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I Would Much Rather Be Single Than Unhappily Married

This is for single peeps who aren't so desperate for companionship that they'd settle for anything just to avoid being alone. 2,583 People

    Why there are some many beautiful girl, who have a nice body, big booty and everything but can't keep a man? Because there's just crazy!! Man won't stay with them cause they're...
    razac2 razac2 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    I Like Being Single - Well I can honestly say I have been both in the last 4 years and I like single better . I like doing what I want when I want.  Picking my friends, doing...
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    Proud To Be Single!!! - Yey! Yippeee! its not bad being a single fella :D
    janjanzano janjanzano 22-25, F Oct 22, 2013

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    Unhappy And Married - My husband and I unhappy married together but afraid of letting go,maybe afraid what the people would say or maybe dont want to disapoint our kids or maybe...
    Durangos Durangos 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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    Absolutely! - I know so many couples who don't seem to be happy. They don't seem to try and work together. I feel at that point, why not get a divorce? I dont buy the 'it's for the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 22, 2012

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    Single Vs. Unhappily Married - I would much rather be single than unhappily married.I know far too many unhappy married people. They often stray from their families, and find other...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F 2 Responses May 20, 2013

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    ~There Are Things In Life Much Worse Than Being Single~ - I admit it, I suck at being married! I don't intend to place all the blame on my ex-husbands because obviously there was...
    Sweetblonde2014 Sweetblonde2014 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    when i was a kid i felt so proud of my parents for me they were the best parents in the world...for the tym when i came to knw before marriage they were jst unfamiliar to each...
    desforlyf1992 desforlyf1992 22-25, F Mar 12

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    Single Pringle than unhappy nappy (lame title) - I have heard so many stories where young women and even men are forced into marriage and when they do make love it's usually the...
    Ifsa Ifsa 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24, 2013

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    It's So Sad To See - I have friends who have no business being married to one another... ...i know...who am I to say that? Nobody...but I observe them and it's sad... I don't want...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2012

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    Me Too - i'm getting out of a marriage....and we better of friends than lovers...and now is the time to this, i don't want to end up, hating each other, my ex thinks the same way...
    annetteflet annetteflet 41-45, F 4 Responses May 31, 2010

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    The Loneliest Place In The World - Is sitting at the dinner table together with someone you are no longer connected to, alienated, nothing to say, trying to profess continued love...
    BrainiumCranium BrainiumCranium 56-60, M Nov 25, 2012

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    Oh Look! What A Coincidence! - Single for two years and no prospects for changing it. Doesn't one need friends first? Or a social life? I have neither, and honestly, I think I'm...
    mononoaware mononoaware 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Yes !!!! - Well both have their pro's & Con's. So if you are married, talk with each other and try to do anything and everything possible to get back on track. If you both can't...
    HotDrumSticks HotDrumSticks 51-55, M Apr 11, 2012

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    Me Too! - Life is simply too short to live in a relationship where fighting is the norm. I need love, companionship, intelligent conversation, understanding, and a peaceful...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    As Much As.... - As much as i want a relationship, and marriage, and to be with someone, i will not put myself in the situation where i am, he is, or we both are unhappy - there is...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 31-35, F Oct 14, 2011

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    What I Have Seen Since Being Single - I never saw it before. Or at least never paid attention to it before. now, when I look back at the time I was with my ex, was I that blind...
    favestril favestril 36-40, F Nov 19, 2012

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    What I Realized About Mariage - Growing up I always said I wouldn't get married… here I am almost 7 years married to the same guy. I regret getting married so young. I was 19...
    Sweetmamax2 Sweetmamax2 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    Got Out At The Right Time - Since leaving my marriage two years ago I have never been happier. I still have all the same worries but this time I have only me to rely on so I find i...
    ArielAngel ArielAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2012

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    Life As A Single Sounds Good - Yeah, I don't think I would last long in a marriage if it wasn't good. I rather be single forever then getting married three times to the wrong men...
    lanacat lanacat 18-21, F Jun 5, 2012

