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I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

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    You Can Call Me Prude But

    I will never have sex on a first date or have a one night stand. Making love is something you do with someone you have a connection with and are in love with. If i was so horny i needed a one night stand i would find other solutions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Not For Me

    Its not for me I'm afraid... I need something more than just a wham-bam, thank you ma'am experience, usually from a drunken hook up! I need to have something in common with the other person, a connection, friendship, respect, trust, affection; More than just the physical; its...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    I Know There Is Already a Group

    I know there is already a group for people who have never had a once night stand, but this is for people who would never have one and are against having them themselves, as opposed to the other group, which could be people who might just not have had the chance to, but would...
    Hairstyle Hairstyle 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    NOT Again At Least

    NOBODY'S PERFECT... I'VE DONE THE ONE-NIGHTER WITH A GUY AFTER HAVING ONE TOO MANY... FELT BAD AND CHANGED MY NUMBER THE NEXT DAY... RUDE, I KNOW... MADE MY PEACE WITH THAT. I'VE ALSO DONE THE 'I'M SO HORNY AND JUST GOTTA HAVE THAT FOR ALL OF WOMAN KIND' TOO... YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    Been There, Done That !

    The first seven of our 28 years......we both did.   We even took the seven year split, that lasted maybe 4 months.  We've talked about this several times and we both are of the mind it would not be worth it, let alone how sick it makes us to even think about  doing.I thank...
    justmarji justmarji 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    No Possibility Whatsoever.

    Call me old fashioned, but for me sex is something to be shared with someone special... someone that I'm completely in love with... not a total and completele stranger, which is what a one night stand entails. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with the people that do choose...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 27, 2010

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    Never Had & Never Will ...

    Im a modern person but I dont think having one night stand is trendy or cool .. Im not old-fashioned to understand that sex is important for human beings but still .. one night stand is outta topic .. We are not animals .. though we are but we approved ourselves to be clever than...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 12 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    A Little Too Late

    i can't say i would never have a one nighter because i already have, a few of them, in the past. what i did when i was younger, and after a few drinks, i wouldn't do now. back then, i didn't have the same wants and desires that i have now. don't get me wrong, i had a damn good...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 44 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    One Night Stand,no Way!!

    Would i ever have a one night stand? NO, i wouldnt have a one night stand.People are suppose to be in relationships to find love,not lust, but many people fail miserably. I cant and wont have a one night stand, i have more respect for myself than that and a lot more people these...
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    Can't Shake The Love Connection

    As sappy as this sounds, I am driven by intimacy. I can't stand the thought of sleeping with someone I don't have a connection with. Don't get me wrong. I really enjoy good sex but I would much rather make love. Plus, if a woman is willing to have a one nigher with me, she has...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 11 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    I think they are disgusting.

    Why would you want to have sex with someone you know absolutely nothing about, or someone you just met? What if you get pregnant, or get someone pregnant? Then you have a child with someone you care nothing about. Why put yourself in that situation? Why have a disgusting sexual...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Never Would Do Anybody This Way

    I wouldn't have the heart to ever do anybody this way. Because I've been done this way before. I never would've thought it was going to happen to me and the worst part is I fell for every stupid line this guy said. And another bad part is that I lost my virginity to him and...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F Jan 11, 2013

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    One Night Stands Are Boring And Completely Predictable.

    One night stands don't end up like the cool ones on TV or in movies. One of my closest friends got her daughter that way, and another contracted a permanent STD. It sounds awesome doesn't it...sloppy drunken sex that you slightly remember sounds epic not to mention amazing.
    brenner21 brenner21 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    Where's The Love?

     I could never have a one night stand, there would be no passion in it, no love therefore it would be meaningless. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i just dont understand the point of one night stands!!! i know they are becoming more and more popular, but just cos they are becoming popular, doesnt necessarily mean its the right thing to do!!! i mean if a man and a woman get together and consent to one another having...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    I Don't Believe In One Night Stands

    never again...I think they are dangerous and you risk sexual diseases and being taken down by married men or their wife or girlfriend if they find out He man who raped me was married and a navy officer - I shouldn't have trusted him and I made a big mistake ... it should not be...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jun 14, 2011

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    Never Again.

    ok, before i had a one night stand, i never thought i would and never planned on it. then i gave sex to a guy and he told me that's all. so after i don't want to see him again and i want to make sure no guy will ever pull one on me like that ever again! girls, you don't want one...
    rashadaalia rashadaalia 18-21, F Oct 3, 2009

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    I Thought I Would Never...

    Never say never. Sometimes things just happen. If life was perfect I would have never had any one night stands, but things happen that are out of your control. So you end up having a one night stand. It doesn't make you any less of a person. It just means the guy is a loser...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    And.

    ....why the **** not ?
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    Never In A Million Years

    I'm a virgin. (Yes, there are still some of us left in the world.) But even though I'm a virgin, that doesn't mean I'm ignorant about sex or its consequences. I joined this group for the same reason that I joined the group "I am a sensitive person". People and...
    MadMarch MadMarch 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    Mark My Word On That

    Listen, I have commited my fair share of sins, I am not a saint.  Quite frankly I never intend to become one.  However, there are certain things in me that despite the sweet temptations, I just can't allow myself to sucumb into it.  Is a matter of a personal code! I never had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    I dont have anything against it I just don't

    get it Ur just gonna be horny again in a hour or the next day.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Not My Style!

