I Won't Be Adding Everyone Who Fans Me

This Time Around, I Will Be More Selective Of Who I Call "Friend" 634 People

    This Time Around

    I am now cutting  my circle so that it is more personal and am going to cut it down to people whom I share lots of experiences with and not just sexual experiences....recontly have moved it from 50 plus to more than 200 plus as been here for almost three years and have had some...
    PoppaBear53 PoppaBear53
    56-60, M
    Apr 18, 2012

    No Thank You

    I will usually look at your profile beforehand and make a decision based on that. If you are given a chance, I may delete you after a kind of trial period if I feel you've just added me for the sake of numbers and haven't bothered to speak to me. Here are some of my...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Apr 28, 2012
    nahreh nahreh
    Jan 18, 2015

    Not Adding Back

    No! i shall not be adding "everyone" who fans me! I had one "person" earlier asking me to add him. i checked his profile and was faced with "genitals" ummmmm! no thanks, you have to be joking! I can always ask my husband to undress!  I am not interested in sex chat or nude...
    welshbabe welshbabe
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2011

    I think I have over 150 people

    who added me that are my "fans" **EDIT** I found out that I have 541 "fans"
    PetiteChica PetiteChica
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 22, 2015

    Must Read Before You Add, Please!

    Hello, this may or may not sound arrogant, but I think it's only fair and common courtesy: *If you wish to add me, please read my profile first, it gives a pretty good idea about who I am. *If you add me, then know that I will read your profile whether I decide to add you or...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Jun 2, 2013

    As a Matter of Fact...

    I won't be adding anyone, I need to be able to write how I feel, and not be judge or attacked, or made to feel bad because of what I write. I am not here to make friends, I am the type of person who doesn't have friends, one because they never seem to be able to keep my friends...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 28, 2009

    Especially people that I have no mutual

    experiences with. How did you even find me? I also won't add people that only have experiences of sexual things. I'm about 100% sure that you and I have nothing to talk about that would interest me and I'll probably end up blocking you so what is the point?
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 17

    I'm Sorry, No...just No

    If your profile makes you out to be a hormone driven sex crazed individual...that's a no.--if more than 90% of your postings are about sex, or if you cannot have a conversation without it somehow circling back around to sex, then well...yeah....that's a no.If your profile has...
    SweetlyLingering SweetlyLingering
    70+, F
    2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

    Just Cuz...

    I dont accept everyone who fans me simply because i have viewed your profile and dont view us as a good fit. I rarely add guys under the age of 36. I like older men, its just a preference i have. Nor will i accept women, i have enough female friends IRL and thats not what im...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 17, 2012

    When You Were A Kid; What Did You Want To Be When You Grow Up?

    For some its president, for others its being an astronaut. Me, I was a spy. From birth a wonderful trainer codenamed "M" nurtured me and taught me all of life's skills. She showed me tactics in covert high profile missions codenamed "Business" so that I may blend in with the...
    Rewster Rewster
    26-30, M
    May 6, 2013

    I just added my first few friends on here.

    I don't know who you are. I don't understand that part of ep. Ep is anonymous so I guess adding friends is a little too close to facebook for me, where people know who you are. But it could be ok. I just don't get it yet.
    24LUV 24LUV
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2014

    This Is Why I Didn't Add You Back.

    I wish so bad that random people would stop randomly adding me. I'm sure none of them have looked at my profile, they haven't commented on any of my stories, we have no groups in common that matter, and if we have friends in common then that's probably the only reason they added...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 12, 2012

    Not Anymore

    I used to add anybody who sent a fan request to my circle but know that i have been on over a year I have become very picky on who becomes a friend...why do I do it, because I can....
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2011

    Can't Stand It

    Why do people FAN you when you obviously have nothing in common? It is ridiculous some of the people and the 'stuff' they like don't even come close to my 'stuff'. Do these people not read the profile? WTF. How do you UN-FAN these people or am I stuck with them? Rant over...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 17, 2012

    It's Impossible To

    I can't add everyone who chooses me and wants to be my friend. If you're heavily into sexual issues or dirty talk or child abuse, I don't want to hear from you. If you're new and have no experiences or stories, don't contact me. If you want another person just for the status...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine
    61-65, F
    Aug 27, 2013

    I'm Not Jesus

    If we talk enough and/or I feel I can trust you enough,I'll add you,but otherwise,not many make the cut and normally I wait and see if you add me first.It's my way of making sure I don't get betrayed again.I am trying to make friends with people who are here to stay.
    deleted deleted
    Dec 1, 2012

    hey all my fans respond

    or add me then I will give you all a present
    AmyJayxx AmyJayxx
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 29, 2015

    Past Experiences

    If you make a good impression an you seam like a very good person just by what I read about you then I may add you. I'm very picky about who I talk to because of past people who have irresponsibly used trust in the wrong way. So now I'm here to say, if you want to talk to me, or...
    MyHeartsBlue MyHeartsBlue
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2012

    Also...I just started at this site,

    so don't take it personally if I don't reply to messages quickly either.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 8, 2015

    No Thanks

    I willl be not adding those of you with overly sexual profiles.An people who are just friend collectors.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 10, 2012

