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I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 368 People

    Not For Me

    Its not for me I'm afraid... I need something more than just a wham-bam, thank you ma'am experience, usually from a drunken hook up! I need to have something in common with the other person, a connection, friendship, respect, trust, affection; More than just the physical; its...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F Jun 13, 2012

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    Never Again.

    ok, before i had a one night stand, i never thought i would and never planned on it. then i gave sex to a guy and he told me that's all. so after i don't want to see him again and i want to make sure no guy will ever pull one on me like that ever again! girls, you don't want one...
    rashadaalia rashadaalia 18-21, F Oct 3, 2009

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    One Night Stand,no Way!!

    Would i ever have a one night stand? NO, i wouldnt have a one night stand.People are suppose to be in relationships to find love,not lust, but many people fail miserably. I cant and wont have a one night stand, i have more respect for myself than that and a lot more people these...
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    Never In A Million Years

    I'm a virgin. (Yes, there are still some of us left in the world.) But even though I'm a virgin, that doesn't mean I'm ignorant about sex or its consequences. I joined this group for the same reason that I joined the group "I am a sensitive person". People and...
    MadMarch MadMarch 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    You Can Call Me Prude But

    I will never have sex on a first date or have a one night stand. Making love is something you do with someone you have a connection with and are in love with. If i was so horny i needed a one night stand i would find other solutions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Oh For Pete's Sake!

    Thes is becomin silly.  Ah wood ne'er hae a one nicht stain!  Wa au ther a lot ay groops loch thes?  If somebodie made a groop named 'i wood ne'er rape a sheep' Ye woods au bettar join! Ah woods ne'er dae a lot ay eval deeds!! By tha wa, am English!  An...
    MeisterWolf MeisterWolf 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    Mark My Word On That

    Listen, I have commited my fair share of sins, I am not a saint.  Quite frankly I never intend to become one.  However, there are certain things in me that despite the sweet temptations, I just can't allow myself to sucumb into it.  Is a matter of a personal code! I never had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    Can't Shake The Love Connection

    As sappy as this sounds, I am driven by intimacy. I can't stand the thought of sleeping with someone I don't have a connection with. Don't get me wrong. I really enjoy good sex but I would much rather make love. Plus, if a woman is willing to have a one nigher with me, she has...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 9 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    No Possibility Whatsoever.

    Call me old fashioned, but for me sex is something to be shared with someone special... someone that I'm completely in love with... not a total and completele stranger, which is what a one night stand entails. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with the people that do choose...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 27, 2010

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    I think they are disgusting.

    Why would you want to have sex with someone you know absolutely nothing about, or someone you just met? What if you get pregnant, or get someone pregnant? Then you have a child with someone you care nothing about. Why put yourself in that situation? Why have a disgusting sexual...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2014

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    A Little Too Late

    i can't say i would never have a one nighter because i already have, a few of them, in the past. what i did when i was younger, and after a few drinks, i wouldn't do now. back then, i didn't have the same wants and desires that i have now. don't get me wrong, i had a damn good...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 43 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    Never Would Do Anybody This Way

    I wouldn't have the heart to ever do anybody this way. Because I've been done this way before. I never would've thought it was going to happen to me and the worst part is I fell for every stupid line this guy said. And another bad part is that I lost my virginity to him and...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Not My Style!

    Since one night stands go against my personal beliefs, I strongly doubt I'll ever have a one soon, or at all.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2012

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i would never have a one night stand, and i'll admit that i am lacking in confidence, and i am a quiet and shy guy, but even if that type of situation arose, i still wouldnt go through with it!!! if other people want to live their lives like that, then "respect" i...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M Dec 22, 2009

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i just dont understand the point of one night stands!!! i know they are becoming more and more popular, but just cos they are becoming popular, doesnt necessarily mean its the right thing to do!!! i mean if a man and a woman get together and consent to one another having...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    Never Had & Never Will ...

