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I Worry About Being Alone

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    Recently I haven't had much luck in the relationship area. I just got out of a relationship about a month ago, and have yet to be in one since. I like being single don't get me wrong. Its so much fun going on dates and all, but I still catch myself wondering if I will find that...
    dreamer234 dreamer234 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    It's not really about being alone but more about being the only one trying to maintain my relationships. I find myself being the first to text anyone. They never go out of their...
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    It seams the more and more gifts and things I develop, the further away I am from other people. I don't talk to people very often... Because they just don't understand. They may...
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    I don't like it when people worry about me.. It adds a burden to me.. I start feeling too responsible for their feelings Don't get me wrong I like people caring for me and what...
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    When I don't have anything to worry about, I worry that I'm not paying close enough attention to see someone that needs help and then I worry about them.
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    Half of me despises being alone, because eventually the loneliness goes away and Im left with this apathetic view towards life that makes it hard to give a damn about anything...
    seabassep seabassep 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I left school in May after finishing my GCSE's meaning i am currently had/having all of May,June,July and August off for a summer. My sister still goes to school all day and both...
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    I like being alone. I just don't like being left alone with my thoughts. Especially if I'm feeling down.
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    I hate being alone. But its even worse whe youre surrounded by people and you still feel alone and empty. Im trying really hard to be happy but its so hard.
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    Nothing beats being alone. You can do whatever you want without anyone having a say at it's nice.
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    This will sort of be a stream of consciousness vent. I don't feel totally comfortable writing this here. Putting out my problems on the internet like this for strangers to read but...
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    Want to win lottery. Just to not worry for awhile. But not much luck yet. Sigh.
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    I just had this epiphany that I really wish I wouldn't have had. Ever since I was little people have been leaving me. At 4, my mom and older brother and sister moved away. My mom...
    Jgil99 Jgil99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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