    I maybe add 5% of the people

    who fan me. Only because most are perverts or just stupid. I'm looking for genuine people. I know their out there its just hard finding them.
    WhisperingEchoes WhisperingEchoes
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Dec 24, 2014


    I think I will size down my fans now. No offense to fans who fanned me. I'm not adding anymore for now until I got a chance to sort out fans list. Of course I'm too lazy to do it now. Maybe later.
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Aug 15, 2011

    I Wont

    I get a lot of random adds on here. I know thats nothing special... everyone does specially women so thats nothing Im bragging bout!!!But anyway.... i dont add people Ive never had any contact with. Im not here for friend collecting and dont want to have like 4000000000 circle...
    Gemzaayy Gemzaayy
    31-35, F
    Feb 15, 2013

    I Love My Circle :)

    I even changed my avatar to something other than me… I don’t mind when people add me, but I also don’t feel obligated to reciprocate. I understand – I post all kinds of naughty things on here and I am generally pretty kinky… who wouldn’t want to know me? Haha Okay...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 14, 2011

    I Check Your Profile Before Adding You.

    Bigots, homophobes, uptight people, racist people, basically intolerant people of all sorts shall not be added. I don't care about sexual content on your profile, as long as you don't harass me.
    righteouschica righteouschica
    18-21, F
    Sep 26, 2012

    Take It Personally...

    If you are old and looking for a sex chat.... Don't add me If you are willing to have sex with minors..... Don't add me If you don't like the things I'm for... Don't add me if you have a nude pic up as your profile pice, don't add, most of my friends are minors and love stalking...
    mingyming mingyming
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Jan 10, 2012

    Too Many

    My inbox has started to be filled up with fan notices, so I usually go and delete them all. My apologies to the folks I don't add. It's nothing personal.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 21, 2011

    No Offense

    I am pretty picky of who I let near me.  Plus I put pics up that I don't share with everyone.  I will pick and chhose to add you and if you get creepy or do not comment or care you are gone.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 1, 2012

    Dear New Fans

    I am selective now about fans who had me. I had deal with some rude people and trolls in the past. Sorry If I did not add you. I do not have anything against you at all. I am being careful.
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    Oct 15, 2012

    No I won't be... One guy ruined it

    for the rest. I'm not as trusting as I once was... slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman
    41-45, F
    Feb 17, 2015

    Real Friends

    I have fun here getting to know new people, and especially learning more about the "old" people in my circle (who are all adored as they know :)). I do appreciate...no, I'm more FLATTERED than I could ever express when someone shows interest in my writings and wants to become...
    LG76 LG76
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Apr 10, 2012

    Quality, Not Quantity

    If we have never interacted, and you fan me....don't expect me to automatically FRIEND you. Chances are....I will not.  Get to know me first.....this is NOT FACEBOOK.  I don't give a $hit how many friends I have.
    TheChurchLady TheChurchLady
    46-50, F
    13 Responses Jul 16, 2013

    I look at everyone's profiles.

    If they're weirdos, instant no. If you're a decent interesting person, it's a yes.
    emiveritas emiveritas
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2014

    In fact, I won't be adding anyone

    who fans me without having several consistent conversations with them. When people fan each other on here they become friends and I really don't see the point of having meaningless friends in my circle who I don't truly connect with.
    deleted deleted
    Jun 24, 2015

    Let me issue my apologies right now,

    as I don't want to be labeled a hypocrite. Because, for a brief period of time in my EP "infancy", I would also fall into the very same category for which I now have a disfavor. HOWEVER, if you have thus far failed to post not even ONE story to your profile, please do not...
    Virgo4Whore Virgo4Whore
    46-50, M
    1 Response May 5, 2015

    I Don't Have Very Many Friends On Ep

    And I love that! I totally appreciate each of the friends I have, for their writings, insights, their warmth of spirit, kindred natures, kind hearts, fun and/or deep conversation, intellect, encouragement, beautiful poetry, love for life. But, if you have added me, and I haven't...
    simplygirl simplygirl
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2012

    *so true. I am cautious.

    Bogus things happen online. So I don't only read profile, I rummage through stories. If we establish that we have good connection, that's when I hit the add button. *And what's funny, alot of Indian people are fanning me. I AM NOT AN INDIAN. I have nothing against them. But I...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jul 22, 2014

    No I Won't.

    I won't be adding everyone who adds me. I am very choosy about adding people to my circle. Most of the people in my circle have been in my circle, and have been my friend since 1st Joining Ep about six years ago. When I make friends I keep them. I don't throw them away, even if...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 25, 2012

    I won't be adding any men

    or boys, so please stop messaging me and begging (don't message me begging for pics either).
    emmsbody emmsbody
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2014

    Add you photos. Speak clearly

    and honourable. I am a human being too!
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2014

    Fans And Friends

    I just want to say that while I love making new friends and have made some pretty good ones here, I am not adding just anyone and everyone who fans me.I am not here for a popularity contest and I prefer to keep my friends list down as low as possible to people I like, am...
    ItsJustMe888 ItsJustMe888
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2012

    I only want to add people to my list

    if they really want to get to know me. I won't add rude or shallow people. I won't add you if the majority of your experiences are sexual, since I will assume that's all you want to talk about. I won't add anyone unless they actually want to have conversations with me. I don't...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Sep 30, 2015

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