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I Would Never Have An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 382 People

    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    The One Thing That Bothers My Conscience

    I know that I am capable of doing some things that others could never consider. If someone hurt someone I love, I could without any hesitation end that persons, life and lie about it to protect myself. If times where tuff, I could easily steal to support my family. I have no...
    JoeDiablo JoeDiablo 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 15, 2012

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    Why Hurt Someone You Love?

    I would never have an affair, because I love my husband and would never hurt him like that. I don't understand why people can't just ask for a divorce or seperation. Don't sneak around, it's not fair oo them or the other person or you. I wouldn't want him to hurt me like that so...
    bamela27 bamela27 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    Never

    A couple of days ago I was waiting for the bus and there was a guy really staring at me. He started a conversation, being flirtatious and all that, but I just couldn't accept it. It felt so wrong. Just listening to another man trying to get me felt awful. It made me feel bad, so...
    ardnaxelar ardnaxelar 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Married & Lonely But I Would Never Have An Affair

    I just joined these 2 groups back to back: I'm Married but Lonely, and I Would Never Have an Affair. I have a wife & kids, and I'm devoted to my vows & I love my kids more than anything. I'd never do anything that could harm or hurt them. I'm a bit lonely (sometimes very...
    BusyDude12 BusyDude12 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    But...

    An affair is secret. I'm in a place in my life where having different types of physically inimate relationships with people outside of a marriage is increasingly ok so long as everyone knows the score. Monogamy is important, to some more than to others, but my wife and I seem to...
    AmyJack AmyJack 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 10, 2010

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Affair

    I love and respect my husband too too much to have an affair.  If I would do it, its cause we have an agreement and he's okay with it and if he wants to, I am okay with it, other than that, I don't believe in affairs.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    I Couldn't And You Shouldn't. It Isn't Actually About Sex.

    The past 2 years have been really difficult in my marriage. No affection then no intimacy and no sex. It got worse through the summer and came to a head in November. I had to face the possibility of divorce and began to build my life as an individual. I lined up a place to stay...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 12 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    It's A Gift....

    I see love as a gift, a rare and beautiful thing that should be tended to and cherished. Anything worth having is worth taking care of, nurturing and fighting for. As with all things in life, there are ups and downs, the hard times are inevitable and isn't when you go looking...
    desertrosebud desertrosebud 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    Was It Worth It!!

    I fell in love the first time with my boyfriend in september of 1999. We were in highschool and I had never been in love before. We were friends for about 6 months before we started dating. We dated from 10th grade until we were about 20. We broke up the summer of 2003. We didnt...
    goodgal26 goodgal26 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2010

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    Not Even If I Was Just Dating Someone.........

    I would respect them enough to tell them first that we were not working out, break it off gently as can be then move on and not right away either.
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    I, I can't get these memories out of my mind, And some kind of madness has started to evolve. And I, I tried so hard to let you go, But some kind of madness is swallowing me whole...
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    More then a few people have told me that. But I've only told one very special person those words...
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    Is it normal to be so totally angry at your husband but want to **** the **** out of them??? We fought/didn't speak for a week, had angry sex and now have been doing it one to two...
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    It's a big word I can have sex with a person and not say I love you sometimes when I have that feeling of love I try to convince my self it's lust it takes time for me to love...
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    Just face it. A guy who has all the respect and has all the center of attention gets a beautiful girl. If you're laid back and quiet than you're left with no luck. They always fall...
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    I think I like him, but Im pretty sure he doesn't like me back. :(
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