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I Would Never Have An Affair

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    I Couldn't And You Shouldn't. It Isn't Actually About Sex. - The past 2 years have been really difficult in my marriage. No affection then no intimacy and no sex. It got worse...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 12 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Don't You May Die Of This. - Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Was It Worth It!! - I fell in love the first time with my boyfriend in september of 1999. We were in highschool and I had never been in love before. We were friends for about 6...
    goodgal26 goodgal26 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2010

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    But... - An affair is secret. I'm in a place in my life where having different types of physically inimate relationships with people outside of a marriage is increasingly ok so...
    AmyJack AmyJack 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 10, 2010

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    The One Thing That Bothers My Conscience - I know that I am capable of doing some things that others could never consider. If someone hurt someone I love, I could without any...
    JoeDiablo JoeDiablo 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 15, 2012

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    It's A Gift.... - I see love as a gift, a rare and beautiful thing that should be tended to and cherished. Anything worth having is worth taking care of, nurturing and fighting...
    desertrosebud desertrosebud 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This. - Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Affair - I love and respect my husband too too much to have an affair.  If I would do it, its cause we have an agreement and he's okay with it and if he wants to, I am...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    Don't You May Die Of This. - Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Never - A couple of days ago I was waiting for the bus and there was a guy really staring at me. He started a conversation, being flirtatious and all that, but I just couldn't...
    ardnaxelar ardnaxelar 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Why Hurt Someone You Love? - I would never have an affair, because I love my husband and would never hurt him like that. I don't understand why people can't just ask for a divorce...
    bamela27 bamela27 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    Don't You May Die Of This. - Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This. - Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Married & Lonely But I Would Never Have An Affair - I just joined these 2 groups back to back: I'm Married but Lonely, and I Would Never Have an Affair. I have a wife & kids...
    BusyDude12 BusyDude12 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This. - Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Not Even If I Was Just Dating Someone......... - I would respect them enough to tell them first that we were not working out, break it off gently as can be then move on and not...
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    Don't You May Die Of This. - Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    Don't You May Die Of This. - Just like everyone who wishes to have an affair, rushed down to a river, unexpectedly found ma soulmate, who had dates like every single day, promising...
    Julius13 Julius13 18-21, M Sep 23, 2012

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    I think they are disgusting. Why would you want to have sex with someone you know absolutely nothing about, or someone you just met? What if you get pregnant, or get someone...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I dont have anything against it I just don't get it Ur just gonna be horny again in a hour or the next day.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I would never ever tell someone I love them, if I didn't love them. I don't think it is right to tell someone you love them, when you really don't. "love" is not a word I throw...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    There's only 2 of my closest friends that know about EP but apart from those people. i would NEVER want to share that I have an account on here, especially not with my family LOL...
    littlesaiyan littlesaiyan 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I'm completely over having friends. Why are my friends fake to me. I just wish they care for me as much as I care for them. Why am I so nice about things and why do they overlook...
    Electricsmile Electricsmile 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I hateeeeee when people just say I love you just to say it or to get what they want! If you don't genuinely love that person, don't say it. I had an ex say he loved me and could...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    The Needle- competing with temptation against all the odds so good at hiding pain can't keep living this facade relationships are abandoned emotions are numb priorities...
    addictionbarbie addictionbarbie 18-21, F Mar 21

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    I find myself always crushing on girls who would probably never date me. Either they're straight, out of my league or taken. Yep it's a bit depressing but you can't help what you...
    SloanAvery SloanAvery 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's not like saying I love you is easy enough to do. I don't go around telling people I love you. Wait, oh well. Maybe I do but only to some of my closest friend. But do you even...
    Mininyaa Mininyaa 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I just kept it to myself....
    diana711 diana711 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    When you find the right one you just know. Some find it sooner than I did rather than at 35. But I'm very bless with my girlfriend. She is amazing and I do love her. Saying it and...
    Lynn0617 Lynn0617 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    And once I mean it, nothing they do can ever make me stop.. Which is a ***** when it doesn't work out. There's one too many beautiful ghosts in this heart.
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Very true I had it done to me not long ago
    imalez2 imalez2 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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      Nina Simone - You Don't Know What Love Is: http://youtu.be/BguiWbW5j3Q
    musicilove musicilove 36-40, F 20 hrs ago

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    Are you kidding, I carry £1000 in my wallet at all times.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M Apr 2

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    I just finished watching Ouran Highschool Host Club and I am just sad that I am finished. I love the show and I wish they could make a season two. The main reason I like it because...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I Am So Grateful For many things, really. My Love gave me an incredible wealth of gifts, both during our shared time together, and ironically, through the excruciating pain I...
    FindingMySong FindingMySong 46-50, M 10 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm in love with someone I know I can't have, and I've never felt so confused and alone. My story begins three years ago- I was an underclassman in high school when I fell very ill...
    lalarose lalarose 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I know you feel sorry For what you did to me I know that you weren't ready For this responsibility I know that you were irresponsible Young and thought you knew best I know that...
    MostArdently MostArdently 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Hello...... I am hoping somebody could give me some advice, I'll explain my situation and I'll try to keep it short.... I think I have a narcissistic mother. In fact I am pretty...
    blueberry36 blueberry36 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hi well I meet this guy online 10 months ago and I have falling head over heals in love with him but I have lied to him so much about who I am I'm scared I well lose him. I think...
    ayesha290388 ayesha290388 26-30, F Mar 24

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    hey when i was 15 i got told i couldn't have children my boyfriend at the time was so supportive so understanding and in doing so it put me off the physical side of a relationship...
    dreams15 dreams15 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    Yes, I sometimes do. I sometimes, but only some times, want to have an illicit affair, with all of the things that comes with this. And when I say this, of course, because it is me...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    So this is where it sucks.....I've been seeing my other guy for over nine months now. I am very much in love with him. I know your not suppose to do that in an affair but I am...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    You never know what you’re capable of until after it happens. This unanticipated truth threw itself at me three years ago. Things were different for me then. I was vulnerable...
    whirling whirling 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 19

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    We were friends with benefits 20 years ago. Never had a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with each other. I never thought of him in that way. Never thought he did either. As is...
    playedlikeafool playedlikeafool 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 22

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    My husband has been drinking every single day for the last 17 years. I can count on one hand the number of days he has gone without drinking in the last 10 years. Two months ago I...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I met him online. I knew him for five years. I thought we would be together one day. I met him 3 times, and fooled around, but no sex. I love him so much. He told me that he will...
    caddriss caddriss 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    You know what's wrong with the world no one want to take resposabilty for there actions. When they have affairs it's allway the spouses fault and that's just a copout. Yes your...
    Trueman1944 Trueman1944 66-70, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I feel no guilt either. this was not a random act of selfishness, this took a long time to happen and now I am happy (and so is my husband) For those not in the know, it is 5...
    spiderb spiderb 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 19

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    People say we are horrible. We are heartless and don't give a damn about our children. That we should have tried counseling, communicating, or stepping away from our marriage...
    myheart99 myheart99 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 26

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    Yet I am here again. The first goodbye didn't work out. He got sick and I got carried away. We ended up on a business trip together a month later and lost in each other once...
    lostfoundusa lostfoundusa 31-35, F 5 Responses