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I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

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    I think they are disgusting.

    Why would you want to have sex with someone you know absolutely nothing about, or someone you just met? What if you get pregnant, or get someone pregnant? Then you have a child with someone you care nothing about. Why put yourself in that situation? Why have a disgusting sexual...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2014

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    Never Would Do Anybody This Way

    I wouldn't have the heart to ever do anybody this way. Because I've been done this way before. I never would've thought it was going to happen to me and the worst part is I fell for every stupid line this guy said. And another bad part is that I lost my virginity to him and...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Not My Style!

    Since one night stands go against my personal beliefs, I strongly doubt I'll ever have a one soon, or at all.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2012

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    Never Again.

    ok, before i had a one night stand, i never thought i would and never planned on it. then i gave sex to a guy and he told me that's all. so after i don't want to see him again and i want to make sure no guy will ever pull one on me like that ever again! girls, you don't want one...
    rashadaalia rashadaalia 18-21, F Oct 3, 2009

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    A Little Too Late

    i can't say i would never have a one nighter because i already have, a few of them, in the past. what i did when i was younger, and after a few drinks, i wouldn't do now. back then, i didn't have the same wants and desires that i have now. don't get me wrong, i had a damn good...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 43 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    You Can Call Me Prude But

    I will never have sex on a first date or have a one night stand. Making love is something you do with someone you have a connection with and are in love with. If i was so horny i needed a one night stand i would find other solutions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i would never have a one night stand, and i'll admit that i am lacking in confidence, and i am a quiet and shy guy, but even if that type of situation arose, i still wouldnt go through with it!!! if other people want to live their lives like that, then "respect" i...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M Dec 22, 2009

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    Never Had & Never Will ...

    Im a modern person but I dont think having one night stand is trendy or cool .. Im not old-fashioned to understand that sex is important for human beings but still .. one night stand is outta topic .. We are not animals .. though we are but we approved ourselves to be clever than...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 12 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    One Night Stand,no Way!!

    Would i ever have a one night stand? NO, i wouldnt have a one night stand.People are suppose to be in relationships to find love,not lust, but many people fail miserably. I cant and wont have a one night stand, i have more respect for myself than that and a lot more people these...
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    Oh For Pete's Sake!

    Thes is becomin silly.  Ah wood ne'er hae a one nicht stain!  Wa au ther a lot ay groops loch thes?  If somebodie made a groop named 'i wood ne'er rape a sheep' Ye woods au bettar join! Ah woods ne'er dae a lot ay eval deeds!! By tha wa, am English!  An...
    MeisterWolf MeisterWolf 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    Not For Me

    Its not for me I'm afraid... I need something more than just a wham-bam, thank you ma'am experience, usually from a drunken hook up! I need to have something in common with the other person, a connection, friendship, respect, trust, affection; More than just the physical; its...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    I Know There Is Already a Group

    I know there is already a group for people who have never had a once night stand, but this is for people who would never have one and are against having them themselves, as opposed to the other group, which could be people who might just not have had the chance to, but would...
    Hairstyle Hairstyle 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    Never In A Million Years

    I'm a virgin. (Yes, there are still some of us left in the world.) But even though I'm a virgin, that doesn't mean I'm ignorant about sex or its consequences. I joined this group for the same reason that I joined the group "I am a sensitive person". People and...
    MadMarch MadMarch 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    I Thought I Would Never...

    Never say never. Sometimes things just happen. If life was perfect I would have never had any one night stands, but things happen that are out of your control. So you end up having a one night stand. It doesn't make you any less of a person. It just means the guy is a loser...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    One Night Stands Are Boring And Completely Predictable.

    One night stands don't end up like the cool ones on TV or in movies. One of my closest friends got her daughter that way, and another contracted a permanent STD. It sounds awesome doesn't it...sloppy drunken sex that you slightly remember sounds epic not to mention amazing.
    brenner21 brenner21 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i just dont understand the point of one night stands!!! i know they are becoming more and more popular, but just cos they are becoming popular, doesnt necessarily mean its the right thing to do!!! i mean if a man and a woman get together and consent to one another having...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    I Don't Believe In One Night Stands

    never again...I think they are dangerous and you risk sexual diseases and being taken down by married men or their wife or girlfriend if they find out He man who raped me was married and a navy officer - I shouldn't have trusted him and I made a big mistake ... it should not be...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jun 14, 2011

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    NOT Again At Least

    NOBODY'S PERFECT... I'VE DONE THE ONE-NIGHTER WITH A GUY AFTER HAVING ONE TOO MANY... FELT BAD AND CHANGED MY NUMBER THE NEXT DAY... RUDE, I KNOW... MADE MY PEACE WITH THAT. I'VE ALSO DONE THE 'I'M SO HORNY AND JUST GOTTA HAVE THAT FOR ALL OF WOMAN KIND' TOO... YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    And.

