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I Worry That He Isn't Physically Attracted to Me

A place where men and women can share their stories about this subject. 36 People

    Since I Gained Weight

    my weight isnt horrendous i am still shopping in my regular store and everything but sex has diminished some. its crazy how us women can love and want our men pot bellies and all but we get a little roll and all bets are off. men suck!
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2008

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    I Don't Know If He Is Anymore

    I wouldn't know anymore if he's physically attracted to me. He doesn't tell me if he is or not. He sought out other women to be with emotionally online so I just figure I'm not. He doesn't say either way, so I am left holding the bag and wondering about it. I've asked, all he...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 1 Response May 31, 2011

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    The Case Is Slowly Building That I Am Correct...

    Either I am going crazy, over analyzing or I am correct. When people are engaged in intimate petting (lord i sound like my 8th grade sex ed teacher). Like I was starting to say...when people are fooling around there is a sexual heat and or a craving that drives the frenzy...
    sunshine4luv sunshine4luv 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 21, 2011

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    "Was My Weight Ever An Issue For You?"

    So this is the 3rd time I started this, hopefully I don't screw it up again. Ok I'll give a little background to put the situation in context. He and I have been talking for 3 years. It's a different kind of relationship, maybe even foolish on my part. I say that because we...
    SimplyComplex SimplyComplex 22-25 2 Responses Nov 3, 2008

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    He Says Im Over Reacting

    ive been with my bf 3 yrs and have a baby together. he dosent treat me like he used to. ive put on a few pounds after our child but who dosent. i will no longer get undressed in front of him. he makes me feel ugly . ive found pics of other women on his fb and phone. of course in...
    breezymarie27 breezymarie27 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2012

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    Unspeakable Fatness

    So, today he and I were talking on the phone and I told him a story about what my grandmother had said to me today. I was telling my grandmother how my stomach hurt, and I've been getting tests to see what the problem is. She said to me, "Do you think it is because you have...
    SimplyComplex SimplyComplex 22-25 3 Responses Nov 16, 2008

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    And When I Say He

    I mean everyone I've ever met. And when I say "worry", I mean "know" that "he" isn't.
    fitterhappiervelcro fitterhappiervelcro 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2008

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