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I Wonder Why Relationships Have to Change

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 98 People

    Don't Understand What Is Going On

    My husband and I have been together since 1988. We got married in 1990 and were divorced for a short period of time due to (mostly) his drinking. He quit drinking (but no program) and we got remarried in 2004. He's been sober 10 years and I'm very grateful for that. Our...
    Goddess65 Goddess65 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    Easy People Stop Respecting Each Other

    it is a sad fact people just fall out of love if there ever were the stop respecting ech other and start to control each other or lay down rules love is more then an act of making a child sorry
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    BUT I'm Learning to Roll With It Anyway

    CHANGE IS SOMETHING I'VE ALWAYS HAD DIFFICULTY ADJUSTING TO OR ACCEPTING FOR THAT MATTER. WHEN I AM IN A GREAT FRIENDSHIP OR RELATIONSHIP I WANT AND EXPECT THINGS TO ALWAYS STAY GOOD, BUT PEOPLE CHANGE. I DON'T TAKE THINGS SO SERIOUSLY NOW. I DON'T PUT MY TRUST IN ANYONE BUT ME...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    Big Quesstion

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    Inevitably ...

    It seems that all human relationships change with time and circumstances.  It's inevitable.  I'm not the same person I was last year and certainly not the same one I was ten or twenty years ago.  It comes down to growth and adaptation.  When we have a...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    My Wife Has Changed And I'm Frustrated !!

    I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 12 YEARS AND I DONT KNOW WHETHER TO LEAVE MY WIFE FOR GOOD OR TRY AND STICK IT OUT IN HOPES SHE'LL COME AROUND. THE FIRST 3 YEARS WERE THE BEST. THE NEXT 5 YEARS WERE GOOD. BUT THE LAST 4 YEARS HAVE BEEN TERRIBLE. MY WIFE HAS GAINED WEIGHT AND IN TURN...
    joker69er joker69er 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 26, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    The other day I almost got into a car crash and I kinda wonder why I told her that the light was red because if I hadn't she would have crashed
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F Aug 29

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    I am seriously wondering why humans hate werewolves so much! I mean, sure every once in a while a human might be killed by a rouge, but that's like judging the whole entire human...
    Firtreegirl15 Firtreegirl15 13-15, F Sep 6

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    I have no idea why I haven't killed myself yet but the other day I waited at some Train tracks for an hour waiting for the train to run me over
    barefootlover7890 barefootlover7890 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Not much more than that question? Why is it no matter how well we try to treat others we always end up alone?
    Arcentine Arcentine 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    ^maybe because you're worth something. And so many other people have much more to worry about than you do. ( btw no hate I'm just answering the question, and stating how people...
    Swagaliciousk Swagaliciousk 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I'm becoming a licensed professional counselor. I question this role because I do not enjoy my life. I dread my life. Each day. Waking up to see the sun is like torching my eyes...
    rainty98 rainty98 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 29

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    My bag with important things I need because my cousing is very sick has been stolen. few days after the bank found my credit card in a video equipped aTM. Bank told me the day shen...
    DogBlog1 DogBlog1 41-45, F 20 hrs ago

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    death seems like such a great option
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Aug 29

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    death seems like such a great option
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I don't mind transgender people at all, but men doing it, no. I'll block you.
    LittleStain LittleStain 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    My social life is a complete waste of time. The advice from most people is generally not helping as I have changed a great deal about myself and still I don't have any close...
    halffullglass halffullglass 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I can say without a doubt, that 2014 has been the most significant for me in terms of growth. Looking back on the person i was last year, i can unequivocally say that i have...
    Ally95xx Ally95xx 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 10

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    Why just why I can just die and have no worry at all. Not worrying if people are going to trip me.Not worrying if somebody calls me gay.Not worrying if people talks **** about me...
    greenmonsterboi greenmonsterboi 13-15, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    In my social studies class I kept coughing bcuz this girl next to me sprayed a strong Purfume and she said "girl cough the other way" and I wasn't even coughing at her -.- and then...
    Botdf1shutup Botdf1shutup 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    When I was younger, I was terrible. I was rude, stuck up, flirted, bullied, and dressed like a 8 year old ********. But I've changed ever since my Dad almost died... It was rough...
    Cheesepls Cheesepls 13-15 4 days ago

