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I Won't Be Adding Everyone Who Fans Me

This Time Around, I Will Be More Selective Of Who I Call "Friend" 609 People

    Real Friends

    I have fun here getting to know new people, and especially learning more about the "old" people in my circle (who are all adored as they know :)). I do appreciate...no, I'm more FLATTERED than I could ever express when someone shows interest in my writings and wants to become...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 14 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Can't Stand It

    Why do people FAN you when you obviously have nothing in common? It is ridiculous some of the people and the 'stuff' they like don't even come close to my 'stuff'. Do these people not read the profile? WTF. How do you UN-FAN these people or am I stuck with them? Rant over...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 17, 2012

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    It's Impossible To

    I can't add everyone who chooses me and wants to be my friend. If you're heavily into sexual issues or dirty talk or child abuse, I don't want to hear from you. If you're new and have no experiences or stories, don't contact me. If you want another person just for the status...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Aug 27, 2013

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    No Thank You

    I will usually look at your profile beforehand and make a decision based on that. If you are given a chance, I may delete you after a kind of trial period if I feel you've just added me for the sake of numbers and haven't bothered to speak to me. Here are some of my...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Thank You

    I appreciate everyone who fans me.  Most of the time I forward a word of thanks re; the same fanning. This piece is for all of you whom I don't get to return a thanks to.For some days there are quite a few new fans that I cannot get round to you all. I am a busy lady replying...
    2wiceasnice 2wiceasnice 41-45, F 9 Responses Oct 27, 2011

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    I Don't Either.

    Random people add me without even looking at my profile. It seems most add me to boost their "fans" or because of one of my red dot stories. I look over profiles. Try communicationg with me. I'm not asking for a ten page essay. A gesture works fine.
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M 3 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Add you photos. Speak clearly

    and honourable. I am a human being too!
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    No Thanks

    I willl be not adding those of you with overly sexual profiles.An people who are just friend collectors.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 10, 2012

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    I'm Sorry, No...just No

    If your profile makes you out to be a hormone driven sex crazed individual...that's a no.--if more than 90% of your postings are about sex, or if you cannot have a conversation without it somehow circling back around to sex, then well...yeah....that's a no.If your profile has...
    SweetlyLingering SweetlyLingering 70+, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    My Choice

    Here on EP, I decide to add only girls as fans or friends. All men will be blocked from communicate with me. I do accept their comments on stories, but no relationships. It is my preferance.
    Sjachaurix Sjachaurix 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    Just Cuz...

    I dont accept everyone who fans me simply because i have viewed your profile and dont view us as a good fit. I rarely add guys under the age of 36. I like older men, its just a preference i have. Nor will i accept women, i have enough female friends IRL and thats not what im...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 17, 2012

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    True

    I think I will size down my fans now. No offense to fans who fanned me. I'm not adding anymore for now until I got a chance to sort out fans list. Of course I'm too lazy to do it now. Maybe later.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    Too Many

    My inbox has started to be filled up with fan notices, so I usually go and delete them all. My apologies to the folks I don't add. It's nothing personal.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2011

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    Standards I Have Standards People Honestly

    Every single day odd people on EP join my circle as fans. It does not bother me I have thicker skin than that really. It just makes more work for me really, opening their page reading their stories confessions and questions, looking over their groups and friends and then...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Aug 9, 2013

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    I just added my first few friends on here.

    I don't know who you are. I don't understand that part of ep. Ep is anonymous so I guess adding friends is a little too close to facebook for me, where people know who you are. But it could be ok. I just don't get it yet.
    24LUV 24LUV 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    *so true. I am cautious.

    Bogus things happen online. So I don't only read profile, I rummage through stories. If we establish that we have good connection, that's when I hit the add button. *And what's funny, alot of Indian people are fanning me. I AM NOT AN INDIAN. I have nothing against them. But I...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    Must Read Before You Add, Please!

    Hello, this may or may not sound arrogant, but I think it's only fair and common courtesy: *If you wish to add me, please read my profile first, it gives a pretty good idea about who I am. *If you add me, then know that I will read your profile whether I decide to add you or...
    GoodMan1988 GoodMan1988 26-30, M 12 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    I don't add everyone

    that doesn't mean I will or wont or don't want to but I don't add people if I don't know who they are or if they have no stories or are not open very much on here. I understand different people have different situations and everyone is different some people don't like to open up...
    christfukk christfukk 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I'm Not Jesus

    If we talk enough and/or I feel I can trust you enough,I'll add you,but otherwise,not many make the cut and normally I wait and see if you add me first.It's my way of making sure I don't get betrayed again.I am trying to make friends with people who are here to stay.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 1, 2012

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    This Is Why I Didn't Add You Back.

