I Wonder Why Some People Use Children to Hurt Each Other

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    Children Should Never Be Put In This Place

    Children should never know the ins or outs of a relationship. If you are having problems, the kids should not be used as bargaining chips. Men become enraged because they fall in love with a woman, they have children together, and then they think she is a ***** for getting...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Jun 21, 2009

    It Hurts the Kids Most

    i don't understand it at all. my brother-in-law and his ex wife have been divorced for 7 years now and when they first got divorced his ex signed over custody to all 4 kids even the one that wasn't his because she wasn't ready or willing to take care of them herself. a couple...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Feb 3, 2009

    It Is Infuriating!!!

    In the last 2 1/2 years my children have become weapons. Certainly my mouth has gotten me into trouble when I slip and say something nasty about my children's Father.....but using them to hurt him? No way!!! My children are 11 and 7 (almost 8). And while my 11 year old wants to...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM
    36-40, F
    May 7, 2009

    I Really Can't Stand It!

    It's ubearable! Mostly because I love those children. And I feel with them. My sympathy is great. Foremost because I know exactly how it's like. Second, because I've seen kids suffering from it. And lastly, because children I care about are still hurt. I really, sincerely wish...
    OleMona OleMona
    18-21, F
    Feb 4, 2009

    U As@hole

    my daughters soon to be ex-husband uses there children to hurt her. he w/ holds the children from her. him n his mother preach to them lies. tell my grandson who is only 4 to call his mom mommy, tell him his own mother is a fat lazy pig the lisr goes on n on. this as@hole...
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    1 Response Apr 21, 2010

    My Girls....

    I have four awesome daughters and I worry about their perception of a marriage.  My girls are ages 26, 21, 17, and 10.  The one I worry about the most is our 10 year old who constantly hears from her father the words "Your Mom can't ......"  or "If your Mom would...
    ldsbusha ldsbusha
    46-50, F
    Mar 27, 2010


    it sickens me to the very core of my body how people mistreat n abuse there children. children r innocent n so trusting. to abuse that is one of the worse crimes on earth. i look at my children n my grandkids n i wonder how people can be so heartless n cruel. anyone that abuses...
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    1 Response Apr 28, 2010
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