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I Wonder Why Relationships Have to Change

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 108 People

    This boggles my mind man.

    Seriously. I can't wrap my head around what makes couples grow apart. Stop seeing eye to eye. Lose connection. Some relationships are bad, toxic, dangerous. I get that. Those are bad and everyone would do well to leave a situation like that. I'm talking about the unexplainable...
    woodwd40 woodwd40 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    Inevitably ...

    It seems that all human relationships change with time and circumstances.  It's inevitable.  I'm not the same person I was last year and certainly not the same one I was ten or twenty years ago.  It comes down to growth and adaptation.  When we have a...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    My Wife Has Changed And I'm Frustrated !!

    I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 12 YEARS AND I DONT KNOW WHETHER TO LEAVE MY WIFE FOR GOOD OR TRY AND STICK IT OUT IN HOPES SHE'LL COME AROUND. THE FIRST 3 YEARS WERE THE BEST. THE NEXT 5 YEARS WERE GOOD. BUT THE LAST 4 YEARS HAVE BEEN TERRIBLE. MY WIFE HAS GAINED WEIGHT AND IN TURN...
    joker69er joker69er 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 26, 2011

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    BUT I'm Learning to Roll With It Anyway

    CHANGE IS SOMETHING I'VE ALWAYS HAD DIFFICULTY ADJUSTING TO OR ACCEPTING FOR THAT MATTER. WHEN I AM IN A GREAT FRIENDSHIP OR RELATIONSHIP I WANT AND EXPECT THINGS TO ALWAYS STAY GOOD, BUT PEOPLE CHANGE. I DON'T TAKE THINGS SO SERIOUSLY NOW. I DON'T PUT MY TRUST IN ANYONE BUT ME...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    Big Quesstion

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    This experience is means like

    why does our relationship have to be like this? Why can't it be like it was before? The only answer that I could come up wwith she doesn't like me like she did before, and in the begaining it was about getting me now she has saw so many red flags that's she's not at all...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T 1 Response Mar 10

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    Easy People Stop Respecting Each Other

    it is a sad fact people just fall out of love if there ever were the stop respecting ech other and start to control each other or lay down rules love is more then an act of making a child sorry
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    Don't Understand What Is Going On

    My husband and I have been together since 1988. We got married in 1990 and were divorced for a short period of time due to (mostly) his drinking. He quit drinking (but no program) and we got remarried in 2004. He's been sober 10 years and I'm very grateful for that. Our...
    Goddess65 Goddess65 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    tellmeyourstory tellmeyourstory 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Craver Craver 66-70, M 10 Responses Mar 5

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