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I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

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    I Don't Believe In One Night Stands

    never again...I think they are dangerous and you risk sexual diseases and being taken down by married men or their wife or girlfriend if they find out He man who raped me was married and a navy officer - I shouldn't have trusted him and I made a big mistake ... it should not be...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jun 14, 2011

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    I think they are disgusting.

    Why would you want to have sex with someone you know absolutely nothing about, or someone you just met? What if you get pregnant, or get someone pregnant? Then you have a child with someone you care nothing about. Why put yourself in that situation? Why have a disgusting sexual...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Mark My Word On That

    Listen, I have commited my fair share of sins, I am not a saint.  Quite frankly I never intend to become one.  However, there are certain things in me that despite the sweet temptations, I just can't allow myself to sucumb into it.  Is a matter of a personal code! I never had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    NOT Again At Least

    NOBODY'S PERFECT... I'VE DONE THE ONE-NIGHTER WITH A GUY AFTER HAVING ONE TOO MANY... FELT BAD AND CHANGED MY NUMBER THE NEXT DAY... RUDE, I KNOW... MADE MY PEACE WITH THAT. I'VE ALSO DONE THE 'I'M SO HORNY AND JUST GOTTA HAVE THAT FOR ALL OF WOMAN KIND' TOO... YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i just dont understand the point of one night stands!!! i know they are becoming more and more popular, but just cos they are becoming popular, doesnt necessarily mean its the right thing to do!!! i mean if a man and a woman get together and consent to one another having...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    You Can Call Me Prude But

    I will never have sex on a first date or have a one night stand. Making love is something you do with someone you have a connection with and are in love with. If i was so horny i needed a one night stand i would find other solutions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Never Again.

    ok, before i had a one night stand, i never thought i would and never planned on it. then i gave sex to a guy and he told me that's all. so after i don't want to see him again and i want to make sure no guy will ever pull one on me like that ever again! girls, you don't want one...
    rashadaalia rashadaalia 18-21, F Oct 3, 2009

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    One Night Stand,no Way!!

    Would i ever have a one night stand? NO, i wouldnt have a one night stand.People are suppose to be in relationships to find love,not lust, but many people fail miserably. I cant and wont have a one night stand, i have more respect for myself than that and a lot more people these...
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    Oh For Pete's Sake!

    Thes is becomin silly.  Ah wood ne'er hae a one nicht stain!  Wa au ther a lot ay groops loch thes?  If somebodie made a groop named 'i wood ne'er rape a sheep' Ye woods au bettar join! Ah woods ne'er dae a lot ay eval deeds!! By tha wa, am English!  An...
    MeisterWolf MeisterWolf 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    I Thought I Would Never...

    Never say never. Sometimes things just happen. If life was perfect I would have never had any one night stands, but things happen that are out of your control. So you end up having a one night stand. It doesn't make you any less of a person. It just means the guy is a loser...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

     EVER. I need there to be love in the relationship and connection.  Not just sex. One night stands don't involve love. It is just a fleeting thrill. I can't feel good about something that has no meaning and doesn't last. Love and connection lasts and means a lot...
    BrokenDoll BrokenDoll 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    A Little Too Late

    i can't say i would never have a one nighter because i already have, a few of them, in the past. what i did when i was younger, and after a few drinks, i wouldn't do now. back then, i didn't have the same wants and desires that i have now. don't get me wrong, i had a damn good...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 44 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    One Night Stands Are Boring And Completely Predictable.

    One night stands don't end up like the cool ones on TV or in movies. One of my closest friends got her daughter that way, and another contracted a permanent STD. It sounds awesome doesn't it...sloppy drunken sex that you slightly remember sounds epic not to mention amazing.
    brenner21 brenner21 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    Never In A Million Years

    I'm a virgin. (Yes, there are still some of us left in the world.) But even though I'm a virgin, that doesn't mean I'm ignorant about sex or its consequences. I joined this group for the same reason that I joined the group "I am a sensitive person". People and...
    MadMarch MadMarch 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    I Know There Is Already a Group

    I know there is already a group for people who have never had a once night stand, but this is for people who would never have one and are against having them themselves, as opposed to the other group, which could be people who might just not have had the chance to, but would...
    Hairstyle Hairstyle 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    And.

    ....why the **** not ?
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    Where's The Love?

     I could never have a one night stand, there would be no passion in it, no love therefore it would be meaningless. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    Not My Style!

