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I Wonder Why Some People Are So Rude

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    Rudeness

    Well i dont understand why people with different backgrounds is always rude when they met people who are not the same as they think to be and why would you impose something that will make it difficult and judge you the way others do?perhaps in this world everybody is now under...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2011

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    I Wonder Why Some People Are So Rude

    hi im gerry from london UK. My family can be so rude it makes me mad. My Brother lives about 50 miles away from me near Brighton.He bought a property which i gave him FIFTEEN GRAND towards which he moved into last year. I been looking for flats and i spoke to an Estate Agent this...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Jul 18, 2013

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    Why ya gotta be so rude?

    Don't you know I'm human too! Nah but seriously. I can probably count the amount of times people have said "excuse me" when bumping into me on one hand.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F Sep 5, 2014

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    A Friend Is a Friend, You Are Not

    I am xtremely laid back, I like to go with the flow.  If someone asks me, "What would you like to do?", "where do you want to go for lunch?"  I am game for whatever.  I want to make sure that other person is comfortable and is happy so a lot of...
    jesyka jesyka 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    Yield! Shopping Carts

    I volunteered to run to the grocery store on Christmas Eve morning to get the last few items before everything closed for the holiday. Once in the store, I grabbed a cart and headed down an isle. I did not know that there were rules of the road for grocery store shopping carts...
    Mary1283 Mary1283 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    I dont understand people,

    if you don't like what someone puts up you don't have to comment something rude, just go about your day. and I'm not a cheater I love my Marine just because you think everyone is the same not every military girlfriend,wife, soon to be wife will cheat. your just trying to be an...
    MarineGirlfriendMary MarineGirlfriendMary 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    I asked a question on here a serious one too,

    and These guys come on and start saying mean things about me and put rude pictures. I asked them to stop and they just kept on going so I reported them and I hope that will make them stop it just hurts and I am pregnant and they are stressing me out so much all I wanted was a...
    kiraj1 kiraj1 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    Dude Realy

    so i was txting my x and we was flirting and everything lol and out of nowhere he was like hey can i get your sis number like wtf dude first off she is married secondly she my sister you already was trynna hook up with my cuz well anywase i wouldnt give him her number and he got...
    lonelycountrygirl lonelycountrygirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 23, 2011

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    Some people are mean

    and want to hurt people for no reason! Like seriously, WTF?! I hate bully's >:|
    LilHitler LilHitler 70+, M Sep 5, 2014

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    In my social studies class I kept coughing bcuz

    this girl next to me sprayed a strong Purfume and she said "girl cough the other way" and I wasn't even coughing at her -.- and then she said "ARE YOU GAY?!?!?!" Really loud an everyone looked at me an I said "no....I'm bisexual" and she said "um I'm gonna have to change seats...
    Botdf1shutup Botdf1shutup 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    Three theories

      I have three theories as to why people are rude.   (1.) They will jump to conclusions before they understand what is being stated.    (2.) They are just immature and inconsiderate individuals.    (3.) They are like barking dogs behind a...
    Dewduster Dewduster 66-70, M 16 Responses Feb 1, 2009

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    I Just Dont Get It

    what compells people to be so rude.....i often figure its because they must assume something bad about you, without bothering to find out if they are right.....i would hate to think that some people are rude just because they can be....thats sad. others could just be...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 16, 2008

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    I work in retail, I meet rude people

    that seem to think that their twenty dollar bill entitles them to act that way because they've had a bad day or my low place in society doesn't deserve respect. Some people...
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    Ok so I got blocked recently by a women named

    MILFHotForHubby And she just blocked me for calling her out on being rude for not answering my comments on her stories, or private messages that I sent her, and all I would say is "how are you?" She relied back saying "the reason is because, I'm a real woman. I pick who I...
    MilitaryHistoryNerd94 MilitaryHistoryNerd94 18-21, M 14 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    I just don't get it,

    why people have to be rude about person, things, and" whatever" reason is. It doesn't matter where I go,or read online and it always rude comment. If they don't like "whatever reason it is" don't say anything and people should know better. Being rude can lead anger, hurt, and...
    colonaileen colonaileen 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    23bambi23 23bambi23 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    Incredibly Selfish

    This just happened and it really bothered me so I had to write about it somewhere. My parents are hosting Thanksgiving this year, or were. They bought all of the food and my mother is going to cook all of it. They told my sister, who is married and has 4 children, they had...
    QuothTheRaven QuothTheRaven 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Realtor Person Didn't Like Me

    Mom and I stopped to look at a duplex home on the way back from grocery shopping. She was looking for a place to buy for my brother and girlfriend. I look around and I am fascinated by old homes and how things used to look so I started asking if things are original like the bath...
    girlwithanxiety girlwithanxiety 26-30, F Jan 7, 2013

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    Not only being called ugly

    and people only talking to me when they need like an answer to a question or something, but today I was called a public disturbance, I do nothing to anyone but give them help even when I don't like that person, I'll still help them. I don't understand what I do that's so wrong...
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2014

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    People Suck

    I work for a cell phone carrier in a retail store and its amazing the way customers will treat u! They get upset because they dropped their phone in a swimming pool , and you can't replace it for free so they stand there yelling at you, calling you names, etc it's absurd! It...
    Flutterbies Flutterbies 26-30, F 14 Responses Mar 16, 2008

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    Some people over here are remarkably rude

    and for no reasons. It get to nerves but than again, you think of them having a bad day or just stupid and let go.
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 21

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    Rude....