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    i dont understand what the gain is in hiding ones true self from others. Well,you should be proud of yourselves and respect your personality. If you are proud to be you then why...
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    My new recovery project is reminding myself : I accept myself for my strength and weakness, my good and bad, my success and my failures. Doing something has to be better than...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Why ya gotta be so rude? Don't you know I'm human too! Nah but seriously. I can probably count the amount of times people have said "excuse me" when bumping into me on one hand.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F Sep 5

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    Sometimes I wish I hadn't been born. Nobody wants me around and nobody loves me for me faults and all. I have some severe problems mentally and can be a handful when psychotic. Ive...
    snoopysmom snoopysmom 31-35, F Aug 25

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    i can remember a day we went to a jungle with my dad's friends and we had to walk in the river! i had a nice trousers (it was new pretty and expensive).it was tight and i couldnt...
    00roshana00 00roshana00 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    people judge others without knowing them think they are better than people, when truly everyone is the same think skinnier girls are prettier think thicker girls are ugly seem...
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am 20 years old now. I spend my days working, dreaming, and loving. A few years ago, I was very different. My heart was full of unrecognized pain. There was a terrible ache that...
    blissfullyaware blissfullyaware 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I feel like I haven't changed but grown up and really started to understand the person that I am and the person who I want to be.
    Kathryn2093 Kathryn2093 18-21, F Sep 9

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    I knew my life seemed different but I have felt like a completely different person since school started. I feel like I was different just 2 weeks ago. Its amazing but sometimes...
    katd1234 katd1234 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    When did I become so weak and powerless. I used to be a fighter. I had so much passion and motivation; now accepting defeat is all I do. Who is this sorry pathetic girl who has...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    God keeps sending fragile and broken people into my life. I had a man with a good job, he gave me money to buy things.. but I was extremely unhappy. I ended it after 2 years...
    ShirleyPaul ShirleyPaul 51-55, F Sep 4

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    I have done it so many times! Always fun to see the jawdropped reaction of people around.. :D
    PoojaTimberlake PoojaTimberlake 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Alot of ppl keep banging in my ears that i have no manners and im disrespectful all sort of shittt well guess wat that didnt happen over nite how i am or how im getting u guys are...
    misslovely16 misslovely16 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I am 4 foot 9, 95 LBS, black hair to about my bra line, A cup chest, perky butt, and flat stomach. My eyes are one green, one blue.
    LittleStain LittleStain 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    few years back.. i had a gf.. a family.. a brother who loved and a sis in law i really cared about.. a job that paid handsomely.. today i am single... my mom and dad live far...
    sunnsood sunnsood 26-30, M Sep 5

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    Rankings. http://youtu.be/T8UqdPKbpWM http://youtu.be/rsL6mKxtOlQ http://youtu.be/ZPHSXUS0_1c
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 26

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    Some bands are so cool they tend to disband early and were usually short-lived.
    Provinceana Provinceana 18-21, F Aug 28

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    Spend time with people who makes you happy while also not depending on other people for your own happiness. And be honest with yourself and others by saying what you mean and...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F Aug 30

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    It's 5:30 and I am going to be exhausted for school but it's worth seeing the sun rise. It makes me so happy for some reason.
    foreverby foreverby 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Some people are mean and want to hurt people for no reason! Like seriously, WTF?! I hate bully's >:|
    LilHitler LilHitler 70+, M Sep 5

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    Flies in the desert flock to my phone. Like moths. But they are flies. Crazy about light or what????
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    When you walk down the street you often see some clothing left behind and lost by someone. A scarf can slip off, even blow off you, same with glows. Glows may fall out of your...
    greencell greencell 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    The other day my friend Megan's gran was dying and she was crying her heart out and what made it worse was a guy made fun of her gran dying in front of her. So when Megan told me...
    Smexyshannonxo Smexyshannonxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    I usually get over boys fast but your different. Theres something about you that makes me crazy. I've never felt like this about anyone before. I don't care that many people don't...
    Skyhigh95 Skyhigh95 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I've recently become very aggressive in my written language... I really don't mean to be. I think it's because of all the fights I had over text with my ex. I should really try to...
    Chrissaysyourock Chrissaysyourock 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I did it earlier this morning because I wore the wrong thing. Such a pain in the ***. Lol
    itsmenhiceee itsmenhiceee 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 4

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