I Would Love to Be Held At Night

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 13,886 People

    41-45, M
    Feb 4, 2016

    I'm afraid I've never had a proper hug all

    night in bed...I would love to have that just once. Or for a week.
    Sinjintiger Sinjintiger
    41-45, M
    Dec 13, 2014

    hugging something when I go to sleep is what I

    do best, but being hugged when I go to sleep is one thing that has never happened to me. I want it to happen but I just have to hug them back. I just love to hug. *hug*
    DichTheWolf DichTheWolf
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 13, 2014

    To be held is the best thing ever in my opinion

    and I love it. And to be held through the night would be amazing.
    apwnn apwnn
    18-21, T
    Mar 24, 2014

    A man wrapped around me is always a great

    pleasure. The feelings are captivating too! I must do something about my lonely nights!
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Oct 14, 2014

    It's cold, and I'm tired

    and achy. I'm just want to be held.
    Sammiebaby1016 Sammiebaby1016
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Feb 21, 2015

    Not in a sexual way, seriously.

    I just want to be held at night. I feel safe that way, and i sleep better, when someone is next to me ...
    EvilMiracle EvilMiracle
    Mar 2, 2014

    i was a difficult kid

    and my mother says she used to had the toughest time to putting me to sleep. slightest shift of her body would make me got up and all in panic.....i still remember holding her dupptta tightly in my hands so that she could not go away while i slept...i never had a peaceful sleep...
    snuffal snuffal
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 27, 2015

    I Need

    I wish someone would comfort me. And make me feel better.
    treegurl94 treegurl94
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    Love the feeling of someone holding you close.

    . Making you feel safe and warm... That's an amazing feeling <3
    tigersfan195 tigersfan195
    22-25, F
    Dec 11, 2014

    I just want a man to lie down behind me

    and wrap his arms around me and just hold me. I want a man to submit to me, & just lay on my chest in between my legs & listen to my heartbeat. I want to curl up into him and wake up to his scent in the morning. I want to feel the warmth of a man's body on mine, pressed to mine...
    sassyjayyy sassyjayyy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2014

    I miss my other half

    since we recently separated its been hard on me getting used to not having someone to hold me I would do anything to sleep next to my other half again I miss her and I want her back!!!
    linvingthelfe linvingthelfe
    51-55, M
    Dec 6, 2014

    It was only a few days

    but it was enough to get m addicted. Your chest rose and fell with grace, your arm always on my shoulder. Every time I moved you would move with me. I found all your cute spots that would make you smile or twitch. Everything was sweet, I didn't want to sleep. I KNEW it would be...
    Beatenrodent Beatenrodent
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2014

    The night is when I start to feel my lowest.

    My mind races and I think too much. I feel safer when someone is holding me. As though they're a barrier, keeping all my negative thoughts at bay. It's not often that I'm granted this luxury, but it would certainly be helpful tonight.
    chels32 chels32
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2014

    I Want To Date; I Am So Lonely.

    Even though I am young, I want to date and cuddle at night. It would be great just to feel another person's warmth and enjoy each other's company.
    straightupreal straightupreal
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2013

    by someone who gives me sureness,

    where I have trust and who really loves me.
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2015
    SonOfLight115 SonOfLight115
    36-40, M
    Nov 27, 2015

    A Little Love Would Be Nice

    To be held and told that all would be all right with the world is what I could use right about now. It is nice in theory anyway. I can wish for it to come true one of these days. I think everyone deserves this kind of treatment in their lives.
    cinfullynn cinfullynn
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Feb 13, 2008

    at the moment, so many things are going on in

    my life, wished there was someone to curl up with, wrap their arms around me and tell me everything will be alright, even if it may not be.. just needing to hear and feel it. I have been single for 5 months now..
    dayz25 dayz25
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2014
    itsmenhiceee itsmenhiceee
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2014

    To feel strong warm arms around me.

    ...the heat that radiates off of (SO). The comfort of your head on his chest, the heart beat rhythmically soothing...Yes, I miss that! The closeness of snuggles....
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Feb 25, 2015

    Literally the only thing I miss about being

    with someone is being held at night. Having someone there. It's one of the best things humans can do for each other...just to be there through the night.
    AntiveninKiss AntiveninKiss
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 25, 2015

    If only I could find a woman,

    that would spend the time, and have the patience to accept me for who I am.
    lonelyanddivorced lonelyanddivorced
    51-55, M
    Oct 14, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bethccaa bethccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 21, 2016

    I wish i was held at night.

    I don't ever get any attention off my husband and i don't know why :( he only ever wants to have sex once a week and only cares about himself.. Only kisses me once to say goodbye for work.. I want and need more!
    carmz87 carmz87
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jan 23, 2014

    Making myself go to bed!

