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I Work Hard And Rely On Myself

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    I have always been this way for no real reason. It's one of the hardest things to know you have a problem, but never being able to fix it. I tell myself that i'm never gonna be...
    harperm97 harperm97 16-17, F Mar 19

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    I love to have a hard physical job to do. All the energy put into a job is special and a great out come is desired. When I am done I feel proud and accomplished. I just like to...
    shakeydays shakeydays 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I lost my a lot of my thing this year
    lillymoonson lillymoonson 18-21, F Apr 2

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    I'm constantly telling myself "you really are pathetic." When i am in school, I can work. When I get home, all I do is fool around. I surf the internet, I text my friend, I draw...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I spend a lot of time by myself Because my boyfriend, the man who I thought was the love of my life, never has time for me. His kids come first. Can't put him down for that because...
    jorellie jorellie 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    Normally I work hard, play hard and love even harder...here lately all I have been doing is working working working...I think it is time for this girl to have some fun ;-)
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Here it is...another Saturday that I will spend in my office! Yes, I am thankful to have a job, and one that I enjoy...but I am missing having my Saturdays and sometime Sundays...
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I am tired of working hard for little pay. I am tired of the workers that are paid more, aren't qualified and don't care. I am annoyed that I work hard and he doesn't. I am...
    blicky1234 blicky1234 22-25, M Mar 23

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    I told you guys that I hated myself. Now I am in a messy circumstance and I felt everything was falling apart. I might not finish my degree on time when the financial stance is not...
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M Mar 24

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    I do my best. I would like to think I work hard. I have a semi-important job. I am a somewhat dutiful husband. I do housework, I watch the children, change diapers, cook (when...
    ShakeyJake68 ShakeyJake68 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I hope to always be a work in progress. There's always room for a person to grow and change in a positive way. Right now I'm working on loving myself more. I want to be more...
    couldbeheaven couldbeheaven 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    For the past couple of years i had been very hard on myself.I am not proud for who i am.I can't even say to myself that i look beautiful.I always have this attitude that i am not...
    dreamingnightingale dreamingnightingale 26-30, F Mar 24

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    I promised an update of how my first week went so here we go. So far I've been remembering everything that needs to be done and how to do them. It only took 1-2 times on seeing...
    dragonexpert dragonexpert 26-30, M Mar 19

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    But you've got to work harder at it. Seriously. I believe you have to give MORE to compensate for the distance, because things can dry up real quickly. It can be such a beautiful...
    kissbangkiss kissbangkiss 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    When I was little the people I called family would abuse me and then tell me it is because of something I did. It was always my fault, and even though I am older now and know that...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 18-21, F Apr 8

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    Here the past few days I've been dealing with a lot of insecurity and self esteem. I was talking with my best friend today and I think I have a really good idea of what I would...
    needinganescape needinganescape 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Even when I'm sick, and weakened I can only rely on myself because everyone else makes too many mistakes or just can't do it.
    MafiasHeart MafiasHeart 13-15, M Mar 21

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    If rent boy was normal I wouldnt have been able to destroy him like this. Hes not normal though that should be clear to everyone who isnt in the cult at this point. The biggest...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 11 hrs ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 6

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 8

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    I would say 85% of the time I'm by myself. I can always rely on myself to have a good conversation with. Plus I always laugh at all my jokes. I can't think of another person as...
    solojo solojo 31-35, M 8 Responses Mar 23

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 4

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 8

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    I find this is too typical of most people need to rely on alcohol to have fun. I know I don't and I have no interest in it.
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Relying on others is a lot like trying to play frisbee with a stupid hipster who keeps tweeting about how cool frisbees are, thus being unable to actually play frisbee. For...
    Jonesing4nice Jonesing4nice 18-21, M Apr 7

