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I Would Like For You To Get To Know Me Before You Judge Me

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    I've Been Seeing A Lot Of This Lately

    ... people who "think" they "know" the "scoop" on me when they only know some tiny fraction of my situation (Anyone I see today did not know me before like 10 years ago at an absolute maximum--- and that's assuming they have been in this city all that time themselves, which is...
    lesshissMORECAT lesshissMORECAT 31-35 3 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    I Would Love That.

    I would like for people to get to know me before they judge me. Most people just take things at face value without trying to look beneath the surface. I wish people would look beneath my surface & get to know me, my situation, & my circumstances more before they judge me...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F Apr 11, 2010

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    I Have Many Sides

    I am not someone that fits into one or two catagories and I admit that there are many things about me contradict each other.  Sometimes I frustrate myself  at how I ven't even figure myself out at times.  I may seem like an anti-social person at times when really...
    SpikeM SpikeM 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    It Takes A While...

    I'm not sure if I wrote a story about this yet... Oh, well... sorry, if it's an repeat, peoples! ;-) Anyhoo, I would like to claim that I have a simple mind and simple emotions, simple likes and dislikes. It's true that I try to live a simple life and try to fit into a ordinary...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    And In Return

    I will grant you the same courteous respect. In fact, I wont judge you at all because I myself am not perfect and would never want to be. (((Edited)))
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    I'm A Different Kind Of Animal!

    I have a 'military' accent because I've moved a lot and picked up some southern twang as well as Yankee doodle. I am not in the military. I have just moved a lot. I've been looking for myself. Just because I've moved a lot does not make me 'worldly.' Far from it. There are so...
    Aw8ingf8 Aw8ingf8 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Wrong?

    People tell me that making friends with new people is fun and easy.  How come then every time I try to talk to a new person or get closer to an old acquaintance I feel like they think I am boring, wrong, or just don't like me after only half of a conversation.  ...
    InfiniteUnity InfiniteUnity 18-21, F Feb 28, 2010

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    Yes I deleted an earlier post

    that had a photo of myself. Now that I know that I don't have to post pictures and I have learned EP a little better I can actually feel better about posting. I wanna say thank you to the few people who were actually nice about it and took my post seriously. Others who didn't...
    BeatuifullyComplicated BeatuifullyComplicated 26-30, F 1 Response May 2

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    Why Bother?

    Although I'd like others to get to know me first before judging me, I know I can't always get what I want. People will always judge you, even when they claim otherwise. Still, I'd like my friends and potential friends to get to know me before assuming I'm some sex-crazed, pervert...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Aug 3, 2011

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    Get to know me first,

    it'll make a world of a difference. I like talking, but sometimes I don't feel like talking. I like the color red, and my favorite book series is the Charely Davidson series by Darynda Jones. I don't like 2 hurt people, and I don't believe in animal cruelty. I am so much than...
    skyblue1600 skyblue1600 13-15, F May 1

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    Yes

    Or Maybe I won't. But that depends on whether you're worth it or not.
    FreeFallWall FreeFallWall 22-25, M Oct 28, 2010

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    It Concerns Me That I'm Beig Judged Even On This Site.

    I just thought of something being on here is being judged. What I mean is someone will write you all intrested in what you have to say. It won't be three days later the person quits writting Weird right. I'm begining to think I shouldn't bother writting back to those trying to...
    monam monam 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2011

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    Judgement Should Only Come With Sufficient Knowledge...

    Human beings are multifaceted and you should get to know everyone before casting judgement. Some people I have met dislike me very quickly because of preconceived notions they might have. I have a highly visible physical difference (a wheelchair user due to Cerebral Palsy) and I...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    I Am Me!

    I ask that question as an open ended one.  It is something that some feel that they already know the answer to.  To those people, I ask how are you so all knowing?  You don't know me.  You don't know what my life has been unless you've talked to me in-depth...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 Jan 30, 2010

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    No one is perfect .I would not judge you.

    I understand that people do certain things which I may not like.I will not judge them negatively.Of course if it affects me,then I don't know what I will do.Whatever I do I will try to be polite about it.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    Don't Judge Me Untill You Know Me

    This is how it is for me all the time I am judged before the person even before we shake hands. This is what happened at the mall. My friend and I were goig to get some food but first she wanted to see if her aunt was working. So we did. My friend told her aunt who I was and she...
    monam monam 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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