I Won't Judge You

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    1. I’ve learned - that you cannot make

    someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. 2. I’ve learned- that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. 3. I’ve learned- that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. 4. I’ve...
    empress4 empress4
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 12, 2015

    Beautiful Untold Moments!

    by empress4 1) Silence is sometimes the biggest way to say a dear one that i need your attention. 2) Music in ears and legs with sport shoes doesn't always mean a person is jogging, maybe he is running away. 3) Smoking non stop does not mean a person is addicted, maybe he is too...
    empress4 empress4
    22-25, F
    Nov 10, 2015

    You don't have to try

    so hard when you're with me. Take your time and just be yourself and comfortable around me. I accept you.
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    1 Response Nov 4, 2015

    I still wet the bed every night.

    I was traumatised as a kid.
    ChayneC ChayneC
    22-25, M
    Oct 31, 2015
    clariii clariii
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Oct 31, 2015
    clariii clariii
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    The way an empty bench speaks to me,

    without any words, it conveys loneliness, but I don't know it's story. The same thing I can see with someone sitting alone on the bench, sometimes they look to the space next to them, imagining someone there, perhaps someone who is gone, or someone who they can't have, or...
    EnigmaticExistence21 EnigmaticExistence21
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015

    Everyone has their own demons.

    ..their own personal stories. Their own "stuff" as I call it. Some wear that "stuff" on the outside, whether by choice or not. Others work hard to bury it deep, or hide it, while others choose deal with their "stuff" head on, attempting to heal or overcome. What if you were...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    Thoughts from the gym at 5:30am: If someone

    paid you $20 for every mile you walked or ran, or for every time you went to the gym or for every pound you lost....would that be enough to inspire you to change your life? It sure would have made it easier for me to get out of bed this morning :)
    deleted deleted
    11 Responses Oct 27, 2015
    jackcroft jackcroft
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    Who are we to say someone is ugly?

    Fat? Too skinny? Short? There are BILLIONS of people in this world, and yet, everyone is different. That's the beauty of it. We're ALL beautiful. Why should we change to make someone else like us? When really, there's always going to be people in this world who loves you...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Oct 14, 2015

    I Want Someone To Trust Me Enough To Tell Me

    What's On Their Mind And What They've Been Going Through.
    Erie23 Erie23
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2015

    No joke. I've been in situations

    that can back that statement up, which is why I don't judge. Sometimes I do, but I'm usually joking. But if I say you're weird, it takes one to know one. I'm weird too.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    18-21, M
    Oct 11, 2015

    I attended a therapy with my ex.

    He cheated on me and left me for the other woman. We are going to therapy to sort out our relationship as parents and not to get back together. We are already divorced and not on speaking terms. We both acknowledge that not having a "relationship as parents" is not healthy for...
    anatriza anatriza
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    We was long distance relationship over 14

    months, but my 17 years older ex boyfriend just announced me break up without any argue just because he need physical sex and then he told me got a new girlfriend next day, is that too drama?
    Mayber Mayber
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    A plush blanket of comfort

    and destruction bound tightly around my frail body. My breathing is constantly labored and my toes curled under bracing for the next mental blow. Anxiety is a consistent flow of breath taking views from the peaks of happiness and the dark shallow graves from the valleys of fear...
    writingmyrelease writingmyrelease
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Sep 26, 2015
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    7 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    BUT- you're looking for a roommate?

    What gives? You KNOW you CANNOT live with anyone. What's wrong with you? I'm only telling you this because when things start to go south which they inadvertently will, I want you to know something.............I WILL NOT BE THERE TO PICK THE PIECES ONCE AGAIN!!!! You want me...
    thinckb4Uact thinckb4Uact
    26-30, M
    Sep 13, 2015

    Any girls wanna chat?

    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015

    Open up to me and tell me your deepest secrets.