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    The only person that will always be there for me is myself.
    biancawho biancawho 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Since I've been away I've had a lot of time to myself. Or alone, rather. At first it was really hard. I just lost my best friend, and it was the hardest thing I've ever faced. On...
    LillyRaven LillyRaven 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm looking to find myself again is it ok that I go places by myself for example bars, movies, restaurants?
    BrittTHart BrittTHart 26-30, F 1 Response 51 mins ago

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    I know this is a story as old as the stars. So here I am. Surrounded by my three kitties who are probably the closest I will get to having children since I refuse to start a family...
    lnvisible lnvisible 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    When I was failing my Algebra 2 class back in Sophomore year I never told anyone I was doing bad in the class. Whenever other teachers and my parents/friends asked me how I was...
    Sigint8 Sigint8 18-21, M Mar 25

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    It's so hard for me to love myself. I hate everything about my body, hair, and teeth. I always wear makeup because I am extremely insecure. I'm not that person who complains about...
    sabgonza sabgonza 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    A lot of times, I wish I can change myself. Sometimes I wish I had a different body shape, different eyebrows, that my skin looked cleaner. Sometimes I wish I was smarter, more...
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    So to be clear you are pvssys who have proven upon multiple occasions that you will back down rather than fight. You have never displayed any other behaviour and you never will...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 8 hrs ago

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    It took me a while to realize that somewhere along my path of life I actually managed to lose myself in reality. I lost old friends and gained new ones and realized I had changed...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I wouldn't call it loving myself, but rather that I find myself to be one awesome, one of a kind person. I am intelligent, hard working, easy going, open, and honest, to name some...
    bkf2 bkf2 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    Yeah, I am myself, 100% I'm the original G. So many goddam people always ask me how and why I change how I act and behave and stuff depending on where I am and who I am with...
    bluemetalchick9 bluemetalchick9 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    It was thrown in my face today and i couldnt help but blame myself for having shared it in the first place. Im only human. I did not think this friend of mine would do this to me...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 27 mins ago

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    Growing up was hell. It was hard to to say the least. Lost my father to suicide. Never met the guy. His family has never cared or wanted to be a part of my life. Even when I needed...
    Iammyownworstenemy79 Iammyownworstenemy79 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    ( Short story: Prologue) My last hope Everything stops. Times stands still. There he lies on the cold ground. Here I’m standing just staring down as death whispers on the end...
    TweDee TweDee 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I'm a cleaner, and when I got home on Wednesday evening, I noticed my hand hurt a bit, but didn't think too much into it and went off to bed. Well yesterday morning I woke up and...
    suzieb1971 suzieb1971 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    For me working out is an outlet when I'm having bad days I push myself even harder. Not only does it relieve tension but I can work on my body while doing it. Today we had boot...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Why does everything always have to be so hard? But I guess that's life... I went from one addiction to the other. From self-harming to drugs and then back to self-harming myself...
    MonjaVictor MonjaVictor 16-17, F Apr 1

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    Yep, right now. I officially can declare my life ruins, I did it myself, yet I'm calm. I don't have a steady future with weird education choice and a bunch of stress-related...
    ErieNemisa ErieNemisa 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I can't sit around and do homework and act normal anymore. I am so sick and tired of putting on this stupid mask of happiness. I want to just break down already. I can't stand the...
    mysteryhatcat mysteryhatcat 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    My husband is a hard worker, he works 70 hour weeks in order for me to stay home and care for our baby. I know he is tired when he gets home, and he would like to do some thing to...
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    You know who had a great work ethic? The Nazis. And we all know how that worked out. "My mother always told me, son, you do the best you can; my father always told me son, you be...
    treewhiz treewhiz 51-55, M Apr 5

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    I work at hardees and my boss is the most immature rude 57 year old I've ever met or even heard of. He says mean things, talks **** about everyone, embarrasses us in front of...
    Nessybabi Nessybabi 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Hey everyone. I hate that this experience topic even exists. Your pain, whatever it is, you don't deserve it. Even if you think you do, you don't. No one deserves this kind if pain...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F