    Since one night stands go against my personal beliefs, I strongly doubt I'll ever have a one soon, or at all.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2012

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    I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

     EVER. I need there to be love in the relationship and connection.  Not just sex. One night stands don't involve love. It is just a fleeting thrill. I can't feel good about something that has no meaning and doesn't last. Love and connection lasts and means a lot...
    BrokenDoll BrokenDoll 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i would never have a one night stand, and i'll admit that i am lacking in confidence, and i am a quiet and shy guy, but even if that type of situation arose, i still wouldnt go through with it!!! if other people want to live their lives like that, then "respect" i...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M Dec 22, 2009

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    Oh For Pete's Sake!

    Thes is becomin silly.  Ah wood ne'er hae a one nicht stain!  Wa au ther a lot ay groops loch thes?  If somebodie made a groop named 'i wood ne'er rape a sheep' Ye woods au bettar join! Ah woods ne'er dae a lot ay eval deeds!! By tha wa, am English!  An...
    MeisterWolf MeisterWolf 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    One Night Stands are a lack of morals. Who in the hell could **** someone they don't know? Really? How disgusting, trashy and filthy!!!!!!!
    no1sbabeedoll no1sbabeedoll 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    My husband was my first and last one night stand LOL
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    And I will never have one. I think having easy intimacy with many partners will make it less satisfying. The quality is more important than quantity. Like I don't buy cheap stuff...
    LeahNl LeahNl 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Why would I need this even
    flyoffsomewhere flyoffsomewhere 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Only an idiot would do such a thing..
    Kida07 Kida07 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    But I would like to, gay or straight...
    DickieG DickieG 13-15, M Jul 10

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    I visited my girlfriend's college, (i'm not gay) it was a 12 hour drive. We all went to a frat party. I was drunk. He was drunk. We ******, didn't sleep at all that night, kept...
    sslag sslag 18-21 1 Response Jul 9

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    I don't really plan on doing this either! I'd like to get to know someone before sleeping with them. Preferably in a relationship.
    Iamevolved Iamevolved 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I want to find someone to have a one night stand with....any takers?? Chicago area here
    CaptAmericaCP CaptAmericaCP 36-40, M Jun 28

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    About two hours ago I was in walmart doing groceries. This is a normal thing I do on a weekly basis at the same walmart . I go about my way going through aisles and notice a man...
    mirchoellebadu mirchoellebadu 18-21, F Jul 14

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    I would never hurt someone intentionally. It's mean and unwise. I've been a victim of such sorts & I'm not angry with myself as much as I am feeling pity for that person. He'll be...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 1

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    Yeah I only have one. I don't understand why I can't just post whatever I want on here. I thought this was the kinda app/site where everyone could just share their experiences but...
    LittleKandi LittleKandi 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    The more I talk to people, the more I hear of people who can't sleep. Insomnia seems to constantly sweep the globe and so many people have trouble sleeping, regardless of how many...
    SirCabbage SirCabbage 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I wasted three ******* years on a friend I thought would stick with me forever. Turns out she was lying about every damn thing.
    saralynnn saralynnn 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    never had a girlfriend but there was one girl that I wanted as my girlfriend that also wanted our relationship to an open one meaning she wanted to have other lovers. I didn't like...
    beachboy14u beachboy14u 18-21, T 4 Responses Jul 3

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    My Love for you My love for you grows everyday in each and every way. It grows when you look at me, when you say my name. It grows when I hold you close at night and can feel...
    morganonnet2 morganonnet2 51-55, M Jul 12

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    because of shyness, even though I really am interested in people and have a desire to socialize. This is the sole reason I joined this site. Bit of a novel, I'm sorry. I've come...
    yyz1 yyz1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm a young guy and all, but it hasn't stopped me from thinking about the future a lot.... yet in all the darkness that is my head, one thing makes me happy whenever I think about...
    PedrosCN PedrosCN 18-21, M a week ago

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    Sometimes I say mean things when I'm mad but I don't mean to hurt people. I wouldn't want to physically hurt someone or something. We are all gods creation and he wants us to...
    GeorgiaAlicee GeorgiaAlicee 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I've thought this a few times in my life. You know those girls. The ones you fancy but haven't a hope in hell of getting considered by? Yes. I often used to think."if they just...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    After my recent brain surgery I couldn't remember anything from the past year - 2013 till the moment I woke up in the hospital. And since that day I started to have this dream...
    Toriwho Toriwho 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    As long as we judge each other harshly without taking time to understand each other's point of view...it will always be Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus!!!  I...
    Shewolfiie69 Shewolfiie69 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 28

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    Its a bit late for me on this one as I have naked pics of me on several internet sites. I have no problem with displaying my naked body - in any and all ways.
    wantonwanker wantonwanker 61-65, M Jul 2

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    I never meant to hurt him. I couldent do a long distance relationship and I needed a break from him anyway, he was coming on wayy too strong. I hurt him so badly and I hate myself...
    jselena jselena 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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