    Since one night stands go against my personal beliefs, I strongly doubt I'll ever have a one soon, or at all.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2012

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    Never Would Do Anybody This Way

    I wouldn't have the heart to ever do anybody this way. Because I've been done this way before. I never would've thought it was going to happen to me and the worst part is I fell for every stupid line this guy said. And another bad part is that I lost my virginity to him and...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Not For Me

    Its not for me I'm afraid... I need something more than just a wham-bam, thank you ma'am experience, usually from a drunken hook up! I need to have something in common with the other person, a connection, friendship, respect, trust, affection; More than just the physical; its...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    Never Had & Never Will ...

    Im a modern person but I dont think having one night stand is trendy or cool .. Im not old-fashioned to understand that sex is important for human beings but still .. one night stand is outta topic .. We are not animals .. though we are but we approved ourselves to be clever than...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 12 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    No Possibility Whatsoever.

    Call me old fashioned, but for me sex is something to be shared with someone special... someone that I'm completely in love with... not a total and completele stranger, which is what a one night stand entails. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with the people that do choose...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 27, 2010

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    Can't Shake The Love Connection

    As sappy as this sounds, I am driven by intimacy. I can't stand the thought of sleeping with someone I don't have a connection with. Don't get me wrong. I really enjoy good sex but I would much rather make love. Plus, if a woman is willing to have a one nigher with me, she has...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 10 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i would never have a one night stand, and i'll admit that i am lacking in confidence, and i am a quiet and shy guy, but even if that type of situation arose, i still wouldnt go through with it!!! if other people want to live their lives like that, then "respect" i...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M Dec 22, 2009

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    I dont have anything against it I just don't

    get it Ur just gonna be horny again in a hour or the next day.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 3

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    ........... not yet, but I wonder what one will be like. is it intense? is it passionate? I want to have one just for the experience. O.o
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    I am a relationship type of girl. I always will be.
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    I did a long time ago. I'm not proud of it. I often wonder what she is up to...
    3Dogmatic 3Dogmatic 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 10

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    I've had a fair few, with guys and girls, always fun!
    bd693 bd693 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I told myself I would never walk away from god... Then I found out there are way better ones...
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    SirenaVonLee SirenaVonLee 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    I told myself that I would never ask my friend. She would have to ask me. After 3 years I just had to be with her and I asked her out and she said yes
    Deuz Deuz 18-21, M Oct 8

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    Told myself I would never shave down there but I did yesterday and it's okay but hurts like hell but apparently that's normal so I guess I will see I think I might just let it grow...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 8

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    This I would never say if I did not mean it .
    wildman43055 wildman43055 41-45, M Oct 11

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    For the past year of college I have basically been completely and utterly in love with a girl I never even got the guts to talk to when I had class with her last fall. I noticed...
    Taylor1993 Taylor1993 18-21, M Oct 11

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    I rarely have nightmares, but when I do they hit me hard. The last time I had a nightmare was last month, so horrible it's deep inside my brain. I dreamt I was in a graveyard and...
    TetraZL TetraZL 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    First he chases you like cat and mouse. Now... He ignores you... Right ladies. Now you give him the boot. **** him (not literally lol) There are millions of men out there who...
    Summerandroses Summerandroses 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    But truth is, I don't know the person. I don't think any of my classmates know what his real name is. Everyone, even the teachers, calls him Shadow. It fits him well, though. He's...
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    And oh how you hurt me over and over. I knew God would take you home. I told you about the dream. You only scoffed. Death Becomes you.It's been 5 years since I left you and all...
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    Anyone know any pointers for nightmares? Having a rough night tonight and I can't sleep at all.. I could use the help.
    Playindarain Playindarain 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    It haunts me like an entity....all the words said, all the actions taken,are like shards of glass inside me, always cutting me deeper and deeper....like a constant bad taste in my...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    Never Say Never Me in 5th grade: I will never smoke, drink or do drugs. Me now: Well, ****...
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    One for example is take a management position... What was I thinking?
    3Dogmatic 3Dogmatic 36-40, M Oct 7

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    I once saw this chick face plant and knock herself out, I swore I'd never get that drunk in my life... On my 21st I was so drunk in my stillettos walking up the stairs to my...
    WonderlandOfAlice WonderlandOfAlice 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    As someone who doesn't handle milk well.... Eating a ton of ice cream without taking a lactose pill... Or drinking a Carmel macchiato from Starbucks. I tell myself never again, but...
    cici0307 cici0307 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    Never had a injection on my butt what's it like?
    Meredith4567 Meredith4567 70+, F 3 Responses Oct 11

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    At least when dealing with my enemies, I know where they're coming from. I know not to trust them and watch my back. I know what to expect with them: TROUBLE. With friends, I...
    SonofSomebody SonofSomebody 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 5