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I Would Love to Be Held At Night

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    I Miss It Soooo Much

    It's not like I live alone. I am married, have been for 22 years. But I might as well live on another planet for the distance between us. He sleeps with his back to me. On the very edge of our king size bed. If in the night he happens to roll towards me, he quickly slides back to...
    lonelymom2 lonelymom2 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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    I love to be in bed with my boyfriend.

    To fall asleep with my head on his chest, listening to his heart beat. His chest rising and falling. His strong arm pulling me in to the space in his side, draped over me and his hand resting on the dip of my waist. Feeling so safe. I love waking in the middle of the night to...
    leo1292 leo1292 18-21, F Jan 15

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    I like to be held all night long!

    ! Anything can happen when you held really tight!!!
    Khaliberri Khaliberri 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Tonight it's just one of those nights

    where I wish I could fall asleep being hold by my ex gf.. It'll never happen, but if she did I would feel a huge calming feeling. That would put me right to sleep.
    txblank91 txblank91 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    Not in a sexual way, seriously.

    I just want to be held at night. I feel safe that way, and i sleep better, when someone is next to me ...
    EvilMiracle EvilMiracle 16-17 1 Response Mar 2

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    There is nothing better

    than cuddling under a blanket with a hot cup of chocolate on a cold winter night with someone special
    Midnigght Midnigght 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    I Want To Date; I Am So Lonely.

    Even though I am young, I want to date and cuddle at night. It would be great just to feel another person's warmth and enjoy each other's company.
    straightupreal straightupreal 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    I know i sound like I'm being fast

    but i want someone told hold and care for me. Just show me that they love me.
    Coolgirl16 Coolgirl16 16-17, F Mar 5

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    I came across something

    that said lonely people sleep with more pillows. I find it sad that I sleep with more than seven. I think that it would be amazing to held while asleep. It looks so loving and comfortable. Maybe then I would sleep with less pillows.
    jazzamore jazzamore 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 15

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    A Little Love Would Be Nice

    To be held and told that all would be all right with the world is what I could use right about now. It is nice in theory anyway. I can wish for it to come true one of these days. I think everyone deserves this kind of treatment in their lives.
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 13 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Been Sleeping Alone For Too Long Now.

    When I was first with my husband  ( then boyfriend), we only had a single bed to share. We could not escape each other even if we tried. Well we moved up to a double and then a super king size ( kids in bed ), but whatever chance we got we were cuddled up together following each...
    pixelbest pixelbest 46-50, F 7 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    143ily 143ily 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    The night is when I start to feel my lowest.

    My mind races and I think too much. I feel safer when someone is holding me. As though they're a barrier, keeping all my negative thoughts at bay. It's not often that I'm granted this luxury, but it would certainly be helpful tonight.
    chels32 chels32 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    'Cause it's always so cold,

    .. Haha!! Jk but it would be nice!
    DG952 DG952 13-15, M Feb 23

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    Apparently it's official,

    guys are more sensitive than girls. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2665908/Big-boys-dont-cry-BUT-deep-theyre-emotional-women.html Sorry girl.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 23

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    at the moment, so many things are going on in

    my life, wished there was someone to curl up with, wrap their arms around me and tell me everything will be alright, even if it may not be.. just needing to hear and feel it. I have been single for 5 months now..
    dayz25 dayz25 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    ameliaandmore ameliaandmore 16-17, F Jan 14

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    It’s impossible to accurately recreate the

    feeling of lying next to someone. Oh, I do try my damndest to imagine her next to me, but it’s never even close to the same. Sometimes at night, for a minute or two, I’ll lie on my back, bring my left arm across my chest almost to my right shoulder, and grab the wrist or...
    MrTimothyMcNeil MrTimothyMcNeil 18-21, M Feb 15

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    I Can Only Dream

    My hubby has never been one to hold me at night and if i cuddle into him while he sleeps he wakes up in a fit. So we have been married for almost 12 years and I can count in my hand how many times we have held each other at night.
    saltyorsweet saltyorsweet 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    Through The Night

    I would really like to be held through the night. To erase the stress of my day For someone to tell me it will be ok In their arms I could feel safe and free and to know someone truly loves and cares for me Perhaps to make tomorrow a better day To take all the pain and sorrow...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    To be held is the best thing ever in my opinion

    and I love it. And to be held through the night would be amazing.
    apwnn apwnn 16-17, T 1 Response Mar 24

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    Curled up with the one you love,

    the intense heat of your bodies in a tight embrace. He's whispering sweet nothing's in your ear as you snuggle closer to him. That's my dream right there. I love cuddling. I'll just lay on my bed at night, the other side of the bed is cold and unused. I want to be with someone...
    slytherinseeker98 slytherinseeker98 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    Hold Me

    After days work is done and there's nothing more Come climb in bed and shut the door Leave today's troubles and tomorrows to dos Snuggle in close, hold me near as we snooze Your arms encase me, your hands seem to pleasure In slience we hold, we love and we treasure. My head...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    I love being in bed with my boyfriend.

