2004. He's been sober 10 years and I'm very grateful for that. Our...
    Goddess65 Goddess65 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    Big Quesstion

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    This boggles my mind man.

    Seriously. I can't wrap my head around what makes couples grow apart. Stop seeing eye to eye. Lose connection. Some relationships are bad, toxic, dangerous. I get that. Those are bad and everyone would do well to leave a situation like that. I'm talking about the unexplainable...
    woodwd40 woodwd40 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    Inevitably ...

    It seems that all human relationships change with time and circumstances.  It's inevitable.  I'm not the same person I was last year and certainly not the same one I was ten or twenty years ago.  It comes down to growth and adaptation.  When we have a...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    My Wife Has Changed And I'm Frustrated !!

    I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 12 YEARS AND I DONT KNOW WHETHER TO LEAVE MY WIFE FOR GOOD OR TRY AND STICK IT OUT IN HOPES SHE'LL COME AROUND. THE FIRST 3 YEARS WERE THE BEST. THE NEXT 5 YEARS WERE GOOD. BUT THE LAST 4 YEARS HAVE BEEN TERRIBLE. MY WIFE HAS GAINED WEIGHT AND IN TURN...
    joker69er joker69er 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 26, 2011

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    Easy People Stop Respecting Each Other

    it is a sad fact people just fall out of love if there ever were the stop respecting ech other and start to control each other or lay down rules love is more then an act of making a child sorry
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    This experience is means like

    why does our relationship have to be like this? Why can't it be like it was before? The only answer that I could come up wwith she doesn't like me like she did before, and in the begaining it was about getting me now she has saw so many red flags that's she's not at all...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T 1 Response Mar 10

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    baem baem 13-15, M 1 Response May 17

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    There is nothing after death. I have a grin as I write this. I'm happy. Happy to die. Die for myself, because I love myself so much. I'm still grinning. It's the most liberating...
    kiddishguypete kiddishguypete 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I don't know any unpainful way to die and I'm afraid I would survive. Besides I still have lots of thing to do; and somehow I have 1 reason for living, not living for myself...
    wdrngSoul wdrngSoul 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So many of my ideas have changed so drastically lately! It's nuts! Part of me wonders if this is just a stage or if this is for good. I used to be so conservative. Believed in...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Wondering why at the exact moment I'm thinking about someone their car drives by me... When I had a hard time remembering their face before when I was in contact with them, now...
    groovyhugsbunny groovyhugsbunny 18-21, F May 13

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    http://youtu.be/AzRyxGBGiAE I wonder why I was asked to watch this...
    HotMessExpress101 HotMessExpress101 31-35, F 6 Responses May 11

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    I hate when people say you changed in a mean voice like I changed for the good I change and I got confident more friendly and outgoing and expecting my body and loving myself but...
    jaddielove024 jaddielove024 13-15, F May 5

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    I have hated the idea of eating fish my entire life and have not eaten it since I was a spoon-fed toddler. The look, smell, and texture of fish is revolting. The idea of putting...
    mooshie33 mooshie33 36-40, M May 15

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    I have been a member for a while. It seems strange that people do not chat about their experiences or anything. Whats up with EP. I always found someone to talk to.
    dailynudist dailynudist 61-65, M May 20

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    Okay dokay yall, those of you who know me, (all 6 of you), know I live in SoCal., the desert know less. But we have had more rain in the month of may that we had all of last year...
    stupendusdude stupendusdude 46-50 5 days ago

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    Mistakes, I made a few, but then again too few to mention. If that were true why do I live in regret and in the past. I love the life I'm in but what if......?
    1946sunrise 1946sunrise 66-70, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My biggest change is to take everything in a less personal way. I used to hate most people. Now I still see more ugliness than beauty in this world ( but there is beauty in some...
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 41-45, M 1 Response May 1

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    Funny how much can change in 5 months.
    joeyc773 joeyc773 18-21 1 Response May 11

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    i hate having to go from one place to another without being able to go home and change. changing clothes in the car is so awkward.
    kaylee13 kaylee13 13-15, F 1 Response May 18

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    Seeing that person who used to play a big part in your life again ,brought back so many memories, seeing him having his own family, the feeling unexplainable... Few years ago I was...
    Mercilyn Mercilyn 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am definitely not the person I once was. Sure I look like the same person but I have definitely changed as I have opened my eyes to the world around me.
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ikr, I love gay people and I'm not even gay.
    constellationoftears constellationoftears 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    the only reason that i am still living despite being so miserable almost everyday with little positive thoughts is because i am a coward. i am afraid of death so killing myself or...
    perxatkins perxatkins 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    Gloomy, grumpy, vulgar, pessimistic.. i wasn't born like this. when i look at my old photos i was smiling so happily. but now...
    perxatkins perxatkins 18-21, F May 5

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    What the deuce???? I get message after message that groups are being deleted but they never say which ones they were. I made no "dirty" groups.... and Damn if I can find anything...
    dasmuggler dasmuggler 36-40, M May 7

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    I get notes telling me groups were deleted for mature subjects but I get ads for 7 FILMS WITH THE LONGEST ON-SCREEN NUDITY in my feed Really???
    dasmuggler dasmuggler 36-40, M May 7

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    hello all sexy I'm like sex and you
    sawanch sawanch 22-25, M May 14

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    Had a hectic day, feeling sleepy, But i can't afford this today i need to go through the lecture notes, need to revise..But what am i doing right now? Surfing on the net, watching...
    Elaina12 Elaina12 18-21, F May 16

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    People are gonna hurt you. Its gonna make you feel like **** and chances are you'll face that pain all by yourself
    alyssakayart alyssakayart 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    People can be down right mean on here! It's nonsense to verbally abuse someone.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I use to like you, but as time went by I realized how much of a loser you truly are.
    AlexanderOfScarlet AlexanderOfScarlet 16-17, M May 3

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    whatever you do make sure you close the windows or your t-shirt might fly away
    Clarissa01 Clarissa01 13-15, F 2 Responses May 8

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    Sometimes it's scary to see how within only a matter of a few months you can feel like an almost entirely new person. It's even scarier not being able to tell whether that's a...
    hiddendesires97 hiddendesires97 18-21, F 2 Responses May 9

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    Wow this pic is so old tbvfh.
    n0ah n0ah 13-15, M 2 Responses May 10

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    As long as I'm wearing underwear.
    foxness foxness 31-35, F 3 Responses May 16

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    I saw my old picture. A year or so. I was smiling with my cousin in my arms and we were facing the camera. I had a shine in my eyes. The shine of happiness. Nowadays it's all...
    chocolateinmyblood chocolateinmyblood 18-21, F May 20

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    I saw my old picture. A year or so. I was smiling with my cousin in my arms and we were facing the camera. I had a shine in my eyes. The shine of happiness. Nowadays it's all...
    chocolateinmyblood chocolateinmyblood 18-21, F 1 Response May 20

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    And it's due to the people here on EP. I've learned a lot and I think I've become a bit stronger, wiser and more confident.So thank you, to all of my EP friends :)
    JennyRose2 JennyRose2 13-15, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response May 15

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    This year's birthday is very reflective on me, originally when I was 17, I told myself if things weren't going my way, I'd kill myself when I was twenty seven. It wasn't because...
    Edg3Runn3r Edg3Runn3r 26-30, M 6 days ago

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