    I am weird enough for me to not judge you. No matter how twisted your mind is I won't care, we're all different with different fantasies and thoughts. Tell me what goes inside your mind and I'll tell you.
    AnonymousJSS AnonymousJSS
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2015

    sometimes I think you say

    or do things to push me away or so that I can say something judgemental. be careful because one of these I just might do that...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2015

    I just wanted to say : I don't judge you,

    but I don't accept your actions and sayings. It is the similar when I can see how sick a psychopath killer is and I can understand his background and motives; even feeling sorry for his soul and for such a path a human being can be lost in but I can't accept it or justify it for...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    Everybody has gone through something

    which has changed them or made them the way they are. Judging them is not giving them a chance to be who they are, and people shine when they show thier true personalities instead of what they think yiu want to see.
    strawberrymug strawberrymug
    18-21, M
    Aug 14, 2015

    if you know me or not I won't judge you at all

    message me if you want to talk
    BradleytheBeast BradleytheBeast
    18-21, M
    Aug 12, 2015

    See... People who are in this group says,

    to each to their own. But most of them judge when they see and old man with a pedophilic tendency, or a hardcore racist. What these "judges" don't realize is that every person's background causes them to be who they are. You can't possibly know what happened to them to make them...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 7, 2015

    I Am a NomadAnd so I roam.

    Half my life, in the dark. *wink*The roaming wanderer, as it were.I am.With no intended course of destination in mind, it turns.Thoughts given in to the calibrating of oblivion and worn out souls .​Not knowing, or even put to thinkable status of where this road may lead, or...
    LadyGallivanter LadyGallivanter
    1 Response Aug 4, 2015

    I'm always so surprised how mean

    and judgmental people on EP can be. They are so quick to label someone without even knowing their whole story. I'm not perfect. I'll admit, I can be a little judgey at times but I try to catch myself. I don't know if people are trolling or if they honestly believe they are so...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2015
    Valzz Valzz
    18-21, F
    Jul 25, 2015

    Why judge you when I can judge myself.

    If I judge you that won't make you any better. (unless you ask for some constructive criticism in the hopes of doing something positive with it). But I can judge myself and usually I listen and make something better from it.
    AbleSankovik AbleSankovik
    18-21, M
    Jul 17, 2015

    At the same time I already have,

    by thinking you like not being judged. Maybe I should instead have joined a group called "I will do my best not to judge you", "I will not judge you in a harmful way", or something along those lines... because I think we always judge people. However, we can decide how we use our...
    FittingUsername FittingUsername
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 12, 2015

    Everyone is different

    and special in their own way. It doesn't matter what you think about your self or what people say about you, Ohh trust me when I say there are people out there who live to label other people, and they live off seeing others break down. Truth is no one has or wears the crown and...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 12, 2015

    As long as people don't judge my foot fet,

    I won't judge them as I'm not a judgemental person.
    IAdoreYourFeet IAdoreYourFeet
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    The bow is here for you

    so you can take a Tess you need your mom and dad so you take 👨‍👨‍👧🚙
    taiyanathomas taiyanathomas
    18-21, F
    Jul 7, 2015

    With the amount of drama

    and against the grain things I've done in my short adulthood, I'm in no position to judge anyone. Instead I prefer listening to others to see how I can learn from them and hopefully offer advice if they want.
    BeauKitty BeauKitty
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

    Somewhere adrift in the notion of time He

    continues with the remnants of a legend. An Odin of perpetual incarnations often disguised by the name of another. Sometimes His clearest reflection I see in mortal facade. Irony His most faithful companion. He is guarded at least in His tormented echo of immortality. I always...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    You're my butterfly. Everything you do,

    everything you say is safe with me. I want you to be you, but for me.
    xruckusx xruckusx
    36-40, M
    Jul 3, 2015

    Judge I remember your stare

    as a "friend" coerced your body, As you sip some sin, we look through crowd of eyes, And out of all the people here, The only one that sees my pain, Like you've lived my life, and I can be you. Drinking what tastes like bitter death, soul weary of cascading demons, You...
    Ymfas Ymfas
    26-30, M
    Jun 30, 2015

    The recent Supreme Court ruling has the

    Christians up in arms and reminds me as to why I have distanced myself from organized religion... Love is love regardless of the package it comes in. I'm pretty nauseated by the condemnation from conservatives and the religious right. What happened to "if you are without sin...
    marladurden13 marladurden13
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jun 27, 2015

