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I Won't Judge You

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    I used to apply my values to everyone's life

    decisions. Of course, I found them inferior to me. How great it felt to look down on everyone! Over time, I began to realize my assumptions were so wrong. I believe everyone has something precious to share. I am not here to criticize, but to learn and grow.
    Warduke Warduke 36-40, M Sep 29, 2014

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    Social media bullies are the worst type of

    bullies. They act as though they have high moral fibre but hide behind these sort of sites and intimidate others as they have no life. The lowest of the low.
    Peeonme69 Peeonme69 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    You know those cars with the sticker families

    on the back? Yeah? Well I was at Steepery the other day and I parked next to this car what I thought had a sticker family on the back. When I looked again it was just one Lady sticker and about 14 cat stickers. Don't get me wrong but I think this lady had my future on the back...
    Phib Phib 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2014

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    I Don't Judge

    We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.
    Gilse59 Gilse59 18-21, F Jan 21, 2013

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    Have you ever been called fat?

    Or a loser? Or weird? Or crazy? Or stupid? I'm guessing you've been called at least one of these. Has anyone ever told you that you aren't good enough? Well, they're wrong. When I meet someone new, I try to see the world through their eyes. Like maybe the reason they speak a...
    blondequeen51296 blondequeen51296 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    Hell, I'm a pretty messed up person who's had a

    sketchy past, so I'm in no postition to judge anybody!!
    jonbz17 jonbz17 22-25, M Jan 23, 2014

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    I swear it's like everyone's mission to just

    get my temper running like I can't today :(
    DreaSmurph DreaSmurph 18-21, F Nov 23, 2014

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    I am the type of friend

    where you could tell me you did anything- and I will not hate you or judge you based on your appearance and as long as your a nice person and not currently putting anyone in danger I am okay with whatever it is you are hiding inside. We all are the same no matter how different...
    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F Sep 23, 2014

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    Instead of judging someone I think we should

    try to understand them and consider the fact that no ones perfect and everyone makes mistakes and may have regrets. Someone may be beating themselves internally and don't need your light on the subject.
    lunalight21 lunalight21 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Don't get me wrong, I love making new friends.

    I love meeting new people. I even love flirtatious conversations. BUT that does not mean I'm going to send pictures that reveal certain places of my body. That doesn't make me a prude and I'm not judging people if that's what they do. This simply means I am not interested in...
    natalie603 natalie603 16-17, F 10 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    chrissyboo123 chrissyboo123 16-17, F 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    For those that are so quick

    and comfortable to judge me, or others so negatively, I only hope you are not so quick to pass the same judegment on yourself. In times when you feel the need to point out flaws in someone else, I hope you decide to find something beautiful about yourself instead.
    TheLadyYves TheLadyYves 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 5, 2014

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    Leagues, classes, groups,

    etc are all terms created & propitiated by small minded central planners who's number one goal is to convince the rest of humanity that they are cattle! I care not for what station or classification someone, who's soul sings to me, comes from! To reduce the greatness of the...
    newlysingleandlearning newlysingleandlearning 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 31, 2014

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    I have been judged more

    than what is necessary for my lifestyle and drug use choices. Who am I to judge anybody else?
    SlaveToMeth SlaveToMeth 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 20, 2014

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    Sexygirl1213 Sexygirl1213 13-15, F 8 Responses Mar 24, 2014

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    Why are some people so quick to judge

    when they don't even know the whole story... even then people shouldn't judge each other... we should uplift not destroy... sigh :(
    melon29 melon29 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    I Just Don'T Want To Be Social Right Now

    It's thanksgiving and I'm all alone at home... Happily!!! My husband celebrated with his family and I'm suppose to with mine. Instead of just us 3 or 4... mom, dad, brother and I, they went to another party at my uncles. I'm not feeling it and I'm all ok with my 2 cats. Is it...
    baaboobear824 baaboobear824 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    You know. This is suppose to be 'Experience

    Project'. And all I've ever seen was people judging others of what they say or what they've been through. I'm that person who won't judge you or anyone else. I'm here for anyone's concerns or opinion. All I ever seen was people being a total tool and being dickheads to others...
    TheMightyGoddess TheMightyGoddess 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    Do Not Judge Others

    A ship capsized while a loving couple went on a cruise. When they arrived at the life boat, there was only room for one more person. At this time, the man immediately pushes his wife aside and jumped onto the lifeboat himself leaving her behind. The woman, about to sink into...
    jjoe01 jjoe01 41-45, M 29 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    Sadly, I've seen some pretty judgmental posts

    by members who have this experience listed. I'd recommend all adult content have that little checkbox for adult content checked....and those who feel the need to shame others, don't go into the post, or do it via a message. There's enough hate in the world already.
    ThatWasUnexpected ThatWasUnexpected 36-40 2 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    I'm just so hungry ,,

    I haven't eaten all day .i wish my family would let me eat anything and I wish I had food in my house 😢
    DreaSmurph DreaSmurph 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    Lies. I will judge you.

    Everyone will. HOWEVER, I'll make an effort to understand you and your perception of things and I'll try not to have a negative opinion of you just because what you think doesn't line up with what I think. I can accept that other people's opinions can be valuable even when I don...
    Friability Friability 18-21 3 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    There is nothing that annoys me more

    than judgemental people. In the past I was guilty of looking at someone and making a passive judgement, but in the past year I have come to realise that there is a lot of reasons as to why people do things they do. I am not proud of some things I have done, but I don't regret...
    chels6 chels6 18-21, F Oct 15, 2014

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    I suffer from HV1. There is no cure.

