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I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

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    ....why the **** not ?
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    I dont have anything against it I just don't

    get it Ur just gonna be horny again in a hour or the next day.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Where's The Love?

     I could never have a one night stand, there would be no passion in it, no love therefore it would be meaningless. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    Not My Style!

    Since one night stands go against my personal beliefs, I strongly doubt I'll ever have a one soon, or at all.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2012

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    You Can Call Me Prude But

    I will never have sex on a first date or have a one night stand. Making love is something you do with someone you have a connection with and are in love with. If i was so horny i needed a one night stand i would find other solutions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    I think they are disgusting.

    Why would you want to have sex with someone you know absolutely nothing about, or someone you just met? What if you get pregnant, or get someone pregnant? Then you have a child with someone you care nothing about. Why put yourself in that situation? Why have a disgusting sexual...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I Know There Is Already a Group

    I know there is already a group for people who have never had a once night stand, but this is for people who would never have one and are against having them themselves, as opposed to the other group, which could be people who might just not have had the chance to, but would...
    Hairstyle Hairstyle 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    No Possibility Whatsoever.

    Call me old fashioned, but for me sex is something to be shared with someone special... someone that I'm completely in love with... not a total and completele stranger, which is what a one night stand entails. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with the people that do choose...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 27, 2010

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    Oh For Pete's Sake!

    Thes is becomin silly.  Ah wood ne'er hae a one nicht stain!  Wa au ther a lot ay groops loch thes?  If somebodie made a groop named 'i wood ne'er rape a sheep' Ye woods au bettar join! Ah woods ne'er dae a lot ay eval deeds!! By tha wa, am English!  An...
    MeisterWolf MeisterWolf 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    Not For Me

    Its not for me I'm afraid... I need something more than just a wham-bam, thank you ma'am experience, usually from a drunken hook up! I need to have something in common with the other person, a connection, friendship, respect, trust, affection; More than just the physical; its...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    One Night Stands Are Boring And Completely Predictable.

    One night stands don't end up like the cool ones on TV or in movies. One of my closest friends got her daughter that way, and another contracted a permanent STD. It sounds awesome doesn't it...sloppy drunken sex that you slightly remember sounds epic not to mention amazing.
    brenner21 brenner21 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i would never have a one night stand, and i'll admit that i am lacking in confidence, and i am a quiet and shy guy, but even if that type of situation arose, i still wouldnt go through with it!!! if other people want to live their lives like that, then "respect" i...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M Dec 22, 2009

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    A Little Too Late

    i can't say i would never have a one nighter because i already have, a few of them, in the past. what i did when i was younger, and after a few drinks, i wouldn't do now. back then, i didn't have the same wants and desires that i have now. don't get me wrong, i had a damn good...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 44 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    Mark My Word On That

    Listen, I have commited my fair share of sins, I am not a saint.  Quite frankly I never intend to become one.  However, there are certain things in me that despite the sweet temptations, I just can't allow myself to sucumb into it.  Is a matter of a personal code! I never had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    Can't Shake The Love Connection

    As sappy as this sounds, I am driven by intimacy. I can't stand the thought of sleeping with someone I don't have a connection with. Don't get me wrong. I really enjoy good sex but I would much rather make love. Plus, if a woman is willing to have a one nigher with me, she has...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 11 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    Never In A Million Years

    I'm a virgin. (Yes, there are still some of us left in the world.) But even though I'm a virgin, that doesn't mean I'm ignorant about sex or its consequences. I joined this group for the same reason that I joined the group "I am a sensitive person". People and...
    MadMarch MadMarch 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    One Night Stand,no Way!!

    Would i ever have a one night stand? NO, i wouldnt have a one night stand.People are suppose to be in relationships to find love,not lust, but many people fail miserably. I cant and wont have a one night stand, i have more respect for myself than that and a lot more people these...
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    Never Again.

    ok, before i had a one night stand, i never thought i would and never planned on it. then i gave sex to a guy and he told me that's all. so after i don't want to see him again and i want to make sure no guy will ever pull one on me like that ever again! girls, you don't want one...
    rashadaalia rashadaalia 18-21, F Oct 3, 2009

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    I Thought I Would Never...

    Never say never. Sometimes things just happen. If life was perfect I would have never had any one night stands, but things happen that are out of your control. So you end up having a one night stand. It doesn't make you any less of a person. It just means the guy is a loser...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i just dont understand the point of one night stands!!! i know they are becoming more and more popular, but just cos they are becoming popular, doesnt necessarily mean its the right thing to do!!! i mean if a man and a woman get together and consent to one another having...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    I Don't Believe In One Night Stands

    never again...I think they are dangerous and you risk sexual diseases and being taken down by married men or their wife or girlfriend if they find out He man who raped me was married and a navy officer - I shouldn't have trusted him and I made a big mistake ... it should not be...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jun 14, 2011

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    NOT Again At Least

    NOBODY'S PERFECT... I'VE DONE THE ONE-NIGHTER WITH A GUY AFTER HAVING ONE TOO MANY... FELT BAD AND CHANGED MY NUMBER THE NEXT DAY... RUDE, I KNOW... MADE MY PEACE WITH THAT. I'VE ALSO DONE THE 'I'M SO HORNY AND JUST GOTTA HAVE THAT FOR ALL OF WOMAN KIND' TOO... YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    Never Had & Never Will ...

