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I Won't Have Casual Sex


    It Always Means Something

    I am 30 and I have "only" had sex with 4 men in my life. That's because I don't do casual.If I have sex, it always means something, and it always means I am emotionally involved. I don't just give my body. I give my heart and soul.Now I have made my share of mistakes, and got...
    DancingFox DancingFox
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 23, 2010

    Sex Is Not Casual to Me...

    I'm not saying you have  to marry me (nor would I want you to), but at least be a friend I can trust. I really can't stand people who (as Aussies say) "root and run". Have some respect for us both.... I will have "mutually deep friendship sex" at the...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jan 25, 2009

    I Always Knew It Wasn't My Thing

    I would consider myself as a passionate and emotion-filled person. I have always loved the idea of "courting" and romance. I tend to take things slow when I am interested in someone without really rushing or skipping steps. To me, sex has always been something very personal and...
    Swedishbliss Swedishbliss
    18-21, F
    Dec 21, 2012

    A Past Time But Not A Present Time !

    I will admit that I used to be lured into this type of lifestyle in the past. Feeling that love would come if I just did this, casual sex and enjoyed it and just went with the time.. It was  my choice but not a smart one. All it ended was with me feeling...
    caramelpeace caramelpeace
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2009

    Never Stays Casual

    For me - despite whatever feelings I may occasionally have to the contrary; casual sex is NEVER casual for me. It never stays casual or starts casual and yes I've actually been stupid or foolish enough to try. I never fail to get screwed largely because I end up attached while...
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    1 Response Nov 8, 2009

    Marrying Her Is Unthinkable? Then Keep Your Clothes On.

    When I was a college student, I reflected on the emerging sexual free for all around me, and set a rule for myself. I would not become intimate with a woman unless I could imagine myself being married to her, and the thought was quite enjoyable. I have stuck by that rule...
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    1 Response Apr 15, 2010

    Its Just Not For Me.

    I have tried "hooking up" before, but not with the intent of it actually being a One Night stand. I've made out with people who were at least friends, even fooled around a bit. But i've never gone all the way with someone, casually. It's not something i can do. 1stly It offends...
    MissVenom MissVenom
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2010

    I look at my body as a temple,

    a gold mine, I can't just open my legs to anyone. Even in a relationship I make them wait three months. And if they can't wait that's my first clue that they just want to get it in.
    ADeepPerspective ADeepPerspective
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

    Getting There....

    I know "casual" doesn't work for me. Done it twice and I just end up getting more attached than I should. And it hurts. The longing hurts. The insecurity hurts. Basically, I don't think casual will ever work for me... lets say its the junkfood of the love/sex world. You can...
    jhasam jhasam
    1 Response Apr 4, 2010

    I'm Not Impotent I Just Don't Trust You

    I'm a guy and I just can't have casual sex.  I only ever allow myself to be in a sex situation if there is a real connection.  I need to believe that the woman I'm going to have sex with is truly in love with me.  As a consequence the first time I have sex with...
    normskie61 normskie61
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jun 24, 2010

    Sex For Me Is Never Casual.....

     I can never have "casual" sex. I always have to be involved emotionally with a guy in order for anything that intimate to happen. My heart has to be completely involved. Which of course means I get hurt...........A LOT! But I don't wait for the commitment...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 20, 2009
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