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I Would Love To Be Held

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    I Feel Like A Loser As I Think About This All The Time...

    I worry I am going to end up a bitter, lonely old woman who deep down just needs to be held and who craves physical contact. Cut out the old part and this person could be me which is a scary and not so nice thought. Sometimes I just feel so uncertain, so unworthy and useless that...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2011

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    I Would Love To Find Someone To Hold Me And

    I have been married now for some 20 years, but never a hug, a warm rub on the shoulders, a hold of the hand nor a kiss. No matter how many people are around you, without that warm reassurance of physical contact it is a cold and lonely life. Al you non-touched peoples out there...
    vibesgate vibesgate 61-65, M Feb 17, 2012

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    Too Cold, Too Lonely

    I'm in the corner again. The corner which No one Pays any attention to. This corner is cold, Cold as the arctic tundra. I feel like I'm gonna be frozen here. Each day, I'm in the corner I slowly loose My Soul... Each hour, My tears start to turn From water to Blood. I'm so...
    YamiNoSukai YamiNoSukai 16-17, F Jan 2, 2011

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    Pain

    I was in love in a way i've never felt before, I had found my best friend. I should have known her childhood had such intense consequences. She was abandoned by her mother and met her father after she met me. It seems to have corrupted love for her, to the point that the...
    joshuaroper joshuaroper 18-21, M Jun 3, 2011

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    Married & Alone

    I've been married for six months when were dating things were great he was affectionate playful everything a girl could ask for two weeks into things changed we had our problems about it and now were doing good but it's like pulling teeth for him to let me show him affection let...
    sarahoaks sarahoaks 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2012

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    Lovely To Be Held

    I would love to be held....By strong arms, relaxed, secure, feeling sexy, how amazing is that?  .....And now I am - sometimes.  What I have discovered is it's not the arms themselves, but having that option that makes all the difference...!  Oh, isn't life full of promise...
    javeachica javeachica 61-65, F 6 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    Whisper The Night Away

    Hold me close and whisper the night away. Share my fears and my happpiness. I'll share your hopes and dreams. Tell me it's all going to be ok. I'll make all your pain go away. Hold me close ... and whisper the night away.
    hatethestress hatethestress 18-21, F Jan 18, 2012

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    Connection

    I am a guy living in the chicago area. I just got out of a relationship. I am a little hurt and trying to get over things. I would like to make some connections. Any girl interested in just talking....maybe hugging...possibly cuddling a massage and a movie. I would love to here...
    odin5461 odin5461 22-25, M Jan 24, 2012

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    Every Day

    i love to be held . lately i just want to explode or cry or run . i don't know . just being held always helped when i was younger.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 14, 2010

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    I Yearn For You

    Oh how I wish you would hold me my love How I want to rest in your arms To feel your skin touch mine To have your breath mix with mine For you to hold me would be heaven Soon
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 6 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    My Soul Is Crying

    I rarely shed tears - I believe they convey weakness and I have to be strong. Always. I'm not allowed to cry or be sad or be angry or be too anything. Feels like my soul is crying all the time; like I swallowed hot coals and they need to be extinguished. I don't need much...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    Sigh....

    I think I miss being held more than anything. Since my separation & eventual divorce...I have had a hard time sleeping at night....and I think that this is a major factor. I love falling asleep while being held. It's a comfort thing...makes me feel calm & like all is right...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    Please?

    I would love it so much. I just want to feel loved and wanted. I feel like nobody cares most of the time. When I see people hugging in the street and around me I think it's cute but I have to turn away after a couple of seconds because I can't look. I just get this horrible...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2009

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    Hey Husband Pay Attention!

    Love making is not just to do the did then walk away, every time you do that you make me feel like a prostitute, it had been months since the last time him and I had sex. This morning I decide to "get me some action" I still got it his member still works, so as usual ...
    LimarSing LimarSing 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2010

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    Yupp

    I always thought I would hate being held or cuddled. Mainly because I realized how much I don't like my little sister stealing hugs and trying to cuddle with me. It's really annoying. But then sometimes I'm alone and I get this tension in my chest and emptiness all around me and...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    Years Without Love

    For a number of years I had not been kissed and held but this year things have changed and now I do get occasional kisses and hugs and sometimes its when I am not expecting it to happen and its wonderful. So many years of not and thinking it would never happen again and now it...
    shall13 shall13 36-40, F Dec 14, 2011

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    Alone In A Crowd

    Ever feel...Around your loved ones ...alone and not needed or a failure? Join the crowd.
    dadof3and3 dadof3and3 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Crave Waiting Arms

    I'm gone for five days every week. I get lonely. Starve for conversation, especially female conversation. Because of the transparency of a women and hugging and intimacy. I can't wait to get home to open arms. I want it. But sometimes I have to go find them. Why aren't they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 28, 2013

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    Wouldn't We All ???