    Seriously, I just spent about 6 hours in the kitchen at my parents house making a birthday cake for my mother. Things to take note of, the time I spent, whom I was baking for, but alas, the fact that I was in my parents kitchen. Now, it is well known within my family, that I am...
    sickofrude2 sickofrude2 41-45 1 Response Apr 16, 2011

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    Be Nice To Your Waitress

    I cannot stand when rude people come in. Why do people come out to eat just to put down their server. I try to find humor in it so I thought I would share some things I frequently hear. "You took my order 15min ago. Where's my food?" - Could you make your own dinner in 15min let...
    tvtish tvtish 22-25, F Mar 23, 2012

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    After I finished working with a 12 year old

    with his maths today (I work as a maths tutor part time), I walked out of the house saying goodbye to the mother and child. As I was about to get into the car, there were two little girls who were playing in the front yard across the road (they would have been around 5 or 6...
    tarass tarass 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2014

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    What's Going On?

    I have a little bite to me.  I can say some off color things.  I have opinions.  I cross boundaries.  But I am AWARE.  While I am not always the most politically correct, I know where my boundaries are.  When someone is hurting, I don't sucker punch them with my words.  If...
    evolving2010 evolving2010 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2011

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    Just A Question

    I asked a simple yes no question on EP today and by a woman over twice my age said the rudest thing I was so upset! Has not everyone's parents taught them "If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all" ??? The biggest thing is what if I hurt myself? What if that rude...
    ilovespiderman ilovespiderman 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Why?

    Why do people judge you and make assumptions before they even talk to you? If you are thinking I'm something at least give me the courtesy to explain to me why you think that.
    Sapphire25 Sapphire25 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2013

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    Shushed For The Tv....

    Have you ever beens shushed for the tv? Now, I am not talking about during the seventh inning of the World Series, or when watching a movie and something really cool is about to happen. Those are acceptable shushing moments. I am talking about being shushed for a crappy sitcom...
    sickofrude2 sickofrude2 41-45 3 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    A Customer From Work....

    My job is simple, I take pizza orders over the phone. Like any other call center we have certain information we need to place the order. If we have any promotions it is also our job to inform the customer. It may just be me but I find it extremely rude when customers cut me off...
    chantillyd chantillyd 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    So in school today, me

    and my friend were in line, and she was in front of me. This guy asked to cut in front of my friend, but she said you can cut BEHIND ME. So this guy lets FOUR OTHER FRIKEN GUYS CUT IN FRONT OF HIM. ANYWAYYSSS in the lunch line, we don't actually have a line, we those counter...
    auxds auxds 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    impatience? Ignorance?

    Lack of humanity? Lack of social graces? Lack of education?
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    There is a cashier that works at my local

    drugstore who used to work with my ex husband. She knows we are divorced, since February 2012, yet every time she checks me out she asks me questions about him. Last week she asked me where he moved to because she doesn't see him anymore. I have no idea about his whereabouts. It...
    ShyGirlie78 ShyGirlie78 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    I can't stand when I share an experience

    and people respond with comments that are unnecessary and rude. I didn't do anything to you. no reason to pick at me.
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I know a lot of people have things going on in

    their lives but some people just really need to get the sticks out of their *** and be a little more friendly!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    Rude People Make Me So Mad!

    I just went to the Waffle House in small town southern Louisiana.  The food was great but the people in the booth next to us ruined our meal.  The waitress that was waiting on use was very busy and she was trying to waiting on about 6 tables.  The girl in the booth...
    Nisha27 Nisha27 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2008

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    People Who Just Dont Budge

    It really irritates me when people dont move when they're clearly in your way. I wonder why people do this. I try to stay out of people's way when I know I am in their path. It's just out of courtesy. When people dont, it just seems like they're plain rude. There's this one young...
    hibislo hibislo 31-35 1 Response Dec 3, 2011

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    Rude People

    i work in retail and i have to say i cant stand it when people of all ages are so rude. sometimes they act lilke we owe them something. i always laugh inside because i feel so sorry for their moms, dads, grandmas, wife or husband that has to deal with them when they go home.lol...
    kshugs kshugs 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2008

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    Seriously..what the hell.

    I know I'm not "skinny" but I'm not considered fat, either.
    LexyMarie LexyMarie 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    Just Now...

    so just now i am sitting in my mother's house and she's at work...her boyfriend is on his computer in his room and comes in here and was trying to see the model number on the modem because they told him a long time ago that pretty soon it's not going to work anymore because it's...
    Tifferella Tifferella 22-25 2 Responses Aug 4, 2010

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    TtotheD TtotheD 56-60, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    This is very true. I was sadly one of them not too long ago. I honestly think if people can learn to care less about what people think of them and more about their own happiness...
    saeteurn saeteurn 22-25, M Jan 23

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    I was in class, and I saw these kids making pig noises and acting like total animals. When I go in those classes it feels like time has set me back in preschool. I just wish that...
    shur09 shur09 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Please don't assume you know all about me by my profile and my posts. I'm a multifaceted, multi-feeling person, just like you. I will chat with you if you want but don't be...
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Yeah sure "Ignorance Is Bliss" but Knowledge can give you power not in a monetary situation but in terms if intellectual growth and awareness of whats going on around you keeps you...
    NamzyZizi NamzyZizi 16-17, F Jan 3

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    It makes me sad to see so much hate because a lot of people do not have perspective and/or understanding. I always feel the need to defend others, to help them be understood but I...
    topsykrit topsykrit 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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