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I Worry About Being Alone

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    Recently I haven't had much luck in the relationship area. I just got out of a relationship about a month ago, and have yet to be in one since. I like being single don't get me wrong. Its so much fun going on dates and all, but I still catch myself wondering if I will find that...
    dreamer234 dreamer234 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    Just as the title says, I'm aging gracefully and I am told that I still have that sexy look about me, therefore I am not worrying.
    1stEdition 1stEdition 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Getting on God's path the way I am I know that my life is in his hands so I can't for the life of me tell you why I still worry.
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    nocturnalhound nocturnalhound 31-35, M Aug 18

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    Crystalcastle Crystalcastle 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 20

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    Or at least I'm Always thinking about them.
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    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I hate this horrible down lonely feeling that overcomes my every being once in awhile :(
    Bnb30 Bnb30 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 10

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