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I Wonder Why Some People Are So Rude

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    Why?

    Why do people judge you and make assumptions before they even talk to you? If you are thinking I'm something at least give me the courtesy to explain to me why you think that.
    Sapphire25 Sapphire25 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2013

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    so u share your pictures with some one

    and u are self conscious to begin with then they block you without saying anything. I think that's rude and disrespectful. I mean I am a big girl I can take it. whatever no time for ignorance.
    disneygal81 disneygal81 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 15, 2015

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    Why ya gotta be so rude,

    don't ya know I'm human too
    Nickf20 Nickf20 18-21, M Oct 5, 2015

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    So in school today, me

    and my friend were in line, and she was in front of me. This guy asked to cut in front of my friend, but she said you can cut BEHIND ME. So this guy lets FOUR OTHER FRIKEN GUYS CUT IN FRONT OF HIM. ANYWAYYSSS in the lunch line, we don't actually have a line, we those counter...
    auxds auxds 13-15, F Nov 21, 2014

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    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    Shushed For The Tv....

    Have you ever beens shushed for the tv? Now, I am not talking about during the seventh inning of the World Series, or when watching a movie and something really cool is about to happen. Those are acceptable shushing moments. I am talking about being shushed for a crappy sitcom...
    sickofrude2 sickofrude2 41-45 3 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    Why ya gotta be so rude?

    Don't you know I'm human too! Nah but seriously. I can probably count the amount of times people have said "excuse me" when bumping into me on one hand.
    emiveritas emiveritas 22-25, F Sep 5, 2014

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    Ok so I got blocked recently by a women named

    MILFHotForHubby And she just blocked me for calling her out on being rude for not answering my comments on her stories, or private messages that I sent her, and all I would say is "how are you?" She relied back saying "the reason is because, I'm a real woman. I pick who I...
    MilitaryHistoryNerd94 MilitaryHistoryNerd94 18-21, M 9 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    Why men are so angry

    when driving even in busy Indian congested road. So many angry birds on Road..so rude
    Ashwini1990 Ashwini1990 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2015

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    Some people are mean

    and want to hurt people for no reason! Like seriously, WTF?! I hate bully's >:|
    LilHitler LilHitler 70+, M Sep 5, 2014

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    I work in retail, I meet rude people

    that seem to think that their twenty dollar bill entitles them to act that way because they've had a bad day or my low place in society doesn't deserve respect. Some people...
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    In my social studies class I kept coughing bcuz

    this girl next to me sprayed a strong Purfume and she said "girl cough the other way" and I wasn't even coughing at her -.- and then she said "ARE YOU GAY?!?!?!" Really loud an everyone looked at me an I said "no....I'm bisexual" and she said "um I'm gonna have to change seats...
    Botdf1shutup Botdf1shutup 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    Rudeness

    Well i dont understand why people with different backgrounds is always rude when they met people who are not the same as they think to be and why would you impose something that will make it difficult and judge you the way others do?perhaps in this world everybody is now under...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2011

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    I can't stand when I share an experience

    and people respond with comments that are unnecessary and rude. I didn't do anything to you. no reason to pick at me.
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I just don't get it,

    why people have to be rude about person, things, and" whatever" reason is. It doesn't matter where I go,or read online and it always rude comment. If they don't like "whatever reason it is" don't say anything and people should know better. Being rude can lead anger, hurt, and...
    colonaileen colonaileen 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    What's Going On?

    I have a little bite to me.  I can say some off color things.  I have opinions.  I cross boundaries.  But I am AWARE.  While I am not always the most politically correct, I know where my boundaries are.  When someone is hurting, I don't sucker punch them with my words.  If...
    evolving2010 evolving2010 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 13, 2011

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    I'm a nice girl who wants to have happy people

    talk to her. I don't understand why people just can't be nice to anymore as when I try to talk to people at school, they move away from me throwing abusive words about my hair as I'm a redhead. Maybe I should dye it. I just like the way it looks right now.
    ChloeAnnabelEdwards ChloeAnnabelEdwards 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2015

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    I Just found out someone blocked my.

