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I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

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    NOT Again At Least

    NOBODY'S PERFECT... I'VE DONE THE ONE-NIGHTER WITH A GUY AFTER HAVING ONE TOO MANY... FELT BAD AND CHANGED MY NUMBER THE NEXT DAY... RUDE, I KNOW... MADE MY PEACE WITH THAT. I'VE ALSO DONE THE 'I'M SO HORNY AND JUST GOTTA HAVE THAT FOR ALL OF WOMAN KIND' TOO... YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    I think they are disgusting.

    Why would you want to have sex with someone you know absolutely nothing about, or someone you just met? What if you get pregnant, or get someone pregnant? Then you have a child with someone you care nothing about. Why put yourself in that situation? Why have a disgusting sexual...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    No Possibility Whatsoever.

    Call me old fashioned, but for me sex is something to be shared with someone special... someone that I'm completely in love with... not a total and completele stranger, which is what a one night stand entails. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with the people that do choose...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 27, 2010

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i would never have a one night stand, and i'll admit that i am lacking in confidence, and i am a quiet and shy guy, but even if that type of situation arose, i still wouldnt go through with it!!! if other people want to live their lives like that, then "respect" i...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M Dec 22, 2009

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    I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

     EVER. I need there to be love in the relationship and connection.  Not just sex. One night stands don't involve love. It is just a fleeting thrill. I can't feel good about something that has no meaning and doesn't last. Love and connection lasts and means a lot...
    BrokenDoll BrokenDoll 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    I dont have anything against it I just don't

    get it Ur just gonna be horny again in a hour or the next day.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 3

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    A Little Too Late

    i can't say i would never have a one nighter because i already have, a few of them, in the past. what i did when i was younger, and after a few drinks, i wouldn't do now. back then, i didn't have the same wants and desires that i have now. don't get me wrong, i had a damn good...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 44 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    I Thought I Would Never...

    Never say never. Sometimes things just happen. If life was perfect I would have never had any one night stands, but things happen that are out of your control. So you end up having a one night stand. It doesn't make you any less of a person. It just means the guy is a loser...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    I Don't Believe In One Night Stands

    never again...I think they are dangerous and you risk sexual diseases and being taken down by married men or their wife or girlfriend if they find out He man who raped me was married and a navy officer - I shouldn't have trusted him and I made a big mistake ... it should not be...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jun 14, 2011

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    Never Again.

    ok, before i had a one night stand, i never thought i would and never planned on it. then i gave sex to a guy and he told me that's all. so after i don't want to see him again and i want to make sure no guy will ever pull one on me like that ever again! girls, you don't want one...
    rashadaalia rashadaalia 18-21, F Oct 3, 2009

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    And.

    ....why the **** not ?
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    Never Would Do Anybody This Way

    I wouldn't have the heart to ever do anybody this way. Because I've been done this way before. I never would've thought it was going to happen to me and the worst part is I fell for every stupid line this guy said. And another bad part is that I lost my virginity to him and...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F Jan 11, 2013

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    One Night Stand,no Way!!

    Would i ever have a one night stand? NO, i wouldnt have a one night stand.People are suppose to be in relationships to find love,not lust, but many people fail miserably. I cant and wont have a one night stand, i have more respect for myself than that and a lot more people these...
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    Oh For Pete's Sake!

    Thes is becomin silly.  Ah wood ne'er hae a one nicht stain!  Wa au ther a lot ay groops loch thes?  If somebodie made a groop named 'i wood ne'er rape a sheep' Ye woods au bettar join! Ah woods ne'er dae a lot ay eval deeds!! By tha wa, am English!  An...
    MeisterWolf MeisterWolf 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    You Can Call Me Prude But

    I will never have sex on a first date or have a one night stand. Making love is something you do with someone you have a connection with and are in love with. If i was so horny i needed a one night stand i would find other solutions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Not My Style!

    Since one night stands go against my personal beliefs, I strongly doubt I'll ever have a one soon, or at all.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2012

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    Not For Me

    Its not for me I'm afraid... I need something more than just a wham-bam, thank you ma'am experience, usually from a drunken hook up! I need to have something in common with the other person, a connection, friendship, respect, trust, affection; More than just the physical; its...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    Where's The Love?

     I could never have a one night stand, there would be no passion in it, no love therefore it would be meaningless. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    Can't Shake The Love Connection

    As sappy as this sounds, I am driven by intimacy. I can't stand the thought of sleeping with someone I don't have a connection with. Don't get me wrong. I really enjoy good sex but I would much rather make love. Plus, if a woman is willing to have a one nigher with me, she has...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 10 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    I Know There Is Already a Group

    I know there is already a group for people who have never had a once night stand, but this is for people who would never have one and are against having them themselves, as opposed to the other group, which could be people who might just not have had the chance to, but would...
    Hairstyle Hairstyle 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    Never In A Million Years

    I'm a virgin. (Yes, there are still some of us left in the world.) But even though I'm a virgin, that doesn't mean I'm ignorant about sex or its consequences. I joined this group for the same reason that I joined the group "I am a sensitive person". People and...
    MadMarch MadMarch 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    One Night Stands Are Boring And Completely Predictable.

