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I Would Like to Know Why Someone Would Smack a Crying Child

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    I Don't Remember What I Did

    I never remember what it is that I did when I was 6.  Later I remembered why he hit me, but never when I was little. What I do remember, was my dad slapping me. I didn't see his hand coming, just felt the open hand strike my face, turn my whole head sideways. I immediately...
    hylierandom hylierandom 41-45 7 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    Lost Touch

    Hello, I am lying in my bed alone, My wife no longer sleeps here. It's all too complicated to explain, but, the lonliness is dreadful. I really should leave rather than absorb the hurt she can clobber me with so easily but then I would miss my kids. I have now spent far too...
    HeartofaTinMan HeartofaTinMan 61-65, M Dec 16, 2012

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    Makes My Blood Boil

    When I see this happening I just want to scream at the adult..WHY?????  Is it because you are too stupid to find out and understand why they are crying?  It is that you are so uncaring to find out if there is some discomfort that they are experiencing?  Are you too...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 3 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    It Only Makes It Worse

    I got this before-I-give-you-some-thing-to-cry-over several times - and, several times, the end result. I was quite vocal before, during and after a bare-bottom spanking and Mom didn't stint when it came to a followup. It was bad enough at home, but when she took me shopping and...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Mar 18, 2013

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    Think They Do It Just To Prove Then Can

    for me it stopped at 12 years old as i made it very clear i would hit back and i had the skill and abilty to do so and not long after 12 years he beat me one last time and others saw it and i was gone it was very scare to go to a new famly at 12 years old but it was really the...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Dec 16, 2011

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    Hint, Hint, Dad!

    I was probably six or seven and I was going to have a sleepover at the end of the week. My dad resided to not let me go so as many seven year old, I had a temper tantrum. I started crying and he hit my face. I started crying even harder. He hit me again and again, each time...
    Flags67 Flags67 22-25, F 23 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR !

     Yesterday, while sitting in the waiting room waiting to be seen by my doctor, there was a woman, a young girl actually.  She had her name or a name tattooed on the back of her neck. I noticed because I sat directly behind her.    On her lap was a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    I Was Told This Too Often

    My mom always says to me "stop crying before I give you something to cry about" has anybody else been told this?
    MidgetLightning MidgetLightning 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Why?

    A child is crying in front of you. Your child. They feel bad, upset, unloved, unwanted. What are you going to do? Hit them? Punch them? Kick them? Strangle them? Suffocate them? Why are you going to hurt them? You find them annoying? You find them loud? You can't get them to...
    ImOkayNow ImOkayNow 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2011

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    Why ELSE Would They Be?

    It just compounds the problem, whatever it might be. Maybe the adult feels better after doing it, but as a spanked kid, I can tell you they feel worse. I know I did. You know if the child in question is yours whether he or she is going to shriek and carry on, especially after a...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    What The Hell?!

    The kid already OBVIOUSLY feels bad, so what the eff is your problem and what is smacking the kid going to achieve? Some people are complete tools.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    I Remember It All Too Well...

    I don't even know how old I was....I just remember my dad threatening me "I'll give you something to REALLY cry about....."I would already be upset or hurt or whatever it was at the time.....sometimes crying so hard I couldn't breathe and start a coughing fitthen my mother would...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Crying Child

    It better never happen in front of me cause if it happens, nice as I am, I will turn out evil and, I may smack that person instead.  One thing about me, I am very protective when it comes to children and no one needs touching or hurting an innocent kid / child / baby, no matter...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 18, 2011

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    What the Hell...

    Why would someone even think about hitting a crying child, or a child period! I mean, that it totally and completly messed up, on all levels! It just makes me sick that someone would do this to a child, but I do know it happens.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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