I Wont Accept Being Someones Second Choice

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    I still feel like the second choice of someone

    who cares about me. I just don't know how to talk about it with them.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Nov 19, 2015

    I've Been There

    I've been there, done that.What I learned is that I truly deserve to be number one is someone's life.  I truly am now, and it's absolutely amazing to be the center of his world.  Not a day goes by where he doesn't make me feel loved and desired.  
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 18, 2011

    If you accept being someone's second choice you

    sell yourself short. **** them. Make them understand that they haven't even done that well.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 18, 2015
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Nov 24, 2015

    I Know My Worth

    I know I am worth first place. If I am someones second choice, I would rather take a pass and keep looking for a MUTUAL first choice connection.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 11, 2011

    It took me a while and a couple of mistakes to

    really realise my own self worth. I am no long accepting being a second choice.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    Mar 12, 2015

    This is one of my biggest fears.

    I feel like a failure if I'm not someone's first choice.
    SwedishDoll SwedishDoll
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 10
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