    I love resting my head on his chest and listening to his heart beat whilst his strong arms as I fall to sleep
    leo1292 leo1292 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Ohhh I love this so much especially

    after making love, it's the best feeling ever to be held in a loving embrace<3
    JamieleeEchelon JamieleeEchelon 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I just want a man to lie down behind me

    and wrap his arms around me and just hold me. I want a man to submit to me, & just lay on my chest in between my legs & listen to my heartbeat. I want to curl up into him and wake up to his scent in the morning. I want to feel the warmth of a man's body on mine, pressed to mine...
    sassyjayyy sassyjayyy 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I remember the look in your eyes,

    The lust that lay beneath The way you bit your lips The way you held my hands The shivers you gave me, When you'd whisper things in my ear All seemed so unreal, I loved, Like never before Suddenly the dream comes Crashing down, Breaking me into pieces, Breaking us into pieces...
    prettybr0wneyes prettybr0wneyes 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    Just held and cuddled,

    you can be the big spoon I can be the little one :)
    fireyes fireyes 22-25, F Apr 17

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    I Just...

    ...want someone to hold me, make me feel safe and happy..
    peanlo peanlo 18-21, F 37 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    AriesNinja AriesNinja 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    Being Held....

    If there is one thing I miss in my current situation is that I don't have arms wrapped around me when I sleep. Yes, I can wrap them around the person I share my bed with but because of physical disabilities they can not do the same to me I miss that the most. A hand draped over...
    midnightcallerman midnightcallerman 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 15, 2012

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    It Just Feels So Right

    I get lonely at night and just want to be held... by someone I love and loves me that is. Close and passionately..... him breathing on my neck.... his stomach against my back... his hands caressing my body.. tight and don't let go. BOY don't I want to be held.
    lovelybutterfly123 lovelybutterfly123 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    I Pretend I Dont Care...

    I act and... most of the time I am... tough. Its hard for me to let people in... but one day I want to have one man all to myself who comes home every night and holds me lovingly in his arms....
    Trueredwoman Trueredwoman 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Because

    Pillows don't hug back.
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    I have never had the pleasure of being held at

    night. I wish I could experience it soon.
    Dannylove90 Dannylove90 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 6

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    I crave to be held at night sometimes,

    to feel loved and protected regardless of how i look and regardless of my alopecia. Somebody to hug me tightly without giving a **** about my baldness. For someone to kiss my forehead and tell me they love me dearly. I feel it wont happen for me sometimes? I still have a bit of...
    AchingSoul AchingSoul 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 20

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    Closeness

    I do not know why, but it's very important. It is a kind of intimacy that is, at least to my mind, beyond sex. Anyone can have sex, even complete strangers, but who may be lying next to you, to hug, to cover your whit his hands. To give you the feeling that everything is fine and...
    MayaMoonShadow MayaMoonShadow 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I finally found someone

    that loves to hold me! Falling asleep in his arms makes me feel like nothing else in this world matters at that very moment! And waking up, and having him roll over and wrap his arms around me for 30 minutes, and drifting off before having to get up and face the world is so...
    marcpsp marcpsp 41-45, M Feb 15

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    I believe the cuddling side of a marriage would

    be more magical than anything, just knowing the person who's arms you fell asleep in loves you and will be there when you wake up. 💗
    katierose23 katierose23 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I Need

    I wish someone would comfort me. And make me feel better.
    treegurl94 treegurl94 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    If just once, I could see what it feels like to

    just be held.. I desire for that sense of longing.
    perpetuallyindecisive perpetuallyindecisive 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I wish I could be held on night.

    Me and my boyfriend went on a camping trip with some friends. That was the first time we ever slept through the night together. Ever since then I crave to be held every night by him. I love the feel of his body pressed up against mine his strong big arms wrapped around me. His...
    veronica78254 veronica78254 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I Blame Teddy Bears

    Maybe because I traded sleeping with a teddy bear for a significant other , but It's nothing better than being held at night ... Or falling asleep in someones arms and waking up next to them . Or that moment when both of you wake up together for a split second , and give each...
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F Oct 27, 2013

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    Being held at night provides the best sleep

    there is, so long as I'm being held by you :)
    Heartbeatangel Heartbeatangel 18-21, F 2 Responses May 5

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    While I Cry

    Just hold me Thats all i ask Hold me When the tears roll down As i wish for the pain to end For the darkness in my life to descend Hold me When i cry for someone to understand Just to feel anything good Hoping for better days Hold me Thats all i ask Oh i really wish you...
    ForeverOnABoat ForeverOnABoat 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    I wish i was held at night.

    I don't ever get any attention off my husband and i don't know why :( he only ever wants to have sex once a week and only cares about himself.. Only kisses me once to say goodbye for work.. I want and need more!
    carmz87 carmz87 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 23

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    I'm not much of a hugging clinging type of

    person, but at night when I'm all alone and the deep hidden thoughts start to arise from the dark depths of my mind, I just want to be held. Tightly. I want to be able to smell that cologne. Feel the warmth. Know that I'm not alone. Run your hands though my hair as I fall asleep...
    halfbroke halfbroke 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Being There For Someone…

    In this moonlight night, I thought about someone and about everything what they told me and I came to the conclusion that they are a lovely dream, someone who can give so much love. In my dream they are holding me, my skin is feeling the warmness of them, they are full filling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    Making myself go to bed!

    I need to end this "up all night" habit of mine. Why do I stay up and think so much when I have the chance to be held by someone who loves me more then life? It's absurd! I'm going to snuggle!!!! Goodnight 🌹💏✌️
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 5

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    Especially on a night like tonight.

    I'm in bed all alone, and all I can do is dream of being held
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 4, 2013

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