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I Would Never Have An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 382 People

    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    It's A Gift....

    I see love as a gift, a rare and beautiful thing that should be tended to and cherished. Anything worth having is worth taking care of, nurturing and fighting for. As with all things in life, there are ups and downs, the hard times are inevitable and isn't when you go looking...
    desertrosebud desertrosebud 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    Why Hurt Someone You Love?

    I would never have an affair, because I love my husband and would never hurt him like that. I don't understand why people can't just ask for a divorce or seperation. Don't sneak around, it's not fair oo them or the other person or you. I wouldn't want him to hurt me like that so...
    bamela27 bamela27 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    Affair

    I love and respect my husband too too much to have an affair.  If I would do it, its cause we have an agreement and he's okay with it and if he wants to, I am okay with it, other than that, I don't believe in affairs.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    Was It Worth It!!

    I fell in love the first time with my boyfriend in september of 1999. We were in highschool and I had never been in love before. We were friends for about 6 months before we started dating. We dated from 10th grade until we were about 20. We broke up the summer of 2003. We didnt...
    goodgal26 goodgal26 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2010

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Married & Lonely But I Would Never Have An Affair

    I just joined these 2 groups back to back: I'm Married but Lonely, and I Would Never Have an Affair. I have a wife & kids, and I'm devoted to my vows & I love my kids more than anything. I'd never do anything that could harm or hurt them. I'm a bit lonely (sometimes very...
    BusyDude12 BusyDude12 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    I Couldn't And You Shouldn't. It Isn't Actually About Sex.

    The past 2 years have been really difficult in my marriage. No affection then no intimacy and no sex. It got worse through the summer and came to a head in November. I had to face the possibility of divorce and began to build my life as an individual. I lined up a place to stay...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 12 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Never

    A couple of days ago I was waiting for the bus and there was a guy really staring at me. He started a conversation, being flirtatious and all that, but I just couldn't accept it. It felt so wrong. Just listening to another man trying to get me felt awful. It made me feel bad, so...
    ardnaxelar ardnaxelar 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    But...

    An affair is secret. I'm in a place in my life where having different types of physically inimate relationships with people outside of a marriage is increasingly ok so long as everyone knows the score. Monogamy is important, to some more than to others, but my wife and I seem to...
    AmyJack AmyJack 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 10, 2010

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This.

    Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising heaven and earth but i was let down, felt like nothing i can adore in the world. I regret so so much, i wish i had someone who...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Not Even If I Was Just Dating Someone.........

    I would respect them enough to tell them first that we were not working out, break it off gently as can be then move on and not right away either.
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    The One Thing That Bothers My Conscience

    I know that I am capable of doing some things that others could never consider. If someone hurt someone I love, I could without any hesitation end that persons, life and lie about it to protect myself. If times where tuff, I could easily steal to support my family. I have no...
    JoeDiablo JoeDiablo 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 15, 2012

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    About two hours ago I was in walmart doing groceries. This is a normal thing I do on a weekly basis at the same walmart . I go about my way going through aisles and notice a man...
    mirchoellebadu mirchoellebadu 18-21, F Jul 14

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    I would never hurt someone intentionally. It's mean and unwise. I've been a victim of such sorts & I'm not angry with myself as much as I am feeling pity for that person. He'll be...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 1

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    Well, there's no probably about it. If I knew they would, it would happen.
    TooHorny86 TooHorny86 26-30, M 11 hrs ago

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    because of shyness, even though I really am interested in people and have a desire to socialize. This is the sole reason I joined this site. Bit of a novel, I'm sorry. I've come...
    yyz1 yyz1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    never had a girlfriend but there was one girl that I wanted as my girlfriend that also wanted our relationship to an open one meaning she wanted to have other lovers. I didn't like...
    beachboy14u beachboy14u 18-21, T 4 Responses Jul 3

