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I Would Like For You To Get To Know Me Before You Judge Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 386 People

    Don't Judge Me Untill You Know Me

    This is how it is for me all the time I am judged before the person even before we shake hands. This is what happened at the mall. My friend and I were goig to get some food but first she wanted to see if her aunt was working. So we did. My friend told her aunt who I was and she...
    monam monam 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    I Have Many Sides

    I am not someone that fits into one or two catagories and I admit that there are many things about me contradict each other.  Sometimes I frustrate myself  at how I ven't even figure myself out at times.  I may seem like an anti-social person at times when really...
    SpikeM SpikeM 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    It Concerns Me That I'm Beig Judged Even On This Site.

    I just thought of something being on here is being judged. What I mean is someone will write you all intrested in what you have to say. It won't be three days later the person quits writting Weird right. I'm begining to think I shouldn't bother writting back to those trying to...
    monam monam 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2011

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    Yes

    Or Maybe I won't. But that depends on whether you're worth it or not.
    FreeFallWall FreeFallWall 22-25, M Oct 28, 2010

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    And In Return

    I will grant you the same courteous respect. In fact, I wont judge you at all because I myself am not perfect and would never want to be. (((Edited)))
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    It Takes A While...

    I'm not sure if I wrote a story about this yet... Oh, well... sorry, if it's an repeat, peoples! ;-) Anyhoo, I would like to claim that I have a simple mind and simple emotions, simple likes and dislikes. It's true that I try to live a simple life and try to fit into a ordinary...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    Why Bother?

    Although I'd like others to get to know me first before judging me, I know I can't always get what I want. People will always judge you, even when they claim otherwise. Still, I'd like my friends and potential friends to get to know me before assuming I'm some sex-crazed, pervert...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Aug 3, 2011

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    I've Been Seeing A Lot Of This Lately

    ... people who "think" they "know" the "scoop" on me when they only know some tiny fraction of my situation (Anyone I see today did not know me before like 10 years ago at an absolute maximum--- and that's assuming they have been in this city all that time themselves, which is...
    lesshissMORECAT lesshissMORECAT 31-35 3 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    Judgement Should Only Come With Sufficient Knowledge...

    Human beings are multifaceted and you should get to know everyone before casting judgement. Some people I have met dislike me very quickly because of preconceived notions they might have. I have a highly visible physical difference (a wheelchair user due to Cerebral Palsy) and I...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    I'm A Different Kind Of Animal!

    I have a 'military' accent because I've moved a lot and picked up some southern twang as well as Yankee doodle. I am not in the military. I have just moved a lot. I've been looking for myself. Just because I've moved a lot does not make me 'worldly.' Far from it. There are so...
    Aw8ingf8 Aw8ingf8 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Wrong?

    People tell me that making friends with new people is fun and easy.  How come then every time I try to talk to a new person or get closer to an old acquaintance I feel like they think I am boring, wrong, or just don't like me after only half of a conversation.  ...
    InfiniteUnity InfiniteUnity 18-21, F Feb 28, 2010

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    I Am Me!

    I ask that question as an open ended one.  It is something that some feel that they already know the answer to.  To those people, I ask how are you so all knowing?  You don't know me.  You don't know what my life has been unless you've talked to me in-depth...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 Jan 30, 2010

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    Yes I deleted an earlier post

    that had a photo of myself. Now that I know that I don't have to post pictures and I have learned EP a little better I can actually feel better about posting. I wanna say thank you to the few people who were actually nice about it and took my post seriously. Others who didn't...
    BeatuifullyComplicated BeatuifullyComplicated 26-30, F 1 Response May 2, 2014

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    I Would Love That.

    I would like for people to get to know me before they judge me. Most people just take things at face value without trying to look beneath the surface. I wish people would look beneath my surface & get to know me, my situation, & my circumstances more before they judge me...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F Apr 11, 2010

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    No one is perfect .I would not judge you.

    I understand that people do certain things which I may not like.I will not judge them negatively.Of course if it affects me,then I don't know what I will do.Whatever I do I will try to be polite about it.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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