    It is not genitalia. My disease scares some people away. Reason being it is contagious if transmitted. I hav been rejected and in other cases utterly humiliated. Its a battle I will face the rest of my life. Every so often the cold sores appear on my lips. I take major...
    MysteryBusiness MysteryBusiness 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Hi, So I have this have this worry

    for a few years now that I have never been able to make sense of, I want to though because I need to know I'm not the only one who thinks like this.. So basically, sometimes I get kind of freaked out when I think about the fact that I am me and there is nothing I can do about it...
    BeeKay20 BeeKay20 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    Judging someone is like harming their soul.

    It makes them think they are not good enough which is totally untrue and they soak up every bad comment like a sponge until they can't take it anymore. That is the wrong in our society. Judgmental people who think they are better than everyone else. No people. We all have brains...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2014

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    DreaSmurph DreaSmurph 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    polylovhers polylovhers 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2014

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    Ropster Ropster 66-70, M 1 Response Dec 19, 2014

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    I am not here to judge.

    nobody is perfect to judge others. I prefer giving you advice before criticizing or judging anyone
    jenniebaez1992 jenniebaez1992 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    We ourselves are our hardest critics.

    I can judge, but only what I perceive.. I can't read your thoughts, feel your feelings or experience what you have experienced. Who am I to judge you? You are you, I am not.
    LoveEqualsPain LoveEqualsPain 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    Most of my friends come in all shapes,

    sizes and colours. Considering knowing them for ages. We're practically sisters. If someone new came to town, I'd love to get to know them. There's enough room in my friendship life for new friends :).
    maddieexo maddieexo 13-15, F Nov 11, 2014

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    Trust me!!!! I don't appreciate being judged!

    !! I am in no room to judge!!! If every one would swap shoes for a week or so... I bet we'd all be a little less quick to judge others!!!
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    Judging. Judging always seems to me to be

    about condemnation. Am I being too profound? To judge someone is to hold them up to some idea of what they should be and find them lacking. I am sure when I used to go to church there was a sermon mentioning one of the gospel accounts about judging. I think it was the stoning...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2013

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    It would be nice to have just one person I

    could literally talk to about anything without judgement.
    Blondie355 Blondie355 36-40, F 16 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    My Best Friend.

    i will always be here for you no matter what. im not quite sure you will see this but i'm still writing it. i hate seeing you upset..when your upset i just wish i can take all your pain away. you deserve to be happy.. you don't deserve to be leaving marks on your body.. you don't...
    iwishiwasgone13 iwishiwasgone13 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2012

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    Never judge a book by its cover.

    I tend to come across as having a hard exterior but really I have a heart like a marshmallow
    peacock1 peacock1 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    I want to say in today's society we are all

    about equal rights and such but there are so many people who judge because what some looks like, or they are overweight, religion, race, and if they are gay. What happened with being open minded? If someone does or is something different from you, who are you to judge? If it...
    magzmae18 magzmae18 26-30, F 2 Responses May 17, 2014

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    I am not one who judges others,

    if anyone needs advice on any matter just ask and I will see how I can help
    ziroks ziroks 22-25, M Oct 9, 2014

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    margai margai 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2014

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    Someone once told me

    that deep down everyone has had bisexual fantasies at some point in their life. Most of us choose not to make these fantasies a reality. This suggests that given the opportunity most people would enjoy a same sex encounter if nobody knew about it.
    Peeonme69 Peeonme69 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    People Who Judge Are Insecure...

    I THINK... This judging culture we have in this world right now is mainly caused by peoples insecurity, not the ones who get judged but the insecurity of the ones who judge. Too often people don't trust themselves and they try to hide their own troubles, faults and...
    AwakingDreamer AwakingDreamer 22-25, M 12 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    I am the least indicated person to judge anyone.

    To point my finger upon a single being would imply thrice on to me. For this reason, I will not judge. After all, with a world filled of diversity, there is no single correct path for an ultimate form of truth, illumination, happiness, and peace.
    kittylin kittylin 22-25, F Dec 6, 2014

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    I have been judged before

    and i didn't like having to feel that way so i don't want people i first meet to feel that feeling. No one has the right to judge a person unless they really know them.
    Horse10202 Horse10202 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I been feeling sad this week ,

    and I'm soooo tired of this people adding me in to there circle and not even talking to me, some guys are so annoy they write me all the time about sexual thinks so bored , or just weird ones , I just want to talk to normal people.
    cocokranz cocokranz 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I BELIEVE THAT BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH TO

    POINT SOMEONE'S ELSE'S FLAWS,TAKE A QUICK LOOK AT YOURSELF AND MAKE SURE YOU ARE PERFECT FIRST!!!!!!!!!
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F 11 Responses May 22, 2014

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    I Won't Judge You ...

    My Alter-Ego Will Though
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2014

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    I know many people out there wonder how a

    person can be non judgmental. The trick is simple in theory (not always in practice I admit). First recognize your own faults and weaknesses and accept them. And then, when you learn others weaknesses you remember yours. The key part is that all weakness are equal. No one can...
    Snowhat Snowhat 36-40, M Oct 14, 2014

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    It feels awful to be judged,

    so I treat others how I want to be treated, that includes not judging people
    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Someone once asked me

    why am I so nice to people who treat me bad, I said "I believe that past shapes us into who we are today". During high school, I remembered that guy who was always careless, he used to walk through the school hallways with his head down, he was just a huge mystery to me. People...
    TheLadyYves TheLadyYves 16-17, F 11 Responses Feb 19, 2014

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    I never quite understood

    why people go out of their way to make another person feel horrible about their own life choices. For a person to bash someone they don't even know, on a website full of anons, seems silly. These people aren't affecting your daily life. If someone posts about enjoying a...
    acidpixiedust acidpixiedust 36-40, F 10 Responses