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    Lizzy I love you with all my heart, and I will lay down my life for you, you're my everything, I will NEVER cheat on you... I promise I will never cheat on you baby girl
    doubletimeit doubletimeit 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I dont know what happened but something in my mind over the past few days has snapped and for some reason I've stopped the worrying, for once Im thinking about the best conclusion...
    Verix Verix 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I never meant to hurt him. I couldent do a long distance relationship and I needed a break from him anyway, he was coming on wayy too strong. I hurt him so badly and I hate myself...
    jselena jselena 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    The more I talk to people, the more I hear of people who can't sleep. Insomnia seems to constantly sweep the globe and so many people have trouble sleeping, regardless of how many...
    SirCabbage SirCabbage 22-25, M Jul 20

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    I feel like **** and that the world would be a better place if I had just never been born
    Matthew19731 Matthew19731 16-17, M Jul 11

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    I'm a young guy and all, but it hasn't stopped me from thinking about the future a lot.... yet in all the darkness that is my head, one thing makes me happy whenever I think about...
    PedrosCN PedrosCN 18-21, M Jul 16

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    would you?
    kevinshows kevinshows 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I thought I would make you my good friend.Only sorry that I had to get away.I wish you had listened to me more or maybe I should have listened to you more.But I am not ready to...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 22 hrs ago

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    Its a bit late for me on this one as I have naked pics of me on several internet sites. I have no problem with displaying my naked body - in any and all ways.
    wantonwanker wantonwanker 61-65, M Jul 2

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    I love you. Words that can make you and break you. They make you feel amazing and like you have someone that truly is with you no matter what, for you. But it can break you easily...
    verox3 verox3 13-15, F Jul 12

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    All I wanted was a sense of achievement. Something to make my family proud after going through a period of trialing times. Something to repay them after all the support they have...
    J0612 J0612 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Ever since I was young, I never fit in. I was always larger and teased for it. I often wonder what is my purpose for being placed on this earth was. Was I just sent here to be...
    blaqbbwkween blaqbbwkween 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Played the role of a third wheel or loner today with 9 people in our group. Nobody made an effort to talk to me today. I guess I'm "annoying" as my "best friend" would say. God, I...
    Maq98 Maq98 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I wasted three ******* years on a friend I thought would stick with me forever. Turns out she was lying about every damn thing.
    saralynnn saralynnn 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Been to a couple psychologist/counselors. I guess I was always looking for a medical diagnosis. There's so much stuff that goes on in my head that I don't know how to explain, it'd...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I used to like being popular with a lot of friends until I realized, what I'd deal with. now I have 3 friends
    princecold princecold 13-15, M Jul 4

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    Did it with my best male friend. We were both waaaaasted. He got it in the wrong hole and it hurt for a week, blood and all. Ouchhh! So we are mutually not into each other but...
    amandapanda88 amandapanda88 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    Personally I do not believe in a perfect partner. And I think, that true love has to be lived in the real world on a day by day, week by week, year by year basis... and I believe...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 28

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    I went motocrossing. I went snowboarding. I went to a shoot. I ate raw potato. I took my clothes off in public.
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    My Love for you My love for you grows everyday in each and every way. It grows when you look at me, when you say my name. It grows when I hold you close at night and can feel...
    morganonnet2 morganonnet2 51-55, M Jul 12

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    Some months ago I broke up with someone very special..i really miss him!😞
    kaitz kaitz 18-21 Jul 16

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    Caption doesnt say much, bt eyes says a lot and trust n honesty could be judged from it
    pratikpatel87 pratikpatel87 22-25, M Jul 16

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    Too many. It sucks. I've had to stop saying I won't do stuff and just expect the unexpected because I don't even understand myself.
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21, F Jul 17

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    Cheated on my ex, he deserved it because he is a true ******* & should go to hell
    xJamix xJamix 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    That's so important to me... To really mean it.
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Perhaps i was wrong. It hurts but i will forgive
    Stefunie Stefunie 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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