    I need to end this "up all night" habit of mine. Why do I stay up and think so much when I have the chance to be held by someone who loves me more then life? It's absurd! I'm going to snuggle!!!! Goodnight 🌹💏✌️
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 5, 2014

    I've forgotten how it feels to be held at night

    . It's been a long time. We sleep in the same bed, but no touching, cuddling, just an invisible wall dividing us. I really miss the feel of a woman's body :(
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2015

    Being There For Someone…

    In this moonlight night, I thought about someone and about everything what they told me and I came to the conclusion that they are a lovely dream, someone who can give so much love. In my dream they are holding me, my skin is feeling the warmness of them, they are full filling...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Aug 19, 2008
    41-45, M
    Mar 22, 2016

    my eyes are sleep deprived

    and my head is numb with pain and clutters....its chilly tonight after the rain! and i remember how rain has a special meaning in our life! you bring peace and you sooth my nerves........at this moment all desire to be hugged tightly and held close to your heart........as it...
    snuffal snuffal
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    I miss this. The pillows are not enough.

    The TV doesn't cut it. I don't want just anyone. There is only one that I want. He is out there somewhere. Be safe my wish, until we meet.
    1976toes 1976toes
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2014

    This past weekend was a long,

    but wonderful weekend. Saturday night, I slept over with him. Actually, I was tired and decided to take a short nap while I waited for everyone else in the house to go to sleep. Next thing I know, I woke up to him kissing me.. As groggy as I was, I managed to tell him I would go...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx
    18-21, F
    May 13, 2015

    Right now, I just need to lay down

    and be held by someone I care for really deeply. But sadly, that's not going to happen for a long, long time.
    LittleMidnight LittleMidnight
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2015
    deleted deleted
    Jan 15, 2015

    I miss a woman's touch her warm sweet breathe

    up against my skin... "spread her wings and take my body in, but I'll be gone by the break the break a day... putting my misery on display! " Gary Alan
    Hardboy48 Hardboy48
    26-30, M
    Jan 13, 2016

    I have been married about 2.

    5 years and with my wife for 10 years overall. Sadly my wife is a light sleeper and not demonstrative of positive feelings. She does not like to cuddle at all I miss this as I am the other way, to be honest we have drifted apart and i miss the feeling of being in a mutually...
    Nomoretomorrow Nomoretomorrow
    41-45, M
    Mar 22, 2015

    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12
    26-30, F
    Oct 15, 2014

    Especially on a night like tonight.

    I'm in bed all alone, and all I can do is dream of being held
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 4, 2013

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bethccaa bethccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 21, 2016

    If just once, I could see what it feels like to

    just be held.. I desire for that sense of longing.
    perpetuallyindecisive perpetuallyindecisive
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    yes to be held and really feel the other person.

    ...feel the energy of his breath....feel his heart beat beating with mine....see the colors of our essence mingling and uniting our aura ' s together...feeling and seeing with his arms wrapped around me gentle.....I fall in a content sleep dreaming of forever with my beloved...
    RainbowBMFF1122 RainbowBMFF1122
    56-60, F
    Jan 22, 2016

    I miss that more than anything.

    ..to be able to just lay my head on a guy's chest, with his arm around me, maybe playing with my hair while we talk. I fall asleep easily like that, but only if I really know that guy..I can't just go pick up some stranger & be like "hey can we cuddle tonight?"lol Though I can...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

    Not in a sexual way really,

    more like the hamsters you might see snuggling at the pet store. lol. so peaceful.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015

    I'm lying in bed right

    now Cause' sometimes all I wanna do is be touched All I wanna do is be loved lalala so touch me.
    Sen22 Sen22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2016

    Hold Me

    After days work is done and there's nothing more Come climb in bed and shut the door Leave today's troubles and tomorrows to dos Snuggle in close, hold me near as we snooze Your arms encase me, your hands seem to pleasure In slience we hold, we love and we treasure. My head...
    soulrunher soulrunher
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Apr 11, 2013

    I Just...

    ...want someone to hold me, make me feel safe and happy..
    peanlo peanlo
    22-25, F
    33 Responses Aug 7, 2010

    Ohhh I love this so much especially

    after making love, it's the best feeling ever to be held in a loving embrace<3
    JamieleeEchelon JamieleeEchelon
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2014

    While I Cry

    Just hold me Thats all i ask Hold me When the tears roll down As i wish for the pain to end For the darkness in my life to descend Hold me When i cry for someone to understand Just to feel anything good Hoping for better days Hold me Thats all i ask Oh i really wish you...
    ForeverOnABoat ForeverOnABoat
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 1, 2013


    Pillows don't hug back.
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Feb 23, 2008

    Been Sleeping Alone For Too Long Now.

    When I was first with my husband  ( then boyfriend), we only had a single bed to share. We could not escape each other even if we tried. Well we moved up to a double and then a super king size ( kids in bed ), but whatever chance we got we were cuddled up together following each...
    pixelbest pixelbest
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Nov 17, 2011

    I miss you so much it hurts.

    I miss to watch your sleep,I need you here. I'm watching the movie that always makes me cry:') I feel lonely and I can only think in how much Im missing you.
    deleted deleted
    Sep 8, 2015

    It Just Feels So Right

    I get lonely at night and just want to be held... by someone I love and loves me that is. Close and passionately..... him breathing on my neck.... his stomach against my back... his hands caressing my body.. tight and don't let go. BOY don't I want to be held.
    A1Csladiie A1Csladiie
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 1, 2013
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