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I Wonder Why Some People Are So Rude

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    Be Nice To Your Waitress

    I cannot stand when rude people come in. Why do people come out to eat just to put down their server. I try to find humor in it so I thought I would share some things I frequently hear. "You took my order 15min ago. Where's my food?" - Could you make your own dinner in 15min let...
    tvtish tvtish 22-25, F Mar 23, 2012

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    I work in retail, I meet rude people

    that seem to think that their twenty dollar bill entitles them to act that way because they've had a bad day or my low place in society doesn't deserve respect. Some people...
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Satanist; Remember This Story? Was Very Sad.

      So Not Normal... A personal story in the experience: I Am Satanist (laveyan) By SatansTouch More Stories: | Message Story Details Aug 4th, 2008 393 Views 1 rec 20 Comments Experience Am Satanist (laveyan) 75 Members 8 Stories...
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F Sep 28, 2009

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    Why?

    Why do people judge you and make assumptions before they even talk to you? If you are thinking I'm something at least give me the courtesy to explain to me why you think that.
    Sapphire25 Sapphire25 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2013

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    Shushed For The Tv....

    Have you ever beens shushed for the tv? Now, I am not talking about during the seventh inning of the World Series, or when watching a movie and something really cool is about to happen. Those are acceptable shushing moments. I am talking about being shushed for a crappy sitcom...
    sickofrude2 sickofrude2 41-45 3 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    Has Anyone Noticed?

    It seems lately people are just so rude and unfriendly. I don't know if its because work with people all day or what? I'm sick of people being so rude an wonder if they ever herd the comment if you don't have anything nice to say don't bother. But then again it seems everyday I...
    AmericanAngel04 AmericanAngel04 26-30 9 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I know a lot of people have things going on in

    their lives but some people just really need to get the sticks out of their *** and be a little more friendly!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    Just Now...

    so just now i am sitting in my mother's house and she's at work...her boyfriend is on his computer in his room and comes in here and was trying to see the model number on the modem because they told him a long time ago that pretty soon it's not going to work anymore because it's...
    Tifferella Tifferella 22-25 2 Responses Aug 4, 2010

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    Dude Realy

    so i was txting my x and we was flirting and everything lol and out of nowhere he was like hey can i get your sis number like wtf dude first off she is married secondly she my sister you already was trynna hook up with my cuz well anywase i wouldnt give him her number and he got...
    lonelycountrygirl lonelycountrygirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 23, 2011

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    Rude People

    i work in retail and i have to say i cant stand it when people of all ages are so rude. sometimes they act lilke we owe them something. i always laugh inside because i feel so sorry for their moms, dads, grandmas, wife or husband that has to deal with them when they go home.lol...
    kshugs kshugs 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2008

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    Happy Bleeping Day~

    It's my 3rd holiday without my significant other, with our 2 young kids. Things are difficult financially and no one had invited us for a holiday meal, but I got things together at home and had a nice meal. In the evening, I decided to call a relative, as no one had called...
    jr843 jr843 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2009

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    Halloween

    Halloween kind of sucked. This stupid drunk idiot in a werewolf mask comes up to me thinking he was going to scare me, I laughed but then my friend stepped in just in case. And the werewolf started pushing him for no reason and asked him if he wanted to fight. My friend just...
    unicornaddict unicornaddict 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    People Suck

    I work for a cell phone carrier in a retail store and its amazing the way customers will treat u! They get upset because they dropped their phone in a swimming pool , and you can't replace it for free so they stand there yelling at you, calling you names, etc it's absurd! It...
    Flutterbies Flutterbies 26-30, F 14 Responses Mar 16, 2008

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    I Am a Professional Fundraiser

    I work for one of the top fundraiser firms in the country.  We raise money for well-known non-profits. We do no cold calling.  All of the donors have given before.  Some of the donors are brutally rude.  Here are some examples once I disclose who I am: They...
    DrLovelace DrLovelace 61-65 3 Responses Dec 15, 2008

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    A Friend Is a Friend, You Are Not

    I am xtremely laid back, I like to go with the flow.  If someone asks me, "What would you like to do?", "where do you want to go for lunch?"  I am game for whatever.  I want to make sure that other person is comfortable and is happy so a lot of...
    jesyka jesyka 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    Incredibly Selfish

    This just happened and it really bothered me so I had to write about it somewhere. My parents are hosting Thanksgiving this year, or were. They bought all of the food and my mother is going to cook all of it. They told my sister, who is married and has 4 children, they had...
    QuothTheRaven QuothTheRaven 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    I Wonder Why Some People Are So Rude

    hi im gerry from london UK. My family can be so rude it makes me mad. My Brother lives about 50 miles away from me near Brighton.He bought a property which i gave him FIFTEEN GRAND towards which he moved into last year. I been looking for flats and i spoke to an Estate Agent this...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Jul 18, 2013

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    Just A Question

    I asked a simple yes no question on EP today and by a woman over twice my age said the rudest thing I was so upset! Has not everyone's parents taught them "If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all" ??? The biggest thing is what if I hurt myself? What if that rude...
    ilovespiderman ilovespiderman 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Realtor Person Didn't Like Me

    Mom and I stopped to look at a duplex home on the way back from grocery shopping. She was looking for a place to buy for my brother and girlfriend. I look around and I am fascinated by old homes and how things used to look so I started asking if things are original like the bath...
    girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety 26-30, F Jan 7, 2013

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    23bambi23 23bambi23 41-45, F 9 Responses Apr 14

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    I Just Dont Get It

    what compells people to be so rude.....i often figure its because they must assume something bad about you, without bothering to find out if they are right.....i would hate to think that some people are rude just because they can be....thats sad. others could just be...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 16, 2008

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    What's Going On?