    Im a modern person but I dont think having one night stand is trendy or cool .. Im not old-fashioned to understand that sex is important for human beings but still .. one night stand is outta topic .. We are not animals .. though we are but we approved ourselves to be clever than...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 26-30, F 12 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    I Know There Is Already a Group

    I know there is already a group for people who have never had a once night stand, but this is for people who would never have one and are against having them themselves, as opposed to the other group, which could be people who might just not have had the chance to, but would...
    Hairstyle Hairstyle 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    And.

    ....why the **** not ?
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

     EVER. I need there to be love in the relationship and connection.  Not just sex. One night stands don't involve love. It is just a fleeting thrill. I can't feel good about something that has no meaning and doesn't last. Love and connection lasts and means a lot...
    BrokenDoll BrokenDoll 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    I Don't Believe In One Night Stands

    never again...I think they are dangerous and you risk sexual diseases and being taken down by married men or their wife or girlfriend if they find out He man who raped me was married and a navy officer - I shouldn't have trusted him and I made a big mistake ... it should not be...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jun 14, 2011

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    Where's The Love?

     I could never have a one night stand, there would be no passion in it, no love therefore it would be meaningless. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    One Night Stands Are Boring And Completely Predictable.

    One night stands don't end up like the cool ones on TV or in movies. One of my closest friends got her daughter that way, and another contracted a permanent STD. It sounds awesome doesn't it...sloppy drunken sex that you slightly remember sounds epic not to mention amazing.
    brenner21 brenner21 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    I dont have anything against it I just don't

    get it Ur just gonna be horny again in a hour or the next day.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 3, 2014

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    I Thought I Would Never...

    Never say never. Sometimes things just happen. If life was perfect I would have never had any one night stands, but things happen that are out of your control. So you end up having a one night stand. It doesn't make you any less of a person. It just means the guy is a loser...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    One night stands are just about sex I can take care of that myself, I really want to connect with someone first.
    klaraklara18 klaraklara18 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Out across the endless sea,I would die in ecstasy.
    Meghna99 Meghna99 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I remember goin out to a strangers can that i met on craiglist and took him in the back of his car he was big and warm in me then he let loose filling me up xx
    jess153 jess153 22-25, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I really want to have one with a girl
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    to be honest most of my sexual encounters have been one night stands. i've only had a handful of boyfriends/casual partners. when i'm not working at the bar i work at i usually go...
    amylfs92 amylfs92 22-25, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    it was in the back lane he followed me and pushed me against the gate. he picked me up and put himself in me he felt amaizing it was such a thrill i enjoyed it and he must have...
    jess153 jess153 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I had sex with a guy i barely knew and he was alot older than me.... the crazy part is I actually didn't feel that bad until my friends judged me really bad for it
    Snowbunny8711 Snowbunny8711 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    To be honest, the whole concept baffles me... sex is a very intimate thing and the enjoyment of the closeness to another person is the thing that is most important to me. I can...
    AAJames AAJames 26-30, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    All I needed was one night with you
    MrRaymond MrRaymond 51-55, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Ashamed about this but it still massively turns me on.... Was away on a course for work - it was a two day thing and we were all in the bar in the evening -- everyone was very...
    tk421helmet tk421helmet 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    Except for her... The next time I see her I'm gonna practice my 1 2 on her face
    HisBeautifulDisaster HisBeautifulDisaster 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    Avetaw Avetaw 66-70, F a week ago

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    I could be bounded in a nut shell and count myself a king of infinite space, were it not that I have bad dreams.
    Weirdfacedkidii Weirdfacedkidii 16-17 Aug 19

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    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    I've never been into having sex with perfect strangers. While I don't diss anyone that does... I won't fully understand it. At least until I have sex with more than one person.
    Sophia117 Sophia117 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I swore up and down as a young adult that I would never let my children watch Barney or play too many video games.....well little did I know how much Video games would play into my...
    Allie9273 Allie9273 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Not even once. I always thought it'd be really awkward the morning after. Like, what if you wanted to get out of bed but they're still there by the morning? It'd be odd I think.
    Radomguy1000 Radomguy1000 22-25, M Aug 18

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    Really? No ones had one in this group well I'll. help you get hard at least
    wedgies1ut wedgies1ut 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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