    ....why the **** not ?
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    Where's The Love?

     I could never have a one night stand, there would be no passion in it, no love therefore it would be meaningless. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

     EVER. I need there to be love in the relationship and connection.  Not just sex. One night stands don't involve love. It is just a fleeting thrill. I can't feel good about something that has no meaning and doesn't last. Love and connection lasts and means a lot...
    BrokenDoll BrokenDoll 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    Mark My Word On That

    Listen, I have commited my fair share of sins, I am not a saint.  Quite frankly I never intend to become one.  However, there are certain things in me that despite the sweet temptations, I just can't allow myself to sucumb into it.  Is a matter of a personal code! I never had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    I dont have anything against it I just don't

    get it Ur just gonna be horny again in a hour or the next day.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 3, 2014

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    Can't Shake The Love Connection

    As sappy as this sounds, I am driven by intimacy. I can't stand the thought of sleeping with someone I don't have a connection with. Don't get me wrong. I really enjoy good sex but I would much rather make love. Plus, if a woman is willing to have a one nigher with me, she has...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 10 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    No Possibility Whatsoever.

    Call me old fashioned, but for me sex is something to be shared with someone special... someone that I'm completely in love with... not a total and completele stranger, which is what a one night stand entails. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with the people that do choose...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 27, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I have never had a one night stand. I haven't had much experience at all really but the what I have had have all been relationships and no one night stands
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Jan 7

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    The only time I had a short-term relationship it was a friends with benefits relationship, and I don't think that counts as a series of one night stands in succession with the same...
    YetAnotherStoic YetAnotherStoic 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I don't see the point. For me, if something is gonna lead to sex, there needs to be some sort of connection. I'd even **** my friends if I were attracted to them. But not a random...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I had a roommate who had them all the time. I would watch when I could.
    Therealjason Therealjason 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm 22 years old, consider myself alright looking and girls do hit on me. But ive not had sex in 4 years. It's got to the point I'm so nervous about the prospect I can't ask a girl...
    Gingerbread92 Gingerbread92 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    will wait for the right moment.
    ifaizanm ifaizanm 22-25, M Jan 4

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    What is the shortest amount of time between meeting someone for the first time before fu*cking them? I think mine was 90 minutes
    Lu24642 Lu24642 18-21, F 15 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I never would... I've been taken for granted by people who told me they cared... I would never want someone to feel the hurt I did. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    All I needed was one person on here and now I have one. I feel much better!
    PurplePuppy68 PurplePuppy68 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    ...unless you are a deviant! By deviant I mean sexual predator, rapist, sex offender. If this is you; pray our paths never cross because I will show you no mercy! People say...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    ok I always have weird messed up dreams. . but the one I had last night really was disgusting because it felt so real. I had a tiny hole in my arm and I felt I had to pull...
    xxxvivmxxx xxxvivmxxx 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    its gotten to the point where I don't want to sleep at night and will actually sleep with a lamp on. my nightmare is where I cause my friends gruesome death and witness it over and...
    Inara24 Inara24 13-15, F Jan 13

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    Not my nature. Been cheated on myself. It's the worse feeling one could have. No desire to inflict same. Be happy truthfully n sincere w one another.
    MichaelS41074 MichaelS41074 36-40, M Jan 15

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    So much pain. So hard to control. Nerve pain cause by damaged myelin caused by Multiple Sclerosis. I've found compression of the affected area helps, but can't leave it in place...
    DaveShaved DaveShaved 46-50, M Jan 16

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    The only people who tell me they love me and mean it are my parents, no one else.
    Mindofanintrovert Mindofanintrovert 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    Having a movie night today with my friend Jessica we are going to watch the ninja turtles and the equalizer
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I came across an old story of mine from 2011...i thought it was gone forever after i deleted my old account...i was wrong. I started reading through the comments and one stuck out...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    All my friends are going out tonight including a guy I just started something up with and I'm stuck in to wait until tomorrow night. I'm feeling sad and sorry for myself.
    Wish4spike Wish4spike 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    Going to have a movie night tonight:)
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I loved him way before we got married to other people and i still cant seem to stop loving him and he loves me too i know but cant say it for obvious reasons . We met as teenagers...
    solongago2 solongago2 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    At least right now I do. My husband and I are on the fence about more children, we have a beautiful baby boy, almost 4 months. I feel like we should either have another pretty soon...
    Mythriel Mythriel 22-25, F Jan 3

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    I dislike fake friends who you tell something too and they go behind your back and betray you . No I do not need friends like that I want true friends or none at all I have a few...
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am a round 2 Mars One applicant and an aerospace engineering graduate... Mars One had a great impact on my lifestyle... I want to devote my entire life to space colonization and...
    aspiringcolonist aspiringcolonist 22-25, M 5 days ago

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