    I have a little bite to me.  I can say some off color things.  I have opinions.  I cross boundaries.  But I am AWARE.  While I am not always the most politically correct, I know where my boundaries are.  When someone is hurting, I don't sucker punch them with my words.  If...
    evolving2010 evolving2010 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2011

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    Rude People Make Me So Mad!

    I just went to the Waffle House in small town southern Louisiana.  The food was great but the people in the booth next to us ruined our meal.  The waitress that was waiting on use was very busy and she was trying to waiting on about 6 tables.  The girl in the booth...
    Nisha27 Nisha27 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2008

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    Rude....

    Seriously, I just spent about 6 hours in the kitchen at my parents house making a birthday cake for my mother. Things to take note of, the time I spent, whom I was baking for, but alas, the fact that I was in my parents kitchen. Now, it is well known within my family, that I am...
    sickofrude2 sickofrude2 41-45 1 Response Apr 16, 2011

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    Yield! Shopping Carts

    I volunteered to run to the grocery store on Christmas Eve morning to get the last few items before everything closed for the holiday. Once in the store, I grabbed a cart and headed down an isle. I did not know that there were rules of the road for grocery store shopping carts...
    Mary1283 Mary1283 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Rudeness

    Well i dont understand why people with different backgrounds is always rude when they met people who are not the same as they think to be and why would you impose something that will make it difficult and judge you the way others do?perhaps in this world everybody is now under...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2011

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    There is a cashier that works at my local

    drugstore who used to work with my ex husband. She knows we are divorced, since February 2012, yet every time she checks me out she asks me questions about him. Last week she asked me where he moved to because she doesn't see him anymore. I have no idea about his whereabouts. It...
    ShyGirlie78 ShyGirlie78 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 13

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    Three theories

      I have three theories as to why people are rude.   (1.) They will jump to conclusions before they understand what is being stated.    (2.) They are just immature and inconsiderate individuals.    (3.) They are like barking dogs behind a...
    Dewduster Dewduster 66-70, M 16 Responses Feb 1, 2009

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    People Who Just Dont Budge

    It really irritates me when people dont move when they're clearly in your way. I wonder why people do this. I try to stay out of people's way when I know I am in their path. It's just out of courtesy. When people dont, it just seems like they're plain rude. There's this one young...
    hibislo hibislo 31-35 1 Response Dec 3, 2011

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    A Customer From Work....

    My job is simple, I take pizza orders over the phone. Like any other call center we have certain information we need to place the order. If we have any promotions it is also our job to inform the customer. It may just be me but I find it extremely rude when customers cut me off...
    chantillyd chantillyd 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    Some People Are Just Rude!

    This Sunday we went to a store that sells clothes that have a small defect like the tag does not reflect the right size, etc. My husband works delivering all sorts of things for pool construction, also chemicals, so he needs cheap jeans that he can ruin without a problem...
    cecilia1 cecilia1 22-25 1 Response Jul 6, 2009

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    It's my biggest pet peeve. I will go out of my way to avoid people with rude-tudes!
    Soozkat Soozkat 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've worked in a shop for nearly 3 years and people could be so rude for like no reason. And the worst is, that no matter how nice you treat them, they're just gonna go on like the...
    spash spash 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Spend time with people who makes you happy while also not depending on other people for your own happiness. And be honest with yourself and others by saying what you mean and...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 3 days ago

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    When i was in the University, a student union leader, happened to be my close friend, and a room mate. He was so troubled with the issues of managing people, and getting away with...
    Olu3804 Olu3804 36-40, M Aug 3

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    they do not give to the women, nothing, not anything A WOMAN CAN ACCEPT MORE THAN ANY MAN, AND GET PAID PROPERLY!
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Aug 15

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    If you're dumping ice water on your head, but NOT donating to ALS, you're doing it wrong. Morons.
    redbeard83 redbeard83 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    Why is it that some people just lie, lie, lie and then lie some more? Is this for their benefit? Is it for the benefit of the person they are lying to? I have a friend (I've...
    trishfair714 trishfair714 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I'm sitting here in a boring room It's just another Rainy sunday afternoon I'm wasting my time I got nothing to do I'm hanging around I'm waiting for you But nothing ever happens...
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M Aug 17

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    Seriously. I hate when people are so ******* scared to tell me what's actually going on with them. I'm so sick of them lying to my face and telling me what I want to hear. I don't...
    Bassfisher67 Bassfisher67 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Regretfully, on account of a lack of professionalism to the part of the bar, I highly question The brand new people are going to be returning and also a lot of regulars (the people...
    Andrew558n8la3 Andrew558n8la3 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I do wonder. How many people have had a crush on me? And why?
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    My new recovery project is reminding myself : I accept myself for my strength and weakness, my good and bad, my success and my failures. Doing something has to be better than...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I wonder why, yet at the same time I know why. I'm referring to why things happen. Now I believe things happen because it's necessary for balance - good and bad.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Aug 11

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    The other day I almost got into a car crash and I kinda wonder why I told her that the light was red because if I hadn't she would have crashed
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Im honestly wondering if people even have standards anymore. I get it's the internet you can be anonymous and be "yourself" but there is sonethig called decency.. it's a scary...
    YellowBrightLight YellowBrightLight 18-21 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I just think it's ridiculous how some horrible people are blessed enough to have kids but mistreat them when there are amazing people who would make amazing parents but can't have...
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 9

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    Some bands are so cool they tend to disband early and were usually short-lived.
    Provinceana Provinceana 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    This can be particularly annoying when using social media. People can be who they want behind the screen and no one will notice. I have dealt with a couple disappointing truths and...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Alexander714b4xm8 Alexander714b4xm8 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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