    I wish so bad that random people would stop randomly adding me. I'm sure none of them have looked at my profile, they haven't commented on any of my stories, we have no groups in common that matter, and if we have friends in common then that's probably the only reason they added...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

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    I Don't Have Very Many Friends On Ep

    And I love that! I totally appreciate each of the friends I have, for their writings, insights, their warmth of spirit, kindred natures, kind hearts, fun and/or deep conversation, intellect, encouragement, beautiful poetry, love for life. But, if you have added me, and I haven't...
    simplygirl simplygirl 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2012

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    Past Experiences

    If you make a good impression an you seam like a very good person just by what I read about you then I may add you. I'm very picky about who I talk to because of past people who have irresponsibly used trust in the wrong way. So now I'm here to say, if you want to talk to me, or...
    MyHeartsBlue MyHeartsBlue 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2012

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    I Love My Circle :)

    I even changed my avatar to something other than me… I don’t mind when people add me, but I also don’t feel obligated to reciprocate. I understand – I post all kinds of naughty things on here and I am generally pretty kinky… who wouldn’t want to know me? Haha Okay...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 14, 2011

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    When You Were A Kid; What Did You Want To Be When You Grow Up?

    For some its president, for others its being an astronaut. Me, I was a spy. From birth a wonderful trainer codenamed "M" nurtured me and taught me all of life's skills. She showed me tactics in covert high profile missions codenamed "Business" so that I may blend in with the...
    Rewster Rewster 22-25, M May 6, 2013

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    Not Anymore

    I used to add anybody who sent a fan request to my circle but know that i have been on over a year I have become very picky on who becomes a friend...why do I do it, because I can....
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 7, 2011

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    I Check Your Profile Before Adding You.

    Bigots, homophobes, uptight people, racist people, basically intolerant people of all sorts shall not be added. I don't care about sexual content on your profile, as long as you don't harass me.
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2012

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    No I Won't.

    I won't be adding everyone who adds me. I am very choosy about adding people to my circle. Most of the people in my circle have been in my circle, and have been my friend since 1st Joining Ep about six years ago. When I make friends I keep them. I don't throw them away, even if...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 25, 2012

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    I won't be adding any men

    or boys, so please stop messaging me and begging (don't message me begging for pics either).
    emmsbody emmsbody 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 13

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    As a Matter of Fact...

    I won't be adding anyone, I need to be able to write how I feel, and not be judge or attacked, or made to feel bad because of what I write. I am not here to make friends, I am the type of person who doesn't have friends, one because they never seem to be able to keep my friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    There are moments when I feel like leaving this

    site.One of them is when all I get is friend requests from men with only sex in their minds.I hardly add any one these days or block people when I find what intentions they have.Most can't have a decent conversation without these people making their intentions clear.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Sbt

    Sad but true, I won't add everyone who fans me. In fact I won't be adding a majority of people who fan me because it has been proven time and time again that so many are looking for people to fill their circles for the sake of feeling like they have an army or EP mafia at their...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    Fans And Friends

    I just want to say that while I love making new friends and have made some pretty good ones here, I am not adding just anyone and everyone who fans me.I am not here for a popularity contest and I prefer to keep my friends list down as low as possible to people I like, am...
    ItsJustMe888 ItsJustMe888 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    I Wont

    I get a lot of random adds on here. I know thats nothing special... everyone does specially women so thats nothing Im bragging bout!!!But anyway.... i dont add people Ive never had any contact with. Im not here for friend collecting and dont want to have like 4000000000 circle...
    Gemzaayy Gemzaayy 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 15, 2013

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    My Choice

    Here on EP, I decide to add only girls as fans or friends. All men will be blocked from communicate with me. I do accept their comments on stories, but no relationships. It is my preferance.
    Sjachaurix Sjachaurix 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    I don't add people who demand photos from me

    either, I add people if I talk to them enough, I am here for true friendship, granted some people in my circle I haven't talked to for a long time and there is no telling who anyone is but I can't stress this enough. I am not here for one nighters and I am not here to talk to...
    christfukk christfukk 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Read This

    Listen up people and take notes, I won't be adding everyone who fans me.Thanks for reading
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Oct 7, 2012

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    Just because you add me does not mean I will

    add you. I'm not interested in having thousands of "friends" on here. I like to keep my circle small and limited to those I interact with on a regular basis.
    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    Take It Personally...

    If you are old and looking for a sex chat.... Don't add me If you are willing to have sex with minors..... Don't add me If you don't like the things I'm for... Don't add me if you have a nude pic up as your profile pice, don't add, most of my friends are minors and love stalking...
    mingyming mingyming 18-21, F 17 Responses Jan 10, 2012

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    Dear New Fans

    I am selective now about fans who had me. I had deal with some rude people and trolls in the past. Sorry If I did not add you. I do not have anything against you at all. I am being careful.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F Oct 15, 2012

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    This Time Around

    I am now cutting  my circle so that it is more personal and am going to cut it down to people whom I share lots of experiences with and not just sexual experiences....recontly have moved it from 50 plus to more than 200 plus as been here for almost three years and have had some...
    PoppaBear53 PoppaBear53 56-60, M Apr 18, 2012

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    Quality, Not Quantity

    If we have never interacted, and you fan me....don't expect me to automatically FRIEND you. Chances are....I will not.  Get to know me first.....this is NOT FACEBOOK.  I don't give a $hit how many friends I have.
    TheChurchLady TheChurchLady 46-50, F 12 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    Not Adding Back

    No! i shall not be adding "everyone" who fans me! I had one "person" earlier asking me to add him. i checked his profile and was faced with "genitals" ummmmm! no thanks, you have to be joking! I can always ask my husband to undress!  I am not interested in sex chat or nude...
    welshbabe welshbabe 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2011

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