    I have a nice profile. I am a quiet person who works in the educational field. I guess me saying .. Hello, how are you? Was too offensive.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 26

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    Not that I'm saying China's an uncivilized

    country, I'm just saying that some of the people there need to improve in patience and manners. If it's like a crowded area, a lot of people would begin shoving others to get to the front. Also once the man who was selling apples on the street spit on my foot ( accidentally, I...
    Seraphine246 Seraphine246 31-35 2 Responses Jul 11, 2015

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    I look at other people post

    and read the comments and I just imagine how it could hurt them in so may ways like haven't you ever herd the saying if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all
    molly127 molly127 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 14, 2015

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    After I finished working with a 12 year old

    with his maths today (I work as a maths tutor part time), I walked out of the house saying goodbye to the mother and child. As I was about to get into the car, there were two little girls who were playing in the front yard across the road (they would have been around 5 or 6...
    tarass tarass 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2014

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    Three theories

      I have three theories as to why people are rude.   (1.) They will jump to conclusions before they understand what is being stated.    (2.) They are just immature and inconsiderate individuals.    (3.) They are like barking dogs behind a...
    Dewduster Dewduster 66-70, M 16 Responses Feb 1, 2009

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    I dont understand people,

    if you don't like what someone puts up you don't have to comment something rude, just go about your day. and I'm not a cheater I love my Marine just because you think everyone is the same not every military girlfriend,wife, soon to be wife will cheat. your just trying to be an...
    MarineGirlfriendMary MarineGirlfriendMary 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    Just A Question

    I asked a simple yes no question on EP today and by a woman over twice my age said the rudest thing I was so upset! Has not everyone's parents taught them "If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all" ??? The biggest thing is what if I hurt myself? What if that rude...
    ilovespiderman ilovespiderman 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    I Wonder Why Some People Are So Rude

    hi im gerry from london UK. My family can be so rude it makes me mad. My Brother lives about 50 miles away from me near Brighton.He bought a property which i gave him FIFTEEN GRAND towards which he moved into last year. I been looking for flats and i spoke to an Estate Agent this...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Jul 18, 2013

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    impatience? Ignorance?

    Lack of humanity? Lack of social graces? Lack of education?
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I've noticed a trend on EP (and hopefully you

    don't all get bent out of shape). I think there's a large percentage of adults on here who just assume that all teenagers are stupid and have nothing of merit to say. That's fine, who am I to dictate what you should think? What really interests me is when an adult (who you would...
    Hannah1100 Hannah1100 13-15, F 10 Responses Oct 1, 2015

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    Not only being called ugly

    and people only talking to me when they need like an answer to a question or something, but today I was called a public disturbance, I do nothing to anyone but give them help even when I don't like that person, I'll still help them. I don't understand what I do that's so wrong...
    Fred363 Fred363 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2014

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    I Just Dont Get It

    what compells people to be so rude.....i often figure its because they must assume something bad about you, without bothering to find out if they are right.....i would hate to think that some people are rude just because they can be....thats sad. others could just be...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 16, 2008

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    First person I chatted with asked me about my

    body. Just today, my first day on EP. His name is: Oct91714.
    AsianInSoCal AsianInSoCal 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    There is a cashier that works at my local

    drugstore who used to work with my ex husband. She knows we are divorced, since February 2012, yet every time she checks me out she asks me questions about him. Last week she asked me where he moved to because she doesn't see him anymore. I have no idea about his whereabouts. It...
    ShyGirlie78 ShyGirlie78 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    Ya know maybe if some the younger generation

    (key word is SOME which means not all so don't whine and say I dislike all of you) weren't so self absorbed and didn't act like freaking elementary schoolers, then there'd be less truth to the older generations criticisms.
    BurningFist BurningFist 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 1, 2015

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    I know a lot of people have things going on in

    their lives but some people just really need to get the sticks out of their *** and be a little more friendly!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    Seriously..what the hell.

    I know I'm not "skinny" but I'm not considered fat, either.
    LexyMarie LexyMarie 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2015

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    Some people over here are remarkably rude

    and for no reasons. It get to nerves but than again, you think of them having a bad day or just stupid and let go.
    Myselfhere1 Myselfhere1 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 21, 2015

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    I asked a question on here a serious one too,

    and These guys come on and start saying mean things about me and put rude pictures. I asked them to stop and they just kept on going so I reported them and I hope that will make them stop it just hurts and I am pregnant and they are stressing me out so much all I wanted was a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    A Friend Is a Friend, You Are Not

    I am xtremely laid back, I like to go with the flow.  If someone asks me, "What would you like to do?", "where do you want to go for lunch?"  I am game for whatever.  I want to make sure that other person is comfortable and is happy so a lot of...
    jesyka jesyka 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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