    Im a modern person but I dont think having one night stand is trendy or cool .. Im not old-fashioned to understand that sex is important for human beings but still .. one night stand is outta topic .. We are not animals .. though we are but we approved ourselves to be clever than...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 12 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    Been There, Done That !

    The first seven of our 28 years......we both did.   We even took the seven year split, that lasted maybe 4 months.  We've talked about this several times and we both are of the mind it would not be worth it, let alone how sick it makes us to even think about  doing.I thank...
    justmarji justmarji 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    Never Would Do Anybody This Way

    I wouldn't have the heart to ever do anybody this way. Because I've been done this way before. I never would've thought it was going to happen to me and the worst part is I fell for every stupid line this guy said. And another bad part is that I lost my virginity to him and...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F Jan 11, 2013

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    I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

     EVER. I need there to be love in the relationship and connection.  Not just sex. One night stands don't involve love. It is just a fleeting thrill. I can't feel good about something that has no meaning and doesn't last. Love and connection lasts and means a lot...
    BrokenDoll BrokenDoll 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    PLEASE DON'T OFFER ME SEX OR HIT ON ME THROUGH MESSAGES. EP IS SOLELY USED AS AN ONLINE DIARY FOR ME. I had my very first one night stand this year. I went on a trip up to...
    billabonggirl27 billabonggirl27 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    If you ever had a chance to have an intimate night with the person of your dreams, who would that be?
    ShanSai ShanSai 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 15

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    I grew up in a fairly conservative Midwest town, and as such told myself when I was younger that I would never be one of "those girls who makes out with other girls at parties or...
    hottiewithabody94 hottiewithabody94 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 4

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    Hello everyone. I'm 31 and still never had a nightmare, or any dream with a sence of fear. I'm trying to invoke one, but allot of the tricks people suggest don't work. I wanna...
    Readfornotes Readfornotes 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    At night, I think about how nice it would feel to be held by someone who cares for you and whom you care for deeply. I am sure I would feel safe, at peace and content and...
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    After seeing what drugs to people I told myself I would never ever do that to myself. I told myself girls who didn't eat enough were stupid and I'm now under weight, I said I would...
    Potentiallylovely Potentiallylovely 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    A lot In elementary we used to watch all of these videos about how bad drug and alcohol were and I remember I would always tell myself and my friend "I would never do that, it's...
    tootaloo tootaloo 16-17, F Aug 4

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    I told myself I would never **** in the ocean...then I **** in the ocean.
    panthrax00 panthrax00 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I said I would never use drugs... I did and had the best times during those times. I am grateful I could put the habit down and I didn't go into any real destruction. I feel...
    KeeWee812 KeeWee812 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I Would Never Share Ep With My Friends And Family . I come to EP to get away from them all !
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Aug 10

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    I lost 30 lbs about 2 years ago. I was doing excersice and a healthy diet. But before doing that i was, well... Purging. After i lost the weight healthly, i told myself i would...
    Bonnmoqito Bonnmoqito 18-21, F Aug 20

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    Oh well I would never do it.But not everyone is like me.I have been blocked twice by people for no apparent reason.People in my circle know I hardly fight with anyone here.This is...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    When I was 18 years old I got my 1st DUI, following that when I was 19 I came across my 2nd. I served My time, completed counseling, outpatient therapy, group classes, had an...
    BarteringJoe BarteringJoe 26-30, M Jul 30

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    I would rather have some one be harsh and honest instead of idiotic and fake.
    WanderFree WanderFree 13-15, F Aug 12

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    I was driving around again and passed by a pet shop. I've been there before and I know they have the occasional adoption fairs. Saw this cute little guy on his hind legs. Wish I...
    whassupoldlady whassupoldlady 16-17, F Aug 10

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    My computer has stopped working, so now I have no way of getting online from home and OMGGGGG it sucks! I have managed to get through a couple of weeks with no online company but I...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M Jul 30

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    Life seems complicated, but there is one rule I will never break nore allow such from my love, and that is sleeping around. Call me old fashioned, but I will never understand how...
    tommiatkins tommiatkins 51-55, M Aug 7

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    know exactly what that means and feels like. . i care for my mom each day. For several hours at a time... i also run 2 businesses. a home cinema equipment installation...
    marklovescoffee marklovescoffee 46-50, M Aug 4

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    One word... Alcohol. I said I'd never taste it, but I did. I kinda regret it actually.
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    My wife has told me that she does not wish to have a child. We have talked for years about this and it's her conclusion now. I will never get to play with my old toys I've saved...
    thisisdave thisisdave 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I just smoked for the first time in a while. I always told myself I wouldn't do it. But then again, I told myself I wouldn't do a lot when I was younger, and I've done a lot of...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Isn't it true that in friendship or in any other relationship ,it takes two to make it into a strong bond where one is always there for the other?
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 12

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