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I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i just dont understand the point of one night stands!!! i know they are becoming more and more popular, but just cos they are becoming popular, doesnt necessarily mean its the right thing to do!!! i mean if a man and a woman get together and consent to one another having...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    I Thought I Would Never...

    Never say never. Sometimes things just happen. If life was perfect I would have never had any one night stands, but things happen that are out of your control. So you end up having a one night stand. It doesn't make you any less of a person. It just means the guy is a loser...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    One Night Stands Are Boring And Completely Predictable.

    One night stands don't end up like the cool ones on TV or in movies. One of my closest friends got her daughter that way, and another contracted a permanent STD. It sounds awesome doesn't it...sloppy drunken sex that you slightly remember sounds epic not to mention amazing.
    brenner21 brenner21 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    No Possibility Whatsoever.

    Call me old fashioned, but for me sex is something to be shared with someone special... someone that I'm completely in love with... not a total and completele stranger, which is what a one night stand entails. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with the people that do choose...
    in0centbeauty23 in0centbeauty23 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 27, 2010

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    Never Would Do Anybody This Way

    I wouldn't have the heart to ever do anybody this way. Because I've been done this way before. I never would've thought it was going to happen to me and the worst part is I fell for every stupid line this guy said. And another bad part is that I lost my virginity to him and...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Not For Me

    Its not for me I'm afraid... I need something more than just a wham-bam, thank you ma'am experience, usually from a drunken hook up! I need to have something in common with the other person, a connection, friendship, respect, trust, affection; More than just the physical; its...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F Jun 13, 2012

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    Where's The Love?

     I could never have a one night stand, there would be no passion in it, no love therefore it would be meaningless. 
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    Never Had & Never Will ...

    Im a modern person but I dont think having one night stand is trendy or cool .. Im not old-fashioned to understand that sex is important for human beings but still .. one night stand is outta topic .. We are not animals .. though we are but we approved ourselves to be clever than...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 26-30, F 12 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    Oh For Pete's Sake!

    Thes is becomin silly.  Ah wood ne'er hae a one nicht stain!  Wa au ther a lot ay groops loch thes?  If somebodie made a groop named 'i wood ne'er rape a sheep' Ye woods au bettar join! Ah woods ne'er dae a lot ay eval deeds!! By tha wa, am English!  An...
    MeisterWolf MeisterWolf 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    Mark My Word On That

    Listen, I have commited my fair share of sins, I am not a saint.  Quite frankly I never intend to become one.  However, there are certain things in me that despite the sweet temptations, I just can't allow myself to sucumb into it.  Is a matter of a personal code! I never had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    I Don't Believe In One Night Stands

    never again...I think they are dangerous and you risk sexual diseases and being taken down by married men or their wife or girlfriend if they find out He man who raped me was married and a navy officer - I shouldn't have trusted him and I made a big mistake ... it should not be...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jun 14, 2011

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    Not My Style!

    Since one night stands go against my personal beliefs, I strongly doubt I'll ever have a one soon, or at all.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2012

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    Can't Shake The Love Connection

    As sappy as this sounds, I am driven by intimacy. I can't stand the thought of sleeping with someone I don't have a connection with. Don't get me wrong. I really enjoy good sex but I would much rather make love. Plus, if a woman is willing to have a one nigher with me, she has...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 9 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    I think they are disgusting.

    Why would you want to have sex with someone you know absolutely nothing about, or someone you just met? What if you get pregnant, or get someone pregnant? Then you have a child with someone you care nothing about. Why put yourself in that situation? Why have a disgusting sexual...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2014

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    I Would Never Have a One Night Stand

     EVER. I need there to be love in the relationship and connection.  Not just sex. One night stands don't involve love. It is just a fleeting thrill. I can't feel good about something that has no meaning and doesn't last. Love and connection lasts and means a lot...
    BrokenDoll BrokenDoll 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    I Know There Is Already a Group

    I know there is already a group for people who have never had a once night stand, but this is for people who would never have one and are against having them themselves, as opposed to the other group, which could be people who might just not have had the chance to, but would...
    Hairstyle Hairstyle 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    Would Never Do It!!

     i would never have a one night stand, and i'll admit that i am lacking in confidence, and i am a quiet and shy guy, but even if that type of situation arose, i still wouldnt go through with it!!! if other people want to live their lives like that, then "respect" i...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M Dec 22, 2009

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    And.