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    *** - i will rather b single that to be married, because i am married now and my life its not how i expected it , too much jelousy from him and its too much to handle, i am...
    ida84 ida84 26-30, F 4 Responses May 4, 2011

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    Broken Heart - my ex cheated on me with my very best freind
    stilllooking4love stilllooking4love 51-55, M 5 Responses Mar 24, 2013

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    The Thing Is... - I have been fully immersed in both scenarios and can say with total honesty that no matter how lonely some of these nights are, they are always better spent that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Being Single Is Really Not So Bad - The worst kind of loneliness is the kind that you experience when you are right beside the person you love and feel that way. It hurts right to...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 25 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    I'm dating a separated girl and there's so much that she used to hold against her ex. She values their one biological child and the other two of his from previous marriage. He's...
    User00123 User00123 26-30, M Mar 5

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    Been There Done That - I've been married and in a relationship that just wasn't fun. I know that they require work from both sides but if both have called it quits it just ins't...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2010

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    Being Single Is Much Better Than Unhappily Married !! - I believe that Being single is an experience that has both the bright and the gloomy side . . but being unhappily married...
    Rodwali Rodwali 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2012

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    My Verbally Abusive Relationship - I remarried my husband 15 years ago when he got ill and had to have a very serious operation. His family wasn't going to help him and he knew it...
    Sneakyd Sneakyd 66-70, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    My Dreams - I've been married twice.. both of wich has ended...the last marriage I felt like I was alone even though he was there..no sex in marriage for bout a year...no sign he...
    lonelywoman2 lonelywoman2 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2012

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    Being Alone And Enjoying It Until The Right One Comes Along - I am a nearly 30 year old female, I would love to meet the 'right one' but I am not prepared to give up my liberty for...
    1lorusa1 1lorusa1 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2013

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    Shadowboxer - When you're young, all anyone wants to tell you is that you have to work at a marriage.  It's not all fun and games, don't get too excited.  The biggest single...
    RascallyRabbit RascallyRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    I Am Thinking About Divorce - Today during lunch, my husband basically admitted that he is not happy. Why I could not just say "I'm not happy either" I do not know. Instead I said...
    leftwantingmore leftwantingmore 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    I Speak From Experience - I'm sure you've all known people in unhappy marriages or this group would not have been created. Well, my brother and his wife started off okay, but then...
    justwant2bloved justwant2bloved 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    I know a lot of people who are married because they were expected to be married. They just married the first suitable person they met, rather than search for their true love. I...
    kalila37 kalila37 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    Im Sick Of Putting Up With His Crap - Ive been married 9 yrs, at first he was a dream come true, never been happier in my life. As time went on, between his destructive hateful...
    50freenflirty 50freenflirty 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    Some Days Are Better Than Others - I once read a book about choosing the single life. It made one point that really stuck with me. It said that we all know relationships are hard...
    kristijo2000 kristijo2000 31-35, F Nov 30, 2010

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    Drop The Calls! - Today during dinner, it happend again! I'm blowing off some steam, venting about my job to my husband and..............his cell phone rings. This is a fairly...
    VoiceGirl VoiceGirl 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2012

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    Better To Be Happy Than With Someone Who Makes You Feel Alone - I am 45 years old and have had my ups and downs. I have been in relationships where I have sacrificed to the point...
    Feb 11, 2013

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    Risk Vs. Reward - I have never been in love or even been on a date. I thought that I dealt with unrequited love several times, but it was just a limerence as a result of a mental...
    starchman starchman 26-30, M Sep 8, 2012

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    Being Single Doesn't Have To Be That Bad - Being alone, whether through a break up or through other circumstances, can be a very painful experience. I know that. But sometimes, it...
    Scarlet2 Scarlet2 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    Single Or Married? - I would rather be someone's girlfriend than someone's wife. I have observed too many relatives and friends who have gone thru painful divorces and separations...
    afdragon afdragon 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2010

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    I Rejected A Married Man And Glad That I Did - i posted an ad on a dating site a while back and a particular guy responded. Even though I was specific about the fact that I wanted...
    QueenMariposa QueenMariposa 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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