    I never would judge anyone,

    it's not my place to judge other people. Let he/her who is without sin cast the first stone.
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    1 Response Jun 11, 2015

    I hate fake people! I hate

    when they say message me or text me, and when you do they have everybody blocked, they put cartoons for there profile photo that looks nothing like them selves! I hate all the fake crap!!! Sure you may not look like you did back in your 20s, neither do I, but i don't lie about...
    ernie222 ernie222
    61-65, M
    6 Responses Jun 4, 2015

    people who say "I don't judge anyone" are liars!

    It's impossible not to judge basically everyone..I try not to be judgmental in a cruel way, but I do value my sense of judgment. if we didn't judge anyone we could find ourselves in some really sketchy situations.. and not just that, but I know I personally can't help but to...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 28, 2015

    Others on here will though.

    I sent a picture of my face to Juicyangel333 and she blocked me. Geez, I mean there goes my confidence for the day. I'm that ugly???
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    8 Responses May 17, 2015

    I know that everyone has their own story,

    they do the things they do because of the things that they have been in, in the past... I know what it is like to go through a hard time.. So I won't judge anyone. I know what it's like being judged.... I am here for anyone!
    FFPower FFPower
    22-25, M
    2 Responses May 14, 2015
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife
    26-30, M
    May 2, 2015

    Believe it or not everybody has something about

    them others may not like or agree with an opinion they hold but that doesn't miraculously make them into bad people. With some things it may even be that's not something I could see myself doing but no less valid for you for acting on. So I don't judge you.
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    1 Response May 2, 2015

    I'm the kinds of girl tht won't judge

    who u are. I won't judge u if ur gay or lesbian I'll support u. I won't judge I'll just get to know better.
    halieya halieya
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 1, 2015

    A close friend of mine has confessed

    that he's attracted to children. Shocking right, but he's still a good friend of mine. Why?Because he's never acted on this attraction and never will. I believe that what you FEEL doesn't make you bad or good. It's what you DO about your feelings. So what has he DONE? He avoids...
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    5 Responses Apr 30, 2015
    fawnathewolf fawnathewolf
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2015

    To be honest at this point in my life it won't

    matter if you judge me because it's Just your funky little opinion
    Iamalostcause Iamalostcause
    22-25, M
    Apr 9, 2015

    Why should I judge you

    when it would be more fun to get to know you?
    ObserverOfLife ObserverOfLife
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 7, 2015
    Iamalostcause Iamalostcause
    22-25, M
    Apr 6, 2015

    I wont judge anyone as I don't claim to be

    perfect myself and as a nudist and aging hippie I believe in live and let live and always willing to help if I can . I get great pleasure from helping others ,my only reward to put a smile on someones face is all the reward I need .
    nakednudist nakednudist
    46-50, M
    Apr 6, 2015

    This is a serious question.

    .. Which should I buy? Which would you rather have?
    hellofromspace hellofromspace
    22-25, T
    5 Responses Mar 29, 2015

    Most people seem to believe

    that you are judging someone if you think negatively about them. You've heard, "I am a good/bad JUDGE of character" The fact is, you cannot be a judge of character. You can DISCERN character but it is impossible to judge it. A JUDGE discerns good or evil and pronounces a...
    sailnude sailnude
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Mar 29, 2015
    Iamalostcause Iamalostcause
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    .....sometimes. If you decide to start taking

    over the world with mind controlling cat videos because someone at the last slice of pizza. Well then, know I am judging you then. :P
    AllTheEmotions AllTheEmotions
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 25, 2015

    Nonsense. We ALL judge each other.

    .. Every single day. It's a thing that the PC police have forbidden, and yet the PC police are usually the most consistent judges. The reason people get confused in life is that there are so many around them that deny their basic instincts. And what happens? Judgement. But no...
    Some1umayNo Some1umayNo
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Mar 6, 2015
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015
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    1 Response Feb 13, 2015
    Profweird Profweird
    22-25, M
    Feb 6, 2015
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