    ....why the **** not ?
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    Never Again.

    ok, before i had a one night stand, i never thought i would and never planned on it. then i gave sex to a guy and he told me that's all. so after i don't want to see him again and i want to make sure no guy will ever pull one on me like that ever again! girls, you don't want one...
    rashadaalia rashadaalia 18-21, F Oct 3, 2009

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    You Can Call Me Prude But

    I will never have sex on a first date or have a one night stand. Making love is something you do with someone you have a connection with and are in love with. If i was so horny i needed a one night stand i would find other solutions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    One Night Stand,no Way!!

    Would i ever have a one night stand? NO, i wouldnt have a one night stand.People are suppose to be in relationships to find love,not lust, but many people fail miserably. I cant and wont have a one night stand, i have more respect for myself than that and a lot more people these...
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    A Little Too Late

    i can't say i would never have a one nighter because i already have, a few of them, in the past. what i did when i was younger, and after a few drinks, i wouldn't do now. back then, i didn't have the same wants and desires that i have now. don't get me wrong, i had a damn good...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 43 Responses Jan 20, 2009

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    I dont have anything against it I just don't

    get it Ur just gonna be horny again in a hour or the next day.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 3, 2014

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    Never In A Million Years

    I'm a virgin. (Yes, there are still some of us left in the world.) But even though I'm a virgin, that doesn't mean I'm ignorant about sex or its consequences. I joined this group for the same reason that I joined the group "I am a sensitive person". People and...
    MadMarch MadMarch 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    I thought I did. But it turned into many nights. Then weeks. Now months lol I'd still like to have a one night stand.
    LDNB LDNB 18-21, F 1 Response May 14

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    I've never done anything sexual with someone I wasn't in a committed relationship with, and I don't plan on changing that anytime soon. One night stands just seem dumb and risky.
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17

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    & i DON'T want to have a ONE-NiGHT stand....
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 26-30, F 19 Responses May 13

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    Never have. Never wanted to. Never will.
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 2 Responses May 13

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    Would be fun. Maybe. Doesn't hurt to try.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 6

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    ..and I never will. The day I have sex casually is the day I put a 50c barrel to my temple. Thats not who I am and never will be.
    Socalsunset Socalsunset 22-25, F 25 Responses May 13

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    Is any one even interested here?????
    nycguy1a nycguy1a 26-30, M May 10

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    it is something i wish i did/do, but am shy and cant read women
    j0505c j0505c 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 30

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    I'm a virgin so.... Yeah lol. Just thought I'd put that out there haha.
    CallMeShy CallMeShy 16-17, F 3 Responses May 21

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    My current girlfriend took my virginity, and we're still together. We started in high school, and she's the only person I've had sex with. We do it quite a bit as well.
    KingLaserDestroyer KingLaserDestroyer 18-21, M May 22

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    You is indefinite you. I want a night, one night, with someone who will listen to my entire story, start to finish. I want to be asked questions. I want to feel all the pain I...
    DrumheadTrial DrumheadTrial 18-21, M May 12

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    I want to.try one night with a woman
    babe777 babe777 22-25, F 2 Responses May 10

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    I only have one profile,before this i had created a profile but had to delete that profile because of a lady over here on ep she tortured me mentally,i was fed up but now its all...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M May 19

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    I have been here on this site for a few months now. I have met some great people here that I have connected with and really enjoy chatting with during the week. I have come to...
    justtoocurious2 justtoocurious2 36-40, M 1 Response May 21

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    I absolutely HATE my job, but i am also thankful to have one. I work at the back of a butcher shop, as a cleaner/general assistant, but i work with a bunch of lazy f*ckwits...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Friends come and go and I totally understand that. But I refused to have a friend that do not meet me half way. This is not a one way street. I am fed up of giving 100 percent to...
    AngelK2010 AngelK2010 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I only have one account, but I also have a VPN and I will create as many personal accounts as I ******* want!! Not a ******* thing you can do about it either. Go ahead, delete me...
    arnienjlee arnienjlee 51-55, M 5 days ago

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    Trigger warning here for any other potential victims. I was abused sexually by three men by the time I was twelve. One I constantly saw since he lived in my hometown after the...
    Bobbiin Bobbiin 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    If I did something for you yesterday that was then, today I'm not doing anything for you because I've changed, never get use to a routine because tomorrow isn't promised for you or...
    Brandnewhim2015 Brandnewhim2015 26-30, M May 14

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    After a miserable divorce, insecurity, I reluctantly took an antidepressant. I didn't judge people who took them, just never saw myself as a person who needed it. Well…I should...
    sandiego4 sandiego4 41-45, F 1 Response May 21

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