    One night stands don't end up like the cool ones on TV or in movies. One of my closest friends got her daughter that way, and another contracted a permanent STD. It sounds awesome doesn't it...sloppy drunken sex that you slightly remember sounds epic not to mention amazing.
    brenner21 brenner21 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    Never Had & Never Will ...

    Im a modern person but I dont think having one night stand is trendy or cool .. Im not old-fashioned to understand that sex is important for human beings but still .. one night stand is outta topic .. We are not animals .. though we are but we approved ourselves to be clever than...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 12 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    Mark My Word On That

    Listen, I have commited my fair share of sins, I am not a saint.  Quite frankly I never intend to become one.  However, there are certain things in me that despite the sweet temptations, I just can't allow myself to sucumb into it.  Is a matter of a personal code! I never had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i just dont understand the point of one night stands!!! i know they are becoming more and more popular, but just cos they are becoming popular, doesnt necessarily mean its the right thing to do!!! i mean if a man and a woman get together and consent to one another having...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    What can I say? I've had one night stands before. Actually, a few of my relationships/friendships developed after a one night stand. If I would have expected companionship or...
    PricelessJourney PricelessJourney 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    They make me very sad, lonely and empty inside. Like I wasn't good enough to be seen again. The last one night stand I had turned me down for breakfast - I took her home, then...
    MarxistLuciferKongJr MarxistLuciferKongJr 22-25, M Nov 17

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    One Night Stand I'm in college and have had two one night stands but not have sex with them. I have brought them back to my house on separate ocassions. Both of the guys after a...
    jojo11136 jojo11136 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    Tonight will make 3 one night stands in a row. Yes, 3 different girls. Tonight I'm meeting with a curious, petite gothic red headed girl.
    emmsbody emmsbody 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 14

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    Ok so no this isn't about that. I just needed something to post under. I've never been able to finish during "the dirty deed" the first time we were going literally for a little...
    TheCreatorOfAll TheCreatorOfAll 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 19

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    I'm a 22 year old male that's bi that lives in Indiana that wants to just be with a man just once
    Rogue2322 Rogue2322 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 4

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    And I'm not ashamed to say so. Sex is supposed to be fun, and as long as I'm safe, what's it matter?
    JustSymone JustSymone 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    They were a frequent hobby of mine my first year of school, guys and girls, but stopped when I started dating my boyfriend, but he's let me pick girls up again. This school year...
    emmsbody emmsbody 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 14

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    Like I'm in the worst possible nightmare, every night. I wake up, my body hurts. It feels like someone grabbed my wrists and held them so hard I can almost see the marks. My body...
    trinoctal trinoctal 18-21, F Nov 12

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    I always told myself I would NEVER send any 'ehem' specific photos, but about last year i was having quite a sexy conversation with this really fit guy I knew (and had a huge crush...
    daintyduck daintyduck 16-17, F 6 Responses Nov 3

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    I told myself I would never cut, I told myself I would never drink.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    Told myself I would never message her under my real name. I used to have a fantasy that my dream man would do it all for me and she would want to talk go me. It ended up I was so...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 3

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    I went trough some really bad stuff in the last few months . During that time I really got to see who my REAL friends and family were . They hurt me beyond words I can find to...
    ToTiJeZivot ToTiJeZivot 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    I believe a woman who appreciates fur, can never have enough. There closet should have a wonderful variety of fur including mink, sable, coyote, red fox, silver fox and chinchilla...
    guptavish guptavish 31-35 1 Response Nov 4

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    So, it's been really difficult. Yesterday, my boyfriend and I decided to take a drive. I was the one driving and I didn't really have any single destination in place. We went to...
    ChantelSurvived ChantelSurvived 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 1

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    Never trained never wok out and yet I fight like an animal Thayer say suffer long and it will set you free The truth is you learn to numb the pain and boil the adrenaline Your...
    Drsoftpaw Drsoftpaw 13-15, M Nov 7

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    Said I never meant to hurt you, and never to scare you Said I only wanted to love you and please you Said I only wanted your visions to come true Said don't be afraid and run from...
    LosNLove LosNLove 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 3

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    I've not been well. I wish I could explain to my boyfriend to get him to understand. Sometimes he makes things worse but I know I am hurting him so bad. When I SI it hurts him and...
    ChantelSurvived ChantelSurvived 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 14

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    I don't really remember me good dreams. Here lately I've been having nightmares of someone trying to kill me. Can some one help me interpret these dreams?
    halfpint32 halfpint32 36-40, F Nov 18

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    A few minuets ago I tried something completely new to me and now all that comes to mind is how few chances we get to try something new and no matter what I'm glad I took this one
    Drsoftpaw Drsoftpaw 13-15, M Nov 7

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    I never wanna hear a guy scream "ohh babyyy your p.ussy great I'm loving how you riding my d.ick" i also don't ever wanna to hear a guy moaning like a female in bed. You just don't...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Nov 9

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    There is no need for anybody to worry about this. My conscience would not let me do anything that would hurt somebody.
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    Ever loved someone so much but they live far away so all you could do is send them looong messages attempting to express your love for them but it never can relay it the same way...
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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