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I Wonder Why Relationships Have to Change

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    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    This boggles my mind man.

    Seriously. I can't wrap my head around what makes couples grow apart. Stop seeing eye to eye. Lose connection. Some relationships are bad, toxic, dangerous. I get that. Those are bad and everyone would do well to leave a situation like that. I'm talking about the unexplainable...
    woodwd40 woodwd40 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    Don't Understand What Is Going On

    My husband and I have been together since 1988. We got married in 1990 and were divorced for a short period of time due to (mostly) his drinking. He quit drinking (but no program) and we got remarried in 2004. He's been sober 10 years and I'm very grateful for that. Our...
    Goddess65 Goddess65 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    My Wife Has Changed And I'm Frustrated !!

    I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 12 YEARS AND I DONT KNOW WHETHER TO LEAVE MY WIFE FOR GOOD OR TRY AND STICK IT OUT IN HOPES SHE'LL COME AROUND. THE FIRST 3 YEARS WERE THE BEST. THE NEXT 5 YEARS WERE GOOD. BUT THE LAST 4 YEARS HAVE BEEN TERRIBLE. MY WIFE HAS GAINED WEIGHT AND IN TURN...
    joker69er joker69er 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 26, 2011

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    This experience is means like

    why does our relationship have to be like this? Why can't it be like it was before? The only answer that I could come up wwith she doesn't like me like she did before, and in the begaining it was about getting me now she has saw so many red flags that's she's not at all...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T 1 Response Mar 10

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    Inevitably ...

    It seems that all human relationships change with time and circumstances.  It's inevitable.  I'm not the same person I was last year and certainly not the same one I was ten or twenty years ago.  It comes down to growth and adaptation.  When we have a...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    Easy People Stop Respecting Each Other

    it is a sad fact people just fall out of love if there ever were the stop respecting ech other and start to control each other or lay down rules love is more then an act of making a child sorry
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    To me it honestly seems like most people today are selfish. I can even admit that I am selfish in some ways. I think it's fine to be selfish sometimes but only to a small extent. A...
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    I have learned somehow to appreciate... I've kept in mind that there are some people who will love, some People who will hate for love, or untrue love, and some People who will...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 16 hrs ago

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    There truly is nothing to hide. I get them when i am bad less often then when i was younger, I am not afraid to admit it!
    Declanx Declanx 13-15, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    why do i post here? why the hell did i even come here when i could have simply vanished. i should have the moment i saw those eyes. that was the moment where life ended anyway...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I have wondered for an immensely long time why people who have a sour attitude never get what they deserve. Always wondered why these people are allowed to live and hurt others...
    queeniejean queeniejean 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Article Written by a Person in one of the leading Newspaper "It's been 18 years since I joined Volvo, a Swedish company. Working for them has proven to be an interesting...
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    Me And my AquaMan have been communicating really well. it's been 3 weeks. We email all day when he's at work and we hang out whenever he has free time. which has been 3times. when...
    scorpio07 scorpio07 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Why disrespect wed. Why. Holy fok why. Sexual revolution. No. Selfish morons wanting anchor. Probably. But why wed. Why. When common law came grab it. Dont wreck...
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I've learn to accept no matter how hard I try to get to know someone it will never amount to any happiness. I'm so tired of everyone thinking I'm needy because I am sad, depressed...
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am a generous person. I help others. Yet, bad things keep happening to me. Lately, it has been one bad thing after another. I just do not understand why. It can't be to "make me...
    justme1999 justme1999 41-45, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I first joined EP- I think- four years ago. I was a lonely and miserable girl stuck in the house all the time, afraid to step outside. I had all these fears and ghosts from the...
    Demonizer Demonizer 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Mostly just wonder why the men look at me. I'd rather nobody stared at me. I think it has to do with men wanting to compare themselves and feel better about themselves. Gonna start...
    Nixed Nixed 31-35, M Jul 18

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    Sometimes when I look in the mirror I can hardly recognize the person I've become. Someone who looks so familiar but feels so strange in my own skin. How did get here? Who is this...
    KellerKing13 KellerKing13 18-21, F Jul 17

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    oh my god things have changed so much it can not be explained what things have happened inside of this body and mind i have seen so much lately... this is only the beggining
    alicegoneinsane alicegoneinsane 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I am constantly changing. The most significant change in my life has resulted from embracing Eastern practices. Growing up in the U.S., and a wealthy state at that, Connecticut...
    JA1678 JA1678 22-25, F Jul 16

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    I have no idea why people hurt me I'm a good girl and I do nice things I love anything and why do theses thing happened to me???
    winterblood winterblood 13-15, F Jul 16

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    Why do people friend you, then when you accept, they block you? What is that about? Are they that bored?
    CDKristiK CDKristiK 51-55, M 4 Responses Jul 16

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    Yeah! What's up with that?
    KrisKrosSk8 KrisKrosSk8 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    iv grown bitter,maybe i should retrace my steps find myself all over again
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I read once that, from year to year, you remain the same but for the books you read and the people you meet. Sometimes you meet someone that has such an impact on your life, that...
    ToughEddie ToughEddie 36-40, M Jul 14

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    Can someone pls tell me why I looked like a baby boy. 😂
    lolcamryn lolcamryn 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm not that person anymore. People don't notice you've changed but you do. I'm different& different is okay. Yeah, it's good to be different. :)
    SarahLou98 SarahLou98 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    It started when I was 11. Realizing I wasn't in shape. Back then it didn't really affect my life. I wasn't unhealthy, but I wasn't happy, I was putting on unhealty weight. I picked...
    WeaponizedAlbatross WeaponizedAlbatross 18-21, M Jul 14

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    Most people are shallow they judge quickly and wrongly I had someone judge me as shallow yet they do not know me from a bar of soap. according to their profile they are supposed...
    Multicolour12 Multicolour12 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'd actually like to get to know more about "rape culture" and how it may actually be a thing. At first it sounds ridiculous but I watched a couple TED talks and I thought I might...
    lolilover3 lolilover3 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I think there are many people here that are just way too ADD happy. I do not add back unless : 1. We have had a meaningful exchange of some sort. 2. Your circle has many mutual...
    Ipleadthe5th Ipleadthe5th 41-45, F 13 Responses Jul 12

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    I feel like I'm living with a stranger and I hate it but I know this change is for the better. I've lost weight which is a goal of mine but it's completely changed the youthfulness...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    People dont realize it unless they have gone through something themselves and we keep describing to people what we have gone through and how we feel after what has passed and what...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Not that I'm saying China's an uncivilized country, I'm just saying that some of the people there need to improve in patience and manners. If it's like a crowded area, a lot of...
    Seraphine246 Seraphine246 31-35 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm a nice girl who wants to have happy people talk to her. I don't understand why people just can't be nice to anymore as when I try to talk to people at school, they move away...
    ChloeAnnabelEdwards ChloeAnnabelEdwards 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm so f*cking angry with myself. I'm literally and inch away from just killing myself. I f*cking hate myself to the point of no return I wonder why I haven't done it yet
    SxuccessfuI SxuccessfuI 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    The reason why Im rude is because I want to be an independent person and I speak with honesty; I can be negative thinker. Also of how humans raise me
    lily36912 lily36912 16-17, F Jul 11

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    why i am here. then i look arround and see screaming silence. i read my pretentious words and feel disgusted
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M Jul 11

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    Head up. Chin bound to stay high. I've found something, Leaning on only one. Myself. Acceptance is key. Finding what I could not before. Moving on. Change has never felt...
    findsomethinginhope findsomethinginhope 22-25, F Jul 10

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