               - Seriously, it's a part of human nature. To want to be close to someone, held, loved. It's not something that everyone gets but everyone wants it just the same. I'm no different. Sometimes I come off as too needy, but for the...
    MaidenWolf MaidenWolf 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    Alone In A Crowd

    Ever fee...l around your loved ones ...alone and not needed or a failure? Join the crowd.
    dadof3and3 dadof3and3 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Being Held

    I like to live on my own but occassoinally I think it would be nice to watch a DVD being held in the comfort of a friends arms,being held gives you the feeling of security,with a safe warm feeling.      I have failed relationships so have stood back and with help managed to...
    thecarer thecarer 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 22, 2010

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    I Never Have Been

    Even when I was but a child I would be the one holding my mother to ease her pain from the divorce... But who will ease my pain and loneliness? I don't matter enough to anyone that they would bother to even notice how depressed and lonely I am. I've never had arms around me...
    swordsaint swordsaint 22-25, M Sep 4, 2011

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    Close My Eyes

    I just need to be held. Feel strong arms around me Forget the world Just be in the moment Feel understood safe and protected valued loved I close my eyes and can almost feel it where are you??
    hartleybroken hartleybroken 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2010

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    A Special Feeling

    For 18 years I had been with the same person, we used to hug each and every day, and yet i failed to realise just how precious that feeling was.  Now, 5 months into our seperation, I miss this physical contact more than I can explain.  I do get hugs from my girls and they bring...
    Falcran Falcran 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 23, 2011

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    Never Been In A Relationship

    I've never been in a relationship. I've had several close friends who were girls over the years, even had a crush on some of them; but I'm perpetually incapable of acting on them. Recently, through my interactions with one of my friends (whom I've come to realize I'm beginning...
    tapdn tapdn 26-30 1 Response Mar 7, 2012

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    It's One Of My Dreams

    Sadly I have yet to be held. I have held a few guys I've gone out with, but it has never really been reciprocated. So I honestly don't know how it feels to have someone wrap their arms around you in a loving embrace. I imagine it's the most wonderful feeling when someone cares...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 27, 2010

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 14, 2010

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    Yeah

    I havent been held in almost a year...and it's terrifying. I never get hugs either, unless it's from my parents, who I see maybe once a month. I wish someone would hold me again.
    10yson 10yson 18-21 3 Responses Jan 30, 2011

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    (sighs)

    To just be held by someone dear and whispered in the ear "I love u" it takes my breath away...
    AngelsReflection AngelsReflection 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2009

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    I Miss Being In His Arms

    Being held is one of those little things in life that you often take for granted. I always loved being in his arms but I wish I would have spent more time there. After 2 months of not having anyone to hold me it seems like forever till I will be back in his arms. Each night I lay...
    MrsLucas MrsLucas 22-25, F Jun 30, 2010

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    I would love to be in a relationship where we exercise together like go running outside or lift weights at the gym. I've always thought that'd be a definite bonus in a relationship...
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    I would love to go into the abyss.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    So warm and comforting be held by the one you love. I like to be spooned, feeling him breathing into my neck, his big hand holding my stomach, the other arm under my neck. Feeling...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I would actually love to have someone I can be me around on a daily basis and just having that click. Being able to go shopping (Which even for a guy, I love doing) and just...
    Zestyginge Zestyginge 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    Advice anyone?—So I am a 17 year old male in high school (I'm basically the biggest loser ever, so most everybody hates/dislikes me anyways), and I will be going into the Air...
    Phoenix259 Phoenix259 16-17, M Jul 6

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    I was on a train he other day looking out at the fields pass by. I wished that I could be dropped, completely naked, into one of them and have to make it back home. I started...
    Bartimaues Bartimaues 31-35, M Jul 16

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    Maybe this would be good to try with my husband since he cannot have sex with me till late September but maybe it would lead to it which would be bad lol
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Hey, im new to this site and would luv to answer any question, or if you want to just talk, im just a teenager myself so would luv to talk to someone x
    jademariexx jademariexx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Male or female. Preferably female I guess but would be interested in chatting to guys as well. Would like to know how easy it is to start it up and the rewards you enjoy doing it
    buck691969 buck691969 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I want to have a relationship with a girl where she is naked all the time .this would be fun
    ballboy24 ballboy24 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    well yes I would like to get to know somebody from the State of Adelaide, South Australia someone who I can get along with and understands my situation
    anime25 anime25 22-25, M Jul 6

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    I would like to have multiple pen pals from all around the world
    Bluenox Bluenox 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Can't lie... This seems like it would be slipperly awesome lol 💦
    LovelyLadyJ LovelyLadyJ 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    i would acutely like some friends the r my age not in his or her 60 or older or 40 or older!
    paige100 paige100 13-15, F Jul 12

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    My name is sonya and I hope people would begin writing in here who are looking for pen pals. To break the ice here I go! Name :Sonya flynn Age: 29 Country :Ireland Hobbies...
    Dreamsphere3 Dreamsphere3 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Hi everyone, I need help. Does anyone know a way to physically shift into a wolf? If you can help please leave a comment, It would mean the world to me. If anyone is having my...
    xXchaos71Xx xXchaos71Xx 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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